Finding True Contentment Through Christ's Strength

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we delved into the topic of contentment as part of our ongoing series on godliness. In our fast-paced society, contentment is often misunderstood and undervalued. We are constantly bombarded with messages that tell us we need more—more possessions, more status, more everything. This relentless pursuit leaves us feeling inadequate and discontent. However, the Apostle Paul provides a different perspective in Philippians 4:10-13. He teaches us that true contentment is not about having everything we want but about finding sufficiency in what we have through Christ who strengthens us.

Paul's life was a testament to this principle. Despite facing numerous hardships, including imprisonment, he learned to be content in all circumstances. This contentment was not a natural human trait but a supernatural gift from God, cultivated through various life experiences and the power of the Holy Spirit. Paul’s contentment was rooted in his relationship with God, not in his external circumstances.

We also explored the dangers of covetousness and the false belief that our worth is tied to our possessions or positions. Jesus warned us in Luke 12:15 that life does not consist in the abundance of possessions. When we chase after material things or higher status, we often fall into the trap of self-entitlement and resentment, both towards God and others. This discontentment can lead us down a path of destruction, making us lose sight of what truly matters.

To cultivate contentment, we must build a close relationship with God, spend time in prayer, immerse ourselves in His Word, and engage in community. These "classics" are timeless practices that ground us in our faith and help us find joy and satisfaction in God's provision. We must also be willing to let go of anything—possessions, positions, or people—that God has not called us to pursue. By doing so, we open ourselves to the true contentment that comes from trusting in God's plan for our lives.

### Key Takeaways

1. Contentment in Christ: True contentment is found in Christ, not in our circumstances. Paul teaches us that we can be content in any situation through the strength that Christ provides. This contentment is a supernatural gift that comes from a deep relationship with God. [51:23]

2. The Danger of Covetousness: Covetousness leads to discontentment and can destroy our spiritual lives. Jesus warned that life does not consist in the abundance of possessions. When we chase after material things, we often fall into the trap of self-entitlement and resentment. [56:32]

3. The Role of Life Circumstances: Paul learned contentment through various life experiences, including hardships. These experiences, allowed by God, teach us to rely on Him and find sufficiency in His provision. Contentment is not natural; it is a learned behavior through the Holy Spirit. [01:07:09]

4. The Importance of Spiritual Practices: Building a close relationship with God through prayer, reading the Word, and engaging in community are essential for cultivating contentment. These practices ground us in our faith and help us find joy in God's provision. [01:09:57]

5. Letting Go of Unnecessary Pursuits: To achieve true contentment, we must be willing to let go of possessions, positions, and people that God has not called us to pursue. This act of surrender opens us to the contentment that comes from trusting in God's plan for our lives. [01:12:24]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[46:53] - Opening Prayer
[47:44] - Introduction to Contentment
[48:44] - The Sufficiency of God's Provision
[49:34] - The Lie of Insufficiency
[50:28] - Philippians 4:10-13
[51:23] - Paul's Secret to Contentment
[51:55] - Definition of Contentment
[52:52] - The Struggle with Possessions
[53:54] - The Trap of Bigger, Better, More
[55:47] - The Danger of Covetousness
[56:32] - Jesus' Warning on Possessions
[57:10] - Discontentment and Resentment
[59:13] - Reasonable Improvements vs. Selfish Ambition
[01:00:14] - The Struggle with Position
[01:02:47] - Nehemiah's Example
[01:04:52] - God's Good Hand
[01:07:09] - Learning Contentment through Life Circumstances
[01:09:57] - Spiritual Practices for Contentment
[01:12:24] - Letting Go of Unnecessary Pursuits
[01:12:54] - Closing Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide: Cultivating Contentment

#### Bible Reading
1. Philippians 4:10-13: "I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength."
2. Luke 12:15: "Then he said to them, 'Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.'"

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Paul say he has learned in Philippians 4:10-13 about contentment?
2. According to Luke 12:15, what warning does Jesus give about possessions?
3. How does the sermon describe the lie that Adam and Eve fell for in the Garden of Eden? [49:34]
4. What are some of the life circumstances Paul faced that helped him learn contentment? [01:07:09]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Paul’s understanding of contentment challenge the modern pursuit of more possessions and status? [51:23]
2. Why does Jesus warn against covetousness, and how does this relate to our sense of self-worth? [56:32]
3. How can life experiences, both positive and negative, teach us to rely on God for contentment? [01:07:09]
4. What role do spiritual practices like prayer, reading the Word, and community play in cultivating contentment according to the sermon? [01:09:57]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt discontent because you were comparing yourself to others. How did this affect your relationship with God and others? [49:34]
2. What are some practical steps you can take to guard against covetousness in your daily life? [56:32]
3. Identify a possession, position, or relationship that you feel God is calling you to let go of. How can you begin to surrender this to God? [01:12:24]
4. How can you incorporate the "classics" of prayer, reading the Word, and engaging in community into your daily routine to cultivate contentment? [01:09:57]
5. Think about a recent hardship you faced. How did you respond, and what can you learn from Paul’s example of finding contentment in all circumstances? [01:07:09]
6. How can you shift your focus from pursuing material possessions to seeking a deeper relationship with God? What specific changes can you make this week? [57:10]
7. In what ways can you support others in your community to find contentment in Christ rather than in their circumstances? [01:09:57]

This guide is designed to help your small group delve deeper into the topic of contentment, encouraging personal reflection and practical application of biblical principles.

Devotional

Day 1: Contentment in Christ
True contentment is found in Christ, not in our circumstances. Paul teaches us that we can be content in any situation through the strength that Christ provides. This contentment is a supernatural gift that comes from a deep relationship with God. Paul’s life exemplifies this principle, as he learned to be content despite facing numerous hardships, including imprisonment. His contentment was not a natural human trait but a supernatural gift from God, cultivated through various life experiences and the power of the Holy Spirit. Paul’s contentment was rooted in his relationship with God, not in his external circumstances. [51:23]

Hebrews 13:5 (ESV): "Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you.'"

Reflection: In what areas of your life are you seeking contentment outside of Christ? How can you shift your focus to find sufficiency in Him today?


Day 2: The Danger of Covetousness
Covetousness leads to discontentment and can destroy our spiritual lives. Jesus warned that life does not consist in the abundance of possessions. When we chase after material things, we often fall into the trap of self-entitlement and resentment. This discontentment can lead us down a path of destruction, making us lose sight of what truly matters. Covetousness is a dangerous mindset that shifts our focus from God’s provision to our own desires, causing us to feel inadequate and unfulfilled. [56:32]

1 Timothy 6:9-10 (ESV): "But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils."

Reflection: Identify one material possession or status you have been coveting. How can you release this desire to God and trust in His provision?


Day 3: The Role of Life Circumstances
Paul learned contentment through various life experiences, including hardships. These experiences, allowed by God, teach us to rely on Him and find sufficiency in His provision. Contentment is not natural; it is a learned behavior through the Holy Spirit. Paul’s life was a testament to this principle, as he faced numerous challenges yet remained content through the strength that Christ provided. This teaches us that our circumstances are opportunities for growth and deeper reliance on God. [01:07:09]

James 1:2-4 (ESV): "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

Reflection: Reflect on a recent hardship you faced. How did it shape your reliance on God, and what did you learn about contentment through that experience?


Day 4: The Importance of Spiritual Practices
Building a close relationship with God through prayer, reading the Word, and engaging in community are essential for cultivating contentment. These practices ground us in our faith and help us find joy in God's provision. By immersing ourselves in these timeless practices, we can develop a deeper relationship with God and find true contentment in His presence. These spiritual disciplines are not just routines but vital connections to our Creator that sustain us in all circumstances. [01:09:57]

Colossians 3:16 (ESV): "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God."

Reflection: How can you incorporate more time for prayer, Bible reading, or community engagement into your daily routine this week to deepen your relationship with God?


Day 5: Letting Go of Unnecessary Pursuits
To achieve true contentment, we must be willing to let go of possessions, positions, and people that God has not called us to pursue. This act of surrender opens us to the contentment that comes from trusting in God's plan for our lives. By releasing our grip on these unnecessary pursuits, we make room for God’s peace and provision to fill our lives. This surrender is an act of faith, trusting that God’s plan is better than our own desires. [01:12:24]

Matthew 6:33 (ESV): "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."

Reflection: What is one pursuit or attachment you need to let go of today? How can you trust God’s plan and seek His kingdom first in this area of your life?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We all have clothes on our back. As I look around the sanctuary, thank God, everybody's clothed. As you're supposed to be, amen? Food on our table, a roof over our head, and we got family and community, right? Now, the clothes on our back may not be the highest of fashion, but they are sufficient. The food on our table might not be Capitol Grill or Marble Room for some of us. But it's sufficient. The roof over your head might not be a palace. You walk around, you can call yourself the king if you want, but it ain't a palace. But it's sufficient." [48:44] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "We have erroneously defined success by net worth and possessions. We see a person who got stuff and think, yo, man, what did you do to get that? How can I get there? How can I get there? We don't even care that they haters of God. A lot of them. And that they hate faith. Just get me to the bag. God, you get me to the bag. I promise I'll use it for the kingdom. After I get my house. That you, you know, it's only two of us, but we need a six-bedroom, eight-bathroom mansion." [54:38] (40 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "So even Jesus is saying our possessions, our life does not consist there. That is not where life starts, ends, or begins. That's not what life is about. It's not about possessions. So we have to remember when we get stuff, it's for a reason. It's to help us. It's to help us with our car, how we need that stuff, right? We need it. But it should not own you. It should not own you. Your life should not be the pursuit of possession. It's the pursuit of God." [57:10] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "You can build a close relationship with God. So close that joy overwhelms your life in circumstances that you don't move because the Holy Spirit is in control. That you trust so much. How's another way you can get close? You spend time in prayer. In your word, the classics. In your word, in prayer, in community. We've been preaching it for the longest. In your word, in prayer, in community. Those are the classics. Do the classics." [01:09:57] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "So, everybody who stands up here and preaches to you, we haven't perfected any part of that in our lives. We're growing through it, too. You know, so, I wanted to share that with you guys because I know that God is moving in these different ways in our lives. And I know that this is one area that we need help. You know, I think a lot of us have had, like, the pleasure of being blessed by God with a lot. A lot of the things that we need. Not want all the time, but a lot of the things that we need, right?" [47:44] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Paul is talking about contentment here. We talked about this last time I was up here. I used it as a reference. He's not talking about I can do everything in the world through Christ who strengthens me. You know what I'm saying? I can run a mile through Christ who strengthens me. I can do this through Christ who strengthens me. I can lift 400 pounds through Christ. That's not what he's talking about. He's speaking of what he just said, contentment. I can do all of that through Christ who strengthens me. That's where contentment comes from." [51:23] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "So what's our struggle? Why are we so dissatisfied or discontent? I got a couple of areas. I'm just going to use these examples. And I'll start with this one, possessions. Possessions are a must. We need stuff. We do. There's so many things we need to live. The car, the house, et cetera. However, in our climate of hustle culture, that's never enough. It's always what's the next thing. We look at life as a series of achievements to be conquered. So we never live in a space of satisfaction. Bigger, better, more is our mantra of today's culture." [52:52] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "So if there's anything you have chased after or acquired that God did not tell you to do, again, that God did not tell you to do, it's all right. Got to say this. You got to let it go right now. Possessions, positions, and even people. Because that's the third one that we struggle with. People. Because sometimes in our discontentment, we've allowed someone in out of fear, loneliness, or whatever, who God does not approve of. And we got to let them go." [01:11:47] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "The end of our chase to acquire possessions, positions, and people is the beginning of our journey to contentment. So repeat this after me. Contentment is spiritual. It's spiritual. And even though it is highly difficult, I can do all this through Christ who strengthens me." [01:12:54] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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