Empowered Fatherhood: Leading with Faith and Integrity
Summary
### Summary
Happy Father's Day to all! Today, we celebrate fathers and the vital role they play in our families and communities. We also honor our mission team that recently returned from California, where they ministered to people in Hollywood and at the Dream Center in L.A. Today’s message focuses on the tools fathers need to lead their families effectively, emphasizing the importance of spiritual tools.
We began by exploring Titus 1, where we discussed the significance of sound doctrine. Fathers, and leaders in general, must lead by what they believe. Doctrine, or teaching, shapes our beliefs, which in turn influence our actions and the way we lead our families. A leader’s understanding of biblical doctrine is crucial for guiding their household in faith and righteousness.
We also touched on the Ten Commandments and how they were given not for us to achieve perfection but to recognize our need for God. This realization should drive us to depend on the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength. Fathers must wake up every day acknowledging their need for God’s help to lead their families.
In Titus 2, we discussed the importance of being sober-minded and showing integrity, reverence, and incorruptibility. Fathers must lead by example, demonstrating these qualities in their daily lives. We also delved into the concept of being bond servants to God, willingly submitting ourselves and our families to His authority out of love and trust.
We then moved to Revelation 2, where we examined the dangers of false doctrines and the importance of staying true to God’s teachings. The enemy seeks to entice and deceive, but we must stand firm in our faith and lead our families with sound doctrine.
Finally, we emphasized the importance of preaching the Word within our homes. Fathers must be ready to teach, exhort, and rebuke with patience and sound teaching. We concluded with a call to prayer, encouraging fathers to continually seek God’s guidance and strength in their role as leaders.
### Key Takeaways
1. Lead by Belief: Fathers must lead by what they believe, as their beliefs shape their actions and influence their families. Sound doctrine is essential for guiding our households in faith and righteousness. Understanding and teaching biblical doctrine helps us lead effectively and instill strong values in our children. [02:35]
2. Dependence on God: The Ten Commandments were given to show us our need for God, not to achieve perfection. Fathers should wake up every day acknowledging their need for God’s help to lead their families. This dependence on the Holy Spirit is crucial for living out God’s commandments and leading with integrity. [06:28]
3. Sober-Minded Leadership: Being sober-minded and showing integrity, reverence, and incorruptibility are vital qualities for fathers. These traits should be evident in our daily lives, setting a strong example for our children. Leading by example helps instill these values in our families and communities. [13:30]
4. Guard Against False Doctrines: The enemy seeks to entice and deceive through false doctrines. Fathers must stand firm in their faith and lead their families with sound doctrine. Understanding and teaching God’s Word helps protect our families from the enemy’s schemes and keeps us grounded in truth. [21:40]
5. Preach the Word at Home: Fathers must be ready to preach the Word within their homes, teaching, exhorting, and rebuking with patience and sound teaching. This responsibility is crucial for guiding our families in faith and ensuring they grow up with a strong foundation in God’s Word. [34:21]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:00] - Introduction and Mission Team Update
[01:48] - Tools for Fathers
[02:35] - Importance of Doctrine
[04:10] - Role of a Bishop
[05:45] - Dependence on God
[07:00] - Sound Doctrine and Teaching
[08:59] - Exhortation and Conviction
[10:19] - Belief and Behavior
[12:10] - Necessity of Sound Doctrine
[13:30] - Sober-Minded Leadership
[15:08] - Reverence and Integrity
[17:16] - Bond Servants to God
[19:46] - Guarding Against False Doctrines
[21:40] - Enticement by the Enemy
[24:33] - Nicolaitans and Lukewarm Faith
[26:00] - Strictness in Teaching
[27:25] - Congregations of God and Satan
[28:44] - Choosing Sides
[30:45] - Expressive Faith
[32:55] - Doctrines of Demons
[33:47] - Preach the Word
[34:21] - Preaching at Home
[36:53] - Story of the Demon-Possessed Man
[39:21] - Importance of Worship
[42:04] - Territorial Spirits
[45:07] - Authority in Jesus' Name
[47:17] - Job's Faithfulness
[48:57] - Power of Prayer
[50:21] - Closeness to God
[51:34] - Call to Prayer for Men
[55:19] - Blessing and Surrender
[57:18] - Blessing for All
[58:27] - Closing Remarks
Study Guide
### Bible Reading
1. Titus 1:7-9: "For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it."
2. Titus 2:6-8: "Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us."
3. Revelation 2:14-15: "But I have a few things against you: you have some there who hold the teaching of Balaam, who taught Balak to put a stumbling block before the sons of Israel, so that they might eat food sacrificed to idols and practice sexual immorality. So also you have some who hold the teaching of the Nicolaitans. Therefore repent."
### Observation Questions
1. According to Titus 1:7-9, what qualities must an overseer possess? How do these qualities help in leading a family? [04:10]
2. In Titus 2:6-8, what specific instructions are given to younger men? How does this relate to the concept of sober-minded leadership? [13:30]
3. What are the dangers mentioned in Revelation 2:14-15 regarding false doctrines, and how do they affect families? [21:40]
### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is it important for fathers to lead by what they believe, and how does sound doctrine influence their leadership? [02:35]
2. How does the realization of our need for God, as highlighted by the Ten Commandments, impact a father's daily life and leadership? [06:28]
3. What does it mean to be a bond servant to God, and how can fathers model this for their families? [17:16]
4. How can fathers guard their families against false doctrines and the enticements of the enemy as described in Revelation 2? [21:40]
### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current beliefs and doctrines. How do they shape your actions and influence your family? Are there areas where you need to strengthen your understanding of biblical doctrine? [02:35]
2. In what ways do you acknowledge your dependence on God daily? How can you make this a more intentional practice in your life? [06:28]
3. Consider the qualities of sober-minded leadership mentioned in Titus 2:6-8. Which of these qualities do you find most challenging to demonstrate, and how can you work on them? [13:30]
4. Have you identified any false doctrines or harmful influences that may be affecting your family? What steps can you take to address and counteract these influences? [21:40]
5. How often do you preach the Word within your home? What practical steps can you take to incorporate more teaching, exhortation, and rebuke with patience and sound teaching in your family life? [34:21]
6. Think about a recent situation where you had to lead by example. How did your actions reflect your beliefs, and what impact did it have on your family? [13:30]
7. How can you encourage your family to willingly submit to God's authority and become bond servants to Him? What changes can you make to foster a deeper love and trust in God within your household? [17:16]
Devotional
Day 1: Lead by Belief
Fathers must lead by what they believe, as their beliefs shape their actions and influence their families. Sound doctrine is essential for guiding our households in faith and righteousness. Understanding and teaching biblical doctrine helps us lead effectively and instill strong values in our children. Fathers are called to be the spiritual leaders of their homes, and this leadership is rooted in a deep understanding of God's Word. By immersing themselves in Scripture, fathers can ensure that their guidance is aligned with God's will, providing a strong foundation for their families.
The importance of sound doctrine cannot be overstated. It is through sound teaching that fathers can discern truth from falsehood and lead their families in the ways of righteousness. This requires a commitment to continual learning and growth in faith. Fathers must be diligent in studying the Bible, seeking to understand its teachings fully, and applying them in their daily lives. This not only strengthens their own faith but also sets a powerful example for their children to follow. [02:35]
Titus 1:9 (ESV): "He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it."
Reflection: How can you deepen your understanding of biblical doctrine to better lead your family in faith and righteousness?
Day 2: Dependence on God
The Ten Commandments were given to show us our need for God, not to achieve perfection. Fathers should wake up every day acknowledging their need for God’s help to lead their families. This dependence on the Holy Spirit is crucial for living out God’s commandments and leading with integrity. Recognizing our limitations and our need for divine assistance is a sign of true spiritual maturity. It is through this dependence that fathers can find the strength and wisdom to navigate the challenges of family leadership.
Daily dependence on God involves a consistent prayer life, seeking His guidance in every decision, and relying on His strength in times of weakness. Fathers must model this dependence for their families, showing that true leadership comes from a place of humility and reliance on God. This not only strengthens their own faith but also teaches their children the importance of seeking God in all aspects of life. [06:28]
Psalm 121:1-2 (ESV): "I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth."
Reflection: In what specific ways can you demonstrate your dependence on God to your family today?
Day 3: Sober-Minded Leadership
Being sober-minded and showing integrity, reverence, and incorruptibility are vital qualities for fathers. These traits should be evident in our daily lives, setting a strong example for our children. Leading by example helps instill these values in our families and communities. Sober-mindedness involves being clear-headed and making decisions based on wisdom and discernment rather than emotions or impulses. It requires a commitment to living a life of integrity, where actions align with beliefs and values.
Fathers who lead with integrity and reverence create an environment of trust and respect within their homes. This kind of leadership fosters a sense of security and stability for their children, who learn to value these qualities in their own lives. By consistently demonstrating these traits, fathers can positively influence their families and communities, encouraging others to pursue a life of righteousness and integrity. [13:30]
1 Peter 5:8 (ESV): "Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour."
Reflection: How can you cultivate sober-mindedness and integrity in your daily life to set a strong example for your family?
Day 4: Guard Against False Doctrines
The enemy seeks to entice and deceive through false doctrines. Fathers must stand firm in their faith and lead their families with sound doctrine. Understanding and teaching God’s Word helps protect our families from the enemy’s schemes and keeps us grounded in truth. In a world filled with conflicting messages and false teachings, it is crucial for fathers to be vigilant and discerning. This requires a deep commitment to studying Scripture and seeking the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
By grounding themselves in the truth of God's Word, fathers can effectively guard their families against deception. This involves not only personal study but also teaching and discussing biblical truths with their children. By fostering an environment where questions are encouraged and biblical answers are sought, fathers can help their families develop a strong foundation in the faith, capable of withstanding the enemy's attacks. [21:40]
2 Timothy 4:3-4 (ESV): "For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths."
Reflection: What steps can you take to ensure that your family is grounded in sound doctrine and protected from false teachings?
Day 5: Preach the Word at Home
Fathers must be ready to preach the Word within their homes, teaching, exhorting, and rebuking with patience and sound teaching. This responsibility is crucial for guiding our families in faith and ensuring they grow up with a strong foundation in God’s Word. Preaching the Word at home involves more than just formal Bible studies; it includes everyday conversations, teaching moments, and living out biblical principles in daily life. Fathers are called to be the primary spiritual educators in their homes, ensuring that their children understand and apply God's Word.
This requires a commitment to being well-versed in Scripture and willing to address difficult topics with grace and truth. Fathers must be patient and persistent, recognizing that spiritual growth is a lifelong journey. By consistently teaching and modeling biblical principles, fathers can help their children develop a deep and lasting faith that will guide them throughout their lives. [34:21]
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV): "And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise."
Reflection: How can you incorporate teaching and discussing God's Word into your daily routine with your family?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "The reason why God gave it to them was for them to fall on their face and realize we're not that holy. Be honest with you. We're not that good. I can't do that. So what do we do next? God, I need you. I need you. Men, we should wake up every day and say, God, I can't do this. Go ahead and submit to it. This is too hard. So God, I need you. I see your commandments. I see your way. I see your holiness. And this is what he wanted to show. God's commandments there is not to show us how bad we are, but to show us how good he is." (36 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "What we believe determines our behavior. Come on, leaders. What we believe determines our behavior. Why do you act the way you act? Because you believe what you believe. What do you say what you say? Why are you so negative? Why are you so hard? Why you just don't have any peace or joy? Why is it not coming to your mind? Because that's what you believe. But if you get in the word of God, then you begin to understand righteousness, peace, and joy comes from the Holy Spirit. And you begin to understand that that comes through there." (28 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "I'm here to tell fathers, I'm here to tell mothers, it is, you need to be that strict concerning the things of God. The word devil there, it means penetrator. That means you give him an inch, he'll take a foot. You give him a foot, he'll take a yard. You give him a yard, he'll take a mile. That's how he does because we have to be strict concerning the teaching of what we teach concerning the things of God, the sound doctrines which we have." (27 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "I'm here to tell somebody today, you're closer to God than you think. Oh, my God. You're closer to God. But my prayers are terrible. My attitude is bad. I'm full of complaint and anger. I don't see God, feel God, understand God. But you're talking. You're talking to God this morning. Hey, a liar. Now you're too big of a complaint. Now you don't feel him. You don't say, I got you now. I got you now. I'm not. You don't even acknowledge him. You're talking to God. You're talking. But I'm complaining to God. But you're talking to God. But I'm mad at God. But you're talking to God. I don't understand God. But you're talking to God. I got a gospel word for you. You're close to God. You're with God. He'll never leave you nor forsake you." (60 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "Preach the word. Preacher, you're confused. You're confused. You think you're at the pastor's conference. Nope. I'm where I'm supposed to be. Speaking to the group I'm supposed to be speaking to. I'm here to tell some fathers. I'm here to tell some mothers. I'm here to tell some grandparents. Preach the word. Preach the word. Preach the word. Preach the words to your fifth grader. Preach the word to your second grader. Preach the words to your teenager. Preach the words. Oh, I need somebody to help me. Preach the word. Preach the word. Not a word. Preach the word." (40 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
### Quotes for Members
1. "It's very important that we understand doctrine. What is doctrine? Doctrine is teaching. It's teaching. So when you talk about teaching, it's very important. What you're taught, what you believe is what you would teach. And what your children will believe. What your spouse will believe. What your family will believe. Be honest with you. Anybody that you influence. Will believe what you believe. If you teach it. If you have it. If you have sound doctrine." (27 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "Whenever your teenager comes in and trying to tell you what's being taught to them at school, what's being what they picked up on social media, what they hear on the radio, you better have sound doctrine as a leader, as a bishop of your family so that you're able to exhort. And you're able to convict those who contradict. The contradiction is not going to come from those farther away from you because they're not that close to you. It's going to be those closer to you. I don't leave those in other churches. I don't leave those in other regions. But I do leave those in this church. I have to make sure I'm the bishop over this house. But before I'm the bishop over this house, I got to be the bishop over my house." (42 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "Paul tells Titus here, he says, raise your children to be bond servants of the most high God. They're going to sell their self to something. Make sure they sell their self to God. They can leave anytime they wanted to, unless they sell their selves to God. We represent God as bond servants. That God, I know we could have left anytime we wanted to. We could have walked away from you, God. But we did literally take literal, as for me and my house, we're going to serve the Lord. And we are bond servants of the most high God. We are attached to him. And every child that comes along after that has the opportunity to continue under the care that the father has under that authority." (42 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "The devil's playing for keeps and so are we. Did you hear what I just said right here in the middle of pride month? Well, we just need to be careful and everything else. Oh, hush. Oh, I gotta say, watch this. First Timothy chapter four, verse one. Now the spirit expressively. Well, I think we need to be explicit concerning what we are expression. If they can wave the rainbow banner and all that it promotes, all the sexual perversion, sexual immorality, the sanctity, the holiness of a marriage between one man and one woman, then we should expressively with expression tell people the truth." (79 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "The Bible says that in Genesis, it says sin lies at your door and waits. You better open your door and run that joker off your porch. Anyway, the spirit expressively says in the latter times, how many knows we're living in latter times? We're living in the last days. Some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits. The devil's here to deceive. He's trying to save our sons. He's trying to save our daughters. He's trying to deceive her husband, trying to see their wives. Where are they getting it from? From doctrines of demons. Oh, we've been talking about the doctrines of receiving the Word of God and how to write it about a word of truth. What are we trying to fight it from? The doctrines or the teaching of demons. Either you're under the doctrines of God, or you're under the doctrines of Satan. No, we in between. There ain't no in between." (93 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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