Finding Hope and Community Amidst Life's Challenges

 

Summary

### Summary

Last week, I had the privilege of spending time at The Refuge in Fort Smith, Montana, a retreat for ministry leaders and their spouses. This annual trip, now in its sixth year for me, offers a unique opportunity to disconnect from daily responsibilities, rest, and engage in meaningful conversations. The highlight of the trip is fly fishing on the Bighorn River, an activity that, while requiring minimal personal skill due to the expert guides, provides a therapeutic escape from the stresses of life. This experience, which I jokingly refer to as "indicator therapy," allows for a deep sense of relaxation and community.

Transitioning from this personal reflection, I addressed the current political climate, emphasizing the importance of prayer and the need for civil discourse. Political violence has no place in our society, and as followers of Jesus, we must strive to engage in conversations with charity and kindness, even with those we disagree with. The recent act of political violence that resulted in the loss of a retired fire chief's life and the near-death of former President Trump serves as a stark reminder of the power of rhetoric and the need for us to dial it down.

I also touched on the theological concept of God's sovereignty, explaining the difference between God's perfect will and permissive will. This understanding helps us navigate the complexities of life, recognizing that God is in control even when we face suffering and challenges. The Apostle Paul's perspective on suffering, as outlined in Romans 8, reminds us that our present sufferings are not worth comparing to the glory that awaits us. This hope should encourage us to persevere, knowing that God is working in our waiting and that our ultimate hope lies in the restoration of all things.

Finally, I encouraged the congregation to build strong community ties, emphasizing that faith is a team sport. Whether through life groups, serving, or simply spending time with others, having a supportive community is crucial, especially during challenging times. As we navigate the political and social landscape, let us remember to pray for our leaders, love our enemies, and trust in God's sovereign plan.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Importance of Rest and Community: Taking time to disconnect and engage in restful activities, like fly fishing, can be incredibly therapeutic. It allows us to pour out stress and be filled with community and rest, which are essential for our well-being. [03:28]

2. Engaging in Civil Discourse: In a heated political climate, it's crucial to engage in conversations with charity and kindness. Political violence has no place in our society, and as followers of Jesus, we must strive to listen well and speak with grace, even when we disagree. [06:49]

3. Understanding God's Sovereignty: God's sovereignty encompasses both His perfect will and permissive will. This means that even in our suffering and challenges, God is in control and can use all circumstances for His greater purpose. This understanding helps us trust in God's plan, even when we don't have all the answers. [11:54]

4. The Hope Beyond Suffering: The Apostle Paul teaches that our present sufferings are not worth comparing to the glory that awaits us. This perspective encourages us to persevere through trials, knowing that God is working in our waiting and that our ultimate hope lies in the restoration of all things. [21:22]

5. Building a Supportive Community: Faith is a team sport, and having a strong community is essential, especially during challenging times. Whether through life groups, serving, or simply spending time with others, building relationships that can support and challenge us is crucial for our spiritual growth. [36:40]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[03:28] - The Refuge and Fly Fishing
[06:49] - Political Climate and Civil Discourse
[11:54] - Understanding God's Sovereignty
[21:22] - The Hope Beyond Suffering
[36:40] - Building a Supportive Community
[47:12] - Closing Remarks and Prayer Requests

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Romans 8:18-25 - "I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God. We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently."

2. 1 Timothy 2:1-2 - "I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people—for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness."

3. James 1:2-4 - "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

#### Observation Questions
1. What activities did the pastor engage in during his retreat at The Refuge, and what was the purpose of these activities? [03:28]
2. How did the pastor describe the current political climate and the role of followers of Jesus in it? [06:49]
3. What distinction did the pastor make between God's perfect will and permissive will? [11:54]
4. According to the pastor, what is the significance of community in the life of a believer? [36:40]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Romans 8:18-25 help us understand the concept of suffering and future glory? How does this perspective encourage believers to persevere through trials?
2. In what ways does 1 Timothy 2:1-2 challenge us to engage with the political climate differently as followers of Jesus? [06:49]
3. How can the understanding of God's sovereignty, as explained in the sermon, impact our trust in God's plan during difficult times? [11:54]
4. What does James 1:2-4 teach us about the purpose of trials in our lives, and how can this understanding shape our response to challenges?

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt overwhelmed by stress. How did you find rest and community during that period? What steps can you take to ensure you regularly disconnect and recharge? [03:28]
2. Think about a recent political discussion you had. How did you approach it? What changes can you make to ensure your conversations are filled with charity and kindness, even when you disagree? [06:49]
3. How does the concept of God's perfect and permissive will help you navigate your current challenges? Can you identify a situation where you saw God's hand at work, even if it was not immediately clear? [11:54]
4. In what ways can you remind yourself of the hope beyond suffering as described in Romans 8:18-25? How can this perspective change the way you handle your current struggles? [21:22]
5. Evaluate your current community. Do you have a supportive network that can help you during challenging times? If not, what steps can you take to build such a community, whether through life groups, serving, or other means? [36:40]
6. How can you actively pray for your leaders, both those you agree with and those you don't? What specific prayers can you offer for them this week? [09:35]
7. Identify one person in your life who holds different political views. How can you engage them in a respectful and loving conversation this week, aiming to understand their perspective better? [18:34]

Devotional

Day 1: The Importance of Rest and Community

Taking time to disconnect and engage in restful activities, like fly fishing, can be incredibly therapeutic. It allows us to pour out stress and be filled with community and rest, which are essential for our well-being. In our fast-paced world, it's easy to overlook the importance of rest and community. However, these elements are crucial for maintaining our mental, emotional, and spiritual health. Engaging in activities that allow us to unwind and connect with others can provide a much-needed respite from the stresses of daily life. This time of rest and community not only rejuvenates us but also strengthens our relationships and deepens our sense of belonging.

In the context of faith, rest and community are not just optional extras but essential components of a healthy spiritual life. Jesus Himself often withdrew to solitary places to pray and rest, setting an example for us to follow. By prioritizing rest and community, we create space for God to work in our lives, refresh our spirits, and build meaningful connections with others. Whether it's through a retreat, a hobby, or simply spending time with loved ones, finding ways to rest and engage in community is vital for our overall well-being. [03:28]

Psalm 23:1-3 (ESV): "The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake."

Reflection: What is one activity you can engage in this week that will allow you to rest and connect with others? How can you make this a regular part of your routine?


Day 2: Engaging in Civil Discourse

In a heated political climate, it's crucial to engage in conversations with charity and kindness. Political violence has no place in our society, and as followers of Jesus, we must strive to listen well and speak with grace, even when we disagree. The current political climate can often feel divisive and hostile, making it challenging to engage in meaningful conversations. However, as followers of Jesus, we are called to a higher standard of discourse. Engaging in civil discourse means approaching conversations with a spirit of humility, seeking to understand rather than to be understood, and treating others with respect and kindness, even when we disagree.

This approach to conversation is not just about being polite; it's about embodying the love and grace of Christ in our interactions. By listening well and speaking with grace, we can create an environment where true dialogue can happen, and where differences can be navigated with respect and understanding. In doing so, we become peacemakers in a world that desperately needs peace. [06:49]

James 1:19-20 (ESV): "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God."

Reflection: Think of a recent conversation where you disagreed with someone. How could you have approached it with more charity and kindness? What steps can you take to improve your civil discourse in the future?


Day 3: Understanding God's Sovereignty

God's sovereignty encompasses both His perfect will and permissive will. This means that even in our suffering and challenges, God is in control and can use all circumstances for His greater purpose. Understanding God's sovereignty can be challenging, especially when we face difficult or painful situations. However, recognizing that God is in control, even in the midst of our suffering, can provide a sense of peace and hope. God's perfect will refers to His ultimate plan and purpose, while His permissive will allows for human free will and the consequences that come with it.

Even when we don't understand why certain things happen, we can trust that God is working all things together for His greater purpose. This understanding helps us navigate the complexities of life with faith and trust in God's plan. It reminds us that our suffering is not in vain and that God can use even the most challenging circumstances for our good and His glory. [11:54]

Isaiah 55:8-9 (ESV): "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."

Reflection: Reflect on a challenging situation you are currently facing. How can you trust in God's sovereignty and believe that He is working for your good, even if you don't understand the situation fully?


Day 4: The Hope Beyond Suffering

The Apostle Paul teaches that our present sufferings are not worth comparing to the glory that awaits us. This perspective encourages us to persevere through trials, knowing that God is working in our waiting and that our ultimate hope lies in the restoration of all things. Suffering is an inevitable part of life, but as believers, we have a hope that transcends our present circumstances. The Apostle Paul reminds us that the glory that awaits us far outweighs any suffering we experience in this life. This eternal perspective can provide comfort and encouragement as we navigate the trials and challenges of life.

Knowing that God is working in our waiting and that our ultimate hope lies in the restoration of all things can help us persevere through difficult times. It reminds us that our suffering is temporary and that God has a greater plan and purpose for our lives. This hope can sustain us and give us the strength to endure, knowing that our present sufferings are not the end of the story. [21:22]

2 Corinthians 4:16-18 (ESV): "So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal."

Reflection: How can you shift your focus from your present sufferings to the eternal glory that awaits you? What practical steps can you take to remind yourself of this hope in your daily life?


Day 5: Building a Supportive Community

Faith is a team sport, and having a strong community is essential, especially during challenging times. Whether through life groups, serving, or simply spending time with others, building relationships that can support and challenge us is crucial for our spiritual growth. In the journey of faith, we are not meant to walk alone. Building a supportive community is vital for our spiritual growth and well-being. A strong community provides encouragement, accountability, and support, especially during challenging times. Whether it's through life groups, serving together, or simply spending time with others, these relationships can help us grow in our faith and navigate the ups and downs of life.

Being part of a community also allows us to support and encourage others, creating a network of mutual care and love. In a world that often feels disconnected and isolated, building a supportive community can provide a sense of belonging and purpose. It reminds us that we are part of something bigger than ourselves and that we have a role to play in the body of Christ. [36:40]

Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV): "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near."

Reflection: What steps can you take to build or strengthen your community? How can you be intentional about supporting and encouraging others in your faith community?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We have a choice, I think, as followers of Jesus, to hopefully engage in this. We may not be able to change the national political platform. We may not be able to fix a national convention of one party or the other. But I think in the way we talk about this, we can be more precise in the words that we say. We can be more charitable with whom we disagree." [08:18] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "We want to view our politics through the lens of our faith. And then informed by that, we vote our conscience, but nobody's named Jesus other than Jesus himself. And so, we have to be careful not to turn our person that we're voting for into Jesus. And we have to be careful not to turn the person we're voting against into the devil, because I think that's exactly what the enemy of our souls would want us to do." [09:35] (71 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "We live in a world that's groaning. We live in a world that's longing. Even our own soul is telling us that. Like we can just feel it. And to be able to have people around you that help you discern the difference between what I want right now and what I need long term can hold us accountable when we start to get off track, can be with us when the world falls apart." [36:40] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "I think this idea of like, did God save a former president Trump? I think, again, my question back would be. The alternative to God being sovereign over that situation and providentially preserving his life, is that God was surprised by it, right? But I think by the same token, you have to say, if God was sovereign over the bullet going by president Trump, was he sovereign over the bullet going into that retired fire chief?" [16:23] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "We are the only created being by God with an agency of choice. Like we're the only ones that don't get it, that there's a creator beyond us. The rest of them are instinctively agonizing for the sake that the world is not working the way that it was designed to work. And hopefully in the middle of that, right, a sense of hope to be able to say, there is a delay. It's not where I want it to be today." [23:49] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "I think that it's very easy to lead out of a place of fear. And so this place of like, Hey, if they win, then this awful unthinkable end of the world event is going to happen. No, no, if they win, then this unthinkable, awful end of the world is going to happen. And I think it's really actually helpful for me at Menlo to talk to people, men and women who have been following Jesus for decades." [08:18] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "We talked about this idea that God is working in our waiting, that as we're waiting, we feel like, God, are you listening? Do you care? God is doing all this stuff, just like he waited for the right and perfect time to bring Jesus about. He's waiting for the right and perfect time to restore all of heaven and all of earth." [22:22] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "I think we have to be careful. Like if you're somebody that the political figure we're talking about, whether it's former president Trump or someone else, and you're going, well, God can't use that person. I would say be careful because whether it's the Roman empire or, you know, at the time Nero or it's, you know, we go back to Pharaoh or it's Nebuchadnezzar, like there are all these examples throughout the scriptures where God uses even imperfect, broken, evil leaders, for a purpose that they don't even realize like that's definitively happening." [15:19] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "We talked about this idea that God is working in our waiting, that as we're waiting, we feel like, God, are you listening? Do you care? God is doing all this stuff, just like he waited for the right and perfect time to bring Jesus about. He's waiting for the right and perfect time to restore all of heaven and all of earth." [22:22] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "I think that a lot of times what we want to do is we want to write people's future script. So we want to say like, well, let's talk about how God might use this in your life. And I just think that I think that that is often well intentioned, but people are both not ready to hear it most of the time. And I think it can feel really dismissive because like we're probably talking to them about something that maybe either we aren't experiencing." [30:25] (26 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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