Finding True Identity: Love, Truth, and Grace

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we welcomed Selena and Michael as new members of our church, celebrating their commitment to serve and grow within our community. We then transitioned into a challenging and sensitive topic: LGBTQ issues, particularly focusing on the transgender movement. This discussion is part of a three-week series aimed at exploring our true identity in Christ and how false gods, including gender and sexuality, can mislead us.

We emphasized the importance of approaching this topic with both truth and grace, much like Jesus did. The LGBTQ movement, especially the transgender ideology, is seen as a complex issue that Satan uses to deceive and destroy human flourishing. Our fight is not against the LGBTQ community but against the lies that Satan propagates. We must stand firm in our faith, using the Word of God as our primary weapon, and engage in prayer to combat these spiritual battles.

We highlighted the need to stand up for women, who are often marginalized by the transgender movement, and for children, who are vulnerable to harmful ideologies. The movement's normalization of gender dysphoria and its promotion of irreversible medical interventions are particularly dangerous for young people. We must also stand up for the LGBTQ community itself, offering them love, respect, and the truth that their true identity and value are found in Christ.

Our calling as Christians is to love our neighbors, including those in the LGBTQ community, and to help them find their true identity in Christ. This involves speaking the truth in love and standing against the lies that Satan uses to oppress and destroy. We concluded by reminding ourselves that our true identity, value, and purpose are found in Christ, not in our gender, sexuality, or moral correctness.

### Key Takeaways

1. Commitment to Community: Selena and Michael's journey to church membership highlights the importance of finding a spiritual home where one can serve and grow. Their commitment is a reminder that being part of a church community involves active participation and dedication to God's calling. [04:10]

2. Truth and Grace: Addressing LGBTQ issues requires a balance of truth and grace. Jesus exemplified this balance, and we are called to do the same. Speaking truth to the issues while showing grace to the people affected is crucial in navigating these complex topics. [08:23]

3. Spiritual Warfare: The LGBTQ movement, particularly the transgender ideology, is seen as a tool used by Satan to deceive and destroy. Our battle is not against the people but against the spiritual forces of evil. We must equip ourselves with the Word of God and prayer to stand firm against these attacks. [18:00]

4. Standing Up for the Vulnerable: We must advocate for women and children who are negatively impacted by the transgender movement. This includes speaking out against injustices in sports and protecting children from harmful ideologies and irreversible medical interventions. [21:23]

5. Loving Our LGBTQ Neighbors: Our LGBTQ neighbors deserve our love, respect, and care. We must affirm their worth and potential in Christ, offering them the truth that their true identity and value are found in Him. This involves welcoming them into our community and helping them experience God's love and healing. [35:19]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[04:10] - New Members: Selena and Michael
[05:15] - Introduction to LGBTQ Topic
[07:21] - Prayer and Seeking God's Truth
[08:23] - Truth and Grace in Addressing LGBTQ Issues
[09:21] - Patience and Context in the Conversation
[11:21] - Reminder: LGBTQ Neighbors Are Not the Enemy
[12:49] - Satan's Deception and Spiritual Warfare
[14:49] - The Boardroom in Hell: Satan's Strategies
[17:21] - Conquering Evil with Good
[18:00] - Spiritual Armor and the Word of God
[19:38] - Love and Personal Sacrifice
[20:30] - Standing Up for Women
[21:23] - Injustice in Women's Sports
[24:04] - Appropriating Struggles and Stolen Valor
[27:32] - Protecting Our Children
[29:50] - The Dangers of Normalizing Trans Ideology
[32:59] - Marketing Genius of the Boardroom
[35:19] - Standing Up for the LGBTQ Community
[37:18] - Affirming True Identity in Christ
[38:03] - Loving Our LGBTQ Neighbors
[39:05] - Speaking the Truth in Love
[40:24] - Our True Identity in Christ
[41:08] - Worship and Celebration
[57:56] - Closing Prayer and Reflection

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Ephesians 6:11-18 - "Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people."

2. Isaiah 1:17 - "Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow."

3. John 13:35 - "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."

#### Observation Questions
1. What are the different pieces of the "armor of God" mentioned in Ephesians 6:11-18, and what do they represent?
2. According to Isaiah 1:17, what actions are we called to take in order to seek justice and defend the oppressed?
3. In John 13:35, how does Jesus say people will recognize His disciples?

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the concept of spiritual warfare in Ephesians 6:11-18 relate to the challenges faced by the LGBTQ community as discussed in the sermon? [18:00]
2. What does it mean to "defend the oppressed" in the context of the transgender movement, as highlighted in the sermon? [21:23]
3. How can the command to "love one another" in John 13:35 be applied to our interactions with our LGBTQ neighbors? [38:03]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on the idea of spiritual warfare. How can you equip yourself with the "armor of God" in your daily life to stand against the lies and deceptions you encounter? [18:00]
2. The sermon emphasized the importance of standing up for women and children who are negatively impacted by the transgender movement. What are some practical ways you can advocate for these vulnerable groups in your community? [21:23]
3. Loving our LGBTQ neighbors involves showing them respect and care. How can you demonstrate this love in a tangible way this week? [35:19]
4. The sermon mentioned the need to speak the truth in love. How can you balance truth and grace in conversations about sensitive topics like gender and sexuality? [39:05]
5. Consider the idea that our true identity and value are found in Christ, not in our gender or sexuality. How can you remind yourself and others of this truth in your daily interactions? [40:24]
6. The sermon called for Christians to stand firm against the lies of Satan. What are some specific lies you have encountered, and how can you combat them with the truth of God's Word? [12:49]
7. Reflect on the importance of community and commitment as demonstrated by Selena and Michael's journey to church membership. How can you actively participate and grow within your own church community? [04:10]

Devotional

Day 1: Commitment to Community
Selena and Michael's journey to church membership highlights the importance of finding a spiritual home where one can serve and grow. Their commitment is a reminder that being part of a church community involves active participation and dedication to God's calling. Being part of a church is not just about attending services but about engaging in the life of the community, supporting one another, and growing together in faith. This commitment reflects the biblical call to fellowship and mutual edification within the body of Christ.

In a world where individualism is often celebrated, the church stands as a counter-cultural community that values collective growth and support. By welcoming new members like Selena and Michael, the church reaffirms its mission to be a nurturing environment where each person can discover and fulfill their God-given purpose. This commitment to community is essential for spiritual growth and for the church to effectively serve its broader mission in the world. [04:10]

Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV): "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near."

Reflection: How can you actively participate in your church community this week to support and encourage others in their faith journey?


Day 2: Truth and Grace
Addressing LGBTQ issues requires a balance of truth and grace. Jesus exemplified this balance, and we are called to do the same. Speaking truth to the issues while showing grace to the people affected is crucial in navigating these complex topics. Truth without grace can be harsh and alienating, while grace without truth can be misleading and unhelpful. As followers of Christ, we must strive to embody both attributes in our interactions with others, especially on sensitive issues like gender and sexuality.

This balance is not easy to achieve, but it is essential for effective ministry and witness. By approaching these topics with both truth and grace, we can create a space where people feel loved and respected, while also being guided towards the truth of their identity in Christ. This approach reflects the heart of Jesus, who always spoke the truth in love and extended grace to those who were marginalized and struggling. [08:23]

John 1:14 (ESV): "And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth."

Reflection: In what ways can you practice balancing truth and grace in your conversations with others, especially on sensitive topics?


Day 3: Spiritual Warfare
The LGBTQ movement, particularly the transgender ideology, is seen as a tool used by Satan to deceive and destroy. Our battle is not against the people but against the spiritual forces of evil. We must equip ourselves with the Word of God and prayer to stand firm against these attacks. Recognizing the spiritual dimension of these issues helps us to approach them with the right perspective and tools. It reminds us that our ultimate enemy is not flesh and blood, but the spiritual forces that seek to undermine God's truth and human flourishing.

By grounding ourselves in Scripture and prayer, we can discern the lies of the enemy and stand firm in the truth. This spiritual armor is essential for navigating the complexities of our world and for effectively ministering to those who are caught in the enemy's deceptions. Our response should be one of spiritual vigilance, rooted in the power and truth of God's Word. [18:00]

Ephesians 6:12-13 (ESV): "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm."

Reflection: How can you incorporate the Word of God and prayer into your daily routine to stand firm against spiritual attacks?


Day 4: Standing Up for the Vulnerable
We must advocate for women and children who are negatively impacted by the transgender movement. This includes speaking out against injustices in sports and protecting children from harmful ideologies and irreversible medical interventions. Women and children are often the most vulnerable in these debates, and it is our responsibility to stand up for their rights and well-being. This advocacy is not about opposing individuals but about protecting those who are at risk of harm and ensuring that their voices are heard.

By standing up for the vulnerable, we reflect the heart of God, who is always on the side of the oppressed and marginalized. This involves not only speaking out against injustices but also providing support and care for those who are affected. It is a call to action that requires courage, compassion, and a commitment to justice. [21:23]

Proverbs 31:8-9 (ESV): "Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute. Open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and needy."

Reflection: What specific actions can you take this week to advocate for the rights and well-being of women and children in your community?


Day 5: Loving Our LGBTQ Neighbors
Our LGBTQ neighbors deserve our love, respect, and care. We must affirm their worth and potential in Christ, offering them the truth that their true identity and value are found in Him. This involves welcoming them into our community and helping them experience God's love and healing. Loving our LGBTQ neighbors means seeing them as individuals created in the image of God, with inherent dignity and worth. It means building relationships based on respect and compassion, and being willing to listen and understand their experiences.

By extending love and grace to our LGBTQ neighbors, we create opportunities for meaningful conversations and for them to encounter the transformative power of Christ. This love is not conditional on them changing their beliefs or behaviors but is rooted in the unconditional love that God has for each of us. It is a call to be the hands and feet of Jesus, reaching out to those who are often marginalized and misunderstood. [35:19]

1 John 4:7-8 (ESV): "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love."

Reflection: How can you show love and respect to your LGBTQ neighbors this week, affirming their worth and potential in Christ?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We want to speak truth to the issues and we want to show grace to the people that are affected by those issues. And it is really hard to do that in a monologue setting instead of a real conversation. And especially in 35 minutes. I mean, just imagine if I ask you, tell me the meaning of life. You got four minutes. If I said to you, tell me all. Tell me all about your family in one sentence. Or explain to me your understanding of the cosmology of the universe. And how your understanding is different than other people in other parts of the world and other parts of time. But make it snappy. Because you got 45 seconds." [08:23] (42 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Most of us in this room are Jesus followers. And this is a Bible-based church. So obviously we view everything through the lens of Jesus. And through the lens of scripture. But I know some people don't see Jesus like we do. And I know that some people don't value the Bible. Like we do. And if you're here, or you're online with us right now, and that's you, then I just want to say, welcome to the conversation. And I hope that you will be open-minded enough to listen to what we consider to be a biblical view of this topic." [10:12] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "We have to stand firm against our enemy and against evil and against injustice. We have to help the oppressed. Look at, look at these, look, this is our calling. It's in, it's, look at, this is Isaiah 117. Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Look at Proverbs 31.8. Speak up for those that can't speak for themselves. Ensure justice for those that are being crushed." [19:38] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "We have to stand up for women. The trans movement to me is one of the most anti-women ideologies in history. And if you want to see it, I really, it's like, it's like a popular discussion right now, but it really is a really microcosm of this injustice against women. It's, it's women's sports. I mean, justice, it's a standard for justice. Justice means fairness. That's what it means. That's what it means. In what world is it fair for a man, a man who sees himself as a woman to compete against women?" [21:23] (39 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "We have to stand up for women. We have to stand up for our kids. We have to stand up for our LGBTQ neighbors, especially the kids. We have to speak the truth in love. And the truth is, LGBTQ neighbors, your true value, your true purpose, your true potential is not found in and is not limited by your gender or your sexuality. You were created more than that, bigger than that. You were created to find your true identity, your true value, your true purpose, your true potential in Christ." [39:05] (298 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "And so my prayer today, God, is like, just help me stay out of the way. Nobody cares what I think and they shouldn't. We want to know what you think. We want to hear from you on this really difficult thing. So will you please show us what is true and show us kind of how it affects us and show us what we should do about it and show us how we should love each other through very difficult conversations. In Jesus' name, amen." [07:21] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "And I'll just tell you, if you're in that community, if you're still listening, I hope you'll hear this part. I love you. We love you. Jesus loves you. There is a place for you here. Jesus wants the best for you. Jesus knows what's best for you. And I'm not going to pretend that I understand. I can't imagine the pain and the conflict and the trauma that you're facing. Feeling out of place and feeling isolated and feeling hopeless. And I absolutely agree that you need affirming care, but not affirming this idea that you're not good enough, not affirming this idea that you're not lovable enough, not affirming this idea that you're not acceptable enough in the gender that God gave you. We don't affirm that lie. We affirm you." [36:00] (56 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "We have to stand up for women. We have to stand up for our kids. We have to stand up for the LGBTQ community, especially the kids that are struggling with same sex attraction, especially these kids that are struggling with gender dysphoria. They're the victims of they're not the enemy. They're the victims. Remember this passage. It's Isaiah one 17. He said, learn to do good, seek justice, help the oppressed, help the oppressed. There's nobody more oppressed than somebody that Satan is oppressing with lies about who they are and, and, and why they're here and what they can become." [35:19] (39 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "And it is a story of love and personal sacrifice and restoration and unity and redemption. And the best. The best weapon we have in all this is prayer because we fight this thing, not in our strength, but in the power of God. So it's not about hating the people on the other side or destroying them before they destroy us. It's about us in his power, standing against the real enemy, using love and personal sacrifice and redemption to stand up for the victims of Satan's attacks." [19:38] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "Our identity, our purpose, our value is not, it's not found in our rightness on this topic. Or our morality, or our authority to straighten other people out. Our true identity, our true value, our true purpose, our true potential lies in the fact that we are loved and we are chosen and we are free and we are forgiven and we are adopted and we are reconciled to God. And it's not because we're correct. And it's not because we're better than other humans. And it's not because our sins are less egregious. We are loved and chosen and free and forgiven and adopted and reconciled to God because we are in Christ. Amen?" [40:24] (38 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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