Finding True Joy in Christmas Through Christ
Summary
Christmas is a time filled with traditions, festivities, and joy, but it can also be a season of stress and emptiness if Christ is not at the center. Reflecting on my own journey, I realized that for many years, the busyness of church services and preparations overshadowed the true essence of Christmas. It was only when I decided to fully embrace the season, focusing on Christ and community, that I discovered the profound emptiness of Christmas without Christ. The holiday is not merely about good feelings, presents, or festive drinks like eggnog and apple cider. It is about the cross and the incredible moment when God became man to save us from our sins.
Christmas is a celebration of Emmanuel, God with us, who fills our hearts with love and adopts us into His family. Without Christ, the festivities are hollow, much like seeing a beautiful sight alone without someone to share it with. The world often misses this truth, reducing Jesus to a mere figure or moral teacher, but He is the Creator and Savior, the answer to our deepest longings.
The message of Christmas is about God stepping into our world, not just to teach us but to transform us from the inside out. Jesus is close to the brokenhearted, offering healing and intimacy that external deliverance cannot provide. As we celebrate, we must remember that God is with us, filling our hearts and ensuring we are never alone. Even in moments of loneliness, the Holy Spirit resides within us, connecting us to the Father.
For those who feel alone or are struggling this season, it's never too late to refocus on Christ and experience the warmth and joy He brings. God sees beyond our facades and longs to heal our brokenness. As we open our hearts to Him, we find true belonging and peace, knowing that He will never leave or forsake us.
Key Takeaways:
- Embracing the fullness of Christmas requires centering it around Christ, as festivities without Him lead to emptiness. The true joy of the season is found in celebrating the birth of Jesus, who is the reason for the season. [39:27]
- Christmas is not about material gifts or temporary pleasures but about the cross and the incredible gift of salvation through Jesus. He came to die for our sins, offering us eternal life and a relationship with God. [43:05]
- Jesus is Emmanuel, God with us, who fills our hearts with love and adopts us into His family. This intimate relationship with God transforms our lives and ensures we are never alone. [44:20]
- God is close to the brokenhearted, offering healing and comfort to those who are crushed in spirit. Through Jesus, we experience a deep, personal connection with God, who changes us from the inside out. [44:56]
- Even in moments of loneliness, the Holy Spirit resides within us, providing assurance of God's presence and love. We are never truly alone, as God promises to be with us always. [01:18:35]
Youtube Chapters:
[00:00] - Welcome
[00:30] - Embracing Christmas
[01:15] - The Busyness of the Season
[02:00] - Realizing the Emptiness
[03:00] - The True Meaning of Christmas
[04:00] - Christ at the Center
[05:00] - Jesus, the Answer
[06:00] - God with Us
[07:00] - Healing the Brokenhearted
[08:00] - Never Alone
[09:00] - Invitation to Surrender
[10:00] - Prayer for the Hurting
[11:00] - Closing and Worship Transition
[12:00] - Acknowledgments and Farewell
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 1:23 - "The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel" (which means "God with us").
2. Psalm 34:18 - "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
3. Hebrews 1:1-2 - "In the past God spoke to our ancestors through the prophets at many times and in various ways, but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son."
#### Observation Questions
1. What does the name "Immanuel" signify about Jesus' role in our lives? How is this reflected in the sermon? [44:56]
2. According to the sermon, how does the world often misinterpret the meaning of Christmas? [42:23]
3. What realization did the pastor come to about the emptiness of Christmas without Christ? [40:54]
4. How does the sermon describe the transformation that Jesus brings to those who are brokenhearted? [44:56]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the concept of "God with us" change the way believers might experience loneliness during the Christmas season? [44:56]
2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that focusing on Christ can transform the experience of Christmas from emptiness to fulfillment? [43:05]
3. How does the sermon illustrate the difference between external deliverance and the internal transformation that Jesus offers? [44:56]
4. What does the sermon imply about the importance of community and family in experiencing the true essence of Christmas? [40:54]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own Christmas traditions. Are there any that might be distracting you from focusing on Christ? How can you adjust them to center more on Jesus? [40:54]
2. Have you ever felt the emptiness described in the sermon during the holiday season? What steps can you take to invite Christ into those moments? [40:54]
3. How can you be a source of comfort and community for someone who might be feeling alone or brokenhearted this Christmas? [44:56]
4. What practical ways can you remind yourself of the true meaning of Christmas amidst the busyness and commercialism of the season? [43:05]
5. Consider someone in your life who might not understand the true meaning of Christmas. How can you share the message of "God with us" with them this season? [42:23]
6. How can you incorporate the message of Jesus being "God with us" into your daily life beyond the Christmas season? [44:56]
7. Is there a specific area of your life where you need to experience the healing and intimacy that Jesus offers? How can you open your heart to Him in that area? [44:56]
Devotional
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Day 1: Embracing the Fullness of Christmas
Christmas is a time of joy and celebration, but without Christ at the center, it can feel empty and unfulfilling. The true essence of Christmas is not found in the busyness of the season or the material aspects like gifts and decorations. Instead, it is about celebrating the birth of Jesus, who came to save us from our sins. When we focus on Christ and community, we experience the profound joy and fulfillment that the season is meant to bring. By centering our celebrations around Jesus, we can embrace the true meaning of Christmas and find lasting joy. [39:27]
"For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross." (Colossians 1:19-20, ESV)
Reflection: How can you intentionally center your Christmas celebrations around Christ this year, ensuring that He is the focus rather than the festivities?
Day 2: The Gift of Salvation
Christmas is not about temporary pleasures or material gifts, but about the incredible gift of salvation through Jesus Christ. He came into the world to die for our sins, offering us eternal life and a relationship with God. This is the true gift of Christmas, one that surpasses all others. By understanding and accepting this gift, we can experience the true joy and peace that comes from knowing we are saved and loved by God. [43:05]
"For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age." (Titus 2:11-12, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways can you express gratitude for the gift of salvation this Christmas, and how can you share this gift with others around you?
Day 3: Emmanuel, God with Us
Jesus is Emmanuel, meaning "God with us," and His presence fills our hearts with love and adopts us into His family. This intimate relationship with God transforms our lives and ensures we are never alone. By embracing this truth, we can experience the deep love and connection that God offers, knowing that He is always with us. This is the heart of the Christmas message, reminding us that we are part of God's family and loved beyond measure. [44:20]
"And I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty." (2 Corinthians 6:18, ESV)
Reflection: How does knowing that you are part of God's family change the way you view your relationship with Him and others this Christmas season?
Day 4: Healing for the Brokenhearted
God is close to the brokenhearted, offering healing and comfort to those who are crushed in spirit. Through Jesus, we experience a deep, personal connection with God, who changes us from the inside out. This transformation is not just about external deliverance but about healing our hearts and bringing us closer to God. As we open our hearts to Him, we find true belonging and peace, knowing that He will never leave or forsake us. [44:56]
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." (Psalm 147:3, ESV)
Reflection: Is there an area of brokenness in your life that you need to bring to God for healing this Christmas? How can you invite Him into that space to begin the healing process?
Day 5: Never Alone
Even in moments of loneliness, the Holy Spirit resides within us, providing assurance of God's presence and love. We are never truly alone, as God promises to be with us always. This truth is especially comforting during the Christmas season, which can be a time of loneliness for many. By remembering that God is with us, we can find peace and comfort, knowing that we are never alone. [01:18:35]
"And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you." (John 14:16-17, ESV)
Reflection: How can you remind yourself of God's presence in moments of loneliness this Christmas, and how can you reach out to others who may also be feeling alone?
Quotes
"And so as I began to take it in, I came to a realization that, that I knew already, but it really became apparent. Christmas without Christ, without community and family, is really empty. It's just empty. It's not satisfying. I mean, think about it. What on earth are we celebrating if we don't have Christ at the center? What do we even, what is the Christmas thing? Just good feeling?" [00:40:13] (28 seconds)
"We instinctively know that in life, it's not really so much about the things we are doing, but who we're experiencing those things with, aren't we? Don't we? It's like seeing the Eiffel Tower, maybe on a trip, maybe a work trip, and you're going solo with no family, and you've been a 12-hour day, and you finally, you finally, they send you to France, and you're like, yes, I get to see it, and that, you know, 8 o'clock at night, you're exhausted, and you go out there, and you look at the Eiffel Tower by yourself, and you're like, eh, that's cool." [00:41:01] (36 seconds)
"Jesus is not just a good teacher, a moral set of principles that we live by. Jesus is the answer to the world. He is the creator of all things. He is the Savior, the Lord, and without Him, we do not have true life. Without Him, Christmas has no real meaning." [00:42:28] (17 seconds)
"Christmas is the moment God stepped into our world 2,000 years ago, becoming one of us, so he could die as one of us and pay the penalty for our sin. Everyone is sin. Everyone is sin. Everyone deserves the punishment, and he took it on the cross. He is Emmanuel, which means God with us." [00:43:05] (24 seconds)
"He fills us with his love and with his spirit, and we are adopted into the family of God. We belong, and we are never alone." [00:44:09] (10 seconds)
"But the more that I began to focus my heart and mind on Jesus and on the people in my life that I get to share with, the more my heart was filled with warmth and joy of what God has given us, the amazing gift." [00:43:52] (17 seconds)
"And God is using May to break through in his heart. And so let's keep watching. Let's see what happens. About 3,000 years ago, King David wrote these words, The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He rescues those whose spirits are crushed." [00:44:56] (0 seconds)
"Even when we feel alone as a follower of Christ, we're never alone. In fact, the Holy Spirit is in us." [00:59:06] (8 seconds)
"Lord Jesus, I pray for those that lifted up their hands that are in a season, God, of pain, of hurt, loss. And they need to feel you, Jesus. They need to know that you're with them, Father. I pray, Jesus, even now, visit them, speak to them, lead them, guide them. Holy Spirit, I pray the presence of Jesus. Lord, and you would send like you sent Simon. You would send people from the body of Christ to love on them and care for them, Lord. Father, be with them. Be with them right now, Lord. I pray, Holy Spirit, show them that you are real and that you love them and you will never leave them or forsake them. Lord, you said even when mother and father forsake me, you will not forsake me, Lord. So, God, I just pray for those that are hurting this season, Father. I pray for the comfort of Jesus and the joy of the Lord and the peace of God. In Jesus' name, amen." [01:19:56] (56 seconds)
"And part of our story, a couple years ago, I set out to embrace all things Christmas. I was like, I'm going to do it all. I'm going to drink the eggnog. Anybody like eggnog in here? Yeah, I'm going to drink the eggnog, the apple cider. I don't do coffee, so that's kind of a mess up there for me, but amen. I was going to see all the Christmas lights. I wanted to go watch, go to any play I could. I mean, watch the movies, Elf. It's a wonderful life. Come on, everybody. What's your favorite Christmas movie? Let me hear it." [00:38:26] (35 seconds)
"And so I didn't have the opportunity to fully, for these last few years, to fully just embrace everything. I'm just like, I'm going to do it all. I'm going to do it all. So I decided, here's my chance the last few years." [00:40:01] (12 seconds)