Know You Have Eternal Life: Pray and Live Assured

Mar 22, 2026

Devotional

Day 1: The Certainty of Eternal Life for Believers

John writes to those who believe so they may possess a settled confidence, not a wishful hope. This assurance is a present reality, grounded in the truth of who Jesus is and what He has accomplished. It is not based on our fluctuating feelings or performance but on the unchanging character of the Son of God. Eternal life is a current possession that begins now and stretches into forever, offering a firm foundation for our faith. This knowledge is meant to steady our hearts and anchor our souls. [52:53]

I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life. (1 John 5:13, CSB)

Reflection: As you consider your own spiritual journey, what difference does it make to view eternal life as a present possession you can know, rather than a future destination you merely hope for?

Day 2: Assurance is Rooted in Christ, Not Self

Our confidence does not come from self-examination or our ability to hold onto God. True assurance is a Christ-confidence, found by looking away from ourselves and to the perfect work and person of Jesus. It rests on His faithfulness, not our own. The object of our faith is utterly trustworthy, so our assurance can be steady even when our grip feels weak. We are called to trust in His name, which encompasses His identity, character, and authority. [01:07:54]

And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. The one who has the Son has life; the one who does not have the Son of God does not have life. (1 John 5:11-12, CSB)

Reflection: Where are you most tempted to look for assurance in your own performance or feelings, rather than resting in the finished work and faithful character of Jesus?

Day 3: Confidence to Pray According to God’s Will

Knowing we have eternal life changes how we approach God. We can come with boldness and freedom, as beloved children before a loving Father. This confident prayer is not about imposing our will but about aligning our desires with His. As we bring our requests to Him, the act of prayer itself shapes our wants to match His good and perfect purposes. We pray with the confidence that He hears us and acts according to His wisdom. [01:09:45]

This is the confidence we have before him: If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears whatever we ask, we know that we have what we have asked of him. (1 John 5:14-15, CSB)

Reflection: What is one specific concern you can bring before God today, asking not for your preferred outcome but for His will to be done, trusting in His goodness?

Day 4: The Call to Intercede for Others in Sin

Assurance is not meant to be kept to ourselves; it moves outward in loving intercession. When we see a fellow believer struggling with sin, our first response should be prayer, not judgment or gossip. We can confidently carry them before the throne of grace, trusting that God hears and responds to restore them. This reflects the heart of a healthy spiritual community that cares for one another and fights for each other’s growth in holiness. [01:18:18]

If anyone sees a fellow believer committing a sin not leading to death, he will ask, and God will give life to him—to those who commit sin not leading to death. (1 John 5:16, CSB)

Reflection: Is there a brother or sister in your life whose struggle you have noticed, and how might you faithfully intercede for their restoration this week?

Day 5: Living with Assurance in the Midst of Battle

The one born of God does not settle into a lifestyle of sin; the new birth changes our relationship to it. While believers still struggle and stumble, they do not make peace with sin. Our assurance in this battle comes from knowing we are protected by Christ Himself. He is the one who keeps us, guards us, and ensures that the evil one cannot ultimately touch us. Our security rests in His grip on us, not the strength of our grip on Him. [01:27:19]

We know that everyone who has been born of God does not sin, but the one who is born of God keeps him, and the evil one does not touch him. (1 John 5:18, CSB)

Reflection: In your current battle with sin, how does the truth that Christ Himself is your protector and keeper change the way you fight?

Sermon Summary

First John 5:13–18 unfolds a clear, pastoral argument about assurance, prayer, and perseverance. John writes so believers might know—confidently—that eternal life belongs to those who trust in the Son of God. Eternal life appears not only as a future hope but as a present possession: life in Christ shapes desires, awakens conscience, and breaks the complacency of sin. Assurance therefore does not rest on flawless performance or emotional certainties but on the person and work of Jesus, whose name carries identity, authority, and saving power.

That present assurance reshapes prayer. Children of God gain boldness to approach the Father, not to impose will upon him but to bring desires into alignment with his wisdom. Prayer becomes a formative practice: speaking requests before God draws the heart toward God’s purposes, and when requests align with his will God answers. Confident prayer also flows outward as intercession; when a brother stumbles, the church’s first reflex should be to intercede, trusting God to restore and “give life” rather than to judge or withdraw.

John confronts sin with sober realism. All wrongdoing remains sin and must be taken seriously, yet the text distinguishes between ordinary failure and a decisive, settled rejection of Christ—the “sin that leads to death.” Christians will stumble, but new birth changes the direction of life: believers do not remain at home in sin. The permanent keeping of the saved stems not primarily from human resolve but from Christ’s protective work. The same Christ who grants life guards it; the evil one may attack but cannot finally seize those born of God.

The passage issues practical invitations: rest from performance-driven faith, cultivate bold prayer grounded in Christ, intercede for struggling brothers and sisters, and fight sin with the assurance that Christ preserves his own. Confidence in the Son, not confidence in self, produces both courageous prayer and faithful endurance amid trials.

Key Takeaways

1. Eternal life is a present possession Assurance rests on union with Christ, not on future guesswork. Eternal life begins now in the Son; it reorients desires, awakens conscience, and produces observable fruit. Believers measure assurance by Christ’s presence and the marks of his life, not by flawless behavior or transient feelings. [1:00:04]
2. Approach God with bold confidence Confident prayer flows from knowing standing in the Son rather than from spiritual skill. Bringing requests to the Father reshapes the heart toward God’s will and opens space for God’s wise action. Prayer offered in that posture expects response because it aligns desire with divine purposes. [1:09:27]
3. Intercede for stumbling brothers The church’s first response to a brother’s sin should be intercession, not gossip or distance. Prayer functions as a means God uses to restore and enliven those who stray, reflecting communal responsibility for one another’s life in Christ. Mature faith converts notice into prayer and judgment into pleading for restoration. [1:17:49]
4. New birth changes relation to sin Regeneration does not grant sinless perfection but alters allegiance: believers no longer make peace with sin as a settled way of life. The Spirit awakens offense at sin, spurs repentance, and enables ongoing resistance, because Christ secures and protects those he has given life. [1:23:24]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[50:29] - Hope versus wishful thinking
[52:18] - Purpose: know you have life
[1:00:04] - Eternal life is present possession
[1:05:21] - Tests that show genuine faith
[1:09:27] - Confident prayer explained
[1:17:49] - Pray for sinning brothers
[1:20:04] - The sin that leads to death
[1:23:24] - Living with assurance
[1:26:42] - Christ protects his people
[1:32:38] - Invitation to rest in Christ

Bible Study Guide

Bible reading: 1 John 5:13-18 (CSB)
I have written these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life. This is the confidence we have before him: If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears whatever we ask, we know that we have what we have asked of him. If anyone sees a fellow believer committing a sin that doesn’t lead to death, he should ask, and God will give life to him—to those who commit sin that doesn’t lead to death. There is sin that leads to death. I am not saying he should pray about that. All unrighteousness is sin, and there is sin that doesn’t lead to death. We know that everyone who has been born of God does not sin, but the one who is born of God keeps him, and the evil one does not touch him.

Observation questions

According to verse 13, what is the specific purpose for which John is writing this letter?
What two conditions for prayer are given in verses 14-15 that lead to the confidence of being heard and receiving what we ask?
What is the specific action we are instructed to take when we see a fellow believer sinning, and what is the promised result according to verse 16?
What distinction does John make about sin in verse 17, and what is the one thing he says we should not do regarding a specific type of sin?

Interpretation questions

The phrase "believe in the name of the Son of God" carries significant weight. What does it mean to believe in someone's "name" in a biblical sense, beyond just intellectual agreement? [59:16]
Verse 16 instructs us to pray for a brother sinning a "sin not leading to death," and God will give him life. How can our prayer be a means through which God grants life to another person? [01:19:22]
John states that everyone born of God does not sin, yet earlier in his letter he says if we claim to be without sin we deceive ourselves. How can both of these statements be true? What is the difference between "sinning" and "does not sin" in this context? [01:23:51]
The final sentence states that the evil one "does not touch" the one born of God. Given that believers clearly experience temptation and spiritual attack, what does it mean that the evil one cannot ultimately "touch" us? [01:28:35]

Application questions

Eternal life is a present possession that reorients our desires and awakens our conscience. What are some tangible signs in your life right now—like a growing hatred for sin or a love for God's people—that show this eternal life is at work within you? [01:06:24]
Confident prayer flows from knowing our standing in the Son. When you pray, do you more often feel like a stranger begging for attention or a welcomed child speaking freely to a loving Father? What would it look like to approach God this week with the boldness that comes from being in Christ? [01:11:07]
The first response to a brother's sin should be intercession, not gossip or distance. Is your reflex when you see another believer stumble to judge them, avoid them, or immediately carry them before God in prayer? Who is one person you can begin faithfully interceding for this week? [01:18:51]
New birth changes our relationship to sin; we may sin mournfully but not peacefully. Is there a specific sin you have been making peace with or settling into as a comfortable part of your life? What does it look like to wage war against it, trusting that Christ protects and keeps you? [01:25:34]
Assurance rests not on the strength of our grip on Christ, but on the strength of His grip on us. When you feel spiritually weak or experience failure, where do you typically turn for reassurance—to your own performance or to Christ's finished work and keeping power? [01:27:19]
Christ himself keeps those who belong to him. How might living with this assurance free you from spiritual panic and allow you to fight sin not out of fear, but from a place of secure rest in your identity as a guarded child of God? [01:29:15]

Sermon Clips

35s

#ChristConfidence

“Not because your faith is perfect, but because the object of your faith is perfect. Not because your grip on him never weakens from time to time, but because his life and his work and his person and his promises are utterly trustworthy. And he says, you have eternal life if you trust in him and you believe in him, which means in the end, our assurance is not something that comes from self confidence. And I think we mix that up a lot of the time. We think assurance means that we're confident in ourselves. It's not that. It's a Christ confidence.”

35s

#HopeIsAssurance

“you know, as I was sitting and while standing and and singing this last song, there there's just a question that maybe started rolling around in my head. What does it mean to hope? You know? And what does it mean to put your hope in something? A lot of us, I think we actually have in our minds this difference between hoping in something and knowing something. And, you know, as we use the word hope in the scriptures and as we we sing the word hope in the song that we just declared together, what we mean is an assurance, a certainty about something.”

46s

#HeldByChrist

“And that means your assurance, again, it's not resting on the grip of your, on the strength of your grip on Christ, it's resting on the strength of Christ's grip on you. And you've all heard the passage no one can snatch you out of his hand. That's good news. Right? Because if assurance rested mainly on me, I mean, it would collapse every time I looked at my weakness. Every fresh failure would become a reason for despair. Every struggle would be evidence against me. Every hard season would leave me wondering if I'm slipping away. But John says a child of God is kept, not perfectly by his own discipline, not finally by his own resolve, but by Christ. The same Christ who gave you life is the Christ who guards that life.”

45s

#BelovedChild

“You don't come to God as some stranger trying to get in. You come as a child who's been welcomed through the Son. You come to a father who hears you with freedom, with boldness, with trust, and you bring not only your own needs before him, but you carry your brothers and sisters who are stumbling and in need of grace too. And because you know you have eternal life, you can also live with assurance. Not because you're beyond the battle or that sin is no longer serious or that the evil one's not a real threat, but because Christ keeps those who belong to him. And the one who gave you life is the one who's gonna guard your life, And the one who saved you is the one who will keep you. And so it means this passage just leaves us with a really simple question. Where's your confidence today?”

45s

#PrayForHisWill

“And so when we go into God's throne room and we bring our request before him, the very act of speaking to him starts shaping the things that we desire toward his will. It's like you hear your requests, the things that, like, you're anxious about or the things that you're worried about or the things that you want, and you say them out loud in front of God, and there's just this this thing that happens where it reshapes who you are and what you say into a person that desires will of God. And the more and more that that happens, the more confidence that we can have that the things we seek will be granted to us. Because if it's God's will, will it not be done?”

47s

#IntercedeForLife

“And mature believers aren't simply more aware of sin in themselves and in other people's lives. A mature believer is someone who is more faithful in prayer for other people. And in that case, John says that God will give him life when you pray for them. Now it doesn't mean that the praying believer is the source of their life, but God in response to our intercessory prayers restores and strengthens and renews our straying brothers and sisters. And prayer becomes like one of these means that God uses to preserve his people. If you wanna experience eternal life today, become the means by which God is dishing eternal life out to the people around you. Pray.”

42s

#BelongInChrist

“And it's this amazing thing, I think, if you really stop and and think about this because John is saying a child of God isn't coming before the father like a stranger. You're not some intruder in God's house that's just begging to get his attention or trying to get him to do things that you want or that you need. You're coming before him as one who's been welcomed and as one who belongs and as one whose life, remember, is bound up in the life of God's son. And so you come before him as his child with confidence toward him. Think about this if you're a parent and how you welcome your children to come before you.”

39s

#PrayerNotPerformance

“You can think about it. Right? If if prayer just depended on our ability to know exactly what's best and to ask for all the right things, I mean, it would be a terrifying experience. I'd be afraid to ask for anything at all in case I'm wrong. But if prayer depends and if prayer depends on our spiritual eloquence, then most of us would never really dare to pray at all. If outcomes dependent on our own worthiness, then none of us would have any hope at all. But prayer is resting on something that's far more stable than us and even than our requests. It rests on the will of God, which means prayer isn't something that's about us coming to him and forcing his hand. It's a a way that we come to him and we start to trust his heart.”

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