Faithful Service: Embracing Our God-Given Ministry
Summary
Sometimes, we overlook the personal greetings and details in Paul’s letters, thinking they are irrelevant to us. Yet, when we look closer, these passages are rich with lessons about serving God faithfully. In Colossians 4:17, Paul tells the church to say to Archippus, “Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it.” This simple instruction carries a profound call for every believer: to recognize that our ministry is not our own, but a trust from God, and to fulfill it with faithfulness and diligence.
Archippus, though only briefly mentioned in the New Testament, is called a “fellow soldier,” reminding us that serving God requires focus and dedication, just as a soldier seeks to please his commanding officer. We are all called to serve, not just pastors or church leaders. Ministry is not confined to church walls; it extends to our workplaces, families, and communities. Each of us has been given unique gifts, talents, and skills—some natural, some spiritual—that God intends for us to use in building up others and making disciples.
To discern our calling, we can remember the acronym CALL: Confirmation from others, Abilities, Longing, and Lifestyle. When others affirm our service, when we use our God-given abilities, when we find joy in serving, and when it fits our life’s pattern, we can sense God’s direction. But discovering our ministry also requires action—trying, failing, and learning. God does not waste any experience; even our failures can be used for His glory.
Faithfulness is key. Like Tychicus and Epaphras, who were described as faithful and fervent in their service, we are called to be consistent and to work hard, even when it is painful or unrecognized. Ministry is often agonizing, but it is also deeply rewarding, especially as we see others grow in Christ. The story of Mark, who once deserted Paul but was later restored and became useful again, reminds us that failure is not final. God can redeem our past and use us powerfully if we return to Him.
On the other hand, Demas, who abandoned the ministry out of love for the world, serves as a warning. The greatest heartaches in ministry often come from those who turn away. Yet, the call remains: take heed, pay attention, and fulfill the ministry God has given you—not for the approval of people, but to bring joy to God, who has already accepted us by His grace.
Key Takeaways
- Every believer is entrusted with a unique ministry from the Lord, not just pastors or church leaders. This calling is not about personal ambition but about stewardship—recognizing that what we do is for God and we are accountable to Him. Our ministry extends beyond church walls into every area of life, wherever God has placed us. [04:03]
- Discerning God’s calling involves listening to the confirmation of others, recognizing our God-given abilities, following our deep longings, and observing our lifestyle patterns. God often guides us through affirmation, talents, and the things we love and have been doing faithfully. Trying new things and learning from both success and failure are essential steps in discovering where God wants us to serve. [11:27]
- Faithfulness in ministry means doing what God has asked, consistently and with a desire to improve, regardless of recognition or inspection. True faithfulness is seen in those who serve diligently even when no one is watching, seeking to honor God rather than people. This kind of faithfulness is the foundation for fulfilling God’s calling in our lives. [17:25]
- Ministry is often hard and even agonizing, as seen in the example of Epaphras, who labored fervently in prayer for others. Serving God is not for the faint-hearted; it requires perseverance, zeal, and a willingness to endure pain for the sake of others’ growth. Yet, it is through this labor that we help others mature in Christ and, in turn, experience our own spiritual growth. [19:41]
- Failure is not the end in God’s economy. Mark’s journey from failure to restoration shows that God can redeem our mistakes and use us again if we return to Him. Conversely, Demas’ story warns us of the danger of loving the world more than Christ. The challenge is to remain faithful, finish well, and focus on pleasing God, who has already accepted us by His grace. [25:24]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[01:12] - Introduction to Colossians 4:17 and Archippus
[02:23] - Who Was Archippus?
[04:03] - The Call to Serve as God’s Soldiers
[05:13] - Paul’s Fellow Workers: Examples of Service
[06:21] - Serving as Bondservants of Christ
[07:40] - Ministry Beyond Church Walls
[08:41] - “Take Heed”: Focusing on God’s Ministry
[09:51] - The CALL Acronym: Discerning Your Ministry
[11:27] - Talents, Gifts, and Skills in Ministry
[13:21] - Discovering Your Calling Through Action
[15:10] - The Joy of Finding Your Ministry
[17:25] - Faithfulness and Excellence in Service
[18:20] - The Agony and Zeal of Ministry
[19:41] - Enduring Hardship for Others’ Growth
[21:06] - Helping Others Mature in Christ
[22:16] - God’s Strength in Our Service
[23:15] - Mark’s Restoration: From Failure to Faithfulness
[25:24] - Demas: A Warning Against Worldliness
[28:25] - The Pain of Ministry Disappointments
[30:57] - Fulfilling Your Ministry to the End
[31:26] - Encouragement for the Weary Servant
[32:19] - Closing and Final Challenge
Study Guide
Small Group Bible Study Guide: Fulfilling Your God-Given Ministry
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### Bible Reading
- Colossians 4:17
And say to Archippus, “Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it.”
- Philemon 1:1-2
Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother,
To Philemon our beloved friend and fellow laborer,
to the beloved Apphia, Archippus our fellow soldier, and to the church in your house.
- 2 Timothy 4:10
For Demas, because he loved this world, has deserted me and has gone to Thessalonica.
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### Observation Questions
1. In Colossians 4:17, what specific instruction does Paul give to the church regarding Archippus? What does this reveal about how ministry is viewed in the early church?
[[01:12]]
2. How is Archippus described in Philemon 1:2, and what does the term “fellow soldier” suggest about his role and attitude in ministry?
[[02:23]]
3. According to the sermon, what are some of the different ways Paul describes his fellow workers (like Tychicus, Epaphras, Mark, and Demas) in Colossians 4?
[[05:13]]
4. What reason does Paul give for Demas leaving the ministry in 2 Timothy 4:10, and how does this contrast with the examples of faithfulness seen in others?
[[28:25]]
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### Interpretation Questions
1. The instruction to “take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord” implies a sense of stewardship. What does it mean for believers to see their ministry as something received from God rather than something they own?
[[08:41]]
2. The sermon introduces the acronym CALL (Confirmation, Abilities, Longing, Lifestyle) as a way to discern one’s calling. How might these four areas help someone discover where God wants them to serve?
[[09:51]]
3. The story of Mark shows someone who failed but was later restored and became useful again. What does this teach about God’s view of failure and restoration in ministry?
[[25:24]]
4. Demas is mentioned as someone who left ministry because he “loved this world.” What are some ways that love for the world can pull someone away from serving God, and why is this such a serious warning?
[[28:25]]
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon says that “every believer is entrusted with a unique ministry from the Lord, not just pastors or church leaders.” What is one area outside of church walls (workplace, family, community) where you sense God might be calling you to serve? What would it look like to “take heed” in that area this week?
[[07:40]]
2. Using the CALL acronym (Confirmation, Abilities, Longing, Lifestyle), which of these do you most clearly see in your own life right now? Is there an area where you need to seek more clarity or take a step of faith to try something new?
[[09:51]]
3. The sermon highlights that faithfulness means serving even when no one is watching or recognizing your efforts. Can you think of a time when you served faithfully but felt unnoticed? How did you respond, and what would it look like to keep serving for God’s approval rather than people’s?
[[17:25]]
4. Ministry is described as sometimes “agonizing” and requiring perseverance, like Epaphras who “labored fervently in prayer.” Is there a ministry or relationship in your life right now that feels hard or discouraging? How can you persevere and find encouragement to keep going?
[[19:41]]
5. Mark’s story shows that failure is not final and that God can restore and use us again. Is there a past failure or disappointment in serving God that still affects you? What would it look like to bring that to God and allow Him to use you again?
[[25:24]]
6. Demas left ministry because he loved the world. Are there specific distractions, comforts, or ambitions in your life that might be pulling you away from serving God wholeheartedly? What practical step can you take this week to “take heed” and refocus on your calling?
[[28:25]]
7. The sermon ends by reminding us that God has already accepted us by His grace, so we serve to bring joy to God, not to earn His approval. How does this truth change your motivation for serving? Is there an area where you need to let go of seeking people’s approval and focus on pleasing God?
[[31:26]]
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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Ask God to help each person in the group recognize and fulfill the ministry He has entrusted to them, to serve faithfully, and to find joy in pleasing Him above all.
Devotional
Day 1: Take Heed to the Ministry Entrusted by the Lord
God calls every believer to pay close attention to the ministry He has entrusted to them, reminding us that it is not our own work but His, and we are accountable to Him for how we fulfill it. Whether your ministry is within the church or in your daily life, you are called to serve faithfully, knowing that God Himself has given you this responsibility. The call is not just for pastors or leaders, but for every follower of Christ—each one is saved to serve, and each ministry, no matter how small, matters in God’s kingdom. Take heed, focus, and fulfill what God has given you, trusting that He will provide the wisdom and strength needed to obey. [02:23]
Colossians 4:17 (ESV)
"And say to Archippus, 'See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord.'"
Reflection: What specific ministry or responsibility has God placed in your life right now, and how can you intentionally focus on fulfilling it this week?
Day 2: Faithfulness and Hard Work in Serving God
To fulfill God’s ministry, faithfulness is essential—doing what you are called to do consistently, even when no one is watching, and striving to improve in your service. Serving the Lord is not always easy; it often involves hard work, perseverance, and even pain, as seen in the example of Epaphras who labored fervently in prayer for others. Ministry is not for the lazy or faint-hearted, but for those willing to work diligently for the growth and maturity of others in Christ. True faithfulness means pressing on, not for human approval, but to please the Lord who called you. [18:20]
Colossians 1:28-29 (ESV)
"Him we proclaim, warning everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present everyone mature in Christ. For this I toil, struggling with all his energy that he powerfully works within me."
Reflection: In what area of your service to God do you need to grow in faithfulness or diligence, and what is one step you can take today to improve?
Day 3: Discovering and Using Your God-Given Gifts
Every believer is uniquely gifted by God with talents, spiritual gifts, and skills, which are to be discovered, developed, and used for the benefit of others and the building up of the church. God does not waste any experience, and often reveals your calling through confirmation from others, your abilities, your passions, and your lifestyle. Don’t be afraid to try new things in service, even if it means learning by process of elimination; God honors faithfulness in small things and will entrust you with more as you grow. Remember, your gifts are not for criticism or self-promotion, but to edify and bless others in the body of Christ. [13:21]
1 Peter 4:10 (ESV)
"As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace."
Reflection: What is one talent, gift, or skill you have that you can intentionally use to serve others this week?
Day 4: Restoration and Perseverance After Failure
Even those who have failed or given up in ministry, like John Mark, can be restored and become useful again in God’s service; your past does not disqualify you from fulfilling your calling. God’s grace allows for new beginnings, and the stories of Mark and Archippus encourage anyone who feels discouraged or tempted to quit. Rather than being defined by failure, you are invited to return, persevere, and become a blessing in the ministry God has given you. The journey may be difficult, but God delights in restoring and using those who are willing to come back and serve. [25:24]
2 Timothy 4:11 (ESV)
"Luke alone is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is very useful to me for ministry."
Reflection: Is there an area where you have given up or failed in serving God? How can you take a step toward restoration and renewed service today?
Day 5: Guarding Against Distraction and Worldliness
The example of Demas warns us that love for the world and its comforts can lead us away from fulfilling God’s ministry, even after a good start. The pressures and attractions of this life—whether comfort, wealth, or approval—can tempt us to abandon our calling, but we are urged to remain focused and faithful to the end. Rather than seeking the approval of people or the pleasures of the world, let your motivation be to put a smile on God’s face, knowing that by His grace, you are already accepted and loved. Stay vigilant, keep your eyes on Christ, and finish the work He has given you. [28:25]
1 John 2:15-17 (ESV)
"Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever."
Reflection: What worldly distraction or desire most tempts you to neglect your calling, and how can you surrender it to God today?
Quotes
God does not waste an experience. Find out what you are good at and you will get an idea what God wanted you to do. Try something. Do something. By the way, there's no gift of criticism. Wala po. God called me to be the critic. God gave you a gift to benefit others, to edify, build up others. [00:13:22] (28 seconds)
Your deepest hurts can only come from people you love. Your deepest disappointments from the destruction of your deepest hopes. What a bitter pill this was for Paul. I can testify that over years of ministry, the greatest heartaches have not come from enemies, but from those who began so well, who raised my hopes high, only to become lovers of this world rather than lovers of Christ. [00:30:04] (33 seconds)
Don't think of, don't focus on people's approval. God has already approved you by His grace. And therefore, let us work on putting a smile on God's face by fulfilling His ministry. [00:32:03] (17 seconds)
Before Paul deemed him useless, now Paul saw Mark as useful. Before Paul saw him as a deserter, now he saw Mark as someone devoted to the Lord. Before Paul saw Mark as a burden, and now he saw him as a blessing. Before he saw Mark as a failure, now he see him as someone faithful. Paul fulfilling God's ministry. [00:26:44] (30 seconds)
His ministry of prayer for the Colossians caused Epaphras much pain, much pain or stress or distress. It was painful labor because the ministry is never easy. Serving the Lord is always challenging. It is worth it. But we have to work hard for it. That's why it's not for the lazy. It is not for the faint -hearted. [00:20:10] (37 seconds)
In short, don't be a Demas. Be like Mark. Be like Archippus. Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it. Fulfill God's ministry. [00:30:37] (20 seconds)