Embracing Relationships: The Journey of Spiritual Growth

 

Summary

The sermon delivered by the pastor focused on the significance of relationships, spiritual growth, and the transformative power of God's love. The pastor began by expressing gratitude for the people God places in our lives, including those who challenge us. He shared a personal anecdote about missing a text message due to his phone being on silent, illustrating that we are often placed in each other's lives for mutual support and growth. The pastor then delved into the importance of our actions reflecting our faith, especially since we might be the only representation of the church some people see. He urged the congregation to seek spiritual maturity and to avoid using imperfection as an excuse for stagnation.

The pastor also highlighted the power of the good news of Jesus Christ and its ability to change lives. He encouraged the congregation to pray for those who have not yet accepted Christ and to be thankful for the examples of faith set by other believers. In a personal story about a Christmas when all his presents were taken, leaving only a bag of coal, the pastor related this to the Christian's inheritance in God, emphasizing that despite life's disappointments, we should focus on the joy that awaits us.

The sermon continued with an emphasis on seeking God's power rather than patience, sharing a personal experience of the pastor praying for patience and then encountering a slow driver. He suggested that praying for God's power helps us endure with peace and gratitude. The pastor also stressed the importance of progressing in our relationship with God, warning against complacency and encouraging daily growth.

The pastor concluded by emphasizing the need to show love and gratitude towards everyone, regardless of differences, and to view others through the lens of Jesus. He prayed for the congregation to understand God's love and to be joyful and thankful, reminding them of their mission as Christ's followers. The pastor also made announcements about upcoming church events and recognized new church members, encouraging the congregation to pray for them and to live a life of gratitude.

Key Takeaways:

- The people in our lives are strategically placed by God, not only for our benefit but also for us to impact them. This divine orchestration includes those who challenge us, as they often catalyze our spiritual growth and character development. As Christians, we should embrace these relationships with gratitude, recognizing that they are part of God's plan for our lives. [48:27]

- Our conduct as believers is a testament to our faith and can be the only glimpse of the church that some may see. It is imperative that we align our actions with our beliefs, understanding that we are ambassadors for Christ. This responsibility calls for a life that seeks spiritual maturity and rejects complacency, as our actions have the potential to draw others closer to or push them away from God. [01:01:03]

- The transformative power of the gospel is not just a historical fact but a present reality that continues to change lives around the world. As recipients of this good news, Christians are called to pray for those who have yet to experience the love of Christ and to be thankful for the faith demonstrated by fellow believers. This gratitude should extend to the unsaved friends in our lives, as they present us with the opportunity to share the hope we have in Jesus. [55:48]

- The pursuit of spiritual growth is a continuous journey that requires daily commitment. Using the excuse of being a "work in progress" to justify inaction is a dangerous trap that can lead to spiritual stagnation. Instead, believers should actively seek to draw closer to God each day, allowing His power to strengthen them for the challenges ahead. This proactive approach to spiritual development ensures that we are moving forward in our faith, not backward or standing still. [01:03:07]

- Genuine joy and gratitude should permeate the life of a believer, reflecting the inheritance and blessings we have received from God. This joy is not dependent on external circumstances but is rooted in the relationship we have with our Creator. As Christians, we are called to live in a way that showcases this joy and abundance, inspiring curiosity and drawing others to the source of our happiness—our relationship with God. [01:11:29]

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18: "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus."
2. Colossians 1:1-12: "Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother, To God’s holy people in Colossae, the faithful brothers and sisters in Christ: Grace and peace to you from God our Father. We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all God’s people—the faith and love that spring from the hope stored up for you in heaven and about which you have already heard in the true message of the gospel that has come to you. In the same way, the gospel is bearing fruit and growing throughout the whole world—just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and truly understood God’s grace. You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, and who also told us of your love in the Spirit. For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light."

#### Observation Questions
1. What does 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 instruct believers to do in all circumstances?
2. According to Colossians 1:3-4, what are the two things Paul and Timothy thank God for when they pray for the Colossians?
3. In Colossians 1:9, what does Paul pray for the Colossians to receive from God?
4. How does the pastor illustrate the importance of being thankful for challenging people in our lives? [46:27]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Paul emphasize the importance of continual prayer and thanksgiving in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18? How does this relate to the sermon’s message about spiritual growth and gratitude?
2. In Colossians 1:10, Paul mentions living a life worthy of the Lord and pleasing Him. What might this look like in practical terms, especially in the context of the sermon’s emphasis on our actions reflecting our faith? [01:01:03]
3. The pastor shared a personal story about praying for patience and encountering a slow driver. How does this story illustrate the difference between seeking God's power versus seeking patience? [01:03:07]
4. How does the pastor’s anecdote about the Christmas presents and the bag of coal relate to the concept of Christian inheritance and joy despite life's disappointments? [01:11:29]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when someone in your life challenged you. How did that experience contribute to your spiritual growth? How can you show gratitude for such relationships? [46:27]
2. Think about your daily actions and interactions. How can you ensure that your conduct aligns with your faith, especially knowing that you might be the only representation of the church some people see? [01:01:03]
3. Identify one person in your life who has not yet accepted Christ. How can you pray for them and share the hope you have in Jesus with them this week? [55:48]
4. The pastor warned against using imperfection as an excuse for stagnation. What steps can you take to actively seek spiritual growth and avoid complacency in your faith journey? [01:03:07]
5. Genuine joy and gratitude should permeate the life of a believer. What specific actions can you take this week to showcase the joy and abundance you have in your relationship with God, especially in challenging circumstances? [01:11:29]
6. How can you view and treat others through the lens of Jesus, especially those who are different from you or who challenge you? What practical steps can you take to show love and gratitude towards them? [50:24]
7. The pastor mentioned the importance of praying for God's power to endure with peace and gratitude. What specific situation in your life requires you to seek God's power, and how will you pray for it this week? [01:03:07]

Devotional

Day 1: Divine Orchestration in Relationships
God strategically places individuals in our lives for mutual growth and support, even those who challenge us. These relationships are opportunities to develop spiritually and to demonstrate the love of Christ. Embrace each connection as a divine appointment, recognizing its role in God's greater plan. [48:27]

Proverbs 27:17 - "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
Reflection: Who has God placed in your life that challenges you to grow? How can you show gratitude for their presence today?

Day 2: Living Testimonies of Faith
Believers are called to be living testimonies, reflecting their faith through their actions. One's conduct can be a powerful witness to the truth of the Gospel, potentially drawing others to Christ. Strive for spiritual maturity, knowing that your life may be the only Bible some will read. [01:01:03]

1 Peter 2:12 - "Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us."
Reflection: How can your actions today serve as a testament to your faith and potentially lead others to Christ?

Day 3: The Transformative Power of the Gospel
The Gospel's power to transform lives is an ongoing miracle. Christians are encouraged to pray for those who have not yet accepted Christ and to be thankful for the faith of fellow believers. This gratitude extends to the opportunity to share the hope found in Jesus with others. [55:48]

Colossians 4:5-6 - "Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."
Reflection: How can you intentionally pray for and share the Gospel with someone who has not yet experienced Christ's love?

Day 4: Proactive Spiritual Growth
Spiritual growth requires daily commitment and the rejection of complacency. Using imperfection as an excuse for stagnation hinders progress. Actively seek to draw closer to God each day, allowing His power to strengthen you for the journey ahead. [01:03:07]

Ephesians 4:15 - "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ."
Reflection: What is one step you can take today to actively pursue spiritual growth and avoid complacency?

Day 5: Joy and Gratitude as a Christian Witness
A believer's life should be marked by joy and gratitude, reflecting the blessings received from God. This joy is independent of circumstances and rooted in our relationship with the Creator. Live in a way that showcases this joy and draws others to its source. [01:11:29]

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 - "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus."
Reflection: In what ways can you demonstrate joy and gratitude in your life today, regardless of your circumstances?

Quotes

"God puts people in our lives so that we have the ability to cross paths and so that he can help us help them or help them help us." [48:27]

"We need to learn to treat people with love and with respect, we need to refrain from judgment." [49:49]

"for some of you, your unsaved friends, unbelieving friends, you're the only church they see so when you act one way on a Sunday and you act differently Sunday afternoon or Monday morning they go oh I don't need that I got that I am that" [58:49]

"We need to thank God that the unbelievers in our life are still catching breath because as long as they're catching breath, there's still a chance to become a Believer." #!!57:24!!#

"God wants us to have a stronger a deeper relationship today than we had yesterday, tomorrow than we have today and as we do that that's maturity that's the Walk of sanctification." #!!01:00:18!!#

"We have to get this relationship right first and if we get this relationship right then something happens; it's like something exudes from us that somebody goes, 'I don't know what it is but I want some of that.'" #!!52:01!!#

"we need to pray for the strength that comes from his power for the lost as well as for the saved because it's only through his power friends that we can endure" #!!01:06:45!!#

"if you are a Christ's follower you should be the joyest person in the room period" #!!01:07:25!!#

"we should be the ones that are the most excited, the most joyful, the most celebratory because this is not our home; we're just passing through." #!!01:12:10!!#

"may you be filled with joy friends can I tell you that when you gather with friends and family and loved ones this Thanksgiving day you should be the happiest and not a fake happy" #!!01:10:46!!#

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