Embracing Weakness: Finding Strength in God's Grace

Summary

Today, I explored the profound lessons from the life of Apostle Paul, particularly focusing on his experience with the "thorn in his flesh" as described in 2 Corinthians 12:1-10. This passage vividly illustrates the concept of contentment in suffering and the sufficiency of God's grace.

I began by recounting a personal story of struggle and loss, which resonated with Paul's experiences. Like Paul, I questioned God's purpose in the midst of pain, especially during the challenging times my wife Marie and I faced with infertility. This personal journey echoed the biblical narrative where Paul pleaded with God to remove his thorn, only to receive the response that God's grace was sufficient.

The central theme of my sermon was the idea of surrendering to God's will, even when it contradicts our desires or expectations. I emphasized that God's answers—whether yes, no, or not yet—are always grounded in His ultimate sovereignty and love for us. This surrender is not passive but an active trust in God's timing and plans.

I also addressed the importance of continuing to seek God in times of silence when it feels like He isn't answering. Drawing from the Psalms, I highlighted how even David felt abandoned at times but ultimately reaffirmed his trust in God's faithfulness.

In discussing the nature of God's communication, I clarified the relationship between the written Word of God and His current revelations to us. I stressed that while the Bible remains our infallible standard, God still speaks today through the Holy Spirit, guiding and comforting us in our daily lives. This ongoing conversation with God is crucial for a vibrant and dynamic relationship with Him.

Lastly, I encouraged the congregation to embrace their weaknesses as opportunities for God's strength to manifest, just as Paul did. This perspective shift is not only about enduring hardship but also about recognizing how our trials can lead to greater spiritual depth and reliance on God.

### Key Takeaways

1. Understanding God's Timing and Our Responses
The journey through pain and questioning, much like my own story and Paul's, teaches us about the importance of trusting God's timing. Even when answers seem delayed, and God's silence is palpable, His timing is perfect. This waiting period is not passive; it's an active trust that cultivates depth in our relationship with God. [21:29]

2. The Role of Weakness in Spiritual Strength
Paul's experience with the thorn in his flesh teaches us that our weaknesses are not merely obstacles but opportunities for God's power to be displayed. Embracing our vulnerabilities allows God's strength to manifest more fully in our lives, leading us to rely not on our abilities but on His grace. [25:17]

3. The Necessity of Surrender to Experience God's Promises
Surrender is not about giving up but about giving over control to God. As I learned through personal trials and as Paul exemplified, surrender leads to experiencing God's promises in fuller, more profound ways. This surrender includes accepting God's 'no' as much as His 'yes.' [38:26]

4. Continual Conversation with God Enhances Relationship
Just as personal relationships grow through ongoing communication, our relationship with God deepens through continual conversation. Whether through scripture, prayer, or spiritual discernment, staying in dialogue with God is essential for a mature faith that navigates life's complexities. [44:33]

5. Testing and Confirming God's Voice
In a world filled with noise, learning to discern God's voice is crucial. Testing what we hear against scripture, the character of God, and the counsel of the community helps ensure that we are following His true lead, not our desires or misconceptions. [10:04]

### Youtube Chapters

- [0:00] - Welcome
- [02:12] - Introduction to God Conversations
- [19:33] - Reading of 2 Corinthians 12:1-10
- [21:29] - Personal Testimony on Trusting God
- [25:17] - Paul's Thorn and Our Weaknesses
- [38:26] - Learning from Personal Loss and Surrender
- [44:33] - Trusting God in Silence
- [47:08] - Closing Prayer and Reflection

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
- 2 Corinthians 12:1-10
- John 14:26
- Psalm 22:1-11

#### Observation Questions
1. What was Paul's "thorn in the flesh," and how did he respond to it? (2 Corinthians 12:7-8)
2. How does Paul describe God's response to his plea to remove the thorn? (2 Corinthians 12:9)
3. What role does the Holy Spirit play according to John 14:26? How does this relate to the sermon’s discussion on God’s ongoing communication? ([04:21])
4. In Psalm 22, how does David express his feelings of abandonment, and how does he reaffirm his trust in God? (Psalm 22:1-11)

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Paul say he will boast in his weaknesses? How does this perspective help us understand the sufficiency of God's grace? (2 Corinthians 12:9-10)
2. How can the Holy Spirit's role in teaching and reminding us (John 14:26) enhance our understanding of God's current revelations? ([04:21])
3. What does David's cry in Psalm 22 teach us about expressing our pain and trust in God simultaneously? How does this relate to the sermon’s theme of trusting God in silence? ([29:40])
4. How does the pastor's personal story of struggle and questioning God illustrate the process of surrendering to God's will? ([21:29])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt like Paul, pleading with God to remove a "thorn" in your life. How did you respond to God's answer, whether it was yes, no, or not yet? ([25:17])
2. In what ways can you actively trust God's timing in your current life situation, especially when answers seem delayed or God seems silent? ([29:40])
3. How can you embrace your weaknesses as opportunities for God's strength to manifest in your life? What practical steps can you take to rely more on God's grace rather than your abilities? ([25:17])
4. Think of a recent situation where you struggled to surrender control to God. What did you learn from that experience, and how can you apply those lessons to future challenges? ([38:26])
5. How can you cultivate a continual conversation with God in your daily life? Identify one specific practice (e.g., prayer, scripture reading, journaling) that you can commit to this week to deepen your relationship with Him. ([44:33])
6. When was the last time you tested what you believed to be God's voice against scripture, the character of God, and the counsel of the community? How did this process help you discern God's true lead? ([10:04])
7. How can you support someone in your small group or community who is currently experiencing a period of silence or waiting on God? What practical steps can you take to encourage them to trust in God's timing and plan? ([49:07])

Devotional

Day 1: Trusting God's Perfect Timing
Understanding and embracing God's timing can be challenging, especially during periods of suffering or silence. It's essential to recognize that God's timing is not only perfect but is intricately designed for our growth and spiritual maturity. When answers to prayers seem delayed, it's not a sign of God's absence but an invitation to deepen our trust in Him. This active waiting involves seeking God continually, even when His presence isn't palpably felt, and trusting that He is working behind the scenes for our ultimate good. This process refines us, teaching patience and strengthening our faith in His sovereign plans. [21:29]

James 5:7-8, "Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives the early and late rains. You also, be patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand."

Reflection: What is one situation in your life where you feel impatient with God's timing? How can you actively trust God in this waiting period?

Day 2: Strength in Weakness
The Apostle Paul's struggle with his "thorn in the flesh" teaches us that our weaknesses are not setbacks but are divinely purposed to display God's strength. Embracing our vulnerabilities allows God's power to manifest in our lives, transforming our weaknesses into platforms for His grace and might. This perspective shift encourages us not to despise our limitations but to offer them to God as opportunities for His work to be showcased. This reliance on God's strength fosters a deeper dependency on Him, moving us away from self-reliance to a life marked by divine strength. [25:17]

2 Corinthians 12:9-10, "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

Reflection: Identify a personal weakness or challenge. How can you view it as an opportunity for God's strength to be evident in your life?

Day 3: The Power of Surrender
Surrendering to God involves more than just passive acceptance—it's an active and intentional decision to trust God's sovereignty over every aspect of our lives. This surrender is not about defeat but about victory through God's promises. It requires us to relinquish control, accepting both His 'yes' and 'no' as equally loving and purposeful responses. Through surrender, we experience the fullness of life God intends for us, marked by peace and confidence in His perfect will. [38:26]

Psalm 37:5-7, "Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act. He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday. Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way, over the man who carries out evil devices!"

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find it difficult to surrender to God? What steps can you take to begin surrendering this area to Him?

Day 4: Deepening Our Conversation with God
A dynamic relationship with God is sustained through continual conversation, which includes prayer, meditation on Scripture, and attentive listening to the Holy Spirit. This ongoing dialogue is crucial for spiritual maturity, helping us navigate life's complexities with divine guidance. By maintaining open lines of communication with God, we ensure that our relationship with Him grows deeper and more intimate, enabling us to discern His voice amid life's noise. [44:33]

1 Samuel 3:9-10, "Therefore Eli said to Samuel, 'Go, lie down, and if he calls you, you shall say, 'Speak, Lord, for your servant hears.'' So Samuel went and lay down in his place. And the Lord came and stood, calling as at other times, 'Samuel! Samuel!' And Samuel said, 'Speak, for your servant hears.'"

Reflection: How can you enhance your daily communication with God? What practical steps can you take to make prayer and Scripture reading more integral to your daily routine?

Day 5: Discerning God's Voice
In a world filled with competing voices and distractions, discerning God's voice is essential for following His will. This discernment involves testing what we hear against Scripture, the character of God, and the wisdom of our faith community. By ensuring our guidance aligns with these standards, we guard against deception and grow in confidence that we are walking in God's truth. This practice not only strengthens our faith but also equips us to lead others in truth. [10:04]

Acts 17:11, "Now these Jews were more noble than those in Thessalonica; they received the word with all eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see if these things were so."

Reflection: Consider a recent decision you need to make. How can you apply the practice of testing this decision against Scripture and the character of God to ensure it aligns with His will?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "He has an eternal perspective. And he does things sometimes we don't want to swallow. But actually, they're the best things that we can swallow. Because they'll have the lasting effect. It's like the difference between that horrible yellow antibiotic banana-flavored rubbish that mom used to make me have when I was ill. And cow poll, which I would drink by the bottle. Sometimes the yellow stuff is the stuff that you need." [47:08]( | | )

2. "The Bible tells us test all things and take only what is good. Notice it doesn't say test all things and throw away everything you don't agree with. Notice it doesn't say test all things and throw away what you don't like. It also doesn't say test all things and if you find one bit that's wrong, we throw everything away. It says test all things and take only what is good." [10:04]( | | )

3. "I don't know how many of you may have done the old-fashioned thing. I say old-fashioned thing. You're going to hate me for it. Sent love letters to the lady or the man that you love. That's one way of speaking. That's one way of communicating. If that was the only way you communicated through a letter, then your relationship would be very different to the one you've got when you're sat right next to the person." [13:49]( | | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "Paul had to learn to be content. He says later on in one of the other passages that I have learned to be content in all things. I know what it is to have lots. I know what it is to have nothing. I know what it is to be persecuted and I have found a way. I have been taught how to be content in all these things. We need to be a people that learn to be content in all things." [27:22]( | | )

2. "It wasn't long after that moment that the situation started to turn around. And you all know the result of what happened. Two children. They're like buzzies. You can never get them. But when they do come, they come at once. two of them came 12 months apart from each other. As good as twins. And God gave us back all of that time. But the locust had eaten. But it had to start with surrender." [38:26]( | | )

3. "In those times of sorrow, you have been my God. In those times of violence, in those times of pain, when the God conversations don't seem to be flowing, that's the moment, that's the time when we need to lean into our trust and our faith in God. Why? Because he loves us. Because he's God. Because all authority is his." [40:49]( | | )

4. "You have to trust in the silence that God is still there. Like the song says in Waymaker, even when you can't see him he's still at work. Even when you can't feel him he's still at work. But you also need, we also need. To trust. Trust in his timing." [44:33]( | | )

5. "Don't ever believe the lie that God doesn't care. Don't ever believe the lie that God doesn't want to speak to you. But also don't ever believe the lie that God is all about making you happy. Because he's not. He's about saving your lives." [45:56]( | | )

Embracing Weakness: Finding Strength in God's Grace

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Embracing Weakness: Finding Strength in God's Grace