Finding Joy and Compassion in Suffering

 

Summary

In our journey through 1 Peter, we have been exploring the profound encouragement Peter offers to the persecuted church in Asia Minor. These early Christians faced severe hostility, a reality that is difficult for many of us in the Western world to fully grasp. While we may not experience the same level of persecution, we can relate to the concepts of honor and shame that Peter addresses. In our modern context, Christians may face moments of shame or ridicule for their faith, as illustrated by the controversial performance at the Paris Olympics opening ceremony. This event, perceived by many as a parody of the Last Supper, sparked outrage, shame, and apathy among Christians.

Peter's radical instruction to respond with joy to such offenses challenges us to make three significant shifts: from surprise to expectancy, from distance to intimacy, and from offense to compassion. First, we must not be surprised by trials but expect them, recognizing that suffering is woven into the Christian narrative. This expectation aligns us with the long history of believers who have endured persecution. Second, we should move from distance to intimacy, understanding that suffering for our faith brings us closer to Christ. This type of suffering, unlike that caused by sin, fosters a deeper relationship with Jesus, who understands our pain. Lastly, we are called to shift from offense to compassion. The gospel is inherently offensive, but our response should be one of love and forgiveness, mirroring Christ's example on the cross.

In a world that often mocks or misunderstands our faith, we are invited to be unoffendable, to embrace suffering, and to find joy in our trials. This requires a deep reliance on Christ, a willingness to deny ourselves, and a commitment to follow Him. By doing so, we become a powerful witness to the world, demonstrating the transformative love of Jesus.

Key Takeaways:

- Expectancy in Suffering: Christians should not be surprised by trials but expect them as part of their faith journey. This expectation connects us with the historical narrative of believers who have faced persecution, reminding us that suffering is a shared experience with Christ and the saints. [09:41]

- Intimacy through Trials: Suffering for our faith can lead to a deeper intimacy with Christ. Unlike suffering caused by sin, which creates distance, enduring ridicule or shame for Jesus draws us closer to Him, allowing us to experience His companionship in our trials. [16:20]

- Compassion over Offense: The gospel's message may offend, but our response should be one of compassion and forgiveness. By choosing love over retaliation, we reflect Christ's heart and become a powerful witness to a world that often operates on a tit-for-tat basis. [18:24]

- Becoming Unoffendable: Embracing an unoffendable spirit involves expecting suffering, finding intimacy with Christ, and showing compassion to all. This mindset requires surrendering our insecurities and offenses to Jesus, allowing His presence to transform our reactions. [22:18]

- Self-Sacrifice as True Fulfillment: Following Jesus means denying ourselves and embracing suffering as a path to discovering our true selves. This self-sacrifice, rather than self-help, leads to genuine fulfillment and aligns us with Christ's example of love and humility. [24:36]

Youtube Chapters:

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:21] - Understanding Persecution
[02:28] - Honor and Shame in Modern Context
[04:05] - Paris Olympics Controversy
[05:25] - Responses to Offense
[06:26] - Cultural Shift in Christian Identity
[08:35] - Peter's Radical Instruction
[09:41] - Expectancy in Suffering
[11:00] - Historical Context of Suffering
[13:25] - Solidarity with Christ
[14:44] - Types of Suffering
[16:20] - Intimacy through Trials
[17:20] - Joy in Offense
[18:24] - Compassion over Offense
[20:14] - Responding to Offense
[22:18] - Becoming Unoffendable
[24:36] - Self-Sacrifice as Fulfillment
[25:12] - Prayer for Unoffendable Community

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
- 1 Peter 4:12-19
- Matthew 16:24-26

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Peter instruct believers to do when they face fiery trials according to 1 Peter 4:12-13? How does this align with the historical context of suffering mentioned in the sermon? [09:41]
2. In the sermon, what were the three types of responses to the Paris Olympics opening ceremony controversy? [05:25]
3. How does Peter distinguish between different types of suffering in 1 Peter 4:14-16, and what significance does this have for Christians today? [14:44]
4. What does the sermon suggest about the cultural shift in the perception of Christianity over the generations? [06:26]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the expectation of suffering, as discussed in 1 Peter 4:12-13, change a believer's perspective on trials and challenges? [09:41]
2. What does it mean to find intimacy with Christ through suffering, and how does this differ from suffering due to sin? [16:20]
3. How can Christians shift from offense to compassion, as Peter suggests, and what impact might this have on their witness to the world? [18:24]
4. In what ways does self-sacrifice, as described in Matthew 16:24-26, lead to true fulfillment according to the sermon? [24:36]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a recent trial or challenge you faced. How did you respond, and how might you apply Peter's instruction to expect suffering in future situations? [09:41]
2. Consider a time when you felt distant from God due to suffering. How can you seek intimacy with Christ in your current or future trials? [16:20]
3. Think of a situation where you felt offended by someone's actions or words. How can you practice shifting from offense to compassion in that scenario? [18:24]
4. How can you cultivate an unoffendable spirit in your daily interactions, especially in a world that often mocks or misunderstands your faith? [22:18]
5. Identify an area in your life where you can practice self-sacrifice. What steps can you take to deny yourself and follow Christ more closely? [24:36]
6. How can you be a powerful witness to those around you by demonstrating the transformative love of Jesus, especially in moments of ridicule or shame? [18:24]
7. Reflect on the cultural shift in the perception of Christianity. How can you navigate this change while staying true to your faith and values? [06:26]

Devotional

Day 1: Expectancy in Suffering
In the Christian journey, suffering is not an unexpected detour but a part of the path. Early Christians in Asia Minor faced severe persecution, a reality that many in the modern Western world may not fully comprehend. However, the concept of suffering for one's faith remains relevant. Christians today might encounter ridicule or shame, as seen in events like the controversial performance at the Paris Olympics. Peter's message encourages believers to anticipate trials, understanding that suffering is woven into the Christian narrative. This expectation connects us with the historical narrative of believers who have faced persecution, reminding us that suffering is a shared experience with Christ and the saints. [09:41]

1 Peter 4:12-13 (ESV): "Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ's sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed."

Reflection: What is one trial you are currently facing that you can begin to view as an expected part of your faith journey? How might this shift in perspective change your response to it today?


Day 2: Intimacy through Trials
Suffering for one's faith can lead to a deeper intimacy with Christ. Unlike suffering caused by sin, which creates distance, enduring ridicule or shame for Jesus draws believers closer to Him. This type of suffering allows Christians to experience Christ's companionship in their trials, fostering a deeper relationship with Him. The early church understood this, and Peter's encouragement to the persecuted Christians in Asia Minor was to embrace this intimacy. In today's world, where faith can be misunderstood or mocked, this message remains powerful. By enduring trials for their faith, believers can find a unique closeness with Christ, who understands their pain. [16:20]

Philippians 3:10 (ESV): "That I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death."

Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you felt misunderstood or ridiculed for your faith. How can you use this experience to draw closer to Christ and deepen your relationship with Him?


Day 3: Compassion over Offense
The gospel's message may offend, but the response of believers should be one of compassion and forgiveness. In a world that often operates on a tit-for-tat basis, choosing love over retaliation reflects Christ's heart. This approach not only mirrors Christ's example on the cross but also serves as a powerful witness to others. The early Christians, guided by Peter's teachings, were encouraged to respond to offenses with compassion. Today, believers are called to do the same, showing love and forgiveness even when faced with ridicule or misunderstanding. This response can transform interactions and demonstrate the transformative love of Jesus. [18:24]

Colossians 3:12-13 (ESV): "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive."

Reflection: Identify someone who has offended you recently. How can you extend compassion and forgiveness to them today, reflecting Christ's love in your response?


Day 4: Becoming Unoffendable
Embracing an unoffendable spirit involves expecting suffering, finding intimacy with Christ, and showing compassion to all. This mindset requires surrendering insecurities and offenses to Jesus, allowing His presence to transform reactions. In a world that often mocks or misunderstands faith, believers are invited to be unoffendable, embracing suffering and finding joy in trials. This approach not only strengthens one's faith but also serves as a powerful witness to others. By becoming unoffendable, Christians can demonstrate the transformative love of Jesus and inspire others to do the same. [22:18]

James 1:2-4 (ESV): "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself easily offended? How can you surrender this to Jesus and begin to cultivate an unoffendable spirit today?


Day 5: Self-Sacrifice as True Fulfillment
Following Jesus means denying oneself and embracing suffering as a path to discovering one's true self. This self-sacrifice, rather than self-help, leads to genuine fulfillment and aligns believers with Christ's example of love and humility. The early Christians understood this, and Peter's teachings encouraged them to embrace self-sacrifice as a means of finding true fulfillment. In today's world, where self-help and self-fulfillment are often prioritized, this message remains countercultural yet profoundly transformative. By denying themselves and following Christ, believers can experience true fulfillment and become powerful witnesses to others. [24:36]

Matthew 16:24-25 (ESV): "Then Jesus told his disciples, 'If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.'"

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you are seeking self-fulfillment? How can you shift your focus to self-sacrifice and align yourself more closely with Christ's example today?

Quotes

Well, if you are new today, you may not know that we've been in a series on 1 Peter, and so let me give you a little refresher. We've been teaching through the book, verse by verse, specifically examining Peter's writings to the persecuted church throughout what would be modern-day Asia Minor. [00:00:00] ( | | )

These churches were being faced with hostility and harassment from their Greek and Roman neighbors for their faith. And Peter specifically writes to these individuals to encourage them that although they might suffer, there's great hope found in Jesus' resurrection. [00:00:19] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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Thus, Christians ought not to be surprised if they suffer shame or loss of status because of their faith. Instead, we should remember the history of Israel and the church, those who have always been opposed to the forces of darkness and evil and those who have suffered because of it. [00:12:28] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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Peter is instructing a persecuted church not to be surprised, but to expect persecution, knowing that we share not just in the persecution of Christ, but in a long lineage of those who suffered. [00:13:44] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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If you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. But let none of you suffer as a murderer or a thief or as an evildoer or as a meddler. [00:14:28] (13 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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Unlike the first type of suffering, this one can produce an intimacy with Christ. Because we are getting a glimpse into the suffering of Jesus, the ridicule, the shame, the pain, the ostracization, the loneliness, we can relate to him more. [00:16:20] (17 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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This is where we can find joy in offense, because in our offense, in our suffering, we become closer, nearer, more intimate with Jesus than we ever have before. [00:17:30] (18 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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For we should be willing to suffer offense and share in Christ's humiliation. We should not return the offense ourselves, but rather overcome our insecurity and hurt as a powerful witness to the world. Around us. [00:19:21] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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We are instructed to shift from offense to compassion, for it is our greatest witness to a dog-eats-dog, tit-for-tat world around us. This is what Peter talks about when he says, do good. [00:20:14] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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We may feel the anger well up, the shame creep in, the embarrassment wash over us like a flood, but we never take the bait. We put away the phone. We don't lash out. We never inflict pain and suffering onto others. [00:22:55] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to finding yourself, your true self. What kind of deal is it to get everything you want, honor, prestige? [00:25:06] (11 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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