Finding Peace and Purpose Amidst Our Wounds

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You cannot go through life allowing moments to critically pause and make you feel that you are stuck in a season that God is trying to call you out of. What this sister was trying to teach us is that I cannot let you control the peace that I want to accomplish in my life because if I don't forgive you, if I walk around angry at you, then you then control me from the inside out. [00:07:06]

Pain is necessary when you understand that everything you have experienced in your life is a part of God's plan and purpose for your life. Matter of fact, we just celebrated Resurrection Sunday on last week and while pastor walked us through the journey of Jesus and how he died on Friday, was buried on Saturday, stayed there all day Saturday and then got up early Sunday morning. [00:07:49]

The problem with many of us is we rush through life trying to ignore the painful moments in our lives. Maybe when God is trying to call you and I to sit in the tension because there's some things you learn in the process of pain that you don't learn from just running through acting like it didn't happen. [00:08:40]

Can you really pause? I know Jesus is high and holy. But can you pause and look at the trajectory of his life and how crazy it sounds? He can't even explain his own birth and how he got here. His daddy ain't really his daddy. He has no recollection of how his mama and daddy met. So, can you imagine him being in school when everybody else is talking about how their mom and daddy went to prom? the love of their life. [00:09:01]

And Jesus says, "I just showed up." To to to make matters worse, he doesn't have formal education, but at the age of 12, he mysteriously knows how to interpret the ancient scrolls. And then after 12 years old, he disappears for 18 years and then shows back up at 30 talking about, "I'm the Messiah and I can heal and I am the way." Doesn't that sound crazy to you? [00:09:35]

If our names were in the Bible, you talking about hiding, most of us would have booked one-way ticket somewhere to get out of town. Here's the their whole lives were wrapped up in his mission. You do remember they were minding their own business, doing their own successful business, doctors, lawyers, fishermen, and Jesus came and told them to come follow me. They didn't ask for this. They didn't beg to go with him. He came and told them follow me. [00:10:54]

But watch this. Not even fear can keep peace from getting to you. Uh even when you hide behind your proverbial locked doors, how many times have God interrupt your grieving process? Uh, and when you wanted to go in the house and pull down the curtains and lock the door and answer the phone and Jesus walks right into your bedroom, taps you on your shoulder and say, "Dry your tears." Come on. Uh, you still got work to do. [00:11:51]

How how how then how then can you be at peace while still carrying wounds? Um, by by nature, the body starts healing immediately after it's been cut. But this is 4 days later, which means he's still bearing the wound from the nails in his hand. You can still see from the pierce in his side, and perhaps he's still wearing the same clothes that got the blood stain. [00:12:46]

Peace is a posture, not a place. Lord have mercy. Let me say it again. Peace is a posture, not a place. Notice the first thing Jesus says to them when he shows up. Peace be with you. Church folk don't know when to shout. He's speaking peace while he still has holes. He's speaking healing while he's still being healed. He's still carrying scars. Uh his hands and sides are still showing trauma. [00:13:52]

Peace in this passage is det is pronounced irony. Which means wholeness not the absence of problems uh but the presence of the problem solver. Can I talk to somebody here who showed up this morning said, "I'm at peace, not because I'm in peace, uh, but because I got the presence of peace, uh, and when you walk with God, uh, you can learn how to go to sleep at night, uh, when all hell is breaking loose in your life." [00:14:23]

Let me say it again. Peace is not freedom from your situation. It's a mindset of how you view your situation. Your wounds are not your limitations. Your scars are not your shame. Your pain is not your prison. You've learned how to be at peace because it's a posture. Have you ever seen people who have a poker face? I mean, the building can be on fire. Everybody else is freaking out and they standing still. [00:15:18]

And sometimes in life, you've got to learn how to have a posture of peace while internally everything in your life is falling to pieces. I know you won't get it. So, let me uh remind you of this uh guy by the name of Horatio Spatford. You you don't know his name, but you know his song. 1873, he loses four daughters in a storm. He gets on a ship going to get his wife. [00:15:56]

And in the middle of the sea when his ship is on the way to meet his wife, his captain tells him, "This is where you lost your four daughters." And he takes out a pen and piece of paper and starts pinning these words. When peace like a river attendeth my way, when sorrows like sea bills roll, thou whatever my lot thou has taught me to say, it is well with my soul. Can you imagine? [00:16:19]

He had just lost four daughters uh in the same waters uh that he was riding in. Uh but he had the nerve to say it is well. That's not a place is a posture. And I need about 50 of y'all in here who's know how to take a posture of peace. Uh I don't know how this thing is going to turn out, but I'm at peace. Uh I still got to go to therapy, but I'm at peace. [00:16:44]

Victory creates opportunities for vulnerability. Watch what happens. Jesus shows in. It's in your Bible. He walks in. It says, "Peace with you." And he shows them his hands. Okay. Um Thomas wasn't around and we we need to really get up off Thomas. No, I'm serious. Cuz cuz the truth of the matter is most of us would have been just like them. [00:17:46]

When God gives you the victory, we are tempted to act like the battle never happened. Oh yeah. Come on. I'm coming down your road in a minute. When God delivers us, the first thing we want to do is go get a new outfit, get some new hair, new makeup, get a new haircut, fellas, and act like that last season didn't happen. We live in an era of filters. [00:18:18]

But maybe what Jesus is showing them is that I can help heal you even with holes in your hand. Can I talk to people that's holy, but you still got some holes in your life? Lord, help me. I wish I had somebody say, "I love Jesus, but I still got some holes." Uh, I know you can't tell with this suit, but I still got some holes in my life. [00:18:44]

Jesus shows us that true strength is not hiding your wounds. is being vulnerable enough to show them in the book is one of the greatest books I've ever read. The body keeps score. Here's what the author says. Being able to feel safe with other people is the single most important aspect of mental health. Jesus doesn't hide his hands. He invites them to show them. [00:19:01]

What is it in your life that you had tried to hide when God is saying the very thing you're trying to hide is who I've called you to be? uh that thing that you think disqualifies you uh is the very thing I'm using uh to show other people if God can use her in spite of it. Watch this news flash. God called you while you were crazy. He knew you were cynical when he called you. [00:20:00]

When you can talk about it and not be bothered. Come, come here. You know you're in victory when they name comes up and you ain't got to talk bad about them. You know you're in victory when you can say this is what happened. No, you got the fake story. If you really want to know, let me tell you how it really went down. Yes, I did it. Yes, I said it. Yes, I went there. But God still you. [00:20:36]

If you going to be at peace with it, you and I must learn how to pursue your purpose while managing your pain. Um here's what messes me up. When you read, start at verse 19 again. It says on the first day of the week, Jesus goes to find the disciples. They're locked in the room. He says to them, "Peace be with you." shows him his wounds and he repeats the same thing again. [00:24:39]

He says, "It happened. Here's my wounds. Now go do what I told you to do the first time. Let let me let me translate that to this is how I know Jesus was um kissed by the African son. Cuz growing up in my household, if you ever tried to act like you were sick, you better go in there and sick them dishes. I know your head hurt, but go wash them dishes while you got a headache. [00:25:20]

When your future is calling, you can't stay stuck in your feelings. When you have a future, here's what I'm trying to tell you. Your feelings matter, but they don't stop nothing. You've got to learn how to stay put while not staying stuck. I'm not saying that healing doesn't take time, but there's certain things you can't wait for in order for you to get healed before you bust a move. [00:26:24]

Which means the reason why you can move forward is cuz I'm going with you this time. And I don't know who I came to preach to, but that's how you can be at peace. Because the truth of the matter is if somebody would have caught you this time 20 years ago, uh you would have added the whole building out. You would have cussed people out without thinking about it. [00:28:02]

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