Fathers: Embracing the Call to Spiritual Leadership

Devotional

Day 1: The Call to Diligently Teach God’s Word in the Home

God calls fathers to intentionally and persistently teach His commandments to their children, not as a one-time event but as a daily, all-encompassing rhythm of life. This teaching is to be woven into every part of the day—when sitting at home, walking along the way, lying down, and rising up—so that God’s Word becomes the foundation of the family’s thoughts, actions, and routines. The goal is not mere outward compliance, but a deep, heart-level transformation that shapes the entire household. Fathers are to see themselves as spiritual leaders, sharpening their children’s hearts with the truth, just as a blade is sharpened with repeated, careful strokes, so that the Word of God penetrates and transforms. [38:20]

Deuteronomy 6:6-9 (ESV)
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

Reflection: What is one specific way you can intentionally bring God’s Word into your family’s daily routine today—whether through conversation, prayer, or a visible reminder in your home?

Day 2: The Transforming Power of God’s Word

God’s Word is not just a set of rules but a living force that revives the soul, brings wisdom, and brings joy to the heart. When fathers and families immerse themselves in Scripture, it has the power to convert, restore, and enlighten, making the simple wise and the weary joyful. The Word of God is more desirable than gold and sweeter than honey, and it is the means by which God brings true life and transformation to individuals and households. Fathers are called to trust in the sufficiency and power of God’s Word to do what only it can do—change hearts and lives from the inside out. [48:25]

Psalm 19:7-8 (ESV)
The law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul;
the testimony of the Lord is sure, making wise the simple;
the precepts of the Lord are right, rejoicing the heart;
the commandment of the Lord is pure, enlightening the eyes.

Reflection: In what area of your life or your family’s life do you most need the reviving, enlightening power of God’s Word today, and how can you open yourself to it?

Day 3: Leading with Humility and Dependence on Grace

The weight of spiritual leadership can feel overwhelming, especially for those who have not inherited a strong spiritual legacy. Yet, God’s grace is always available—there is forgiveness for past failures and power to walk in newness of life. Fathers (and all believers) are called to come confidently to the throne of grace, not only to receive mercy but also to find strength and empowerment for the task at hand. True change and faithful leadership come not from self-effort, but from humble dependence on Christ, our great High Priest, who sympathizes with our weaknesses and provides all we need. [01:08:19]

Hebrews 4:14-16 (ESV)
Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

Reflection: Where do you feel most inadequate or discouraged in your spiritual leadership, and how can you bring that honestly to God’s throne of grace today?

Day 4: The Example of Josiah—Renewal Through God’s Word

Even when handed a legacy of spiritual neglect or idolatry, it is possible to begin anew by seeking God and returning to His Word. King Josiah, though young and without a godly fatherly example, sought the Lord, tore down idols, and, upon rediscovering the Book of the Law, led his people in covenant renewal and true worship. The recovery and application of God’s Word brought transformation not only to Josiah but to an entire nation. No matter your background or past, God’s Word is sufficient to guide, correct, and renew your family and your life. [01:05:44]

2 Chronicles 34:31-33 (ESV)
And the king stood in his place and made a covenant before the Lord, to walk after the Lord and to keep his commandments and his testimonies and his statutes, with all his heart and all his soul, to perform the words of the covenant that were written in this book. Then he made all who were present in Jerusalem and in Benjamin join in it. And the inhabitants of Jerusalem did according to the covenant of God, the God of their fathers. And Josiah took away all the abominations from all the territory that belonged to the people of Israel and made all who were present in Israel serve the Lord their God. All his days they did not turn away from following the Lord, the God of their fathers.

Reflection: What “idols” or unhelpful patterns might you need to tear down in your life or home, and what is one step you can take today to replace them with God’s truth?

Day 5: The Heart of Discipleship—Loving God with All You Are

At the core of God’s call is not just outward obedience, but a wholehearted love for Him that encompasses every part of who you are—heart, soul, and strength. This love is to be the foundation of all discipleship and spiritual leadership, shaping not only what you do but who you are. God desires that His commands be written on your heart, integrating your intellect, will, and emotions, so that your actions and words flow from genuine devotion. This is the heart of true discipleship: loving God fully and leading others to do the same. [44:00]

Deuteronomy 6:4-6 (ESV)
Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart.

Reflection: In what practical way can you express your love for God with your whole heart, soul, and strength today—especially in front of those you influence?

Sermon Summary

Today, we gathered to reflect on the profound calling and responsibility that God has placed upon fathers, especially in the context of our families and covenant community. We began by singing “Great Is Thy Faithfulness,” reminding ourselves that God’s steadfast love and mercy are the foundation for all we do. On this Father’s Day, we considered not only the unique role of earthly fathers but also the way all men in the church are called to spiritual fatherhood, influencing and shaping the next generation.

We explored Deuteronomy 6, a foundational passage where God commands His people to love Him with all their heart, soul, and might, and to diligently teach His commandments to their children. This is not a superficial or merely outward obedience, but a call to have God’s Word saturate the very core of our being—our hearts, which in Hebrew thought is the seat of intellect, will, and emotion. The task of fathers is to impress these truths upon their children, not through occasional instruction, but through constant, intentional, and repeated engagement—like sharpening a blade with careful, consistent strokes.

We also addressed common objections: that such diligence is legalistic, that it’s only for ancient Israel, or that it’s futile if our children are not yet believers. Yet, Scripture shows that God’s Word is the means by which hearts are changed, and that these commands are reaffirmed by Jesus and Paul for all believers. The goal is not mere moralism or outward conformity, but true transformation—a heart that loves God and a life shaped by His Word.

We looked to the example of King Josiah, who, despite inheriting a legacy of idolatry, responded to the rediscovery of God’s law with repentance and reform. His story reminds us that no matter our background, the recovery and application of God’s Word can bring renewal to our families and communities.

Finally, we acknowledged the weight of this calling. It is not something we can fulfill in our own strength. We are invited to draw near to the throne of grace, where forgiveness and empowering grace are found in Christ. As we fix our eyes on Jesus, the perfect Son who obeyed His Father, we are equipped to lead our children and those entrusted to us.

Key Takeaways

1. The Heart of Discipleship Is Transformation, Not Performance God’s command to fathers is not about outward compliance or legalistic routines, but about saturating the heart—the control center of our being—with His Word. True discipleship begins when God’s truth penetrates our intellect, will, and emotions, leading to genuine love for Him and authentic living. This transformation is the foundation for all spiritual leadership in the home. [45:59]
2. Diligence in Teaching Requires Intentionality and Repetition The call to “teach diligently” is likened to sharpening a blade: it demands repeated, precise, and forceful effort. Fathers are to engage their children with God’s Word throughout daily life, not just in formal moments. This kind of intentional discipleship shapes not only knowledge but character, preparing children to stand firm in a world full of competing voices. [50:56]
3. Superficial Religion Misses the Heart of God’s Commands It is possible to become so focused on outward displays of piety—like the Pharisees with their phylacteries—that we miss the deeper intent of God’s law. True obedience is not about ritual or appearance, but about integrating God’s truth into our actions, thoughts, and routines, so that every aspect of life is shaped by His wisdom. [56:45]
4. No Spiritual Heritage Is Too Broken for God’s Renewal King Josiah’s story demonstrates that even those with a legacy of spiritual neglect or idolatry can experience renewal through God’s Word. When we humble ourselves, seek God, and respond to His truth, He can bring transformation to us and those we lead, regardless of our past. The rediscovery and application of Scripture is the catalyst for lasting change. [64:30]
5. Grace Empowers Where Duty Overwhelms The weight of spiritual leadership can feel crushing, but we are not left to our own resources. At the throne of grace, we find both forgiveness for our failures and power to walk in newness of life. Christ, our great High Priest, sympathizes with our weaknesses and supplies the strength we need to fulfill our calling as fathers and spiritual leaders.

** [68:19]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[27:38] - Great Is Thy Faithfulness
[30:48] - Opening Prayer and Father’s Day Greeting
[31:27] - The Unique Role of Fathers
[32:41] - This Message Is for Everyone
[33:20] - The Weight of Responsibility
[34:37] - God’s Patriarchal Design
[35:52] - The Gospel and the Order of the Family
[37:02] - Deuteronomy 6: The Blueprint for Discipleship
[39:36] - Addressing Common Objections
[42:02] - Parallels with the Constitution
[43:17] - Loving God with All Your Heart
[45:59] - The Heart as the Control Center
[50:56] - Diligent Teaching: Sharpening the Blade
[56:45] - Avoiding Superficial Religion
[58:44] - Seizing Teachable Moments
[59:58] - The Example of King Josiah
[68:19] - Grace and Empowerment in Christ
[70:15] - Closing Prayer and Benediction
[71:39] - Closing Song and Dismissal

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

Deuteronomy 6:1-9 — - Psalm 19:7-14
- 2 Chronicles 34:1-4, 14-21, 31-33

Observation Questions

In Deuteronomy 6:4-9, what specific instructions does God give to parents, and how are they supposed to teach their children?
According to Psalm 19:7-8, what are some of the effects of God’s Word on a person’s life?
What actions did King Josiah take when he discovered the Book of the Law in 2 Chronicles 34?
The sermon compared teaching children to sharpening a blade. What does this analogy suggest about the process of discipleship? [[50:56]]

Interpretation Questions

The sermon emphasized that God’s command is for His Word to be “on your heart,” not just in your mind. Why is this distinction important for spiritual leadership in the home? [[45:59]]
Why do you think the process of teaching children God’s Word is described as “diligent” and “intentional,” rather than occasional or casual? [[50:56]]
King Josiah did not have a godly father or grandfather, yet he led a spiritual renewal. What does this suggest about the possibility of change in families with broken spiritual backgrounds? [[01:04:30]]
The sermon addressed the fear of legalism and the feeling of being overwhelmed by the responsibility of spiritual leadership. How does the concept of grace, as described in Hebrews 4, change the way we approach this calling? [[01:08:19]]

Application Questions

The sermon said that the “heart” in Hebrew thought is the control center of our being—intellect, will, and emotions. Which area (thinking, feeling, choosing) do you find hardest to saturate with God’s Word, and why? [[45:59]]
Think about your daily routines. What is one practical way you could more intentionally talk about God’s Word with your children or those you influence, not just during “devotions” but in everyday moments? [[38:20]]
The analogy of sharpening a blade was used to describe teaching children. Is there an area where you have been passive or inconsistent in spiritual leadership? What would it look like to be more intentional and consistent? [[50:56]]
The sermon warned against superficial religion—doing things for appearance rather than true transformation. Are there any spiritual habits in your life that have become more about routine than about loving God? How could you renew them? [[56:45]]
King Josiah responded to God’s Word with repentance and action, even though he inherited a legacy of idolatry. Is there a “legacy” in your family (good or bad) that you feel called to continue or change? What first step could you take? [[01:04:30]]
The weight of spiritual leadership can feel overwhelming. When you feel inadequate or discouraged, what would it look like for you to “draw near to the throne of grace” this week? [[01:08:19]]
The sermon said that all men in the church are called to spiritual fatherhood, not just biological fathers. Who is one person (child, teen, or younger believer) you could intentionally encourage or disciple this month? [[32:41]]

Sermon Clips

The reality is this god created the world to be patriarchal which means father ruled now if you're in a habit like I am to binge Charlie Kirk videos from time to time you will see how the world how this worldview is hated in our culture particularly on college campuses. [00:35:58]

The reason men wrote the Bible is not because women were oppressed it was because God the father revealed the word to men and fathers this is what God has revealed to us in his word and we can see that the deviation from this order only serves to create more confusion, chaos and sin. [00:36:50]

While obedience to the law was a condition for the land blessing these principles reflect the moral and covenantal heart of God's law which Jesus repeats in Mark 12:30 "And you shall love the Lord your God." Right and in Ephesians 6:4 fathers do not provoke your children today but bring them up in the discipline instruction of the Lord. [00:40:57]

The reality of this passage I believe is straightforward and clear and it applies to us even today now let's look at the passage starting verses 1-3 uh these first three verses are sort of like a preamble to the covenant commands for Israel uh they give an overview of the purpose of the commands and the results if obeyed. [00:41:40]

If we know how to look to our constitution and say it is good we need to defend this because we love liberty well fathers how much more do we need to look to this text in Deuteronomy and see God's foundational truths that transcend national prosperity if you can look to the Constitution and say it is good how much more should you look to God's word here and say it is good and I must do what it says. [00:42:46]

You were created to love and enjoy God with every faculty of your human being including the strength that you have nothing is left out of this equation god is perfectly wise he knows the sinful heart of man and leaves no room for our excuses verse six says "These words which I am commanding you today shall be on your heart." [00:43:45]

In Hebrew thought the heart is the control center of the person it is where the intellect the will and the emotion sit consider these verses to see that the heart includes thinking understanding emotion and will proverbs 23:7 "For as he thinks within himself heart so he is he says to you. [00:46:18]

God is commanding fathers to impress these commandments of God onto their own hearts onto every faculty of their human being and likewise onto their hearts of their own children but you say sorry one might say I thought only God can change hearts are you suggesting that we can change our kids' hearts no I'm not. [00:47:27]

The law of the Lord is perfect restoring the soul the testimony of the Lord is sure making wise the simple the precepts of the Lord are right rejoicing the heart the commandment of the Lord is pure enlightening the eyes listen to what Charles Spurgeon says he says "The law of the Lord is perfect converting the soul nothing ever touched the soul like the word of God it comes home to the conscience and the heart it is the power of God unto salvation." [00:48:31]

Sharpening also requires precision and intens intensity sharpening is an intentional and forceful act it's not passive and haphazard uh when I remember I used sharpen chainsaws and I would just you know I would make as many passes for each tooth as I wanted really wasn't paying attention go out there cut a log what happens curves it curves right you're going to miss it you're going to you're not going to be able to make a straight cut. [00:51:29]

The answer while it's good to recognize you know what I need to spend I need to take my kids out of public school and I'm not whatever you want to take them out you can't take them out and just not do anything with them they're s they have they're little sinners they have sinful hearts they need to be sharpened intentionally forcefully right with uh with with these verses and the strength of God in in your heart and mind. [00:53:58]

The goal of teaching is for God's word to penetrate the heart of the child it's meant for transformation not easy belieism moralism or a superficial lesson that is easily forgotten now can this type of sharpening happen in two hours a week at church how about five minutes in the morning and five and you shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up. [00:54:32]

Your hand represents your actions your labor and your conduct frontlets between your eyes and forehead represent your thoughts your worldview and your intellectual focus your entire perspective on life must be filtered through the lens of scripture there is an intentionality behind this command to write down God's commands wherever you are doing life. [00:57:09]

When your son asks you in time to come saying "What do the testimonies and the statutes and the judgment mean when the Lord our God commanded you?" Guys here is the evidence that the process is working your children are not asking you about these truths and you are inculcating that you are inculcating into them so when this happens when this happens drop what you are doing and seize that opportunity to share the goodness of God's wisdom with them. [00:58:34]

Some of us have been handed down a legacy from our fathers that is great we've been discipled by them intentionally and have been given the high ground in this fight others have not been shown how to do this you have been discipled in the ways of the world okay and so hearing a sermon like this and feeling the weight of this responsibility can leave us hopefully challenged and inspired but more than likely due to the nature of our of sin and our relationships and whatever your situation is and your upbringing it can make you feel overwhelmed discouraged and perhaps lost like where do I begin. [01:00:32]

What an example for any father despite his ungodly ancestry the recovery of God's word was enough to transform the nation the same can happen for you and your family now this is a weighty task for us fathers these truths if they are to be taken seriously will require some serious humility. [01:06:52]

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