Embracing the Divine Call of Motherhood
Summary
Today, we celebrate the profound gift and calling of motherhood, recognizing not only biological mothers but also spiritual mothers, adoptive mothers, and all who nurture and care for others. God, though often described as Father, also embodies the nurturing, protective qualities of a mother, sheltering us under His wings. From the very beginning, God’s wisdom was evident in the creation of woman, granting her the unique ability to multiply and nurture life. Yet, motherhood is not without its challenges, and often, mothers are faced with situations where the rules of culture, tradition, or even family must be weighed against the higher calling of God’s purpose and the needs of their children.
There is a distinction between laws—those unchanging principles established by God or governing authorities—and rules, which are often shaped by culture, tradition, or circumstance. While laws are to be honored, there are times when rules must be broken for the sake of love, protection, or obedience to God’s higher purpose. This is seen in the lives of three mothers in Scripture: Mary, Rebekah, and Jochebed.
Mary, the mother of Jesus, recognized the potential and calling in her son before anyone else did. At the wedding in Cana, she pressed Jesus into action, even when He said His time had not yet come. Her faith and insight drew out the miraculous, reminding us that sometimes, mothers must act with boldness and spiritual discernment, even when it seems out of step with the expected order.
Rebekah, the mother of Jacob, acted with strategy and determination when she saw that the blessing intended for Esau was not in line with what God had revealed to her. She intervened, not out of favoritism, but out of obedience to a word she had received from God. Her story challenges us to seek God’s perspective on our children and to act with wisdom, even when it means going against tradition.
Jochebed, the mother of Moses, defied the edict of Pharaoh to save her son, acting with courage and creativity. She saw something special in Moses and was willing to risk everything to preserve his life and destiny. Her example calls us to discern the unique gifts in our children and to be relentless in our advocacy and prayer for them.
Ultimately, the call is not just to follow rules, but to uphold the laws and principles of God’s kingdom, teaching them to the next generation. This requires wisdom, strategy, and a deep relationship with God, so that we can discern when to stand firm and when to act boldly for the sake of our children’s destinies.
Key Takeaways
- God’s Nurturing Nature and Our Identity
God’s love encompasses both the strength of a father and the nurturing care of a mother. In times of adversity or uncertainty, we can rest in the assurance that God covers and protects us, regardless of our role or status. This truth invites us to find our identity and security in Him, knowing that His thoughts and plans for us are higher than our own. [51:42]
- The Difference Between Laws and Rules
Understanding the distinction between God’s unchanging laws and human-made rules is crucial. While laws are foundational and carry divine authority, rules often reflect cultural norms or traditions that may need to be challenged for the sake of love, justice, or obedience to God. Discernment is needed to know when to uphold tradition and when to break with it for a higher purpose. [58:34]
- The Power of Spiritual Discernment in Motherhood
Mary’s example at Cana shows the importance of spiritual discernment and boldness. Sometimes, mothers (and all believers) must act in faith, even when circumstances or timing seem unfavorable. Recognizing the potential in others and calling it forth requires a deep relationship with God and the courage to move beyond what is comfortable or expected. [01:02:05]
- Strategic Wisdom and Obedience to God’s Voice
Rebekah’s story highlights the necessity of seeking God’s perspective on our children and situations. Rather than relying solely on tradition or the status quo, we are called to inquire of the Lord, listen for His direction, and act with wisdom and strategy. This may mean making difficult decisions that others do not understand, but obedience to God’s revealed will is paramount. [01:08:38]
- The Call to Teach and Model Kingdom Principles
It is not enough to enforce rules; we must teach the principles and laws of God’s kingdom to the next generation. This involves modeling honor, integrity, and faith in our own lives, so that our children learn not just by instruction but by example. Even if our children are grown or have strayed, prayer and godly strategy can still impact their lives, as the Holy Spirit is able to reach and transform them. [01:21:26]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[00:30] - Honoring All Mothers
[02:10] - God’s Nurturing Nature
[04:00] - The Unique Role of Women in Creation
[07:00] - Laws vs. Rules: Understanding the Difference
[13:00] - Cultural Rules and Motherhood Myths
[18:00] - When Rules Change: Personal Stories
[22:00] - Jesus and the Law: Matthew 5
[28:00] - Teaching Kingdom Principles
[32:00] - Mary at Cana: Faith and Timing
[38:00] - Rebekah’s Strategy: Jacob and Esau
[45:00] - Jochebed’s Courage: Saving Moses
[52:00] - The Power of Prayerful Motherhood
[58:00] - Modeling Kingdom Living for the Next Generation
[01:04:00] - Prayer and Blessing for Mothers
Study Guide
Small Group Bible Study Guide: Sometimes a Mother Has to Break the Rules
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### Bible Reading
- Matthew 5:17-19
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished. Therefore whoever relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”
- John 2:1-5
The story of Mary at the wedding in Cana, where she urges Jesus to act, leading to His first miracle.
- Exodus 1:22–2:4
The story of Jochebed, Moses’ mother, who defied Pharaoh’s order to save her son.
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### Observation Questions
1. In Matthew 5:17-19, what does Jesus say about the Law and its importance for His followers?
2. According to John 2:1-5, how did Mary respond when the wine ran out at the wedding, and what was Jesus’ initial reaction?
3. What actions did Jochebed take to protect Moses, and what risks did she face in Exodus 1:22–2:4?
4. The sermon mentioned that God’s love is both nurturing and protective, like a mother’s care. What scripture or imagery was used to describe this aspect of God? ([00:30])
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus emphasized that He came to fulfill the Law, not abolish it? How does this shape our understanding of the difference between God’s laws and human rules? ([22:00])
2. What does Mary’s boldness at the wedding in Cana teach us about spiritual discernment and timing, especially when it comes to advocating for others? ([59:46])
3. Rebekah acted against tradition to ensure Jacob received the blessing. How does her story challenge us to seek God’s perspective over cultural expectations? ([01:08:38])
4. Jochebed risked everything to save Moses. What does her example show us about courage and faith when facing threats to our children or loved ones? ([01:12:33])
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon talked about the difference between laws and rules, and that sometimes rules must be broken for a higher purpose. Can you think of a “rule” (not a law) in your family, culture, or church that you’ve felt conflicted about? How did you handle it, or how might you handle it differently now? ([13:00])
2. Mary saw the potential in Jesus before anyone else did and acted in faith. Is there someone in your life—child, friend, or family member—whose potential you see but others might not? How can you encourage or advocate for them this week? ([01:02:05])
3. Rebekah sought God’s perspective about her children before acting. When was the last time you asked God specifically about your child’s (or someone you care for’s) destiny or struggles? What did you sense, and how did it affect your actions? ([01:08:38])
4. Jochebed was creative and courageous in protecting Moses. Are there areas where you need to be more strategic or bold in advocating for your children or those you care for? What’s one step you could take this week? ([01:14:07])
5. The sermon emphasized modeling kingdom principles, not just enforcing rules. What is one principle of God’s kingdom (like honor, integrity, or faith) that you want to model more intentionally at home? What would that look like in your daily life? ([01:21:26])
6. For those whose children are grown or far from God, the sermon encouraged prayer and godly strategy. Is there a specific way you can pray or reach out to an adult child or young person this week? ([01:21:26])
7. The pastor mentioned that sometimes mothers (and all believers) feel overwhelmed or unsupported. What support do you need right now, and how can the group pray for you or help you in this season? ([01:26:50])
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Closing Prayer:
Invite group members to share prayer requests, especially for wisdom, discernment, and courage in their roles as parents, mentors, or spiritual mothers/fathers. Pray for God’s nurturing presence and guidance for each person and their families.
Devotional
Day 1: God’s Laws vs. Human Rules: Knowing the Difference
God’s laws are unchanging and foundational, while human rules and traditions often shift with culture and time. As followers of Christ, it is vital to discern between what God has truly commanded and what is simply a tradition or expectation passed down by people. While rules can be helpful for order, only God’s laws carry eternal weight and govern the Kingdom of Heaven. We are called to teach and obey these divine principles, not just follow or enforce human customs. Let us seek wisdom to distinguish between the two, so that we may honor God above all else. [56:00]
Matthew 5:17-19 (ESV)
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished. Therefore whoever relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”
Reflection: What is one “rule” or tradition you’ve followed that you now realize is not a command of God? How can you focus more on living out God’s true laws this week?
Day 2: A Mother’s Faith Can Call Forth Miracles
Mary, the mother of Jesus, demonstrated bold faith by urging Jesus to act at the wedding in Cana, even when it seemed the timing was not right. Sometimes, mothers (and all believers) must step out in faith, trusting in God’s power and timing, even when circumstances or “the rules” say otherwise. Mary’s confidence in Jesus’ identity and ability led to a miracle that blessed many. In moments of need, do not hesitate to bring your requests to Jesus and be ready to act on whatever He tells you. [01:02:05]
John 2:1-5 (ESV)
On the third day there was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus also was invited to the wedding with his disciples. When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”
Reflection: Is there a situation in your life where you need to boldly bring your need to Jesus, even if it feels “out of order” or unconventional? What step of faith can you take today?
Day 3: Seeking God’s Wisdom for Our Children’s Destiny
Rebekah, the mother of Jacob, sought God when she sensed something unusual about her children, and God revealed their destinies to her. She acted with wisdom and strategy, even when it meant going against established customs, to ensure God’s purpose was fulfilled. As parents and spiritual leaders, we are called to seek God’s insight about the children entrusted to us, to discern their unique callings, and to guide them accordingly. Don’t just rely on tradition or what others expect—ask God for revelation and direction for your family. [01:08:38]
Genesis 25:21-23 (ESV)
And Isaac prayed to the Lord for his wife, because she was barren. And the Lord granted his prayer, and Rebekah his wife conceived. The children struggled together within her, and she said, “If it is thus, why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the Lord. And the Lord said to her, “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the older shall serve the younger.”
Reflection: Have you asked God to reveal His purpose for your children or those you mentor? What is one way you can intentionally seek His wisdom for their lives this week?
Day 4: Courage and Strategy in Protecting the Next Generation
Jochebed, the mother of Moses, displayed remarkable courage and strategy by defying Pharaoh’s deadly decree to save her son. She recognized something special in Moses and took bold, creative action to protect him, trusting God with the outcome. In a world full of dangers and challenges, we are called to be vigilant, discerning, and proactive in safeguarding the destinies of our children and those under our care. Let us pray for wisdom and the courage to act decisively when the well-being of the next generation is at stake. [01:14:07]
Exodus 2:1-4 (ESV)
Now a man from the house of Levi went and took as his wife a Levite woman. The woman conceived and bore a son, and when she saw that he was a fine child, she hid him three months. When she could hide him no longer, she took for him a basket made of bulrushes and daubed it with bitumen and pitch. She put the child in it and placed it among the reeds by the river bank. And his sister stood at a distance to know what would be done to him.
Reflection: What danger or challenge facing your family or community requires you to act with courage and strategy? How can you prayerfully take a step to protect or advocate for someone today?
Day 5: Teaching and Living the Principles of God’s Kingdom
It is not enough to enforce rules; we must teach and model the principles and laws of God’s Kingdom to the next generation. Children learn not just from what we say, but from how we live—our honor, our love, our faithfulness. Even if your children are grown or you feel it’s “too late,” prayer and godly strategy can still impact their lives. Let us commit to living out God’s truth authentically, so that our children and those around us see the reality of the Kingdom in us and are drawn to follow Christ themselves. [01:21:26]
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV)
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
Reflection: What is one principle of God’s Kingdom you need to model more intentionally in your home or relationships? How can you begin to live this out in a practical way today?
Quotes
I also want to point out that as mothers, we have to be aware of why God sent these children on the earth. You have to know the potential of your children. And sometimes, they may not know that they're ready to do the things that God is calling them to do. But we have to be like Mary, wise and strategic, and say, no, this is what God called you to do. [01:03:02] (25 seconds)
How many of us have asked God about our children? I want to challenge us. Sometimes things might be happening. You might have a little bit of rivalry in the home. You don't know why the children are acting like that. They're always tussling. I know there are people in this church who have twins and stuff. So, you know, it could be a little thing, right? But we could go back to God and ask why, what it is about these children. [01:09:28] (30 seconds)
Ladies, sometimes we look at our children and they may be weird. I want us to not think about our children as weird. I want us to ask God, what is this child's special ability? And then go the distance and do what is necessary. Be determined that that child will fulfill what God want them to do on this earth. [01:13:59] (30 seconds)
We need to get to the stage where we are strategic and we perceive, we think, we know, we pick up when our children are in danger. Jacob and you hear what? If they see this child, that's it there. And sometimes there are things coming after our children and we are casual about it. We're very comfortable with danger and I need for us to be like Jacob and be a little bit more strategic and discern and recognize what time it is. [01:15:40] (36 seconds)
We have to have a measure of wisdom as it pertains to raising our children. We have to be strategic and determined. Ultimately, mothers, I believe that all of this comes from our walk with God. [01:18:31] (18 seconds)
Let us not wait until our child is a druggie or the child run away or something horrible happen to then try to establish a relationship with the lord it is imperative mandatory that we spend time with god about our children especially in the era that we live in it is imperative mandatory that we spend time in prayer about our children. [01:20:40] (38 seconds)
It is not wise for us to establish just the rules without teaching the children the principles and why we do this because as kingdom citizens this is god this is who he is and if you break the law these are the consequences it might sound firm and and not normal to us because we live in a democracy and we get choices but in the kingdom there's one king there's one lord and when he establishes principles and laws for us to follow that's it the consequences are more or less in the laws just like the fish if you jump out the water for long if you do not follow the constructs and the principles of the kingdom of god you will end up in all right the wages of sin is death let me spell it out the wages of sin is death. [01:22:26] (55 seconds)
Honor your mother and father is a nice passage of scripture. But it doesn't work for children if the mother and father are dishonoring each other. They don't know what honor looks like. Okay? So there are some things that are principles in the scripture that as adults, we have to start practicing. And so we could teach our children, not just in words, but that we could really live out what the Lord is saying. [01:26:05] (31 seconds)
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