Embracing Unity and Transformation Through Dying to Self
Devotional
Day 1: Unity Reflects Divine Glory
The glory given to Jesus by the Father is a call for unity among believers, transcending personal differences and reflecting the divine relationship within the Trinity. This unity is not about uniformity but about a deeper connection that mirrors the oneness of Jesus and the Father. In our marriages, families, and church communities, this unity manifests God's glory, inviting us to set aside our differences and seek a shared purpose. By embodying this unity, we become living testimonies of God's presence and love in the world. [00:40]
John 17:21-23 (ESV): "That they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me."
Reflection: Who in your life do you need to reach out to in order to foster unity and reflect God's glory? How can you take a step towards reconciliation today?
Day 2: The Pathway to Abundant Life
The metaphor of the grain of wheat teaches that true life comes through death. By dying to our self-will, pride, and attachments, we open ourselves to God's transformative power. This dying is not a loss but a pathway to abundant life and eternal significance. Embracing this principle challenges us to let go of our attachments and trust in God's plan, knowing that through surrender, we find true freedom and fulfillment. [03:00]
Galatians 2:20 (ESV): "I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need to die to self? How can you begin to surrender this area to God today?
Day 3: Embracing Spiritual Resurrection
1 Corinthians 15 speaks of a spiritual resurrection that follows our dying to self. This resurrection life is characterized by imperishable, glorious, and powerful qualities. Embracing dishonor and weakness is essential for experiencing this transformation. By trusting in God's promise of resurrection, we are empowered to live a life that reflects His glory and strength, even in our weaknesses. [09:05]
2 Corinthians 4:16-18 (ESV): "So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal."
Reflection: In what ways can you embrace your weaknesses today, trusting that God will use them for His glory?
Day 4: True Unity in the Church
For the church to flourish, we must let go of personal preferences and seek God's approval above all. This requires a willingness to embrace dishonor and weakness, trusting that God will raise us in glory and power. True unity is not about outward appearances but about being one in spirit and purpose. By focusing on God's approval, we align ourselves with His purposes and experience the fullness of His life in us. [18:08]
Ephesians 4:2-3 (ESV): "With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
Reflection: How can you contribute to the unity of your church community today? What personal preference might you need to let go of to achieve this?
Day 5: Living for God's Approval
Our focus should be on being approved by God rather than seeking the approval of others. This involves dying to our opinions, preferences, and the need for validation from others. By doing so, we align ourselves with God's purposes and experience the fullness of His life in us. Living for God's approval frees us from the pressures of the world and allows us to live authentically in His love and grace. [41:38]
Colossians 3:23-24 (ESV): "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ."
Reflection: What is one area where you seek approval from others? How can you shift your focus to seeking God's approval in this area today?
Sermon Summary
In today's reflection, we explored the profound truth that the glory given to Jesus by the Father is also offered to us, as stated in John 17:22. This glory is not about personal accolades or worldly success but about unity—being one as Jesus and the Father are one. This unity is a manifestation of God's glory in our lives, marriages, families, and church communities. It calls us to set aside differences and seek deeper connections that reflect the divine relationship within the Trinity.
We also delved into the metaphor of the grain of wheat from John 12:24, which must fall into the ground and die to produce much fruit. This principle of dying to self is essential for true spiritual life and community. It challenges us to let go of our attachments, pride, and self-will, embracing a life of surrender and trust in God's transformative power. This dying is not a loss but a pathway to abundant life and eternal significance.
Furthermore, we examined 1 Corinthians 15, which speaks of the resurrection of the dead. This passage is not only about physical resurrection but also about spiritual renewal. It reminds us that the process of dying to self leads to a resurrection life characterized by imperishable, glorious, and powerful qualities. This transformation requires us to embrace dishonor and weakness, trusting that God will raise us in glory and power.
The call to unity and dying to self is not just for individual growth but for the collective flourishing of the church. We must be willing to let go of our preferences, opinions, and the need for approval from others, focusing solely on being approved by God. This is the path to true unity and the manifestation of God's glory in our midst.
Key Takeaways
1. Unity as Glory: The glory given to Jesus is the unity we are called to embody. This unity transcends personal differences and reflects the divine relationship within the Trinity. It is a call to deeper connections in our marriages, families, and church communities, where God's glory is manifested through our oneness. [00:40]
2. Dying to Self: The metaphor of the grain of wheat teaches us that true life comes through death. By dying to our self-will, pride, and attachments, we open ourselves to God's transformative power. This dying is not a loss but a pathway to abundant life and eternal significance. [03:00]
3. Spiritual Resurrection: 1 Corinthians 15 speaks of a spiritual resurrection that follows our dying to self. This resurrection life is characterized by imperishable, glorious, and powerful qualities. Embracing dishonor and weakness is essential for experiencing this transformation. [09:05]
4. True Unity in the Church: For the church to flourish, we must let go of personal preferences and seek God's approval above all. This requires a willingness to embrace dishonor and weakness, trusting that God will raise us in glory and power. True unity is not about outward appearances but about being one in spirit and purpose. [18:08]
5. Living for God's Approval: Our focus should be on being approved by God rather than seeking the approval of others. This involves dying to our opinions, preferences, and the need for validation from others. By doing so, we align ourselves with God's purposes and experience the fullness of His life in us. [41:38]
Bible Reading: - John 17:22 - John 12:24 - 1 Corinthians 15:35-44 Observation Questions:
According to John 17:22, what is the glory that Jesus received from the Father, and how is it related to unity? [00:40]
In John 12:24, what does the metaphor of the grain of wheat teach us about the necessity of dying to self? [03:00]
How does 1 Corinthians 15:35-44 describe the process of spiritual resurrection and transformation? [09:05]
What examples from the sermon illustrate the concept of dying to self in our daily lives and church community? [18:08]
Interpretation Questions:
How does the unity described in John 17:22 reflect the relationship within the Trinity, and why is this significant for our relationships in the church? [00:40]
What does it mean to "die to self" according to the metaphor of the grain of wheat in John 12:24, and how does this concept challenge our personal ambitions and attachments? [03:00]
In 1 Corinthians 15, what is the significance of being "sown in dishonor" and "raised in glory," and how does this relate to our spiritual journey? [09:05]
How does the sermon suggest we can achieve true unity in the church, and what role does dying to self play in this process? [18:08]
Application Questions:
Reflect on your personal relationships within your family and church. How can you actively pursue unity that reflects the glory of God as described in John 17:22? [00:40]
Identify an area in your life where you struggle with pride or self-will. What steps can you take to "die to self" and allow God's transformative power to work in you? [03:00]
Consider a situation where you feel weak or dishonored. How can you embrace this as part of your spiritual growth, trusting that God will raise you in glory and power? [09:05]
In what ways can you let go of personal preferences and opinions to contribute to the collective flourishing of your church community? [18:08]
Think about a time when you sought approval from others rather than God. How can you shift your focus to living for God's approval in your daily decisions? [41:38]
How can you encourage others in your church to embrace the concept of dying to self for the sake of unity and spiritual growth? [18:08]
What practical steps can you take this week to meditate on and apply the principles of unity and dying to self in your life? [00:59]
Sermon Clips
The glory Jesus is saying to the father, the glory that you have given me, I have given to them and you think what glory is that that they may be one just as you and I are one. Do you think that's a glory? Youth, do you really believe? [00:30:00]
Do you know that the representation of the glory in heaven is manifest in your marriage when you and your husband are one in your home and parents with children experience a unity in a church where brothers and sisters set aside their differences even doctrinal disagreements or different ways of administering things? [01:32:59]
There's a guaranteed way to remain alone all your life and be lonely: refuse to die. Now, the loneliness that he's describes there is quite a different loneliness than what we think of in the world as loneliness. You might actually get by in your life with a lot of friends and a lot of attachments. [03:10:04]
If a grain of wheat does not die, it remains alone. Doesn't matter how many grains of wheat are around it. See, he's not talking about quantity. If a grain of wheat - I have a few grains of wheat at home. I brought a few last week and if I put a whole large number of grains of wheat into a bin, that's not death. [03:40:75]
The more I meditate on what it means for a grain of wheat to fall into the ground and die and actually fall into the ground and die, see there's a difference between hearing and thinking about falling into the ground and dying and the Lord actually seen you die in your earthly circumstance. [07:12:01]
How are you gonna use us, Lord, as a church? How are you going to accomplish your purpose in our lives? I've been reading this chapter a few times this week and the Lord's brought it to light in to my mind, to my heart, in a new light. I always thought about this chapter in the context of physical death and physical resurrection. [08:40:14]
You must die. That's no option. We must die. But then he goes on to say what does the sowing look like? What will it look like when you say, okay, Lord, I take you seriously. You said unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone. What is that gonna look like? [11:26:87]
If your life feels bare, my dear brother, dear sister, in your marriage, in your home, in your church experience, if it feels empty, if it feels bare, have faith. If you're really that grain of wheat that's falling into the ground and die, it will bear fruit. Don't look at the bareness. [16:06:46]
If the Lord had come three months ago, and I speak this for those of you that were here three months ago in this local church, if the Lord had come three months ago, we would be eternally grieving, I think, over the Lord showing us the reality of what we were, that there was not that glory. [17:33:07]
Do you know that if you want this life, if you want God, if we want God to bless and approve of River of Life Christian Fellowship, there must be a dishonor. There must be a dishonor over my life, not that I dishonor God by my actions or by my words. [20:05:92]
If you want the word, the Word of God to become flesh in you, you know it says the word became flesh and dwelt among us, John one, full of grace and truth. What did that mean? That whatever there was something written in the Word of God, both the Old Testament and the New Testament. [21:31:46]
If we want to be raised in unity, Lord, build true unity in our church. I've been praying that for the last few months, my dear brothers and sisters. I don't want to settle for a deception, for a counterfeit. I want unity. I want unity, and I'm willing to do whatever true unity, Lord. [27:21:69]