Embracing Total Surrender to Christ

let's start by affirming the goal that maria expresses namely to be totally surrendered to christ nothing held back yeah now i know and perhaps maria knows that the language of surrender is not explicitly found in the new testament but the reality is there the picture of surrender is that once we were enemies and our lives were at odds with god we did not submit to him we were not surrendered to him we were our own masters doing our own will robbing god of not only everything he's given to us but our souls as well and then a miracle happens and we're born again and everything turns around we don't want to withhold anything from god anymore we are eager to be totally at his disposal do anything he wants at any cost and we want to do it in the power that he supplies so that in everything he gets the glory that's what it means to be saved from the old way so the reality of surrender is there even if the language is not [00:71:52]

any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple or matthew 10 37 whoever loves mother a father more than me is not worthy of me and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me or matthew 22 37 you shall love the lord your god with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind or philippians 3 7 whatever gain i had i counted as loss for the sake of christ indeed i count everything is lost because of the surpassing worth of knowing christ jesus my lord for his sake i have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish in order that i may gain christ [00:162:56]

i want to love nothing more than i love jesus i want to love god with not just a part of my heart but all of my heart i want to treasure jesus more than everything in the world how can she know if her heart has arrived at this kind of full surrender full allegiance full affection now i have to say something very sobering even before i make some suggestions about how to move towards the enjoyment of this assurance that you are surrendered none of us this is very sobering let us sink in none of us will ever get to a point in our christian maturity where it is not possible theoretically to doubt the authenticity of our surrender [00:244:64]

think of it paul said in first corinthians 13 3 if i give away all i have and if i deliver my body to be burned but have not love i gain nothing wow so if you can actually not just theoretically but actually give your life and yet not be really loving not fully surrendered to love then how easy it is to imagine that dozens of behaviors less than the ultimate sacrifice will not give you a sense of assurance that you have surrendered all is it not shocking it is to me oh my goodness this is shocking to realize that john piper could actually have the courage to be burned at the stake and in those last horrible moments with the flames licking in pain at my skin to have the thought enter my mind you're not real piper you're not really surrendered you're not a real christian you just want to be remembered as famous you're just a fake you're just trying to earn your salvation that's a scary thought or as i said sobering we never get beyond the theoretical possibility of doubting our full surrender [00:325:68]

so what do we do live in perpetual doubt and fear of failing in in the very thing jesus requires of us whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me it's not optional have we surrendered the love of father and mother have we surrendered the love of son and daughter to the extent that jesus is loved supremely what do we do it's clear to me really clear that the new testament does not want us to live in such fear he doesn't want us to lay down our head every night and say well i have no idea whether i was real today or not [00:429:919]

i would say three things number one say to jesus so i'm just basically giving you how i fight this battle as i see it laid out in scripture three steps one say to jesus and mean it with as much truthfulness as you can i love you jesus i love you more than i love anyone say it say it out loud around people or not around people say it hell out i surrender all other loves as subordinate to you and i ask that if there is any self-deceit in my saying this you would take it away at any cost taken away and caused me to speak truly and authentically i say things like that to the lord regularly i express my love to him my allegiance to him my trust and then very honestly i admit to him that my heart is deceitful there are hidden faults and would he please kill in me all that is contrary to my confession of my surrender and make me pure and truthful [00:480:879]

you may be surprised how the verbal out loud declaration of your full surrender and full allegiance and full trust intensifies the very thing you are affirming that's number one say it out loud and ask god to kill everything in you contrary to what you're saying number two i would say act so the first one was say and the second one is act on some godly inclinations that he gives you which might stretch your competency or confidence so that you have to throw yourself on his mercy and power to help you more than if you didn't do the act and say to him in the doing of it that you are not trying to negotiate or earn anything and ask him to give you the power and the love to do it in the name of jesus authentically so that he gets the glory and you may be surprised that in the actual doing of acts of surrender with that kind of prayer the reality of the surrender becomes more authentic [00:563:92]

and finally number three this is the ultimate bottom line since the confidence that you are acting in full surrender can always be doubted theoretically can always be doubted ask your heavenly father that he would work the miracle of romans 8 16 in your life that he would take away the doubt just take it away you can't make it go away the more you focus on telling it to go away the more you think about it it's like i will not think about white elephants i will not think about white nothing you do can make it go away but he can take it away the spirit bears witness with our spirit that we are the children of god so number one speak the truth of full surrender number two act the truth of full surrender number three pray for the gift of assurance of full surrender [00:650:959]

thank you pastor john and thank you for the great question maria from the netherlands i know we have listeners outside of the states and we are really grateful to god for all of you international listeners thank you for carving out uh some time in your day to join us we really appreciate it and thank you for sending in your questions if you want new episodes of this podcast delivered to you subscribe to the ask pastor john podcast in your favorite podcast app or in spotify or by subscribing to dg's youtube channel and to find other episodes in our archive or to submit a question to us of your own like maria did today you can do that online at desiringguide.org forward slash ask pastor john [00:716:8]