Finding Hope and Healing in Suffering

Summary

In today's message, we explored the profound reality of pain and suffering in our lives and how, as Christians, we are not exempt from these experiences. We began by acknowledging the universal truth that life is filled with trials and sorrows, as Jesus himself promised in John 16:33. Yet, amidst this reality, we are reminded of the hope and cheer we can hold onto because Jesus has overcome the world. This understanding sets the stage for a deeper exploration of how different worldviews perceive pain and suffering, contrasting them with the unique Christian perspective.

In examining various religious and secular approaches, we see that Christianity offers a distinct understanding of suffering. Unlike other beliefs that may view suffering as a test, punishment, or meaningless, Christianity sees it as a consequence of the separation from God due to human choices. However, this suffering is not without purpose or redemption. God, in His love, chose to join us in our suffering through Jesus, offering a path to healing and transformation.

We delved into the practices of Jesus, which are designed to slow us down and open us up to God's transformative work. These practices help us confront the accumulated pain in our lives, allowing God to heal our wounds and make us more like Jesus. We learned that pain can be an invitation to explore our stories and seek healing, much like physical pain signals a need for care.

The message emphasized the importance of naming and feeling our pain, asking God for help, and ultimately surrendering to His will. By following Jesus' example, especially in His darkest moments, we can find a way to process our pain and allow it to draw us closer to God. This journey of transformation is not easy, but it leads us to a deeper communion with God, where even our pain can be used for our ultimate good.

Key Takeaways:

1. Embracing the Reality of Suffering: As Christians, we are not exempt from pain and suffering. These experiences are a part of life, but they are not meaningless. God sees and cares about our pain, and He chose to join us in it through Jesus, offering us hope and redemption. [06:37]

2. The Unique Christian Perspective: Unlike other worldviews, Christianity does not see suffering as a test or punishment. Instead, it is a result of separation from God, but it is also redeemable. God can use our pain to draw us closer to Him and transform us into the likeness of Jesus. [08:27]

3. Practices of Jesus for Transformation: Engaging in the practices of Jesus, such as prayer and Sabbath, helps us confront and heal from accumulated pain. These practices create space for God to work in us, transforming us into people of love and drawing us closer to Him. [13:52]

4. Naming and Feeling Our Pain: Healing begins with acknowledging and naming our pain. By allowing ourselves to feel it, we can process it in the presence of God, just as Jesus did. This process requires emotional and spiritual maturity but leads to deeper communion with God. [28:33]

5. Surrendering to God's Will: In our pain, we can ask God for relief, but ultimately, we are called to surrender to His will. Trusting in God's greater plan, even when we don't understand it, allows us to experience His healing presence and transformation. [35:15]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:27] - Opening Prayer
- [02:58] - The Problem of Pain and Suffering
- [04:28] - Worldviews on Suffering
- [05:37] - The Christian Perspective
- [06:37] - Redemption Through Suffering
- [08:27] - Accumulated Pain and Its Impact
- [12:01] - Unloading the Unconscious
- [13:52] - Practices for Transformation
- [20:21] - Jesus' Model of Dealing with Pain
- [21:16] - The Psalms of Lament
- [23:06] - Crying Out to God
- [24:12] - Surrendering in Faith
- [28:33] - Naming and Feeling Pain
- [35:15] - Trusting in God's Plan
- [39:02] - Prayer of Lament Exercise

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:
1. John 16:33 - "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
2. Romans 8:28 - "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
3. Psalm 13 - A Psalm of Lament by David.

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Observation Questions:

1. According to John 16:33, what does Jesus promise about the nature of life in this world? How does this align with the sermon’s message about the reality of pain and suffering? [00:27]

2. In Romans 8:28, what assurance do we have about the role of pain and suffering in our lives? How does this verse relate to the sermon’s perspective on God using our pain for good? [06:37]

3. How does Psalm 13 illustrate the process of lament as described in the sermon? What are the key elements of a lament according to the sermon? [24:12]

4. What are some of the different worldviews on pain and suffering mentioned in the sermon, and how do they compare to the Christian perspective? [04:28]

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Interpretation Questions:

1. How does the promise of Jesus overcoming the world in John 16:33 provide comfort in times of suffering? What does it mean to "take heart" in the context of trials? [00:27]

2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that God can use our pain to draw us closer to Him and transform us into the likeness of Jesus? [06:37]

3. How does the practice of lament, as seen in Psalm 13, help believers process their pain and suffering? What role does surrender play in this process? [24:12]

4. The sermon mentions that pain can be an invitation to explore our stories and seek healing. How does this perspective change the way we view our own suffering? [13:52]

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on a recent experience of pain or suffering in your life. How did you respond to it, and how might you apply the practice of lament to that situation now? [24:12]

2. The sermon encourages naming and feeling our pain. What is one area of pain in your life that you have been avoiding? How can you begin to acknowledge and process it with God’s help? [28:33]

3. Consider the different worldviews on suffering discussed in the sermon. How has your understanding of suffering been shaped by your faith, and how does it differ from other perspectives? [04:28]

4. How can you incorporate the practices of Jesus, such as prayer and Sabbath, into your life to create space for God’s transformative work? What specific steps will you take this week? [13:52]

5. The sermon talks about surrendering to God’s will even when we don’t understand it. What is one area of your life where you struggle to trust God’s plan, and how can you practice surrender in that area? [35:15]

6. How can you support someone in your life who is currently experiencing pain or suffering? What practical steps can you take to share their burden and offer hope? [02:58]

7. Reflect on the idea that God can use pain to draw us closer to Him. How have you seen this happen in your own life, and how can you remain open to this possibility in future trials? [06:37]

Devotional

Day 1: Embracing Suffering as Part of Our Journey
In life, pain and suffering are inevitable, and as Christians, we are not exempt from these experiences. However, these trials are not without meaning. Christianity offers a unique perspective, seeing suffering as a consequence of the separation from God due to human choices. Yet, God, in His infinite love, chose to join us in our suffering through Jesus, offering hope and redemption. This understanding allows us to embrace our suffering, knowing that God sees and cares about our pain. By acknowledging this reality, we can find comfort in the promise that Jesus has overcome the world, and through Him, we can find peace amidst our trials. [06:37]

"For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us." (Romans 8:18, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a current struggle you are facing. How can you invite God into this situation and trust Him to bring hope and redemption through it?

Day 2: Understanding the Christian Perspective on Suffering
Christianity offers a distinct understanding of suffering, contrasting with other worldviews that may see it as a test, punishment, or meaningless. Instead, suffering is viewed as a result of separation from God, but it is also redeemable. God can use our pain to draw us closer to Him and transform us into the likeness of Jesus. This perspective provides a sense of purpose and hope, knowing that our suffering is not in vain. By trusting in God's greater plan, we can find strength and courage to endure, allowing our pain to be a catalyst for spiritual growth and transformation. [08:27]

"Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope." (Romans 5:3-4, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on a past experience of suffering. How did God use that situation to draw you closer to Him or to transform you in some way?

Day 3: Engaging in Practices for Transformation
The practices of Jesus, such as prayer and Sabbath, are designed to slow us down and open us up to God's transformative work. These practices help us confront the accumulated pain in our lives, allowing God to heal our wounds and make us more like Jesus. By creating space for God to work in us, we can experience His healing presence and transformation. Engaging in these practices requires intentionality and commitment, but they lead us to a deeper communion with God, where we can become people of love and grace. [13:52]

"And he said to them, 'Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.' For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat." (Mark 6:31, ESV)

Reflection: What is one practice of Jesus that you can incorporate into your daily routine this week to create space for God's transformative work in your life?

Day 4: Naming and Feeling Our Pain
Healing begins with acknowledging and naming our pain. By allowing ourselves to feel it, we can process it in the presence of God, just as Jesus did. This process requires emotional and spiritual maturity but leads to deeper communion with God. By naming our pain, we invite God into our healing journey, allowing Him to work in us and through us. This act of vulnerability and surrender can be challenging, but it is essential for experiencing true healing and transformation. [28:33]

"Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved." (Psalm 55:22, ESV)

Reflection: Identify a specific pain or burden you are carrying. How can you bring this before God today and invite Him into your healing process?

Day 5: Surrendering to God's Will
In our pain, we can ask God for relief, but ultimately, we are called to surrender to His will. Trusting in God's greater plan, even when we don't understand it, allows us to experience His healing presence and transformation. By following Jesus' example, especially in His darkest moments, we can find a way to process our pain and allow it to draw us closer to God. This journey of transformation is not easy, but it leads us to a deeper communion with God, where even our pain can be used for our ultimate good. [35:15]

"And going a little farther, he fell on his face and prayed, saying, 'My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.'" (Matthew 26:39, ESV)

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself resisting God's will? How can you begin to surrender this area to Him today, trusting in His greater plan?

Quotes

1. "Life's full of trauma and it's full of pain and it's full of suffering, even for us as Christians. And in fact, I would say that of all the promises for Christians in the Bible, the one that we can all personally, universally attest to is John 16, 33, where Jesus said, here on earth, you will have many trials and sorrows. Can I get a witness? Amen. And if that's where you are today. If you're in a place of trial or loss or sorrow or discouragement or despair, I just want to tell you as your church family, man, we're here for you and we want to share your pain with you and we want to bear that pain with you and we want to just pray with you." [00:00:27] (45 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "So a really common and really hard question that specifically atheists like to bring up when they're arguing against Christianity is they will say, well, if God is all good, if God is all powerful, how do you explain pain and suffering? I mean, if God loves me completely and if he can do anything, why would he let me get sick? Why would he let my kid get sick? Why would he let my relationship fall apart? Why would he take away my mom or my dad? And these are really hard questions, and they're really difficult to wrestle with. But the truth is, on earth, pain and suffering are unavoidable, and they're undeniable, and they're undeniably hard for every religion and for every belief system and for every philosophy to deal with." [00:02:31] (56 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "And then Christianity, I think, is different. You know, Christians don't see suffering as some sort of test or divine obstacle course to keep us out of God's presence. God wants us in his presence. And we don't see pain and suffering as a punishment for our failures of the past because Jesus took our punishment. And we don't see pain and suffering as a way to teach us not to become attached to people because God wants us to be connected to one another. And as real and as difficult as pain and suffering are, we don't see them as being meaningless because we find meaning and we find truth in this. Our God does see and care about our pain and suffering." [00:05:37] (48 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "So Christianity has a really unique perspective on pain and suffering. Christians believe that pain and suffering are not what we experience. They're not what God chooses for us or wants for us. They're a natural result of the separation of God and man and man from each other that was caused by choices that we've made to follow our ways instead of his ways. And we believe that those choices, and even the pain that those choices cause us are redeemable. And that someday Jesus will come back and he will dry every tear and he will undo every wrong. And he will make all things right. Jesus is new again when his kingdom is fully come. And between now and then, Jesus is with us. In fact, his spirit is in us to help us get through the pain and suffering of this world." [00:06:37] (53 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "And Christians believe that God is somehow able to do what he says in Romans 8, 28. That he is able to cause everything. Even our pain and our suffering, he's able to cause everything to work together for our ultimate good. And our God knows that the real best thing for us is real intimate relationship with him and with each other. And sometimes he uses the pain and suffering of this world that he hates, but he uses it to draw us closer together. And to draw us closer to him and Christ. And Christians believe that even when it's the hardest and the darkest and the scariest and the ugliest and the most painful, even when we experience real loss and sorrow and despair, they God can turn our tears into joy. And then he can turn our ashes into beauty." [00:07:45] (63 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

6. "So we've been talking about the practices of Jesus. These are just ancient, you know, activities and behaviors of Jesus that we want to practice so we can be more like Him. And these things are designed to slow our lives down and to open our lives up so that God can do His transforming, miraculous work in us. And as we do these things that we can do through these practices, God does in us what we can't do, and He transforms us to be just like Jesus, the only complete, complete, complete, complete, complete, complete, complete, complete, complete, human that has ever lived in total communion with God." [00:09:57] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

7. "And if that's what you've been experiencing when you quiet yourself, then you need to know that you're not alone and that it's not uncommon at all. And it makes sense. If you think about it, like after a lifetime of staying busy, right? After a lifetime of just going and running and staying busy all the time, partly to avoid facing pain, then yeah, sometimes when we quiet down and sometimes when we slow down, it catches up with us. And what comes up first when we quiet ourselves is what John Mark Homer calls undigested emotional pain that we've just, you know, pushed down or distracted ourselves from or tried to ignore by being busy." [00:12:01] (58 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

8. "So whether it's in this quiet time or maybe it feels like it's all the time, uh, feeling loss and feeling pain doesn't mean you're doing it wrong. It doesn't mean, like, you're a bad, um, practicer of the practices. It actually might mean that you're doing it right. Because as you begin to, like, um, purge? Right. That's what it's about. stuff as you begin to kind of detox your spirit of the leftover hurt from your past that can be a really important step in part of your spiritual formation so remember these practices they're not you know just stuff we do you know these are not just a checklist of things to do so that you don't go to hell anymore. These are intentionally designed by God to slow us down and open us up and create time and space for him to do this supernatural work of making us more like Jesus." [00:13:36] (54 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

9. "And that's a positive thing. I love how John Mark says this. He says, pain is an invitation from your soul to explore a path in your story. And that's a positive thing. And that's a positive thing. And that's a positive thing. And to follow it down to its origin point in search of healing. Yeah. So if you think about like physical pain in your body, when you get hurt, pain is your body's way of drawing attention to that area, that part of you that needs attention. It needs healing. It needs care. It needs love. It's a signal to your mind that something is wrong and something is in need of healing. And emotional pain is very similar. It can be a signal to your body that something is wrong. It can be a signal to your brain that some aspect of your person, some part of you is in need of attention and is in need of healing and is in need of love." [00:15:04] (49 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

10. "So pain and suffering come to all of us. And it's not necessarily a bad thing. Maybe it needs to come to the surface so we can find some healing. We have to figure out how to deal with it. And if Jesus' way of dealing with pain and suffering isn't denial or detachment or drugging it, what is it? You know, what does it look like? It sounds great to say, let's meet God in our pain. But like, what does that look like? And specifically, how does our rabbi, how does Jesus teach and model for us how this life's unavoidable pain and suffering can actually do something good and even become part of God's transforming process of making us more like Jesus?" [00:19:24] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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