Faith and Support in Times of Suffering
Summary
### Summary
In today's sermon, we delved into the story of Job, focusing on how to maintain faith when life seems unfair. We began by recounting Job's immense losses: his wealth, his children, his health, and even the support of his wife. Despite these overwhelming trials, Job continued to worship God, demonstrating a profound faith that many of us struggle to maintain in far less dire circumstances.
We then examined the arrival of Job's three friends, who initially provided silent support for seven days. However, when Job finally spoke, expressing his deep anguish and wishing he had never been born, his friends felt compelled to respond. Eliphaz, the first to speak, seemed to have the right moment and the right motive, but his message was a mix of good and bad. He began by acknowledging Job's past role in advising and supporting others, challenging Job to now accept help in his own time of need. This part of Eliphaz's message was insightful, reminding us that everyone, even the strongest among us, will face times when they need to receive support rather than give it.
However, Eliphaz's message took a wrong turn when he implied that Job's suffering was a result of some hidden sin or lack of integrity. This assumption was not only incorrect but also deeply hurtful, as it failed to recognize the complexity of Job's situation and the mysterious ways in which God operates. Eliphaz's error serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of making judgments without full knowledge and the importance of offering unconditional support.
Despite the missteps, Eliphaz ended on a powerful note, emphasizing that God is capable of healing and delivering us from our troubles. This closing message is a crucial reminder that no matter how dire our circumstances, God's power and grace are sufficient to bring us through.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Importance of Silent Support: Job's friends initially provided silent support for seven days, demonstrating the value of simply being present for someone in their time of need. Sometimes, the best way to help is to listen and be there, rather than offering immediate solutions or judgments. [03:33]
2. Receiving Help in Times of Trouble: Eliphaz's initial challenge to Job was to accept help in his time of need, just as he had helped others. This reminds us that everyone, no matter how strong or self-sufficient, will face times when they need to lean on others. It's a humbling but essential part of the human experience. [16:16]
3. The Danger of Assumptions: Eliphaz wrongly assumed that Job's suffering was due to some hidden sin. This serves as a caution against making judgments without full knowledge. We must be careful not to add to someone's pain by making unfounded assumptions about their situation. [22:45]
4. God's Promises Amidst Trouble: Many of God's promises in the Bible were given during times of trouble, not in times of peace. This teaches us that God's promises are meant to sustain us through difficult times, and our current suffering does not negate His promises. [24:17]
5. God's Healing Power: Despite the mixed messages from Eliphaz, he ended with a powerful truth: God is capable of healing and delivering us from our troubles. This is a crucial reminder that no matter how dire our circumstances, God's power and grace are sufficient to bring us through. [34:38]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:40] - Job's Immense Losses
[03:33] - Silent Support of Friends
[06:03] - Job's Anguish and Lament
[08:24] - Right Moment, Motive, and Message
[10:40] - Importance of Timing in Communication
[12:49] - Eliphaz's Motive and Message
[14:29] - Mixed Messages from Eliphaz
[16:16] - Receiving Help in Times of Trouble
[18:30] - Keeping Faith Amidst Failure
[20:48] - The Role of Support and Advice
[22:45] - The Danger of Assumptions
[24:17] - God's Promises Amidst Trouble
[26:00] - Misguided Judgments
[29:03] - Limited Human Understanding
[34:38] - God's Healing Power
[42:06] - Closing Remarks and Invitation
Study Guide
### Bible Reading
1. Job 4:1-4 (ESV): "Then Eliphaz the Temanite answered and said: 'If one ventures a word with you, will you be impatient? Yet who can keep from speaking? Behold, you have instructed many, and you have strengthened the weak hands. Your words have upheld him who was stumbling, and you have made firm the feeble knees.'"
2. Job 5:17-18 (ESV): "Behold, blessed is the one whom God reproves; therefore despise not the discipline of the Almighty. For he wounds, but he binds up; he shatters, but his hands heal."
### Observation Questions
1. What were the initial actions of Job's friends when they first arrived to comfort him? [[03:33]]
2. How did Job express his anguish in Job 3:1-4, and what was his wish? [[06:03]]
3. What was Eliphaz's initial message to Job, and how did he challenge Job? [[15:03]]
4. How did Eliphaz conclude his message to Job, and what did he emphasize about God's power? [[34:38]]
### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is the concept of silent support significant in the context of Job's suffering and his friends' initial actions? [[03:33]]
2. How does Eliphaz's assumption about Job's suffering being due to hidden sin reflect common misconceptions about suffering and righteousness? [[22:45]]
3. What does Eliphaz's final message about God's healing power reveal about the nature of divine intervention in human suffering? [[34:38]]
4. How do the promises of God given during times of trouble, as mentioned in the sermon, provide hope and assurance to believers? [[24:17]]
### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you provided silent support to someone in need. How did it impact them, and what did you learn from that experience? [[03:33]]
2. Have you ever struggled to accept help during your own times of trouble? What steps can you take to be more open to receiving support from others? [[16:16]]
3. Think of a situation where you made an assumption about someone's suffering. How can you approach similar situations in the future with more empathy and less judgment? [[22:45]]
4. How can you remind yourself of God's promises during your own times of trouble? Share a specific promise from the Bible that has encouraged you in difficult times. [[24:17]]
5. In what ways can you be more mindful of the timing and content of your messages when offering support to others? How can you ensure that your words are both timely and compassionate? [[10:40]]
6. How can you cultivate a deeper trust in God's healing power, even when your current circumstances seem dire? Share a personal experience where you witnessed God's intervention. [[34:38]]
7. Identify a person in your life who is currently going through a tough time. What specific actions can you take this week to offer them support and remind them of God's promises? [[26:00]]
Devotional
Day 1: The Power of Presence
Sometimes, the most profound support we can offer is our silent presence. Job's friends initially sat with him in silence for seven days, recognizing that words were inadequate to address his immense suffering. This act of silent solidarity speaks volumes about the importance of simply being there for someone in their time of need. In our fast-paced world, we often feel compelled to offer solutions or advice immediately, but sometimes the best way to help is to listen and be present without judgment or haste. This kind of support can provide immense comfort and strength to those who are suffering. [03:33]
Job 2:13 (ESV): "And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great."
Reflection: Think of someone in your life who is going through a difficult time. How can you offer them silent support this week, simply by being present and listening without trying to fix their problems?
Day 2: Embracing Help in Times of Need
Eliphaz's initial challenge to Job was to accept help in his time of need, just as he had helped others in the past. This reminds us that everyone, no matter how strong or self-sufficient, will face times when they need to lean on others. It is a humbling but essential part of the human experience. Accepting help is not a sign of weakness but a recognition of our shared humanity and interdependence. By allowing others to support us, we also give them the opportunity to express their love and care. [16:16]
Galatians 6:2 (ESV): "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."
Reflection: Reflect on a recent time when you were reluctant to accept help. What held you back? How can you be more open to receiving support from others in the future?
Day 3: Avoiding Unfounded Assumptions
Eliphaz wrongly assumed that Job's suffering was due to some hidden sin, which added to Job's pain. This serves as a caution against making judgments without full knowledge. We must be careful not to add to someone's suffering by making unfounded assumptions about their situation. Instead, we should approach others with empathy and a willingness to understand their unique circumstances. This humility and compassion can prevent us from causing further harm and can foster deeper, more supportive relationships. [22:45]
James 4:12 (ESV): "There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?"
Reflection: Think of a time when you made an assumption about someone's situation. How did it affect your relationship with them? What steps can you take to avoid making such assumptions in the future?
Day 4: Trusting God's Promises in Difficult Times
Many of God's promises in the Bible were given during times of trouble, not in times of peace. This teaches us that God's promises are meant to sustain us through difficult times, and our current suffering does not negate His promises. Instead, these promises are a source of hope and strength, reminding us that God is with us even in our darkest moments. Trusting in God's promises requires faith and patience, but it is through this trust that we can find peace and resilience amidst our trials. [24:17]
Isaiah 43:2 (ESV): "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you."
Reflection: Identify a promise from God that you find particularly comforting. How can you hold onto this promise in your current circumstances, and what practical steps can you take to remind yourself of it daily?
Day 5: Believing in God's Healing Power
Despite the mixed messages from Eliphaz, he ended with a powerful truth: God is capable of healing and delivering us from our troubles. This is a crucial reminder that no matter how dire our circumstances, God's power and grace are sufficient to bring us through. Believing in God's healing power requires faith, especially when we are in the midst of suffering. It is important to remember that God's timing and methods may differ from our expectations, but His love and power are always at work for our good. [34:38]
Psalm 147:3 (ESV): "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
Reflection: Think about an area in your life where you need healing. How can you invite God's healing power into this area, and what steps can you take to trust in His grace and timing?
Quotes
### Quotes for outreach
1. "Have you ever been doing your best but your best just didn't seem to be reaping the kind of harvest and benefits that you thought best effort would give you? We can review for just a moment in chapter 1 we found out that in one day somebody say one day Job lost everything that he had and one day four frightened messengers reported that his 500 yoke of oxen 500 donkeys 3,000 camels were stolen in an enemy raid 7,000 sheep were struck by lightning and killed and all 10 of his children were killed in a windstorm somebody say oh my he lost everything." [01:40] (49 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "When you're walking with someone it's important that you pray for the right moment because if you give the right message in the wrong moment the message will be missed you don't have to say everything right then you don't have to interrupt them while they are releasing whatever's in their own heart in order to give them the message you've got to wait for the right moment." [10:40] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "You've got to trust. Although. You're not getting the results. And the folk are talking about you. You're looking bad. In front of the entire world. On the biggest stage there possibly. Can be. But here's what's funny. Grace got him through to where they didn't need him. And then in the semifinals. If it wasn't for him. You've got. Job. To still stand on faith. Or as the Gen Zers would say. Stand on business. Even when it looks like. Your shots aren't falling. When it seems like. You're going to fail." [19:04] (47 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "As long as you keep the faith. You keep on praying. You keep on trusting. You keep on pressing. Keep on praising. As long as you keep shooting your shot. sure there were many people. While Kerr was slumping. Or I'm sure Kerr was one of them. While Stephen Curry was slumping. Who had to give him. Advice. The greatest shooter. Ever in the history. Of the game. You can argue with me on that if you want to. The greatest shooter. In the world. And in the history. Of the game of basketball. Has to still get. Advice. Still get a message. Still get. Support. From other." [20:11] (65 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "Whatever bruises you have. Whatever pain you're experiencing. Whatever troubles you are facing. God can heal. God can deliver. God can bring you through. What he is saying is. Is that God is bigger. Better and badder. Than your current circumstance. Still in control. That's Job. This is what you need to hear right now. You can cut out everything else. That you hurt. What you need to know. Is that whatever cut you've got. God can heal it up." [35:10] (38 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
### Quotes for members
1. "Each of us. Will venture into seasons. Where we have to practice. What we have preached to other folk. me say that again. It got quiet. All of us will enter into seasons. Where we have to put into practice. What we have preached. Taught. Stood on. And said to other people. And all of a sudden. When you have to apply it. It becomes a whole. Different experience." [16:16] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "What this means is. Even when we look at Malachi. Where God says I'll open up the windows of heaven. And pour you out so many blessings. There shall not be room enough for them. He was speaking that to a people who were in a famine. Here's what this message. Really is. If it's the right message. And not the message that was being delivered. What is happening right now. And what will happen. Are often. In opposition. The promise. Of God. My current reality. May be in direct conflict with. And just because. I'm suffering in an opposite reality. Does not negate. The promise." [24:53] (53 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "There are times in your life Job. Where it is not because of what you've done. Or what you said. Or your past sins. Or your past transgressions. There's this trouble that has showed up in your life. And the hope that Job needs right now. Is not somebody beating him up. Telling him that he did wrong. Telling him that he sinned. But what he needs to hear. Is that your ladder shall be greater. What he needs to hear. Is that God is able. To do exceedingly abundantly above. What he needs to hear. Is that just because you're going through something right now. Does not mean that you still have to go through it tomorrow." [26:00] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "Be careful thinking you know stuff. About folk. Can I say that one more again. Be careful thinking. You know. Stuff about. People. And accept. That only God. Knows everything. And at best. All we know is in part. For we see. Through the mirror. Dimly. As a matter of fact. The Bible says once a man thinks he knows something. He does not yet know as he ought. Whatever I know. I don't really know it like I think I know it. And for them to make the leap. And look at his predicament. And judge him. Without any knowledge. To back it up. Means that then. He contradicted himself." [29:03] (71 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "The old preachers used to say. I don't have a heaven or a hell. To put you in. I am here to preach and teach Jesus. Him crucified. Him buried. Resurrected. Sitting at the right hand of the Father. I am here to encourage. Beg. Plead. And persuade you to receive him. As Lord and Savior. But I believe when the day comes. We're going to be shocked who gets in. And who we don't see. You made it in? Where's our?" [30:50] (37 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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