Faith Amidst Disappointment: Embracing God's Unexpected Gifts

Summary

### Summary

In today's sermon, we delved into the theme of maintaining faith when life seems unfair, drawing from Job 13:20. We began with a story about a young boy named Sammy, who was disappointed when he didn't receive the gift he had eagerly anticipated. Instead, he received a set of wooden blocks, which initially seemed underwhelming. However, as Sammy engaged with the blocks, his imagination transformed them into something far greater than he had expected. This story served as a metaphor for how God sometimes gives us what we need rather than what we want, leading to greater growth and discovery.

We then turned to Job, who experienced profound disappointment. Job's friends failed him, and he felt let down by God despite his faithfulness. Job's story teaches us that life is filled with disappointments, and sometimes our expectations are not met. However, Job's response to his suffering was to turn to God, expressing his pain and seeking deeper understanding rather than superficial comfort.

We explored the concept of "whitewashing" versus "blood-washing." Whitewashing involves covering up the unpleasant truths of our past, while blood-washing, through Christ, allows us to confront and cleanse our sins genuinely. This cleansing is not about hiding our past but about being transformed by God's grace.

Job's friends were likened to "worthless physicians" who failed to diagnose his true condition. This highlights the importance of seeking God's wisdom and understanding rather than relying solely on human counsel. Job's declaration, "Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him," underscores the depth of his faith. Despite his suffering, Job continued to trust in God's ultimate plan.

The sermon concluded with a call to self-reflection and prayer. We were encouraged to focus on our own growth and relationship with God rather than dwelling on the shortcomings of others. By doing so, we can transform our disappointments into opportunities for spiritual growth and deeper faith.

### Key Takeaways

1. Embrace Unexpected Gifts: Just like Sammy's wooden blocks, sometimes God gives us what we need rather than what we want. These unexpected gifts can lead to greater growth and discovery if we engage with them wholeheartedly. Embrace the blocks God has given you and see how they can transform your life. [04:49]

2. Confront Disappointment with Faith: Job's story teaches us that life is filled with disappointments, but our response should be to turn to God. Express your pain and seek deeper understanding rather than superficial comfort. True faith transcends disappointment and holds on to God's unchanging hand. [20:22]

3. Whitewashing vs. Blood-Washing: Whitewashing involves covering up the unpleasant truths of our past, while blood-washing, through Christ, allows us to confront and cleanse our sins genuinely. This cleansing is not about hiding our past but about being transformed by God's grace. [12:27]

4. Seek God's Wisdom: Job's friends were likened to "worthless physicians" who failed to diagnose his true condition. This highlights the importance of seeking God's wisdom and understanding rather than relying solely on human counsel. Trust in God's ultimate plan, even when human advice falls short. [16:47]

5. Focus on Personal Growth: The sermon concluded with a call to self-reflection and prayer. Focus on your own growth and relationship with God rather than dwelling on the shortcomings of others. By doing so, you can transform your disappointments into opportunities for spiritual growth and deeper faith. [23:36]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[02:58] - Sammy's Story: The Unexpected Gift
[04:49] - Lessons from Disappointment
[06:53] - Job's Profound Disappointment
[08:37] - The Concept of Whitewashing
[10:27] - Blood-Washing Through Christ
[12:27] - Cleansing Our Sins
[14:17] - The Power of the Blood
[16:47] - Worthless Physicians
[18:36] - Job's Declaration of Faith
[20:22] - Faith Transcends Disappointment
[22:01] - A Little Talk with Jesus
[23:36] - Focus on Personal Growth
[25:38] - Embracing God's Gifts
[30:48] - The Building Blocks of Faith
[33:31] - Reflecting on Past Blessings
[34:46] - The Power of Prayer
[35:33] - Altar Call and Closing

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
- Job 13:20-22 (NIV): "Only grant me these two things, God, and then I will not hide from you: Withdraw your hand far from me, and stop frightening me with your terrors. Then summon me and I will answer, or let me speak, and you reply to me."

### Observation Questions
1. What was Sammy's initial reaction to receiving the wooden blocks instead of the remote control car he wanted? How did his perspective change over time? [04:49]
2. How did Job describe his friends in Job 13:4, and what does this reveal about their understanding of his situation? [08:37]
3. What does the term "whitewashing" mean in the context of the sermon, and how is it contrasted with "blood-washing"? [10:27]
4. What declaration does Job make in Job 13:15, and what does this reveal about his faith despite his suffering? [18:36]

### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Sammy's story illustrate the idea that sometimes God gives us what we need rather than what we want? How can this perspective help us in our own lives? [04:49]
2. In what ways did Job's friends fail him, and what can we learn from their mistakes about offering support to others in times of suffering? [08:37]
3. How does the concept of "blood-washing" through Christ provide a deeper understanding of forgiveness and transformation compared to "whitewashing"? [12:27]
4. What does Job's declaration, "Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him," teach us about maintaining faith in the face of disappointment and suffering? [18:36]

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you received something unexpected from God. How did you initially react, and how did your perspective change over time? What did you learn from that experience? [04:49]
2. Think about a recent disappointment you faced. How did you respond to it? Did you turn to God for understanding and comfort, or did you seek superficial comfort elsewhere? [06:53]
3. Are there any areas in your life where you have been "whitewashing" your past instead of confronting and cleansing it through Christ? How can you begin the process of genuine transformation? [10:27]
4. How can you seek God's wisdom and understanding in your current situation, especially when human counsel falls short? What steps can you take to trust in God's ultimate plan? [16:47]
5. In what ways can you focus on your own spiritual growth and relationship with God rather than dwelling on the shortcomings of others? How can this shift in focus transform your disappointments into opportunities for deeper faith? [23:36]
6. Identify one specific area in your life where you feel disappointed or let down. How can you apply Job's declaration of faith to this situation and trust in God's plan despite the challenges? [18:36]
7. How can you incorporate regular self-reflection and prayer into your daily routine to ensure you are focusing on your own growth and relationship with God? What practical steps can you take to make this a habit? [23:36]

Devotional

Day 1: Embrace God's Unexpected Gifts
Sometimes, God gives us what we need rather than what we want. These unexpected gifts can lead to greater growth and discovery if we engage with them wholeheartedly. Just like Sammy's wooden blocks, which initially seemed underwhelming, our unexpected gifts from God can transform our lives in ways we never imagined. Embrace the blocks God has given you and see how they can transform your life. [04:49]

James 1:17 (ESV): "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change."

Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you received something different from what you expected. How can you see this as a gift from God, and how can you engage with it to discover its true value?

Day 2: Confront Disappointment with Faith
Life is filled with disappointments, but our response should be to turn to God. Job's story teaches us that expressing our pain and seeking deeper understanding rather than superficial comfort is crucial. True faith transcends disappointment and holds on to God's unchanging hand. When faced with life's challenges, remember Job's declaration, "Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him." [20:22]

Habakkuk 3:17-18 (ESV): "Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt deeply disappointed. How did you respond? How can you turn to God in your current or future disappointments and seek deeper understanding?

Day 3: Whitewashing vs. Blood-Washing
Whitewashing involves covering up the unpleasant truths of our past, while blood-washing, through Christ, allows us to confront and cleanse our sins genuinely. This cleansing is not about hiding our past but about being transformed by God's grace. Embrace the power of Christ's blood to cleanse and transform you, allowing you to confront your past honestly and move forward in grace. [12:27]

1 John 1:7 (ESV): "But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin."

Reflection: Is there a part of your past that you have been trying to cover up or ignore? How can you bring this to Christ for genuine cleansing and transformation?

Day 4: Seek God's Wisdom
Job's friends were likened to "worthless physicians" who failed to diagnose his true condition. This highlights the importance of seeking God's wisdom and understanding rather than relying solely on human counsel. Trust in God's ultimate plan, even when human advice falls short. Seek God's wisdom in your decisions and challenges, knowing that His understanding surpasses all. [16:47]

Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."

Reflection: Think of a recent decision or challenge where you relied on human advice. How can you seek God's wisdom in this situation, and what steps can you take to trust in His plan?

Day 5: Focus on Personal Growth
The sermon concluded with a call to self-reflection and prayer. Focus on your own growth and relationship with God rather than dwelling on the shortcomings of others. By doing so, you can transform your disappointments into opportunities for spiritual growth and deeper faith. Take time to reflect on your spiritual journey and seek ways to grow closer to God each day. [23:36]

2 Peter 3:18 (ESV): "But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen."

Reflection: What is one area of your spiritual life that you feel needs growth? How can you take practical steps to focus on this area and deepen your relationship with God?

Quotes

1. "In life there's many disappointments. Sometimes things will not go the way you desire, the way you hope for, the way that you dreamed or even prayed for. Sometimes you don't get that promotion. Sometimes they look over you for that job. Sometimes your friends, your children, or maybe even your spouse aren't what you want and hope or even they should, in your mind, be. You wonder if you will ever be able to see whatever you're praying about come to fruition." [06:53] (45 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Most people whether rather rather whitewash their past and heal and deal with their past but here's what I love about Christ in Christ my past is not whitewashed is blood washed if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us of our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness is that what your Bible says it's what my Bible says which means my past has been blood-washed I don't have to whitewash it I don't have to forge a new fictitious story of it I can confess that yes I used to be that yes I was caught up in that yes I did make that mistake yes I did used to go there yes that was me guilty as charged but because of the blood of the lamb I have been washed and my sins are forgiven and if you want to hold my paths against me that is fine because as long as God has tossed them in the bottom of the deepest ocean that's all that matters." [12:27] (79 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Sometimes people mean well but they don't know enough to diagnose or treat your situation they are just in their feelings about your circumstance but give God a chance and you will find out that he's greater than any physician he's greater than any lawyer he's greater than any scientist that he is the king of kings the Lord of lords knows exactly what you need how you need it when you need it and job is saying I've been disappointed about how you have handled my case but I'm going to the one who can make a change." [16:47] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "Though he slay me yet will I trust him how do you hold on to your faith when life seems unfair how do you make sure that you keep on keeping on job is showing us right here that God I don't understand what you're doing God I don't know where you're going but though you slay me though you disappoint me though it seems like you're hurting me yet will I trust him I wish I had some real folk in here today though I didn't get that promotion though my kids still I don't have the answer prayer they still haven't come back home though money is still funny right now though my body is still sick though you slay me yet will I trust you." [18:36] (43 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "What Job is teaching us is that deep faith watch this transcends disappointment I can be disappointed I can be hurt up on the inside because of people or because of circumstances but watch this but I'm still yet holding on to God's unchanging hand oh this is when it becomes real because you got some Christian folk out there that make you feel like that if skies aren't always sunny and if there's not always a feel good in your heart if things aren't always going right that there must be something wrong with you but when you've been at this thing for a while you'll know that no matter what certain storms show up no matter what certain sickness shows up no matter what certain circumstances show up no matter what certain challenges show up and faith shows up when challenges do." [20:22] (66 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

6. "The point is always have a little talk with the Lord I'm not coming to God to even talk about my friends that disappointed me watch this I'm coming to God to talk about what's going on with me see it in the text it was all about himself I'm coming to God to show me how I can grow through this situation he says reveal your sin to me show me my sin show me what's wrong with me not what's wrong with Eliphaz not not not what's wrong with Bildad not what's wrong with the preacher not what's wrong with the deacons not what's wrong with the choir not what's wrong with the church not what's wrong with the ushers not what's wrong with the parking ministry not what's wrong with this one or that one he says show me what's wrong with me." [22:01] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

7. "What I've learned is what I need and what I want sometimes are not congruent. God will give me blocks instead of my shiny car. And as I begin to work with what the Lord has given me, I soon find out that he's given me more than I ever could have expected. I wanted a little shiny car, but now I've got a city. I wanted a little shiny car but now I've got a railroad track. I wanted a little shiny car but now I've got a castle. I wanted a little shiny car but my imagination is growing with each and Here's the question I'm done, I'm done Sorry, I got a little happy." [30:48] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

8. "The only thing Job had left Was a prayer life But he's got a prayer life Doesn't have his health But he's got a prayer life His wife is acting up Do you have a little bit of good sense this morning That's a block See has given you more than you even know The enemy wants you disappointed So you'll never see How much you've got If you ever looked back in your life saw that you did not realize what you had You ever looked back and said I wasted time I didn't realize what I had You ever sat back and realized How much you were complaining about." [31:33] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

9. "Paul and Silas they'll tell you When they prayed and sang hymns In prison In uttermost darkness But the earth began to quake And shackles began to loose They'll tell you things happen When you pray Sickness Flees we pray I want to open up this altar On today me some leaders Stretched across here We're going to do something We hadn't really done." [34:46] (51 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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