Embracing Truth: Overcoming Deception in Our Lives

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What's the one thing you don't have to teach a child and the answer is you don't have to teach a kid how to lie why not while we all somehow learn that on our own uh developmental psychologists like accepted wisdom is that kids learn to lie about the time they're two years old or so although there are folks who say actually little infants learn how to use their bodies to disguise what's really going on inside even younger than that. [00:53:03]

There was a story that became public today that was too ironic too striking gets to the core of these kind of issues there's a academician a researcher connected with Harvard who has been placed on leave a number of papers some of which have been cited hundreds of times are being retracted by journals because of fabricated data that irony is that one of the areas of study for this particular academician is honesty. [01:31:58]

The serpent said of the woman did God really say You must not eat from any tree in the garden so it's a very complicated story we often think of the eating of the fruit as the first sin but actually there is sin Defiance of God's Will and betrayal of the truth before that happens and it happens here on the part of the serpent and it's not exactly a lie the the part of the way that we're able to tell ourselves it's okay to lie is that it's not exactly a lie. [04:17:36]

The ability desire temptation to want to shade the truth to deceive another person in order to evade painful consequences or in order to obtain something that I really want is a deep deep part of every human being it's a deep part of every culture not part of the irony of our own country is that probably the most famous story of truth-telling is about George Washington. [05:26:36]

The most famous story about truth-telling in American political history was a lie and this goes deep inside every one of us and there's a deep Shame about lying and be caught in being caught in lies but the reality is we all do it many many years ago our family was on a trip and one of our kids had done something that was wrong it was really clear they had done it. [06:38:52]

My initial response was just to knee jerk say oh honey of course not I would never and then I and then what I actually said was of course I believe you would everybody I know lies I lie your mother lies there is no human being that I know that don't mostly I think you tell the truth but do I think you would lie yes I do and this gets to a deep part of the human condition. [07:20:39]

Generally speaking we want to do what is right but we're prepared to do what is wrong if we think we need to do it it is in our little tool kit for managing life because we do not really trust God One of Dallas Willard's favorite stories in this regard I've heard him tell it a number of times was a little girl who was asked what is a lie and her response was a lie is an Abomination under the Lord and a very present help in time of need. [07:48:06]

I know I shouldn't do it but man if I need it and I think in my own life uh at uh real superficial level somebody asks do you know this person who used to attend the church where you used to serve and I'll find myself just reflexively thinking well I don't want them to think I'm some aloof person that didn't know and care about the people so I want to say yes or maybe or some kind of evasive answer whether than just honestly nope. [08:23:59]

Paul says when he's writing to the church at colossian in the third chapter and do not lie or you could translate it stop lying to one another for you have put off the old self with its practices see for every one of us just growing up this is part of where uh this notion that sin just gets inside of us to deceive gets inside of us early on we need help with this it's a practice of the old self. [09:41:54]

David the psalmist in Psalm 51 6 God you desire truth in the inmost parts it begins by being deeply honest with myself and deeply honest with God deeply honest with my thoughts as they come into my mind so today as best I can as best you can today seek to be a lover of Truth don't allow shame to flood the situation just be curious what is truthful right now about what I'm understanding what I want what I feel. [10:06:48]

The truth about me as shameful as it is to me when I'm caught specifically in it is I lie I hide I deceive I too am crafty I too am the serpent a lie too to me is a very present help in time of trouble but in my best self I don't want that I want there to be truth in the inmost parts I want for my wife and my children for my mom and my siblings and my friends the people around me to know that I am a truth teller a truth speaker a truth lover. [10:56:04]

That's the word for today end of teaching beginning of your honest day with God. [11:33:12]

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