Embracing the Godly Role of Fatherhood
Summary
### Summary
Happy Father's Day to all the fathers and father figures at Grace Chapel! Today, we celebrate the incredible role of fathers and the significant impact they have on their families and society. Being a godly father is a challenging yet rewarding task, and it is essential to recognize the importance of this role in shaping the next generation.
We are concluding our series on parenting, "Raising Arrows," with a focus on fathers. Our theme verse from Psalm 127 reminds us that children are a gift from the Lord, like arrows in the hands of a warrior. Today, we turn to Joshua 24, where Joshua, a father and leader, challenges the Israelites to serve the Lord wholeheartedly. Joshua's words are direct and powerful, urging the people to choose whom they will serve and declaring his own commitment: "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
Fathers go through various stages in their relationships with their children, from being seen as all-knowing heroes to being perceived as out-of-touch, and eventually being recognized for their wisdom and guidance. There is a great need for godly fathers who live up to the biblical responsibilities set before them. Society often undermines the role of fathers, but as Christians, we are called to be different, to lead our families with love, dedication, and determination.
Joshua exemplifies a father who is different, dedicated, and determined. He made a decision to serve the Lord and lead his family in doing the same. Fathers today must also make this commitment, recognizing the influence they have on their families. Statistics show that when fathers lead in faith, the entire family is more likely to follow.
Being a godly father involves being present, loving, and dedicated to the Lord. It starts with a heart devoted to God, which then influences every aspect of life, including parenting. Fathers must be determined to lead their families in serving the Lord, being the example, and spending quality time with their children.
In conclusion, let us be strong and courageous, knowing that the Lord is with us wherever we go. Fathers, be the godly leaders your families need, and trust in God's guidance and strength.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Role of a Godly Father: Fathers have a significant impact on their families and society. Being a godly father involves leading with love, dedication, and determination, recognizing the immense responsibility and privilege of shaping the next generation. [33:16]
2. Stages of Father-Child Relationships: Fathers go through various stages in their relationships with their children, from being seen as heroes to being recognized for their wisdom. It is essential to remain steadfast and committed to being a godly influence throughout these stages. [34:22]
3. The Importance of Being Different: As Christians, fathers are called to be different from the world, leading their families with a commitment to God's principles. This involves making decisions based on the God within us rather than the culture around us. [44:46]
4. Dedication Starts in the Heart: A father's dedication to God begins in the heart and influences every aspect of life, including parenting. It is crucial to love the Lord with all your heart, as this devotion will guide and strengthen your role as a father. [52:06]
5. Determination to Serve the Lord: Fathers must be determined to lead their families in serving the Lord, being the example, and spending quality time with their children. This determination involves making a conscious decision to prioritize God's will and guidance in family life. [59:17]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[27:34] - Father's Day Jokes and Congratulations
[28:15] - Welcome Guests and Online Viewers
[29:08] - Discover Grace Event
[29:57] - New Staff Members and Church Growth
[31:28] - Conclusion of Parenting Series
[32:15] - Theme Verses from Psalms
[33:16] - The Role of Fathers
[34:22] - Stages of Father-Child Relationships
[36:01] - The Need for Godly Fathers
[41:54] - Joshua's Challenge to Serve the Lord
[44:46] - Being Different as Christian Fathers
[52:06] - Dedication Starts in the Heart
[59:17] - Determination to Serve the Lord
[01:05:26] - Encouragement to Be Strong and Courageous
[01:06:03] - Invitation to Salvation
[01:08:00] - Closing Prayer and Altar Call
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Psalm 127:3-5: "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate."
2. Joshua 24:14-15: "Now therefore fear the Lord and serve him in sincerity and in faithfulness. Put away the gods that your fathers served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord. And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
#### Observation Questions
1. According to Psalm 127, how are children described and what metaphor is used to illustrate their value?
2. In Joshua 24:14-15, what choice does Joshua present to the Israelites, and what declaration does he make for his own household?
3. What are the different stages of father-child relationships mentioned in the sermon, and how do perceptions of fathers change over time? [33:16]
4. What societal issues are linked to the absence of godly fathers according to the sermon? [34:22]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Joshua emphasize the need to "put away the gods" that the Israelites' fathers served? How does this relate to the concept of being a godly father today? [41:54]
2. How does the metaphor of children as "arrows in the hand of a warrior" in Psalm 127 relate to the responsibilities of a father?
3. The sermon mentions that dedication to God starts in the heart. How does this internal dedication manifest in a father's actions and decisions? [52:06]
4. What does it mean for a father to be "different" from the world, and how can this difference impact his family and community? [44:46]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on Joshua's declaration, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." What steps can you take to ensure that your household serves the Lord wholeheartedly? [41:54]
2. The sermon highlights the importance of fathers being present and spending quality time with their children. What specific activities or routines can you implement to spend more meaningful time with your family? [57:20]
3. Consider the societal challenges mentioned in the sermon that arise from fatherlessness. How can you, as a father or father figure, contribute to addressing these issues within your community? [34:22]
4. The sermon discusses the need for fathers to be dedicated to God. What are some practical ways you can deepen your relationship with God and model this dedication to your children? [52:06]
5. Joshua was determined to lead his family in serving the Lord. What are some potential obstacles you might face in leading your family spiritually, and how can you overcome them? [59:17]
6. The sermon mentions the influence of a father's faith on the entire family. How can you actively demonstrate your faith in everyday situations to inspire your family to follow Christ? [56:17]
7. Reflect on the idea that love is spelled T-I-M-E. Identify one specific way you can invest more time in your relationship with your children or those you mentor this week. [57:20]
Devotional
Day 1: The Role of a Godly Father
A godly father has a profound impact on his family and society. Fathers are called to lead with love, dedication, and determination, recognizing the immense responsibility and privilege of shaping the next generation. This role is not just about providing for physical needs but also about nurturing spiritual growth and moral integrity. Fathers are to be the spiritual leaders in their homes, guiding their families in the ways of the Lord and setting an example of godliness and faithfulness. The influence of a godly father extends beyond the immediate family, impacting the broader community and society as a whole. [33:16]
Psalm 78:5-7 (ESV): "He established a testimony in Jacob and appointed a law in Israel, which he commanded our fathers to teach to their children, that the next generation might know them, the children yet unborn, and arise and tell them to their children, so that they should set their hope in God and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments."
Reflection: How can you, as a father or father figure, intentionally lead your family in spiritual growth and set an example of godliness today?
Day 2: Stages of Father-Child Relationships
Fathers experience various stages in their relationships with their children, from being seen as all-knowing heroes to being perceived as out-of-touch, and eventually being recognized for their wisdom and guidance. It is essential for fathers to remain steadfast and committed to being a godly influence throughout these stages. Each stage presents unique challenges and opportunities for growth, both for the father and the child. By staying connected to God and seeking His wisdom, fathers can navigate these stages with grace and continue to be a source of strength and guidance for their children. [34:22]
Proverbs 4:1-4 (ESV): "Hear, O sons, a father's instruction, and be attentive, that you may gain insight, for I give you good precepts; do not forsake my teaching. When I was a son with my father, tender, the only one in the sight of my mother, he taught me and said to me, 'Let your heart hold fast my words; keep my commandments, and live.'"
Reflection: Reflect on the current stage of your relationship with your children. How can you be a consistent and godly influence in their lives during this stage?
Day 3: The Importance of Being Different
As Christians, fathers are called to be different from the world, leading their families with a commitment to God's principles. This involves making decisions based on the God within us rather than the culture around us. In a society that often undermines the role of fathers, Christian fathers are to stand firm in their faith and lead their families according to biblical values. This distinction is not just about outward behavior but about a heart transformed by God's love and truth. By being different, fathers can provide a strong foundation for their families and be a light in a dark world. [44:46]
Romans 12:2 (ESV): "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."
Reflection: In what ways can you lead your family differently from the world, based on God's principles? What specific changes can you make today to align more closely with God's will?
Day 4: Dedication Starts in the Heart
A father's dedication to God begins in the heart and influences every aspect of life, including parenting. It is crucial to love the Lord with all your heart, as this devotion will guide and strengthen your role as a father. When a father's heart is fully devoted to God, it naturally overflows into his actions, decisions, and interactions with his family. This heartfelt dedication is the foundation for leading a family in faith and setting a godly example. Fathers must continually seek to deepen their relationship with God, allowing His love and truth to shape their hearts and lives. [52:06]
Deuteronomy 6:5-7 (ESV): "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise."
Reflection: How can you cultivate a deeper love for God in your heart? What steps can you take to ensure that this love influences your parenting and daily life?
Day 5: Determination to Serve the Lord
Fathers must be determined to lead their families in serving the Lord, being the example, and spending quality time with their children. This determination involves making a conscious decision to prioritize God's will and guidance in family life. It requires intentionality and perseverance, especially in the face of challenges and distractions. By committing to serve the Lord wholeheartedly, fathers can inspire their families to do the same and create a legacy of faithfulness. This determination is not just about words but about consistent actions that reflect a genuine commitment to God and His purposes. [59:17]
Joshua 24:15 (ESV): "And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
Reflection: What specific steps can you take today to lead your family in serving the Lord? How can you demonstrate your determination to prioritize God's will in your family life?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "Being a father is not an easy task. And it's certainly not easy task being a godly father, but it's an enormous privilege, and I believe it's worth it all." (12 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "Whatever the circumstance that you find yourself in, I want you to hear right up front that we as Christians have a heavenly father who loves and cares for us and knows everything about our situation. He knows exactly how we feel and what we actually need today." (17 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "We serve a great God who loves us and cares for us and who is our heavenly father." (5 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "Joshua told the children, no matter what you choose to do, he was going to serve the Lord. We need some fathers who will have that kind of attitude to say, hey, I don't care what everybody else does. I'm going to serve the Lord." (17 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "Joshua was determined to love the Lord because he recognized how much God loved him. And that's really where it comes down to. I think when we understand that God loves us, he loves us. He loves us so much. And we just kind of, we say it, we sing it, but do we really understand it? Do we really believe it? That God loves us so much?" (25 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
### Quotes for Members
1. "There's a great need today for godly fathers. For fathers that live up to the task that the Bible talks about, that God himself has set before us. One of the reasons that I believe society is spinning out of control and we see a younger generation who has fallen into all kinds of mess, into drugs, immorality, atheism, amorality, chaos, confusion, lack of clarity. Is because fathers have disregarded the responsibilities that God has given to them." (36 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "Joshua is essentially saying I've made a decision that my decisions will be defined, not by the culture in which surrounds me, but by the God that's inside of me. That's the decision that Joseph, uh, excuse me, Joshua is making. God commands his people and, and, and us as fathers to be different and separate from the world. How are you as a Christian? And how are you as a Christian father different from the world is your commitment to being a godly father, different from that of other earthly fathers." (39 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "Joshua had made a commitment to the Lord that began in his heart. In Joshua chapter 22, verse four. It says this. And now the Lord, your God has given the other tribes rest as he promised them. So go back home to the land that Moses, the servant of the Lord gave you as your possession on the east side of the Jordan River. But be very careful to obey all the commands and the instructions that Moses gave to you. Then he reminds them, love the Lord, your God. Walk in all his ways. Obey his commands. Hold firmly to him and serve him. With all your heart and all your soul." (42 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "Joshua was determined to be the leader that God had called him to be. And God has called all of us as fathers to be the leader of our homes. Don't get me wrong. When the father doesn't lead, as I said a few minutes ago, many times the, the wife, the mother is forced to lead. Joshua was determined that what not happen in his household, he was going to serve the Lord. And by faith, he was declaring that his household would serve the Lord determined to serve." (36 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "Joshua was determined to love the Lord. He had recognized God's love for him. You, say, well, how was he loved by God? He was delivered out of Egypt by the power of God. He was kept in the wilderness by the grace of God. He was victorious over Jericho by the hand of God. And all of this was due to the love of God. What about you? Are you aware of the blessing of God's work in your family?" (24 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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