Embracing Worship and Reflection on Mortality

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"just want to remind you why we're here we said we're here to minister to the Lord it's not just about those on the stage ministering to you but you yourself seeing yourself as an active participant and saying we want to minister to you Lord that was the task of the Levites in the Old Testament is your job is just look at him and worship him and minister to him he's a real person who receives worship who can see with all when you with all your heart are taking of the bread and the cup and you're going I am so grateful for this I am so dependent on this this is the thrill of my life to commune with you that me this sinner can partake of the body and blood of Christ and I could be one with him God's honored by that is that exciting to you that there are actually things we can do that he enjoys that he is blessed by" [00:02:35]

"I was doing a funeral and uh it was awesome uh someone even said afterwards they go you you should just do this every day and I said that would be my happy place I could do a funeral every day please let me do your funeral if you know anyone that needs anyone to do a funeral let me do the funeral um I don't charge anything I just love it because it's one of the few times we actually deal with real things and we're struck with our mortality and every funeral you're at there was people who just go man he's my age or or we grew up together or he's younger than me or gosh he just started life or and and and you just think about it" [00:03:21]

"so today was it was my brother-in-law and uh and it was just cool you know recently we read a second Thessalonians as a church in our Bible reading and it talks about those who who aren't idle he says don't don't even hang out don't associate with anyone called himself a brother but he won't work he's like a busy body rather than really busy and working hard with his hands he says make it your ambition to work hard with your hands and live a quiet life like it's a good thing and that's the way my brother-in-law was in fact they took in for uh four kids and adopted them raised them and hearing them talk about their dad today it was it was so cool you know just a guy that was a mechanic worked hard with his hands took in kids like God he was a father to the fatherless" [00:04:25]

"and I was telling the people gosh if I could live my life over I think I would be more like John and Les like me he just was okay with being in the background serving working hard with his hands worshiping God and living a life that's worthy of following and what's really cool was a few weeks ago they were gonna you know he was uh what did you call that when you're on um machines and you're not really coherent yeah kind of incoherent you're just kind of being kept alive and they were going to pull the plug and so you know and turn off all of the machines and and so I called his wife Sonny that morning and just just to pray for her because I knew that's a very difficult thing to do as a wife to go it's time you know reassuring her that look if God wants to do a miracle he doesn't need the machine it's okay don't feel guilty he can save him if he really wants him to live" [00:05:31]

"and so I called and and I'm telling her this she goes hey can I put you on speaker phone because my daughter's here too and she wants to hear what you're saying and they're right there with John's body in between him and she just laid my phone her phone on his chest and I said John if you can hear me I'm praying for you right now we're coming to the presence of God and we're going to pray right now and right then his wife says he he's oh he's opening his eyes and he's looking right at me I'm okay okay John and I'm just like praying to God and I'm telling John I go John this is going to be the greatest moment you've ever felt the greatest day of your existence and then she tells me tears are coming down his eyes right now and I'm just praying and just telling God God this is good this is a good moment this is what we live for" [00:06:47]

"and then verse 2 he says it is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting for this is the end of all mankind and the living will lay it to heart this is the wisest man on Earth he says hey it's better to go to the house where people are just bawling their eyes out the house of mourning it's better to go there than to the house of feasting deep can you ever get excited okay I love Asian food surprise and and there are times when I know I'm gonna go somewhere and I'm just gonna Gorge myself on the best Asian food I know who's cooking or where we're eating and it's just gonna I look forward to that I really do you know and for some of you maybe it's you know a good Subway sandwich you know but uh Fried Chicken uh so so I'm just kidding just kidding okay you're vegan right not anymore you eat meat now oh okay I thought you looked healthier it's brighter okay it's good for you okay" [00:10:54]

"but you know for me I I just I just love I love a good Asian meal that's just the one I'm into but here he says uh it's actually better than going to a party with all the best food and everything else it's better to be in a house of mourning there's something that is so good for us to be in the house of mourning and so when I think about what he says I go you know what I actually agree with him like I would rather I mean as much as I look forward to having you know all my friends together and having a great meal together unless I'm not kidding like I I I really enjoy Memorial services I really love when we're all together and we're actually thinking about something that matters and we're dealing with eternity because because I care about people I love people and and so often we're just thinking about so many stupid things and we're not thinking about that most important second of Our Lives me in the presence of him better to grow the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting for this is the end of all mankind and the living will lay it to heart" [00:12:23]

"there's just something good for my soul to go that's going to be me any day now in our culture here in America we go wow you're talking about some really morbid things but that's not the way Solomon talks about it it's just reality this is life this is our destiny so it's good to stay in the house of mourning verse 3 he says sorrow is better than laughter for by sadness of face the Heart Is Made glad sorrow is better than laughter again I love to laugh there's all right this is one of my favorite is laughing to where tears come out I don't know the last time and the Bible's not against that the Bible says laughter is good medicine it's good when you are laughing so hard that the tears are coming out it's just it's the best just stupid stupid things that you just laugh at and and afterwards there's just like oh you just feel lighter right it just feels so good with all the pressures in the world and everything else there's nothing like laughing to the point of Tears but he says sorrow is even better than that sorrow is better than laughter" [00:15:14]

"remember last week we talked about Godly sorrow and I was praying for a miracle that God would give us Godly sadness because there's something so great about Godly sadness it's the gift when you see your own sin and you don't just feel like shrugging your shoulders like no big deal or your callous to it man that's a that is that is so horrible that is terrifying when you can sin and not feel it and I feel the weight of it that's why the scriptures say that today if you can hear his voice don't Harden your hearts don't let your heart grow calloused it I don't know if you guys have ever picked up a guitar and tried to play it but those who I remember when I first was learning how to play guitar I played it um till my fingers bled that's a song huh it's a summer of 69. and and we I played that guitar you know I just I just wanted to get it down so bad that it kept playing and playing but I wasn't it hurts so bad and suddenly you're you're seeing blood and but you keep playing and pretty soon the next time it hurts less and less and less and pretty soon you develop these things I don't have them anymore because I don't play anymore um you developed these things called calluses to where you can play guitar you don't even feel it on your fingertips anymore see the Bible says that can happen to your heart that you may feel so much pain the first time you sin you're so convicted about a certain particular sin it just was like oh I did that to God you confess it you repent you do it again you're like ah I did that I'm so sorry you do it again ah again again and pretty soon you're looking back you're like man I used to be so sad about this and now I don't even feel it there's a Godly sorrow as I was saying the times when God's convicted me and I'm just bawling my eyes out of how offensive my son that was a good thing" [00:16:54]

"this last Sunday we're looking at uh you remember that story in in Luke chapter 7 where the woman you know who was uh not a good woman had not lived a great life but had been forgiven by Jesus she is on her feet I mean she was on her knees at Jesus's feet and she's weeping this woman is crying crying and her tears are just spilling all over Jesus's feet and the religious leaders are looking at her like what are you doing and Jesus do you know who that is you know what kind of past that woman has and she's and she's bawling and they're just kind of like grossed out by it look at her making a spectacle of herself and God explains to everyone around you don't get it those who have been forgiven much love much so you guys think your life you've lived a pretty good life so when we talk about forgiveness you're like yeah that's I no but if you really felt the weight of your sin that's a gift from God you know God I don't deserve to be here I don't deserve to be in this room ministering to you I know the things that I have done and when God gives you that Grace of Sorrow of pain to where you can cry that's a gift because you recognize your own sinfulness and then you can become like that woman and love my I mean isn't that the goal that we would be such strong lovers of God well the Bible says you love much when you've realized you've sinned much and God has forgiven you of that and so here he's saying sorrow is better than laughter a good cry over the right things is actually better than laughter for by sadness of the heart or sadness of the face the Heart Is Made glad" [00:19:36]

"then verse 4 says the heart of the wise is in the house of mourning but the heart of fools is in the house of Mirth the heart of the wise so where your heart stays the heart of the wise is in the house of mourning that's why I did I don't really want to leave that memorial service I was just at I don't want to transition to another topic I think that's what I'm wrestling with I said well God I I want to feel the weight of that body I want to feel the weight of of a friend of mine who's not here anymore I want to feel the weight of of saying goodbye to your family and then going into your presence I want to feel the pain of missing someone he says the heart of the wise is in the house of mourning look I have done so many funerals and something I notice a trend that started happening especially when young people die is uh people are so anxious to uh get drunk afterwards um I mean I I started doing these funerals where these people would talk about it and even as they're giving their eulogies they'll say things like I know what he would want us to do he wants us to party today and party hard yeah you know and they just go and and let's so after this we're gonna throw the biggest rage one because so wasted so bummed out of our minds I mean they'll say this you know during the eulogies like let's get wasted because this is what he would want this is what she would want and she'll be right there with us and and it is crazy some of the moral Services I've done where people are coming in and they're just dressed like ready to party not in a good way I mean the girls and these little skirts and everything else and it's just like we're gonna have a party right after this why because the Bible says the heart of the wise is in the house of mourning but the heart of fools is in the house of Mirth" [00:22:01]

"and again we live in a time when people say a loving God will not punish that if he's a loving God how could he ever pour out his Wrath that doesn't make sense and yet scripture is filled with his judgment again it's it's the opposite what am I teach because the truth is is if God is Not holy and I am not bad and he does not judge why do I need the cross why are we taking communion it's just a little God we're going to run into up there who's just like us and we'll just argue with him and explain to him oh no no I'm a good person and you're supposed to be loving so you can't you can't punish me so why do we need this why would he send his one and only son to die on a cross but the truth is is he is Holy and there's no way a human being can just come into His presence or even get close to him and the truth is is I'm a rotten Sinner and the thoughts and that's why we confess those things with people who've been confessing those things for hundreds of years before we took communion and we just talked about our sin in word in thought indeed offensive to a holy God a God who is coming back to judge and pour out in Revelation it says is the undiluted wrath of God and he's been storing a breath and that's why we come to the table and go this is the best news ever that God is a loving merciful gracious God and sent his son to pay the penalty for all of my crimes" [00:28:15]

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