Our identity should not be anchored in temporal achievements or roles, as these can change or end unexpectedly. Instead, our true identity is found in our relationship with God, who remains constant and unchanging. When we tie our self-worth to our accomplishments, we risk losing our sense of self when those achievements fade. Nick's story illustrates this struggle, as he grappled with his identity after his sports career ended. By shifting our focus from what we do to who we belong to, we find a stable foundation in God's unchanging nature. [00:42]
"For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory." (Colossians 3:3-4, ESV)
Reflection: What is one achievement or role you have been relying on for your identity? How can you begin to shift your focus to your relationship with God today?
Day 2: Whose Am I?
The critical question of identity is not "Who am I?" but "Whose am I?" Understanding that we belong to God reshapes our self-perception and purpose, grounding us in a stable and eternal relationship. This perspective invites us to see ourselves not as independent entities but as individuals deeply connected to our Creator. By recognizing that we are God's, we find a sense of belonging and purpose that transcends the temporary and the superficial. This understanding provides a firm foundation for our identity, one that is rooted in the eternal rather than the fleeting. [03:04]
"But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: 'Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.'" (Isaiah 43:1, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways does knowing you belong to God change how you view yourself and your purpose? How can you remind yourself of this truth daily?
Day 3: Radical Christ Orientation
Like Paul, we are called to live with a radical orientation towards Christ, seeking to please Him above all else. This involves a shift from seeking human approval to living for God's glory. Paul's life exemplifies this radical commitment, as he identified himself as a "bond servant of Christ Jesus." This identity challenges us to prioritize our relationship with Christ over the opinions and validations of others. By focusing on pleasing Christ, we find true freedom and fulfillment, as our lives align with God's purposes and desires. [07:28]
"For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ." (Galatians 1:10, ESV)
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you are seeking human approval? How can you begin to shift your focus to pleasing Christ in that area?
Day 4: Doubly Owned by God
As Christians, we are owned by God both through creation and redemption. This dual ownership means our lives are not our own, and we are called to live in a way that honors our Creator and Redeemer. Understanding this profound truth reshapes our identity and purpose, as we recognize that we are not self-made but are lovingly crafted and redeemed by God. This ownership calls us to live with intentionality, seeking to honor God in all aspects of our lives, knowing that we are His treasured possession. [06:17]
"Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body." (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, ESV)
Reflection: How does knowing you are doubly owned by God through creation and redemption impact your daily decisions and actions? What is one way you can honor God with your life today?
Day 5: Living Beyond Second-Handedness
Avoid the trap of "second-handedness," where life is lived seeking the approval of others. Instead, embrace a life focused on pleasing Christ, which leads to true freedom and fulfillment. Second-handed living is characterized by a constant need for external validation, which can lead to insecurity and dissatisfaction. By shifting our focus to Christ, we find a deeper sense of purpose and contentment, as our lives are aligned with His will. This orientation frees us from the pressures of societal expectations and allows us to live authentically for God's glory. [08:00]
"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ." (Colossians 3:23-24, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways have you been living for the approval of others? How can you begin to focus on living for Christ's approval instead?
Sermon Summary
In today's reflection, we explored the profound question of self-identity, particularly through the lens of faith. The story of Nick, a former collegiate volleyball player, serves as a poignant example of how our identities can be shaken when they are tied to temporal achievements. Nick's struggle after his sports career ended prematurely highlights a common human experience: the search for identity beyond our roles and accomplishments. This search leads us to a deeper question, not just "Who am I?" but "Whose am I?"
Drawing from the teachings of John Piper on the book of Romans, we delved into the Apostle Paul's understanding of identity. Paul introduces himself as a "bond servant of Christ Jesus," a phrase that challenges us to consider the radical nature of Christian identity. This identity is not self-derived but is rooted in being bought, owned, and ruled by Christ. Paul’s life exemplifies a radical orientation towards pleasing Christ, rather than seeking the approval of others. This is a call to live with a singular focus on glorifying God, which stands in stark contrast to the "second-hand" living that seeks validation from others.
The essence of our identity as Christians is found in our relationship with God. We are doubly owned by Him—through creation and through the redemptive purchase by Christ. This ownership implies that our lives are not our own, and our primary aim should be to honor and magnify Christ in all we do. This perspective shifts the focus from self-centered identity to a God-centered one, where our worth and purpose are defined by our belonging to Him.
Key Takeaways
1. perception and purpose, grounding us in a stable and eternal relationship. [03:04] 3. Radical Christ Orientation: Like Paul, we are called to live with a radical orientation towards Christ, seeking to please Him above all else. This involves a shift from seeking human approval to living for God's glory.
4. Doubly Owned by God: As Christians, we are owned by God both through creation and redemption. This dual ownership means our lives are not our own, and we are called to live in a way that honors our Creator and Redeemer.
5. Living Beyond Second-Handedness: Avoid the trap of "second-handedness," where life is lived seeking the approval of others. Instead, embrace a life focused on pleasing Christ, which leads to true freedom and fulfillment. [03:04]
In Romans 1:1, Paul describes himself as a "bond servant of Christ Jesus." What does this term imply about Paul's relationship with Christ? [01:43]
According to 1 Corinthians 7:23, what does it mean to be "bought with a price," and how does this relate to our identity as Christians? [05:26]
How does Paul’s statement in Galatians 1:10 about pleasing Christ rather than men reflect his understanding of his identity? [06:36]
What was the main struggle that Nick faced after his sports career ended, and how does it relate to the theme of identity in the sermon? [00:27]
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Interpretation Questions:
How does the concept of being a "bond servant" challenge modern views of personal freedom and self-identity? [01:43]
What does it mean to be "doubly owned by God" through creation and redemption, and how should this understanding affect a Christian's daily life? [06:00]
In what ways does seeking human approval conflict with living a life that pleases Christ, according to the sermon? [06:53]
How does the question "Whose am I?" provide a more stable foundation for identity compared to "Who am I?" [03:04]
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Application Questions:
Reflect on a time when your identity was tied to a role or achievement. How did you respond when that role or achievement changed or ended? What can you learn from Nick's experience? [00:27]
Consider the areas of your life where you seek approval from others. How can you shift your focus to seeking approval from Christ instead? [06:53]
What practical steps can you take to live with a "radical Christ orientation," as Paul did, in your daily decisions and interactions? [07:28]
Identify a specific area in your life where you struggle with "second-handedness." How can you begin to live more authentically for Christ in that area? [08:00]
How does understanding that you are "doubly owned by God" influence your sense of purpose and direction in life? [06:00]
Think of a situation where you felt your identity was challenged. How can the question "Whose am I?" help you navigate similar situations in the future? [03:04]
What is one specific way you can honor and magnify Christ in your work, family, or community this week? [07:28]
Sermon Clips
well how do I find my identity my self-identity directly or indirectly we give that essential question all the time in the inbox take for example this email from Nick a listener and a former Collegiate volleyball player he gave his life to competitive Sports in college and he discovered as every athlete eventually does that his career would end and it ended sooner than Nick expected and when it did he fell into a season of Darkness he had failed to achieve his athletic goals and he hadn't prepared himself for the abrupt end unprepared to be separated from the competition from his school and from his teammates [00:00:03]
Paul a bond servant of Christ Jesus call as an apostle set apart for the gospel of God now there are three phrases there we'll look at them and I want you to see the man I want you to see his letter I want you to see his God and just by way of application right off the bat you know sometimes you read a verse and and even before the exposition comes it says a word to you so personally that it sort of Skips over the exposition and I I just have a feeling that the word that just blurts itself out here is it isn't who Paul is it's whose Paul is [00:01:41]
the big questions in life are not who am I the big question in life is whose am I you got to answer that question whose are you whose are you that's the issue we get all in the 20th century we get all bent out of shape about self-fidentity and stuff who am I and my worth and my esteem and my value and all that when you read the Bible the huge issue is Right relation with God and whom you belong to whose you are so let that be the question hanging over this verse phrase number one a bond servant of Christ Jesus [00:03:00]
what does that mean to be the bond servant it means he's bought by Jesus owned by Jesus ruled by Jesus I'll show you where I get that First Corinthians 7 23 he says you were bought by a price with a price do not become slaves of men so to be a slave of somebody is to have been bought by them so he calls himself a slave or a bond servant of Christ which means Christ bought him and that's what he says Christ bought me and since he bought me he owns me if you're a Christian this morning you are doubly owned by God you are owned by virtue of creation and you are owned by virtue of purchase you are doubly your doubly not your own double he is he owns you he can do with you as he pleases [00:05:23]
and what we want to create at Bethlehem and I know that the vast majority of you are with me on this what we want is a church of people who are radically oriented on pleasing Christ honoring Christ magnifying Christ and letting the chips fall where they will instead of being what most people are namely second-handers get that phrase from I am Rand who wrote the novel Atlas Shrugged who despised second-handers that is people who have no vision and values of their own for which they live triumphantly and are always looking over their shoulder wondering I wonder what they think about this and I wonder what they think about this and I wonder what they think about this and they live their whole lives second-handedly always trying to get into other people's good graces and be liked and stroked and praised and complimented and paid it's a horrible way to live [00:07:37]
and Paul said I am owned by another I've been bought and I am ruled and I have one person to please Christ and he has revealed his word in me and that's my life let's be like that owned by another amen the foundation of our self-identity is not who am I but whose am I that was from John Piper's April 26 1998 sermon title the author of the greatest letter ever written It's a Wonderful clip one that my wife found and brought to my attention [00:08:35]
while self-identity was a theme in John Piper's very first message in his famous sermon series on the book of Romans many of you know about that sermon series Pastor John preached through all of Romans in 225 sermons over the course of eight years and eight months spanning from the spring of 1998 to the end of 2006 all 225 of those Rich messages are collected under the serious title the greatest letter ever written as we recently heard Romans as a key to his own self-identity and uh in sermon number one of his series number one he started with verse one of Romans as Holly covered in verse the first servant to cover the Apostle Paul's identity and from it our identity [00:00:51]
now we religious types who read the Bible for dozens dozens of years we got to realize what a shocking phrase that is we got to decide here if this man's crazy Jesus Christ according to tacitus secular Witness as well as all the Christian witnesses as well as Josephus said Jesus died 25 years ago he's dead he's not master of anybody and Paul says he's my master and he's alive I am a slave to the living Christ Jesus so you've got to decide now at the beginning of this book are these the rantings of a Madman who thinks people die and then pop up out of the Grave three days later and then become masters of people is he a crazy man or did possibly that happen and that's reality and all the people in the world who ignore that or mock that are unreality you got to decide this there's a huge issues is he crazy call himself the bond servant of Christ Jesus [00:04:34]
so you've got to decide now at the beginning of this book are these the rantings of a Madman who thinks people die and then pop up out of the Grave three days later and then become masters of people is he a crazy man or did possibly that happen and that's reality and all the people in the world who ignore that or mock that are unreality you got to decide this there's a huge issues is he crazy call himself the bond servant of Christ Jesus what does that mean to be the bond servant it means he's bought by Jesus owned by Jesus ruled by Jesus I'll show you where I get that First Corinthians 7 23 he says you were bought by a price with a price do not become slaves of men so to be a slave of somebody is to have been bought by them so he calls himself a slave or a bond servant of Christ which means Christ bought him and that's what he says Christ bought me and since he bought me he owns me if you're a Christian this morning you are doubly owned by God you are owned by virtue of creation and you are owned by virtue of purchase you are doubly your doubly not your own double he is he owns you he can do with you as he pleases [00:04:34]
and what we want to create at Bethlehem and I know that the vast majority of you are with me on this what we want is a church of people who are radically oriented on pleasing Christ honoring Christ magnifying Christ and letting the chips fall where they will instead of being what most people are namely second-handers get that phrase from I am Rand who wrote the novel Atlas Shrugged who despised second-handers that is people who have no vision and values of their own for which they live triumphantly and are always looking over their shoulder wondering I wonder what they think about this and I wonder what they think about this and I wonder what they think about this and they live their whole lives second-handedly always trying to get into other people's good graces and be liked and stroked and praised and complimented and paid it's a horrible way to live [00:07:37]
and Paul said I am owned by another I've been bought and I am ruled and I have one person to please Christ and he has revealed his word in me and that's my life let's be like that owned by another amen the foundation of our self-identity is not who am I but whose am I that was from John Piper's April 26 1998 sermon title the author of the greatest letter ever written It's a Wonderful clip one that my wife found and brought to my attention [00:08:35]
while self-identity was a theme in John Piper's very first message in his famous sermon series on the book of Romans many of you know about that sermon series Pastor John preached through all of Romans in 225 sermons over the course of eight years and eight months spanning from the spring of 1998 to the end of 2006 all 225 of those Rich messages are collected under the serious title the greatest letter ever written as we recently heard Romans as a key to his own self-identity and uh in sermon number one of his series number one he started with verse one of Romans as Holly covered in verse the first servant to cover the Apostle Paul's identity and from it our identity [00:00:51]
now we religious types who read the Bible for dozens dozens of years we got to realize what a shocking phrase that is we got to decide here if this man's crazy Jesus Christ according to tacitus secular Witness as well as all the Christian witnesses as well as Josephus said Jesus died 25 years ago he's dead he's not master of anybody and Paul says he's my master and he's alive I am a slave to the living Christ Jesus so you've got to decide now at the beginning of this book are these the rantings of a Madman who thinks people die and then pop up out of the Grave three days later and then become masters of people is he a crazy man or did possibly that happen and that's reality and all the people in the world who ignore that or mock that are unreality you got to decide this there's a huge issues is he crazy call himself the bond servant of Christ Jesus [00:04:34]