Encouragement and Transformation Through Intentional Relationships

Devotional

Day 1: Living a Life of Generosity and Encouragement

Barnabas, known as the "son of encouragement," stands out in the early church for his generous and open-hearted way of living. His willingness to sell his land and give the proceeds to the apostles for the good of the community is a powerful example of how generosity is not just about material possessions, but about having an open heart, seeing others, and being willing to encourage and support those around us. This kind of living is only possible through the power of the Holy Spirit, who enables us to keep giving, forgiving, and loving even when it is difficult or when we feel unappreciated. When we live generously and encourage others, we inspire those around us to do the same, creating a ripple effect of kindness and hope. [45:11]

Acts 4:36-37 (ESV)
Thus Joseph, who was also called by the apostles Barnabas (which means son of encouragement), a Levite, a native of Cyprus, sold a field that belonged to him and brought the money and laid it at the apostles’ feet.

Reflection: Who is someone you can encourage or bless today with a generous act—whether through your time, words, or resources—and how might you invite the Holy Spirit to guide you in doing so?

Day 2: Rejoicing in Trials and Inspiring Hope

The early church faced persecution and hardship, yet the apostles rejoiced that they were counted worthy to suffer for the name of Jesus. Their ability to maintain joy, peace, and hope in the midst of trouble was a testimony to the world around them, showing that true hope is found in Christ alone. When we endure difficulties with faith and continue to trust in God's faithfulness, we inspire others to seek the hope that only Jesus can provide. Our response to suffering can be a powerful witness, pointing others to the goodness and promises of God even when life is hard. [50:38]

Acts 5:41 (ESV)
Then they left the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the name.

Reflection: In what current challenge or hardship can you choose to trust God and let your response point others to the hope you have in Jesus?

Day 3: The Power of Second Chances and Transforming Grace

When Saul, once a fierce persecutor of the church, encountered Jesus and was transformed, it was Barnabas who stepped in to vouch for him and introduce him to the apostles. Barnabas saw the change in Saul and was willing to give him a second chance, believing in the power of God's grace to transform even the most unlikely person. This reminds us not to give up on those who seem far from God, but to keep praying, believing, and being willing to walk alongside them as they grow in faith. God’s grace is always at work, and we are called to be people who extend second chances and trust in His transforming power. [01:02:19]

Acts 9:26-27 (ESV)
And when he had come to Jerusalem, he attempted to join the disciples. And they were all afraid of him, for they did not believe that he was a disciple. But Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles and declared to them how on the road he had seen the Lord, who spoke to him, and how at Damascus he had preached boldly in the name of Jesus.

Reflection: Who in your life have you given up on spiritually? Will you commit to pray for them and look for ways to encourage their journey toward Jesus?

Day 4: Intentional Discipleship and Inspiring Relationships

Barnabas intentionally sought out Saul to join him in ministry, modeling what it means to invest in others through discipleship and friendship. Their partnership in teaching, serving, and living life together is a picture of how spiritual growth happens best in community, through intentional relationships that encourage, challenge, and support one another. Discipleship is not accidental—it requires reaching out, spending time together, and inviting others to walk alongside us as we follow Jesus. These relationships are life-giving and help us become all that God has called us to be. [01:08:36]

Acts 11:23-24 (ESV)
When he came and saw the grace of God, he was glad, and he exhorted them all to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, for he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And a great many people were added to the Lord.

Reflection: Who is someone you can intentionally invest in this week—inviting them to join you in a spiritual or everyday activity to encourage their walk with Christ?

Day 5: Forgiveness, Reconciliation, and Trusting God in Relationships

Even the closest Christian friendships can experience disagreement and separation, as seen in the story of Paul and Barnabas parting ways over John Mark. Yet, through God’s forgiveness and love, reconciliation and healing are possible, and relationships can continue to bear fruit for the kingdom even after conflict. We are called to seek forgiveness, extend second chances, and trust God to work through every situation, knowing that our eyes must always be on Jesus, not just on people. When we handle relational challenges with grace, we point others to Christ and model what it means to live as part of God’s kingdom. [01:17:16]

Colossians 3:13 (ESV)
Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.

Reflection: Is there someone you need to forgive or seek reconciliation with today? What step can you take to move toward healing, trusting God to work in your relationship?

Sermon Summary

Camp is a unique and sacred space where God often meets us in powerful ways, shaping our faith journeys in ways that linger for a lifetime. The anticipation and excitement for our kids and teens heading to camp this week is a reminder of how God uses dedicated times and places to draw us closer to Him, to call us, and to transform us. But the work of God is not limited to special events; it is woven through our daily lives, our families, and our church community. The story of Barnabas, whose name means “son of encouragement,” offers a compelling example of how inviting and inspiring relationships can shape the life of the church and the world.

Barnabas stands out in the early church not just for his generosity in giving, but for his open-hearted way of living. His encouragement was not limited to material gifts, but extended to seeing people, listening to their stories, and believing in the transforming power of Jesus in their lives. When Saul, the persecutor of the church, encountered Jesus and was radically changed, it was Barnabas who took the risk to believe in him, to vouch for him, and to introduce him to the apostles. This act of trust and discernment opened the door for Saul—later known as Paul—to become one of the most influential leaders in the church.

Inspiring relationships require intentionality, wisdom, and a willingness to give second chances. Barnabas models what it means to walk alongside others, to invest in their growth, and to advocate for them even when others are skeptical. These relationships are not always easy; even Barnabas and Paul experienced conflict and parted ways over John Mark. Yet, God used even their disagreements to further His kingdom, and reconciliation was possible in time.

We are called to be people like Barnabas—full of the Holy Spirit, strong in faith, and generous in spirit. We are invited to seek out and nurture relationships that encourage, challenge, and inspire us to become more like Jesus. And as we come to the table of communion, we are reminded to examine our own relationship with Christ and to pray for those who have yet to experience His transforming love. May we be people who invite others in, who believe in the power of God to change lives, and who embody the hope and encouragement of Christ in all our relationships.

Key Takeaways

1. Encouragement Rooted in the Holy Spirit: True encouragement and generosity are not just about giving material things, but about living with an open heart, seeing and knowing others, and being willing to forgive and empathize. This kind of life is only sustainable through the power of the Holy Spirit, who enables us to keep loving and giving even when it’s hard or unappreciated. Barnabas’s life shows that Spirit-filled encouragement can inspire others to live more generously and faithfully. [46:06]
2. The Power of Second Chances: God’s grace is big enough to transform even the most unlikely people, as seen in Saul’s conversion. Barnabas’s willingness to believe in Saul and advocate for him reminds us not to give up on those who seem far from God. We are called to pray persistently for those who seem unreachable, trusting that God’s prevenient grace is always at work, and to be ready to welcome them when God changes their hearts. [60:47]
3. Intentional Discipleship and Community: Inspiring relationships don’t happen by accident; they require intentionality, time, and vulnerability. Barnabas sought out Saul, brought him into community, and invested in his growth. We are challenged to seek out relationships with people who are righteous, Spirit-filled, and strong in faith, and to be that kind of person for others, creating spaces where discipleship and transformation can flourish. [68:36]
4. Navigating Conflict and Reconciliation: Even the most faithful and Spirit-led people will experience conflict and disappointment in relationships. The story of Paul and Barnabas’s disagreement over John Mark shows that sometimes relationships change or end, but God can use even our disagreements for His purposes. We are called to pursue forgiveness and, when possible, reconciliation, trusting that God is at work in every season and transition. [74:07]
5. Keeping Our Eyes on Jesus: Ultimately, our hope and inspiration must be rooted in Christ, not in any one person or relationship. Even those who lead and inspire us will have moments of weakness or failure. By keeping our focus on Jesus and His faithfulness, we can navigate the ups and downs of relationships with grace, and we can point others to the hope that only He provides. [01:15:34]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:44] - The Power and Purpose of Camp
[04:11] - Introducing Barnabas: Son of Encouragement
[05:11] - Generosity and the Holy Spirit
[06:06] - Contrasts: Barnabas vs. Ananias and Sapphira
[09:26] - The Church Grows Amid Persecution
[10:38] - Suffering for Christ and Finding Hope
[14:10] - The Martyrdom of Stephen and the Scattering
[15:42] - Saul’s Zeal and the Spread of the Gospel
[17:56] - Saul’s Encounter with Jesus
[19:25] - Saul’s Transformation and Barnabas’s Advocacy
[22:19] - The Power of Testimony and Trust
[28:36] - Intentional Discipleship: Barnabas and Saul
[30:31] - John Mark’s Failure and Second Chances
[32:20] - Conflict Between Paul and Barnabas
[34:07] - Lessons in Reconciliation and Moving Forward
[35:34] - Communion: Examining Our Relationships
[38:26] - Praying for the Lost and Receiving Grace

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

What actions did Barnabas take in Acts 4 that made him stand out among the early believers?
When Saul (Paul) tried to join the disciples in Jerusalem after his conversion, how did the believers respond, and what did Barnabas do? (Acts 9:26-28)
What was the main reason for the disagreement between Paul and Barnabas in Acts 15, and what did each of them decide to do?
According to the sermon, what qualities did Barnabas have that made him a trusted encourager in the early church? [45:11]

Interpretation Questions

Why do you think Barnabas was willing to take a risk on Saul when others were afraid or skeptical? What does this say about his faith and discernment? [01:02:19]
The sermon describes Barnabas’s encouragement as “not just about stuff” but about an “open-hearted way of life.” What does it look like to encourage others in this way, beyond material generosity? [46:06]
How did the conflict between Paul and Barnabas over John Mark demonstrate both the challenges and the possibilities of reconciliation in Christian relationships? [01:14:07]
The sermon mentions that even inspiring leaders like Barnabas and Paul had disagreements and weaknesses. What does this teach us about where our ultimate hope and focus should be? [01:15:34]

Application Questions

Think of someone in your life who, like Saul, might seem “unlikely” to change or come to faith. How can you pray for them and be open to God using you to encourage or welcome them? [01:00:47]
Barnabas was known for seeing people, listening to their stories, and believing in God’s work in their lives. Is there someone you need to take time to really “see” and encourage this week? What would that look like? [46:06]
Are there relationships in your life where you need to offer a second chance or advocate for someone who has failed or been written off by others? What step could you take toward that this week? [01:12:20]
The sermon talks about intentional discipleship—seeking out and investing in relationships that help us and others grow in faith. Who is someone you could invite into a deeper spiritual friendship or mentoring relationship? [01:08:36]
Have you experienced conflict or disappointment in a Christian relationship? Is there someone you need to forgive, seek reconciliation with, or simply release to God? What would it look like to take a step toward healing? [01:14:07]
Barnabas was described as “full of the Holy Spirit and strong in faith.” What is one practical way you can open yourself to the Spirit’s work in your relationships this week? [45:11]
As you come to communion or reflect on your relationship with Jesus, is there someone you need to pray for who hasn’t yet experienced God’s transforming love? How can you commit to praying for them regularly? [01:18:26]

Sermon Clips

Now maybe Jesus came to you sweetly and softly. Maybe that's what you needed because God is personal and he knows what we need. But maybe you had to be confronted by Jesus. Maybe he needed to knock you upside the head. That's what Saul needed. Jesus sends this blinding light and he says, Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me? Because you know what? Persecution of the church is persecution of Jesus because we are his hands and his feet. We are his body. [00:57:56] (31 seconds)

And it reminds me that there are people in our lives that we have given up on, and we could never imagine that they would be saved. Are we still praying for them? Because if God can change Saul, God can save anybody that we know. He can transform them. He can make a difference in their lives. And so we need to continue to pray for them and not quit and not give up and pray that God would knock them upside the head if he has to. [01:00:47] (25 seconds)

Have you ever needed someone in your life to speak up and say he's not the person he used to be anymore? Have you ever needed someone in your life to say yes he's really changed she's really a different person don't act like she's the way she used to be because she's not don't treat him the way he used to act treat him like a new creation because that's who he is man we need people like that in our lives has someone spoken up for you has someone taken the time to look you in the eye and say what a difference jesus has made in your life that is powerful we've probably both been on either side of the story and if we haven't i call us to be if we've changed if we're growing i i call us with the help of the holy spirit to look at others and to see the difference that god is making in their lives if it lies if that's the case to walk alongside them don't just say well good i'm so glad you got jesus hope things go well for you but to walk alongside them to help them grow to become all that god made them to be [01:04:10] (60 seconds)

But the same spirit of second chances and reconciliation that had opened Barnabas's heart to Saul was the same spirit of second chances and reconciliation that Barnabas had for John Mark. Got to give the kid another chance. Maybe he had known he'd grown and matured. They'd probably had some conversations. They were cousins. Yeah, he messed up before. Yes, he deserted us early. Yes, that hurt our feelings and slowed down the work. But we got to give him a second chance. [01:12:39] (28 seconds)

And it's important to remember that even those who lead and inspire can have moments of weakness in their faith. And that's why always, always, always our eyes have to be on the Jesus in the person, not on the person. So important that our eyes are on Jesus. [01:15:52] (18 seconds)

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