Finding Hope and Joy Through Our Tears

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We have a God who listens, a God who answers, which is all good. That gives us an opportunity to say why our life matters to the God of the universe. So as you pray, pray with that joy in your heart. Pray with that acknowledgement in your heart and pray with that hope in your heart that God's listening to you. [00:09:32]

Crying is a good thing. It may not feel like it at the time because when you're crying, it's usually because something bad has happened. Something happens with our bodies. When we cry, all the junk that's in our body gets taken out. That's how God made us to stay healthy. So crying is a good thing. [00:16:46]

Back in the Garden of Eden, remember, everything was good. Everything was perfect. Until fruit time. And once Adam and Eve ate the fruit, bad things started to happen. And it's only after that that part of the world. It's only then that loss and hurt and pain becomes a part. [00:17:54]

The Bible describes hell as a place where there is constantly pain, suffering, weeping, which is crying, and gnashing of teeth. Gnashing of teeth is grinding your teeth. Not only that you want to cry, that you have to cry, but that you do cry all the time. And the reason is there's no hope in hell. [00:19:52]

There's nothing to change the tears from sadness to joy because you're completely separated from God. But there's also going to be a place where there's never going to be any tears. New earth. That's a place where there's no more sadness, no more sorrow, no more sickness, no more tears, because heaven is a place of constant hope. [00:20:33]

Nehemiah receives word from a messenger that things are not going well at home. And so what we read in Nehemiah one is this. This is verse three. Those who have survived the exile, those that are back in the province are in great trouble. They're in great disgrace. The wall of Jerusalem is broken down. The gates have been burned. With fire. [00:36:59]

When I heard these things, I sat down and I wept. And for some days I mourned, fasted, and prayed before the God of heaven. Nehemiah is in a setting where he's well taken care of. He's safe. He's secure. His life is going well. And he gets news of family and friends that are hurting. [00:37:29]

As he approached Jerusalem and he saw the city, he wept over it. And he said, If you, even you, had only known on this day what it is that would bring you peace, but now it's hidden from your eyes. The days will come upon you when your enemies will build an embankment against you. They'll encircle you and hem you in on every side. [00:40:37]

When Jesus saw her weeping, when he saw the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. He said, where have you laid him? He asked. Come and see, Jesus was fully man. Complete on both sides of that equation. And so Jesus felt every emotion that we feel. [00:43:43]

And so when he encountered a grieving sister, when he encountered grieving friends, when he was brought face to face with the tomb of his friend, Jesus replied like any of us would respond, he cried. Think about the number of times you've received word that somebody died and you cry at the initial news. [00:44:23]

And as long as we're holding on so tightly to the loss, as long as we're holding on so tightly to the sadness, we can never hold on to the joy that's in Christ. And so there has to come a point in time where we're willing, again, most typically a loved one, but the same is true for the loss of job and circumstance and those things. [00:54:18]

Our memories are God's gift to us. I say this at any funeral service that I do. Our memories are God's gift to us. We share all the stories we want to, and we need to, about the congregation that we used to be 10, 20, 30, 50 years ago. Nothing wrong with that, because that shaped us, that formed us, that put us together in such a way that. [00:59:52]

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