Faith, Forgiveness, and the Power of Community

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"And you may be seated You know, it sounds cliche for a lot of people But I just think it's true that the church is a family We're a church family And we're there for each other You know, the last 29 years that I've been here We've done that for each other Pandemics, floods, hurricanes, freezes Raising kids together Raising grandkids together And we've been there for each other And we've been there for each other And that's what family does And family not only are we there for each other But we celebrate So whenever a newborn or a child comes into a family Either through birth or adoption We wanna celebrate And that's what this dedication is all about Celebrating with each other And saying to our family We've got your back We're gonna be there for you We're gonna pray for you We're gonna lift you up And if you need more, we'll be there as well Because that's what family does." [00:21:42] (55 seconds)


"Next month, a brand new series will begin as we prepare for Resurrection Sunday, Easter Sunday. So, but I hope and pray this has been a series that has spoken to your hearts and lives and to your families. As again, the evolution, if you will, of this series is all about protecting. We said last Sunday, the power and the importance of protecting your family from temptation. And this morning, we're looking at protecting your heart, your family, your marriage, from something that all of us have. Something all of us have dealt with. I have, you have, we all have. And that is the subject of bitterness. Now, you're going, Mark, I'm not a bitter person. I'm not bitter. I understand that at this moment, maybe you're not. But let me just say this. Bitterness can be dormant. Kind of like shingles. Bitterness can be dormant. Kind of like almost maybe like cholesterol. You may be kind of low right now, but if you're not careful, it gets too high, you have a heart problem. The reality is that bitterness is in our hearts and lives if we're not careful." [00:31:29] (59 seconds)


"We all have a sense of bitterness. And if we're not careful, that bitterness will stay there. It'll be dormant. But all you have to do is say that person's name. All you have to do is bring up that subject. All you have to do is bring up that circumstance. All you have to do is see that person show up at a gathering, and you weren't expecting them to be there, and all of a sudden, there they are. And all of a sudden, bitterness begins to come out of you. You start thinking things and saying things and doing things. And here's what we all know. When you are bitter towards people, it breaks the relationship, if you will, with God. Don't ask me how I know that. Bitterness is a reality. Sometimes it's dormant." [00:33:49] (43 seconds)


"Galatians chapter 5 says this, verse 22. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such things, there is no law. Colossians chapter 3, verse 12 says this. And so as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. In some translations, it says long-suffering, bearing with one another and forgiving each other. Whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you." [00:34:10] (41 seconds)


"May the God who inspired these words now speak to us as we look at the power and the importance of protecting our hearts, our marriages, our families, our relationships from bitterness. May we pray. Heavenly Father, pray your blessings upon us. God, I pray that you will bring grace and truth to us. And may our hearts be open to your word as your spirit takes your word and speaks to us. We pray this in Jesus' name." [00:35:26] (30 seconds)


"Sometimes suffering teaches us lessons. And sometimes suffering gives us the grit we need, unlike anything else, to be the leaders that God wants us to be. You know, some of the greatest leaders endured suffering and they later reach the goal set before them. Here's what I know as I read the word of God. The Bible teaches that by faith, many who have suffered, they shut the mouths of lions. And many who suffered quenched the power of the fire. And many who suffered escaped the edge of the sword. And many who suffered overcame giants. And of course, Jesus, in order to pay the price for your sin and for mine, he had to suffer." [00:39:20] (44 seconds)


"Jesus suffered so that we would not suffer in eternity. I've said it before, I'll say it again. If you're a non-believer today, if you're a non-believer watching online, if you're a non-believer, meaning I don't believe in Jesus, I don't believe all this God stuff, okay, just know this. If you're a non-believer, this is as close to heaven as you're ever going to get. If you're a believer in Jesus, if you're a believer, a follower of Yahshua, that's his Hebrew name, if you're a believer in Jesus, this is as close to hell as you're ever going to get. Keep that in mind. Jesus suffered so that we would not suffer for all of eternity." [00:41:09] (43 seconds)


"Recognize this. There can't be a relationship unless the bitterness that's causing the suffering has been addressed. In other words, you cannot be close to a loved one as long as there is pain between the two of you. Note this well. You can't have a relationship without the elements of forgiveness. Again, it is the oil of any relationship. I tell people all the time that confessing and forgiving and repenting is the oil of your relationship. If you don't have it, it is going to break down like oil in a car. Here's an experiment that I don't want you to do, but you know where I'm going. Take the oil out of your engine of your car. See how long it lasts. See how far you go. See how well it drives. So it is with the oil of your relationship. It is all about forgiveness. It is all about confessing. It is all about repenting." [00:55:16] (54 seconds)


"Forgiveness is letting go of the control that another person has over you because as long as you are bitter, that person has control over you. They are all you think about and talk about. I mean, you can be in the beauty part. Let me tell you about this person. I mean, that's who you are. That's what you do. You know, you talk to your friends. Let me tell you what this person did. Let me, they have control over you because you're bitter. Forgiveness also is giving a gift to yourself. You're saying, you know what? I'm moving on. I'm letting go of the stress. It's also forsaking revenge. The word of God says, vengeance is mine, saith the Lord. God will, again, bring the vengeance he sees fit in that situation, leaving, therefore, the ultimate justice on God's, in God's hands. Forgiveness is also an ongoing process. For some, you can forgive, boom, and you're good. For others, forgiveness is a process." [00:56:56] (58 seconds)


"Forgiveness is not denying the sin occurred. It's not denying or diminishing the evil that occurred. It's not enabling sin. It's not enabling a person to do the wrong thing. It's not enabling abuse or addiction or adultery. It's not a response to an apology. You may never get an apology from some people. Next, it's not covering up crimes or immoral behavior. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, hear this loud and clear, sometimes you need to forgive and then call the police. Because forgiveness is not covering up a crime. Sometimes you need to forgive and then call the police. That's okay. Forgiveness is not forgetting. I hear that all the time. Well, I can't forgive and forget. Nobody's asking you to forget. That's a neurological thing. You'll always have that memory, but it doesn't mean you have to always bring it up." [00:58:36] (58 seconds)


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