Ezekiel 37 gives the frame for a family’s darkest days: God brings Ezekiel into a valley full of bones, completely dried out, and asks, “Can these bones live?” The valley tells the truth about despair. God does not ask Ezekiel to pretend the bones are not dead. Yet God sees more than death. God sees a people who can receive flesh, breath, life, and stand up as a great army.
The wound of rejection planted itself early in Chris’s life. Church and family gave him love, praise, and belonging, but school gave him “ditch Chris,” loneliness, and the feeling that faith was the thing making him different. The hunger to be accepted drove him to hide who he was, run with the wrong people, and build a double life. Success in design, money, big brands, nightclubs, cocaine, and hundreds of so called friends made life look awesome from the outside, but ice stripped everything away.
Despair hit the family when the truth came out: addiction, huge fines, warrants, and a son slipping further away. God met that collapse with the question from Ezekiel and with a simple song that became a prayer for years: “Bring him home.” God called the family to face the reality without surrendering to what reality appeared to say. The gold in Chris had to be seen beneath the disappointment, lies, pain, and shame.
The word of God also had to be spoken. God could have raised the bones without Ezekiel, but God chose to put Ezekiel in the redemption story by giving him words to say. Prayer and prophecy were not hocus pocus or abracadabra. God’s word, spoken in faith, kept declaring life over a son who could barely see any life in himself.
Shame kept Chris looking through the rearview mirror at what he once had, until even he was playing “ditch Chris” on his own. God heard a desperate prayer in a dingy room and led him into rehab, a hospital for broken people. The worship, Scripture, and steady work of the Holy Spirit brought him to surrender his life to Jesus. God restored what addiction had ruined: freedom, family, calling, marriage, fatherhood, and a life serving the kingdom.
The Father still says, “Come home,” to prodigals, to the brokenhearted praying for them, and to every person who has wandered down a dark path. God remains the rescuer, restorer, and rebuilder.
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Key Takeaways
- 1. See the gold beneath the ruins God does not ask people to deny the terrible reality in front of them. God asks them to see that reality through His eyes, where dry bones are not beyond His breath and a broken child is not beyond His reach. Faith makes room for grief while refusing to make grief the final word. [16:58]
- 2. Speak God’s words into darkness God gave Ezekiel words to speak because God wanted him involved in the redemption story. Prayer is not a way of controlling outcomes, but it is a way of standing with God’s promise when human strength has run out. The word and the breath of the Holy Spirit bring life where people cannot yet see change. [21:12]
- 3. Shame makes people hide from love Chris did not push his family away because he did not need them. Shame convinced him that being fully known would mean being finally rejected. The Father’s love breaks that lie by receiving people not after they clean themselves up, but when they finally come home. [23:33]
- 4. God restores more than survival The family initially hoped only for freedom from drugs and a return to Jesus. God brought restoration that reached into relationships, calling, marriage, fatherhood, creativity, and service. The years the locusts have eaten do not limit the kind of future God can build.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:26] - A Story of Addiction and Hope
- [00:48] - Can These Bones Live?
- [01:49] - Hope in a Dark Place
- [05:04] - Chris’s Early Family Life
- [07:06] - Rejection and the Double Life
- [09:15] - Success, Nightclubs, and Cocaine
- [11:20] - Ice Addiction Takes Everything
- [12:25] - A Family Learns the Truth
- [15:58] - Seeing What God Sees
- [20:52] - Speaking What God Says
- [26:32] - The Decision to Enter Rehab
- [28:09] - God Meets Chris in Rehab
- [30:36] - Surrendering Life to Jesus
- [32:49] - Rescuer, Restorer, and Rebuilder
- [35:15] - Prayer for Prodigals to Come Home
- [36:43] - The Father’s Invitation to Return