Embracing Truth: Overcoming Deception in Our Lives
Summary
God is a God of new beginnings, and today is a fresh opportunity to embrace His gift of life. As we navigate this day, we are reminded of the innate human tendency to deceive, a trait that emerges early in life. This inclination to lie is not taught; it is a part of our human condition. Even infants, in their innocence, learn to disguise their true feelings. This reality is highlighted by a recent ironic story of a Harvard researcher, an expert on honesty, who was found to have fabricated data. This irony underscores the pervasive nature of deceit in our lives.
The story of the fall in Genesis 3 illustrates the complexity of sin and deception. The serpent's craftiness is not an outright lie but a subtle manipulation of truth, sowing doubt and confusion. This mirrors our own tendencies to shade the truth to avoid consequences or gain something we desire. The famous tale of George Washington and the cherry tree, though likely fabricated, reflects our cultural struggle with truth and deception.
Lying is deeply ingrained in us, often used as a tool to manage life when we lack trust in God. We may justify small lies to maintain our image or avoid discomfort, but these actions reveal a deeper issue of trust and integrity. The shame associated with being caught in a lie is profound, yet it is a common experience for all of us.
As followers of Christ, we are called to a higher standard. Paul, in his letter to the Colossians, urges us to put off the old self and its practices, including deceit. David, in Psalm 51, expresses God's desire for truth in our innermost being. Today, let us strive to be lovers of truth, beginning with honesty with ourselves and God. By seeking truth in our thoughts and words, we align ourselves with God's will and become truth-tellers in our relationships.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Innate Nature of Deception: From a young age, humans exhibit a natural tendency to deceive, a reflection of our fallen nature. This inclination is not taught but is a part of our human condition, highlighting the need for divine intervention to cultivate truthfulness in our lives. [01:07]
2. The Complexity of Sin: The story of the fall in Genesis 3 reveals the subtlety of sin and deception. The serpent's manipulation of truth illustrates how easily we can be led astray, emphasizing the importance of discernment and reliance on God's truth. [04:28]
3. Cultural Struggles with Truth: The fabricated story of George Washington and the cherry tree reflects our cultural struggle with truth and deception. It serves as a reminder of the pervasive nature of lying and the importance of integrity in our lives. [06:44]
4. The Shame of Deception: Being caught in a lie brings deep shame, yet it is a common experience for all. Acknowledging our propensity to deceive is the first step toward seeking God's help in becoming truth-tellers and living with integrity. [09:20]
5. Pursuing Truthfulness: As believers, we are called to put off the old self and embrace truth in our innermost being. By seeking honesty with ourselves and God, we align with His will and become truth-tellers in our relationships, reflecting His character. [10:17]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:42] - Embracing New Beginnings
- [00:54] - The Innate Nature of Deception
- [01:34] - The Irony of Honesty Research
- [02:46] - The Human Condition and Sin
- [03:28] - The Craftiness of the Serpent
- [04:28] - The Complexity of Sin
- [05:23] - The Temptation to Deceive
- [06:05] - The George Washington Story
- [07:00] - The Shame of Deception
- [08:11] - The Reality of Lying
- [09:33] - The Call to Truthfulness
- [10:17] - Pursuing Truth in Our Lives
- [11:06] - The Desire for Integrity
- [11:35] - Beginning an Honest Day with God
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
1. Genesis 3:1-7
2. Colossians 3:9-10
3. Psalm 51:6
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Observation Questions:
1. In Genesis 3, how does the serpent manipulate the truth when speaking to Eve? What specific tactics does he use to sow doubt and confusion? [04:14]
2. According to Colossians 3:9-10, what are believers instructed to do with their "old self"? How does this relate to the theme of truthfulness in the sermon? [09:44]
3. In Psalm 51:6, what does David express as God's desire for our innermost being? How does this align with the sermon’s call to honesty? [10:17]
4. The sermon mentions a fabricated story about George Washington and the cherry tree. How does this story illustrate our cultural struggle with truth and deception? [06:44]
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Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the story of the fall in Genesis 3 illustrate the complexity of sin and deception? What does this suggest about the nature of temptation and our need for discernment? [04:28]
2. In Colossians 3:9-10, Paul urges believers to put off the old self. What might this look like in practical terms, especially in the context of honesty and integrity? [09:44]
3. The sermon highlights the irony of a Harvard researcher on honesty being caught fabricating data. What does this reveal about the human condition and our struggle with truth? [01:34]
4. Reflecting on Psalm 51:6, why is it important for believers to seek truth in their innermost being? How does this pursuit impact their relationship with God and others? [10:17]
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Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you were tempted to deceive to avoid consequences or gain something. How did you handle it, and what would you do differently now? [05:23]
2. The sermon suggests that lying is often a tool we use when we lack trust in God. Identify an area in your life where you struggle to trust God fully. How can you work on building that trust? [07:54]
3. Consider the cultural story of George Washington and the cherry tree. How do cultural narratives influence your understanding of truth and integrity? [06:44]
4. The sermon calls believers to be truth-tellers in their relationships. Identify a relationship where you struggle with honesty. What steps can you take to foster more truthful communication? [10:17]
5. How can you practice being honest with yourself and God this week? What specific actions can you take to align your thoughts and words with God's will? [10:35]
6. Reflect on the shame associated with being caught in a lie. How can you address this shame and seek God's help in becoming more truthful? [09:20]
7. The sermon encourages starting an honest day with God. What morning routine or practice can you implement to begin each day with a focus on truthfulness? [11:35]
Devotional
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Quotes
What's the one thing you don't have to teach a child and the answer is you don't have to teach a kid how to lie why not while we all somehow learn that on our own uh developmental psychologists like accepted wisdom is that kids learn to lie about the time they're two years old or so although there are folks who say actually little infants learn how to use their bodies to disguise what's really going on inside even younger than that. [00:53:03]
There was a story that became public today that was too ironic too striking gets to the core of these kind of issues there's a academician a researcher connected with Harvard who has been placed on leave a number of papers some of which have been cited hundreds of times are being retracted by journals because of fabricated data that irony is that one of the areas of study for this particular academician is honesty. [01:31:58]
The serpent said of the woman did God really say You must not eat from any tree in the garden so it's a very complicated story we often think of the eating of the fruit as the first sin but actually there is sin Defiance of God's Will and betrayal of the truth before that happens and it happens here on the part of the serpent and it's not exactly a lie the the part of the way that we're able to tell ourselves it's okay to lie is that it's not exactly a lie. [04:17:36]
The ability desire temptation to want to shade the truth to deceive another person in order to evade painful consequences or in order to obtain something that I really want is a deep deep part of every human being it's a deep part of every culture not part of the irony of our own country is that probably the most famous story of truth-telling is about George Washington. [05:26:36]
The most famous story about truth-telling in American political history was a lie and this goes deep inside every one of us and there's a deep Shame about lying and be caught in being caught in lies but the reality is we all do it many many years ago our family was on a trip and one of our kids had done something that was wrong it was really clear they had done it. [06:38:52]
My initial response was just to knee jerk say oh honey of course not I would never and then I and then what I actually said was of course I believe you would everybody I know lies I lie your mother lies there is no human being that I know that don't mostly I think you tell the truth but do I think you would lie yes I do and this gets to a deep part of the human condition. [07:20:39]
Generally speaking we want to do what is right but we're prepared to do what is wrong if we think we need to do it it is in our little tool kit for managing life because we do not really trust God One of Dallas Willard's favorite stories in this regard I've heard him tell it a number of times was a little girl who was asked what is a lie and her response was a lie is an Abomination under the Lord and a very present help in time of need. [07:48:06]
I know I shouldn't do it but man if I need it and I think in my own life uh at uh real superficial level somebody asks do you know this person who used to attend the church where you used to serve and I'll find myself just reflexively thinking well I don't want them to think I'm some aloof person that didn't know and care about the people so I want to say yes or maybe or some kind of evasive answer whether than just honestly nope. [08:23:59]
Paul says when he's writing to the church at colossian in the third chapter and do not lie or you could translate it stop lying to one another for you have put off the old self with its practices see for every one of us just growing up this is part of where uh this notion that sin just gets inside of us to deceive gets inside of us early on we need help with this it's a practice of the old self. [09:41:54]
David the psalmist in Psalm 51 6 God you desire truth in the inmost parts it begins by being deeply honest with myself and deeply honest with God deeply honest with my thoughts as they come into my mind so today as best I can as best you can today seek to be a lover of Truth don't allow shame to flood the situation just be curious what is truthful right now about what I'm understanding what I want what I feel. [10:06:48]
The truth about me as shameful as it is to me when I'm caught specifically in it is I lie I hide I deceive I too am crafty I too am the serpent a lie too to me is a very present help in time of trouble but in my best self I don't want that I want there to be truth in the inmost parts I want for my wife and my children for my mom and my siblings and my friends the people around me to know that I am a truth teller a truth speaker a truth lover. [10:56:04]
That's the word for today end of teaching beginning of your honest day with God. [11:33:12]
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