Finding Purpose and Voice Through the Holy Spirit

 

Summary

### Summary

Welcome, everyone. Today, I want to share a journey that has been transformative in my life, a journey that has led me to understand the power of the Holy Spirit and the importance of finding one's voice. My story begins with a significant transition period in my life. Four years ago, I was sleeping in an abandoned church, having just left a monastery where I had spent almost two years. I was praying for purpose and meaning in my life, and I felt a strong urge to write a book. Initially, I thought it would be about marketing, but a dream led me to title it "Death of a Yellow Page Salesman," which shifted its focus to spiritual inspiration ([07:50]).

Meeting my wife, who has been blind since birth, was another turning point. Her ability to listen to the voice of God through the Holy Spirit is remarkable. When we first met, I was fresh out of the monastery and not very interactive. She challenged me to engage more, and her influence has been profound. She even asked me about my relationship with the Holy Spirit on our third date, which led to deeper conversations and spiritual growth ([16:37]).

Yesterday was Resurrection Sunday, a powerful reminder of how lives can be changed by knowing Jesus. I respect various beliefs about manifesting and the law of attraction, but I believe that giving credit to God brings an overflow of blessings. This belief is the foundation of my memoir, which is about being filled to overflowing with God's blessings. I am also working on a summit called the "Publish, Speak, and Prosper Movement," where I will invite influencers to share their expertise over a five-day virtual event ([20:02]).

I have also started a private Facebook group to create an intimate community where people can interact and support each other. This group is not about numbers but about meaningful connections. My podcast, "Skyrocket to Success," aims to define what success means to different people. I believe that true success is not just about numbers but about the impact you have on others ([22:45]).

One of the most compelling stories I shared was about my struggle to find purpose. I had given away everything to join the monastery, only to realize that God had different plans for me. My wife played a crucial role in connecting me to the Holy Spirit, which opened many doors for me. Sharing these vulnerable moments was challenging, but it was necessary for my growth and for helping others ([12:38]).

I also talked about the importance of developing your voice. Many people want to write a book but never do. I struggled with writing due to my dyslexia, but I found that recording my stories and having them transcribed made the process easier. My gift is storytelling, and I believe that the most compelling books are those that tell stories. This led me to contribute a chapter in a book called "Author's Playbook," where I discussed the importance of finding and developing your voice ([02:13]).

In conclusion, I encourage everyone to find their voice and share their stories. Whether through writing, speaking, or other forms of expression, your voice matters. If you are looking for purpose and meaning, keep moving forward, stay positive, and embody the hope and vision you have. You will arrive at your destination and find fulfillment in your journey ([32:56]).

### Key Takeaways

1. The Power of the Holy Spirit: My journey began with a significant transition, leaving a monastery and seeking purpose. The Holy Spirit played a crucial role in guiding me, especially through my wife, who has an extraordinary ability to listen to God's voice. This connection to the Holy Spirit opened many doors and led to profound spiritual growth. [07:50]

2. The Importance of Engagement: Meeting my wife challenged me to engage more with life and people. Her influence helped me transition from a life of silence to one of interaction and spiritual conversations. This engagement is essential for personal growth and building meaningful relationships. [16:37]

3. Overflowing Blessings: Recognizing and giving credit to God for the blessings in our lives leads to an overflow of blessings. This principle is the foundation of my memoir and the "Publish, Speak, and Prosper Movement." It's about being filled to overflowing with God's goodness and sharing that with others. [20:02]

4. Finding Your Voice: Many people have a story to tell but struggle to find their voice. My journey with dyslexia made writing challenging, but I discovered that recording my stories and having them transcribed made the process easier. The most compelling books are those that tell authentic stories, and finding your voice is crucial for impactful storytelling. [02:13]

5. Purpose and Meaning: The journey to finding purpose and meaning in life is often filled with challenges and transitions. My experience of giving up everything to join a monastery, only to realize that God had different plans, taught me the importance of staying open to God's guidance. Sharing these vulnerable moments can inspire and help others on their own journeys. [32:56]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[02:13] - Finding Your Voice
[07:50] - Transition from Monastery
[12:38] - Role of the Holy Spirit
[16:37] - Meeting My Wife
[20:02] - Overflowing Blessings
[22:45] - Private Facebook Group
[32:56] - Purpose and Meaning
[37:45] - Final Encouragement

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. John 14:26 (NIV): "But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you."
2. Romans 8:26 (NIV): "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans."
3. 1 Corinthians 12:4-6 (NIV): "There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work."

#### Observation Questions
1. What role did the Holy Spirit play in the speaker's journey after leaving the monastery? ([12:38])
2. How did the speaker's wife influence his spiritual growth and engagement with life? ([16:37])
3. What was the significance of the title "Death of a Yellow Page Salesman" in the speaker's memoir? ([07:50])
4. How did the speaker overcome his challenges with dyslexia to find his voice in writing? ([02:13])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the Holy Spirit help believers in their journey of finding purpose and meaning, as seen in the speaker's story? ([12:38])
2. In what ways can engaging more with life and people lead to personal and spiritual growth, according to the speaker's experience? ([16:37])
3. What does it mean to give credit to God for the blessings in our lives, and how can this lead to an overflow of blessings? ([20:02])
4. How can finding and developing one's voice impact their ability to share their story and inspire others? ([02:13])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt the guidance of the Holy Spirit in your life. How did it impact your decisions and actions? ([12:38])
2. The speaker's wife challenged him to engage more with life. Is there someone in your life who encourages you to grow spiritually? How can you show appreciation for their influence? ([16:37])
3. The speaker mentioned the importance of giving credit to God for blessings. How can you practice gratitude in your daily life to acknowledge God's work? ([20:02])
4. The speaker overcame his dyslexia by recording his stories. What are some creative ways you can overcome obstacles in your life to achieve your goals? ([02:13])
5. The speaker emphasized the importance of finding one's voice. What steps can you take this week to start developing your voice, whether through writing, speaking, or another form of expression? ([02:13])
6. The speaker created a private Facebook group for meaningful connections. How can you foster deeper connections within your own community or small group? ([22:45])
7. The speaker's journey involved significant transitions and challenges. How can you stay open to God's guidance during times of change in your own life? ([32:56])

Devotional

### Day 1: The Guiding Power of the Holy Spirit
The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in guiding us through life's transitions and challenges. When we open ourselves to the Holy Spirit, we can experience profound spiritual growth and find direction in our lives. This guidance often comes through unexpected means, such as dreams, relationships, or even moments of solitude. The Holy Spirit can lead us to new opportunities and help us understand our purpose more deeply.

In the journey of life, there are moments when we feel lost or uncertain about our path. During these times, the Holy Spirit can provide clarity and direction. By being attentive to the Holy Spirit's promptings, we can navigate through transitions and find meaning in our experiences. This divine guidance is not always immediate or obvious, but with patience and faith, we can discern the Holy Spirit's voice and follow its lead.

[07:50]

Bible Passage:
"But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you." — John 14:26 (ESV)

Reflection:
Think about a recent transition or challenge in your life. How can you invite the Holy Spirit to guide you through this period? What steps can you take to be more attentive to the Holy Spirit's promptings today?


### Day 2: The Importance of Engagement
Engagement with life and others is essential for personal and spiritual growth. Meeting people who challenge us to step out of our comfort zones can lead to significant transformation. Engaging in meaningful conversations and interactions helps us build deeper relationships and fosters a sense of community. This engagement is not just about being social but about being present and open to the experiences and lessons that come our way.

When we isolate ourselves, we miss out on the richness of shared experiences and the wisdom that others can offer. By actively participating in life and engaging with those around us, we can grow in our understanding and empathy. This engagement also allows us to be a source of support and encouragement to others, creating a ripple effect of positive change.

[16:37]

Bible Passage:
"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." — Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV)

Reflection:
Reflect on your current level of engagement with those around you. Are there areas where you can be more present and involved? How can you initiate meaningful conversations and interactions this week?


### Day 3: Recognizing Overflowing Blessings
Recognizing and giving credit to God for the blessings in our lives leads to an overflow of blessings. When we acknowledge God's hand in our successes and joys, we open ourselves to even greater abundance. This principle is about being filled to overflowing with God's goodness and sharing that with others. By focusing on gratitude and giving credit to God, we can experience a deeper sense of fulfillment and purpose.

Gratitude is a powerful practice that shifts our perspective from what we lack to what we have. It helps us see the abundance in our lives and recognize the many ways God is at work. When we give credit to God, we not only honor Him but also inspire others to see His goodness. This creates a cycle of blessing that extends beyond our own lives and impacts those around us.

[20:02]

Bible Passage:
"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." — 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (ESV)

Reflection:
Take a moment to list the blessings in your life. How can you give credit to God for these blessings? Consider sharing your gratitude with someone else today and see how it impacts your perspective.


### Day 4: Finding and Developing Your Voice
Many people have a story to tell but struggle to find their voice. Finding and developing your voice is crucial for impactful storytelling and personal expression. This process involves overcoming obstacles, such as self-doubt or external challenges, and embracing your unique perspective. Authentic storytelling can inspire and connect with others on a deep level, making your voice a powerful tool for change.

Everyone has a unique story and perspective that deserves to be heard. By finding your voice, you can share your experiences and insights in a way that resonates with others. This journey may involve experimenting with different forms of expression, such as writing, speaking, or art. The key is to be authentic and true to yourself, allowing your voice to shine through.

[02:13]

Bible Passage:
"Let the redeemed of the Lord say so, whom he has redeemed from trouble." — Psalm 107:2 (ESV)

Reflection:
Think about a story or experience you want to share. What steps can you take to find and develop your voice? How can you overcome any obstacles that are holding you back from expressing yourself?


### Day 5: Discovering Purpose and Meaning
The journey to finding purpose and meaning in life is often filled with challenges and transitions. Staying open to God's guidance and being willing to adapt to new plans is essential. This journey requires faith, patience, and a willingness to embrace vulnerability. By sharing our struggles and experiences, we can inspire and help others on their own journeys to discover purpose and meaning.

Life's challenges and transitions can be daunting, but they also offer opportunities for growth and discovery. By trusting in God's plan and being open to His guidance, we can find purpose and meaning even in difficult times. Sharing our stories and experiences with others can provide encouragement and support, creating a sense of community and shared purpose.

[32:56]

Bible Passage:
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope." — Jeremiah 29:11 (ESV)

Reflection:
Reflect on a time when you faced a significant challenge or transition. How did you see God's guidance in that situation? How can you share your story to inspire and help others who may be going through similar experiences?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "I mean, Sarah. You and I have learned a lot just in this last year. And so much in these master classes, the masterminds that we've been in, and that's stuff that I just want to share. Don't you?" [27:27](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "I have an idea for you. And those ideas would just come. And I don't believe they were from me. I believe that was just the gift of the, the spirit of God within me, that there's like a connection. And if there's anything that I got out of, of being two years in a monastery, you learn to listen to the voice of God." [29:57](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "And so, you know, yesterday was just Resurrection Sunday. And it's a powerful thing, you know, to see how lives can be changed by just knowing Jesus. Yeah. And I say Jesus in respect that I respect. I respect people's, you know, beliefs about, you know, the power of manifesting and, you know, how the whole thing about attraction and the vacuum law of prosperity and all of the principles, because they're all based in, you know, our God who's the creator. And so, whether you call it the universe or, you know, whatever thing, it's a simple fact is that they work. And when you give credit to where credit is due, then there's actually an overflow of blessing." [20:02](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "And so, you know, it was learning that whole process. And, you know, maybe we can dive into that a little bit because my last book that I just submitted, it was a submission for a chapter in a book called Author's Playbook. And it's been one of my favorite works so far. And what my whole chapter was about, it was developing your voice. And your voice is really, I have an acronym for it, where it's your vision that conveys your originality, your inspiration, your creativity that you embody. And so your voice is really you. It's not you trying to be somebody else. It's not you modeling somebody. It's you really speaking what's inside of you that you want to release to the world." [02:13](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "And so, you know, but I found that when I listen to my voice and when I told the story and then I had the transcript, I think. You know, I forgot this part or, you know, that sounds really good or whatever. It just really started to flow. And so to me, really becoming a good writer is really becoming a storyteller. But to find your voice, it's really in podcasting." [06:09](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "And where somebody. Just like bears their heart. And you think, oh, my gosh. I mean, when I started realizing that my story was really something I didn't even put in my number one bestselling memoir. And it was that four years ago. It hasn't even been five years, but four years ago, I was sleeping in an abandoned church, having just left a monastery where I've been there for almost two years. And I was praying for purpose and meaning in my life. And all I knew is I had this book in me, but I was going to call it Marketing Momentum. And because there were all stories about sales and marketing and they had principles in them. And so, you know, I was just really, you know, praying about it. And I started taking action to where I started writing. And then I had some dreams that came to me. And one one day I woke up and the dream was to to call it my. My memoir, Death of a Yellow Page Salesman. And it it rocked me." [07:50](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "And I see all these people online trying to really deliver their message. And I see a lot of text and I see a lot of pictures. And I do mission work in Africa and I get all these pictures and no description, just pictures. And, you know, to me, the most compelling stories are the ones that are told." [07:50](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "And, you know, she goes, you're really kind of boring, you know, and I was like, Oh, okay. But the one thing she really asked me, you know, is on like the, I think the third date or so as she says, How do you feel about the Holy Spirit? And I said, You know, I've gone to church all my life. And she goes, That's not what I'm talking about. Okay. Right. And she did a teaching this past Friday, at a small church gathering, and it's how to overcome spiritual blindness. And man, I'll tell you, it was, it was powerful." [16:37](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "And I just have three words for our final, Okay. saying that for all your listeners is do it now." [37:45](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "And so, you know, we met and she was like, wanting to get to know me. And I was really, at that point, I'd been so fresh out of the monastery that I was still pretty deadpan. I mean, I wasn't animated at all. And I was like, so used to a life of silence and being alone that I wasn't very interactive at all. But she would engage me. In fact, she told me, she goes, you know, if you ever learned banter, I'm going to be a gone woman. So I'm on Google trying to research how to banter. And then I'm finding that, you know, it's really interacting. And it's like, you know, spoofing her and putting, you know, putting. On and she just ate that stuff up. And I was just like, Oh, my gosh." [16:37](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

6. "And so, you know, it was definitely a transition. Because my wife is a very unique woman in that that she's, she's actually been blind since birth. And it was right after birth, she was born premature and was in an incubator in the 50s. They pumped him full of oxygen." [13:58](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

7. "And so, you know, it was learning that whole process. And, you know, maybe we can dive into that a little bit because my last book that I just submitted, it was a submission for a chapter in a book called Author's Playbook. And it's been one of my favorite works so far. And what my whole chapter was about, it was developing your voice. And your voice is really, I have an acronym for it, where it's your vision that conveys your originality, your inspiration, your creativity that you embody. And so your voice is really you. It's not you trying to be somebody else. It's not you modeling somebody. It's you really speaking what's inside of you that you want to release to the world." [02:13](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

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