Faith in Waiting: Embracing God's Timing and Purpose

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why is it that God so often makes us wait on what it is that we are praying for any parent knows uh if you want to raise a good kid you try to gratify their desires as soon as they have them as soon as they express them so what's up with this delay we saw last time that we were looking at PR I hope you get a chance to have seen that video that in Luke chapter 18 Jesus said that he wanted his followers to always be praying and never give up and then there's a couple of stories one about an unjust judge one about a neighbor that just wants to get some sleep but in response to the Persistence of the request they yield now of course part of what Jesus is teaching is God's not like that judge God's not like that neighbor they don't really want to uh help they're just kind of worn down like little kids when we were small we would do this to my mom just tap her over and over mom mom mom mom mom until we wore her down and Jesus is teaching prayer is not like that God's not like that it's not about wearing him down so why does he make his delay [00:00:03]

well obviously there's a lot of mystery to that a lot that's way above my pay grade but I do think there's bits to understand Jesus is inviting us into the ultimate uh relational reality of the Kingdom ask and you'll receive seek and you'll fine knock and the door will be open when people love each other in the kingdom of God we live in relationships where generous giving and humble asking and grateful receiving is the beauty of life I it begins that way within the Trinity I'm living in this beautiful place right now partly because Nance and I asked a couple who are just remarkably generous with us when we needed someplace to be here in the Bay Area and I'm out here right now listening to the birds remembering what Jesus said you know consider the birds of the air your father is giving to them every day he generously provides that's how the world keeps running and he will take care of you [00:01:12]

this is a story that for a long time when I read it just seemed very strange to me and then I read a uh Man by the name of Ken Bailey who's terrific new testament scholar he lived for many years in the Middle East studied Middle Eastern culture and he writes about this in wonderful ways so I'm very indebted to him for this understanding of this passage this is from Matthew chap 15 verse 21 uh Jesus left where he had been teaching and withdrew into the region of Ty and siden now that's quite significant this is outside of Israel outside of the people of God where the Gentiles were people for whom Israel did not have much time but Jesus did Jesus was conly surprising his followers by his compassion and care for Samaritans over and over again and Roman centurions and and making them Heroes when he would preach like in Luke 4 so that's where he is is a Canaanite woman from that vicinity [00:03:06]

now you know the land of Canaan the Canaanites they were kind of the enemies back in the Old Testament day these were not considered good people a Canaanite woman from that vicinity came to him crying out Lord son of David have mercy on me my daughter is demon-possessed and suffering terribly so she is in agony she is crying out to to God now crying out to God through Jesus Jesus did not answer a word that's very strange we know that he is a deeply compassionate person and yet says nothing so his disciples came to him and urged him send her away for she keeps crying out after us now that's a little generous on their part she didn't say anything about wanting them but they uh include themselves in the band of potential helpers and tell Jesus send her away [00:04:02]

Ken Bailey writes here's part of what's going on Jesus is a master teacher and he's actually teaching in two directions at a single time he is working with this woman he is teaching her we'll see more about that as we keep going on through the story he's also teaching his disciples he wants them to understand because he's already taught them quite a lot about caring for Samaritans and centurians and Gentiles and he wants to see Ken Bailey says do they understand yet will any of them recognize this woman's humanity and that she is loved by God and stand up for her so he doesn't say anything to see what they will do and so far they're flunking the test send her away he anwers now she's there but he's responding to his disciples in this moment so he's not turning and facing her yet I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel [00:05:06]

now to the woman this raises the challenge bar uh even higher to his disciples it seems like he's reinforcing their ethnocentricity yeah she's not you know in my baileywick the woman came and knelt before him Lord help me she said and now her anguish and her Humanity are palpably present will the disciples do anything will they say anything will any one of them speak up for her crickets he replied it is not right for me to take the children's bread Israel's and toss it to the dogs now the dogs that was a common term for Gentiles back in the first century Jason softens it a little bit he uses a term for a little dog like a doggy like a dog ATS not right for throw the crumb ATS to the dog ATS he used that harsh term to see how the disciples would respond he softens it a bit for the sake of the woman and again they say nothing so they failed this test rather badly they get an incomplete the good news about being a disciple of Jesus is uh it's never final failure it's an incomplete I get a lot of those [00:06:02]

but the woman responds Jesus says it's not right to take the children's breast and talk toss it to the dogs and and and and you wonder how does she have the courage to stay in this but she does she comes back at him with uh remarkable level of uh like feting almost combative Faith oh yes it is so she's disagreeing with him she's going to teach the teacher this is this is Shameless audacity in prayer yes it is Lord even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their master's table when once again silence none of the disciples respond at all and now finally Jesus responds to her he turns to her and now the mask is off woman you have great faith your request is granted and her daughter was healed at that moment [00:07:28]

so with this woman Jesus initially hides his heart hides his great love there's a book on Story by Robert mcken he writes about how if you're a writer you hold an audience attention not by what you reveal but by the information you withhold and the master teacher knows that as well we often see this with God we see it for example in the strange story of Jacob when he wrestles with the angel of God with the presence of God I will not let you go until you uh you bless me somehow in the wrestling and the struggling and the sparring and the persisting a human being grows in a way that they don't grow if the answer is just simply given right away generally when it comes to prayer when I go to God I'm concerned with my circumstances but again asking is a part of the great relationship God is primarily concerned with my character and our character often grows when we have to battle and struggle we're not sure but we keep persisting and we keep going and this woman walks away from this experience with Jesus with a level of Faith now an understanding of who Jesus is and an understanding of her own ability to Grapple and persist an understanding of the depth of her own faith that she would not have had had it not been this strange kind of tug-of-war between her and Jesus until finally he says okay now you can see me fully [00:08:22]

so the question to ask when we're engaged in the waiting period in prayer is God Is there a way for you want me to respond is there something you want me to do and I want to invite you to uh reflect on that right now we're going to pray right now Our Father who is always near and now tell God again about that concern that you're laying before him each day and I will as well amen and now just ask God and and you can pause for a moment to see are there any steps that I could take to be helpful to this person and I have found this week a couple of quite concrete ones they don't solve the thing that I'm asking for but there are Little Steps where I can be involved to do something positive and that's part of the response of prayer I think about when Jesus was talking to Peter before he was crucified telling Peter that Peter was going to deny him and Jesus says but I have prayed for you now he doesn't fix Peter how often we would just like to fix people the word for that in our day is codependency and enabling and it's a real good thing that we're not able to do that although it's very frustrating uh Jesus prays for Peter doesn't step in and make Peter do the right thing or keep him from doing the wrong thing but he's also not passive not only does he pray he also tells Peter I prayed for you and uh when you are restored strengthen your brothers so there's going to be something for Peter to do Jesus lets him know about that is there anything God's calling you to do and listen and if there is do it make it a golden rule day ask seek and knock [00:09:53]

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