Bible reading John 21:15-19 (ESV) When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” He said to him a second time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” and he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you used to dress yourself and walk wherever you wanted, but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will dress you and carry you where you do not want to go.” (This he said to show by what kind of death he was to glorify God.) And after saying this he said to him, “Follow me.”
Psalm 13:5-6 (ESV) But I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation. I will sing to the Lord, because he has dealt bountifully with me.
Luke 22:61-62 (ESV) And the Lord turned and looked at Peter. And Peter remembered the saying of the Lord, how he had said to him, “Before the rooster crows today, you will deny me three times.” And he went out and wept bitterly.
Observation questions - In John 21:15-17, Jesus asks Peter “Do you love me?” three times. What specific instructions does Jesus give Peter after each response?
- What details in John 21:15-19 suggest that Jesus’ restoration of Peter was both personal and public?
- The sermon mentions Peter returning to fishing after his failure ([55:27]). How does this detail connect to Jesus’ earlier call to Peter in the Gospels (e.g., Matthew 4:19)?
- How does the charcoal fire in John 21:9-12 contrast with the charcoal fire in John 18:18 where Peter denied Jesus?
Interpretation questions - Why might Jesus have focused on Peter’s love for Him rather than addressing his denial directly? How does this shift from behavior to affection change the nature of restoration?
- The sermon states, “Failure does not disqualify; it exposes need and opens room for grace” ([54:36]). How does Peter’s story in John 21 illustrate this truth?
- Psalm 13:5-6 declares trust in God’s “steadfast love” even in hardship. How does this Psalm frame the kind of worship that expects rescue, as mentioned in the sermon summary?
- In Luke 22:61-62, Peter weeps bitterly after denying Jesus. How does this moment of shame prepare him for the restoration in John 21?
Application questions - Where do you tend to “hide” or return to familiar habits (like Peter’s fishing nets) when feeling shame or failure? What would it look like to let Jesus meet you there?
- Jesus asked Peter, “Do you love me?” three times. If Jesus asked you this today, how might your answer differ between your actions (behavior) and your heart (affection)?
- The sermon emphasizes that “community mediates encounters with Jesus” ([27:30]). Who in your life has been a tangible expression of Jesus’ grace to you? How could you intentionally be that for someone else this week?
- Restoration includes a call to action: “Feed my lambs… follow me.” What practical step could you take this week to serve others in a way that flows from being restored by Jesus?
- Peter’s denial happened around a charcoal fire, and his restoration began at another fire ([53:33]). Are there places or memories tied to past failures where you need to invite Jesus to rewrite the story?
- The sermon says, “Love precedes commission” ([59:41]). How might prioritizing love for Jesus over “doing things for Jesus” change your approach to work, relationships, or ministry?