True joy and gratitude come from recognizing each day as a gift from God, regardless of our circumstances. When we open our hearts to the gates of righteousness and give thanks, we acknowledge that our salvation and every good thing is from the Lord. Even when life feels ordinary or difficult, we are invited to rejoice and be glad, not because everything is perfect, but because God is present and at work. This posture of thankfulness transforms our perspective and connects us more deeply to God and to one another. [03:14]
Psalm 118:19-24 (ESV)
Open to me the gates of righteousness,
that I may enter through them
and give thanks to the Lord.
This is the gate of the Lord;
the righteous shall enter through it.
I thank you that you have answered me
and have become my salvation.
The stone that the builders rejected
has become the cornerstone.
This is the Lord’s doing;
it is marvelous in our eyes.
This is the day that the Lord has made;
let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Reflection: What is one specific way you can pause today to give thanks to God for this day, even if your circumstances are challenging?
Jesus teaches that true happiness—blessedness—comes not from worldly success or comfort, but from living in ways that seem upside down to the world: being poor in spirit, merciful, pure in heart, and even enduring persecution. This radical vision of flourishing challenges our assumptions about what it means to be happy, inviting us to trust that God’s ways lead to a deeper, more lasting joy than anything the world can offer. When we embrace this countercultural path, we discover a happiness rooted in God’s presence and promises, not in fleeting circumstances. [39:00]
Matthew 5:1-12 (ESV)
Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down, his disciples came to him.
And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
“Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.
“Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.
“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.
“Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
“Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.
Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
Reflection: Which “upside-down” beatitude feels most challenging to you right now, and how might you take one small step to live it out today?
Lasting happiness is not found in possessions, achievements, or experiences, but in relationships—especially in knowing and being known by Jesus. The world constantly tells us that acquiring more “whats” will make us happy, but deep down, we know that it is the “whos” in our lives—our relationships with God and others—that truly matter. Jesus invites us to shift our focus from chasing after things to seeking Him, the One who offers us real life, purpose, and joy. [49:36]
John 15:9-11 (ESV)
As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.
If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.
These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.
Reflection: Who is one person you can intentionally connect with or encourage today, as a way of valuing relationships over things?
Jesus is not just another teacher—He is the fulfillment of God’s promises, the new Moses, the true King, and the One who brings a new way of living. The story of Scripture points to Him as the one who leads us out of bondage and into a life of flourishing. When we see Jesus for who He truly is, our vision of what is possible expands, and we are invited to trust Him as the source and guide for our lives. Knowing Jesus personally is the foundation for experiencing the new world He offers. [01:02:48]
Matthew 5:1 (ESV)
Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down, his disciples came to him.
Reflection: How does seeing Jesus as the fulfillment of God’s story change the way you approach your own story and daily life?
The deepest happiness and peace are found not in changing our circumstances, but in the presence of Jesus Himself. He offers us Himself—His companionship, His love, His guidance—and in His presence, we find the fullness of joy that our hearts long for. Whether you are new to faith or have known Jesus for years, the invitation is to draw near, to see Him afresh, and to let His presence transform your life from the inside out. [01:03:26]
Psalm 16:11 (ESV)
You make known to me the path of life;
in your presence there is fullness of joy;
at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.
Reflection: Where do you most need to experience Jesus’ presence today, and how can you intentionally invite Him into that area of your life?
Today’s gathering centered on the deep longing for happiness and the surprising way Jesus addresses it. While the world bombards us with endless suggestions for what will make us happy—new experiences, possessions, or even self-improvement tricks—Jesus offers something radically different. The Beatitudes in Matthew 5 paint a picture of blessing and flourishing that turns our expectations upside down. Instead of chasing after “what,” the invitation is to discover “who”—specifically, Jesus himself. True happiness, or what might better be called “flourishing,” is not found in acquiring more things or even in perfect circumstances, but in relationship with the One who embodies the kingdom of God.
This is not just a spiritual platitude. Even as our culture grows more anxious and depressed, with rising rates of loneliness and despair, the answer is not simply a new technique or product. The statistics on depression and the proliferation of solutions the world offers only highlight our inability to satisfy the deepest longings of our hearts. Jesus’ teaching, though it may sound counterintuitive—blessed are the poor in spirit, the mourners, the meek—points to a happiness that is rooted in God’s presence and the upside-down values of his kingdom.
The story of Jesus in Matthew is not just a set of instructions, but the unfolding of a relationship. Matthew’s Gospel presents Jesus as the fulfillment of Israel’s story, the new Moses, the one who brings a new way of living. The call is not to a checklist of do’s and don’ts, but to know and follow the One who gives life. The “what” of happiness flows from the “who”—from Jesus, who lived, died, and rose again to bring us into God’s family.
As we look at our own lives, the challenge is to move beyond seeking happiness in fleeting things and to embrace the presence of Christ. Whether we are new to faith or have walked with Jesus for decades, the invitation remains: to see Jesus afresh, to let him reshape our vision of what it means to flourish, and to find our joy in him. In his presence, there is fullness of joy, and in following him, we discover a life that is truly life.
Could it be, maybe, that instead of new drugs that make our brain work a little bit differently, new snacks, new toys, new experience, that the actual answer to what makes you happy was given in a speech by a Jewish carpenter 2,000 years ago? A speech about a kingdom, a kingdom unlike anything anyone was considering, a completely upside-down kingdom, a way to live that's completely contrary to the thing that you're constantly being told about every single day.
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#KingdomUpsideDown
We don't even have this vision of what this world could be. We're like, ooh, mud pies, yes, and we're super happy with this, and this is what everybody's giving you, and you're happy with it, and he's saying, yep, because your vision isn't big enough. I've got this whole other way of seeing life, and I want to show you a way to be happy, and it's upside down, and it's opposite day, and it's just plain crazy.
[00:44:42]
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#ExpandYourVision
There's nothing here that sounds right. I'm giving up my rights, my time, my treasure on earth, my money, my clothes, my eye, my arm. How can this possibly make us happy? And this is what I want to do. I want to show you this over the next several weeks. I want you to see, especially in this introduction to this sermon that's labeled the Beatitudes, I want you to see this. Okay? I want you to see what makes you happy. No question mark.
[00:47:25]
(28 seconds)
#SacrificialJoy
Every week, I want to paint a picture of this world that Jesus envisions. I want you to leave here with a larger imagination, a bigger vision of what the world could be like if we really heard what it is Jesus is calling us to, and we really lived it. What would it look like if we were actually dependent on God and gentle and crying for righteousness and filled with mercy and pure and peacemakers? Can you imagine your place of business if we were like that? Can you imagine your dinner table, your Facebook feed, your church?
[00:47:53]
(47 seconds)
#LivingTheBeatitudes
But that really wasn't it, because you found out pretty early that the kids still seem to gravitate to the house where the who is, right? Where the relationships were, where people loved you, even if they had no what's to give you. If you've ever been to a mission trip and realized there's no what's here, they've got no what's, and yet they're happy, because they've got who's. There's relationships all around them. There's something there.
[00:50:42]
(33 seconds)
#SpecificWhoMatters
Relationships are the key to all of this. We're not going to be asking for our what's when we lay dying, are we? How many of you ladies are going to be like, just bring me my shoes? I just need my shoes, my handbags, bring them. That was for my wife. No, of course, and she knows, of course not, right? It's about relationships. It's about who's. Happiness is more about a who than a what.
[00:51:40]
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#JesusTheKingdomBearer
This one, this new Israel is going to die on the cross for the sins of the world and then he's going to resurrect and I know that's not like like oh yeah we kind of knew the end of that story thanks Jace but we need to keep preaching this to ourselves every day.
[00:55:02]
(24 seconds)
#FocusOnJesus
This who, this Jesus, the fulfillment of the law and the prophets, he fulfilled everything that happened back then, he's the culmination of all this, is going to give us a what. The who is going to give us a what, and this what is a vision of the kingdom, a new way to live that's going to blow them completely away.
[00:58:52]
(19 seconds)
#SeeingJesusAnew
I do not pretend for a moment that a 30-minute monologue is going to take care of that or that if you walk an aisle in 10 minutes it's going to take care of it like now I don't have to deal this anymore I don't have to take medicine no no that's not what I'm trying to say this is what I know though the answer to sadness and purposelessness and loneliness is found ultimately in this man Jesus and the who this one who died and rose.
[01:00:58]
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We live in a world that's just Christian. It's just who we are. But I don't know how much it's changed who we are. Lord, this week, I just want you to see the who. I want you to see Jesus high, lofty, seated on the throne, lifted up. I need you to see him in a new light, one who fulfills the law and the prophets. And then I want you to imagine this call to happiness. This man who sees the crowds, went up on the mountainside to speak to them. And gave them a new way of living. And with that, himself. That's what this is about. This call to happiness is about a man. It's about a presence. It's about his presence with you. And friends, in his presence, there is fullness of joy.
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