Embracing Participation: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome in Service

 

Summary

### Summary

In today's sermon, we explored the concept of imposter syndrome and how it often makes us feel unqualified for the tasks at hand. I shared a personal story from my college years when I felt out of place during an internship, which led to a discussion about how Jesus invites us into His work, regardless of our perceived qualifications. We delved into the story of Jesus turning water into wine at the wedding in Cana, highlighting how Jesus' invitation to the servants to participate in the miracle transformed their experience from mere observers to active participants.

The wedding at Cana serves as a powerful metaphor for our lives. Jesus' first miracle was not just about saving a wedding from social disaster but about inviting ordinary people to be part of something extraordinary. The servants who filled the jars with water and witnessed the transformation into wine had a far richer experience than the guests who simply enjoyed the wine. This story teaches us that seeing what God does is good, but sharing in what God does is even better.

We also discussed how this principle applies to our church community. Many people experience God's work by observing transformations and hearing stories, but those who serve and participate in ministry get to be part of the miracles themselves. Serving in various capacities, whether in children's ministry, student ministry, or other areas, allows us to witness firsthand the small miracles that God performs through us.

I encouraged everyone to consider taking a step to serve, emphasizing that even small acts can have a significant impact. Whether it's making coffee, greeting people, or leading a small group, every role contributes to the larger mission. I also highlighted the importance of inviting others to serve alongside us, creating a community where everyone feels included and valued.

### Key Takeaways

1. Imposter Syndrome and God's Invitation: Feeling unqualified is a common experience, but Jesus invites us to step out of our comfort zones and participate in His work. Just as the servants at the wedding in Cana were invited to be part of a miracle, we too are called to contribute, regardless of our perceived inadequacies. [23:10]

2. The Power of Participation: The servants at the wedding experienced a deeper joy and fulfillment because they were active participants in Jesus' miracle. This teaches us that being involved in God's work brings a richer, more meaningful experience than merely observing from the sidelines. [35:50]

3. Transformative Impact of Serving: Serving in the church allows us to witness and be part of the small miracles that happen every day. Whether it's in children's ministry, student ministry, or other areas, our involvement helps create an environment where Jesus can work through us to transform lives. [39:39]

4. Overcoming Barriers to Service: Many of us hesitate to serve because of fear, uncertainty, or feeling unqualified. However, like the servants who simply followed Jesus' instructions, we are called to take small steps of faith. Even if we don't know where to start, showing up and being willing to serve can lead to discovering our unique gifts and calling. [43:11]

5. The Multiplicative Effect of Small Acts: Small acts of service, when combined, can have a significant impact. Just as a small flame can contribute to a bonfire, our individual contributions, no matter how small, can collectively create a powerful force for good in our community and beyond. [44:14]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[23:10] - Personal Story of Imposter Syndrome
[25:05] - Introduction to the Wedding at Cana
[26:40] - Context of Ancient Weddings
[27:51] - The Importance of Wine
[29:06] - The Social Disaster of Running Out of Wine
[30:06] - Jesus' Interaction with His Mother
[31:22] - The Servants' Role in the Miracle
[32:53] - Filling the Jars with Water
[33:42] - The Moment of Transformation
[34:28] - The Master of Ceremonies' Reaction
[35:07] - Two Different Experiences of the Wedding
[35:50] - The Servants' Unique Experience
[37:11] - Two Experiences at Church
[39:39] - Testimony of a Volunteer
[41:49] - Overcoming Barriers to Service
[43:11] - Taking Small Steps of Faith
[44:14] - The Impact of Small Acts
[45:33] - Call to Serve at Grace Fishers
[47:37] - Inviting Others to Serve
[49:59] - Flying at Full Altitude
[51:04] - Desiree's Story

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
- John 2:1-11 (The Wedding at Cana)
- 1 Peter 4:10 (Spiritual Gifts)

### Observation Questions
1. What was the setting of Jesus' first miracle, and who were the key people involved? (John 2:1-2)
2. How did Jesus respond to His mother's concern about the wine running out, and what does this indicate about His mission? (John 2:4) [30:06]
3. What specific instructions did Jesus give to the servants, and how did they respond? (John 2:7-8) [32:53]
4. What was the reaction of the master of ceremonies after tasting the water turned into wine, and what did he say to the bridegroom? (John 2:9-10) [34:28]

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus chose to perform His first miracle at a wedding, and what significance does this setting have? [25:05]
2. How does the story of the Wedding at Cana illustrate the concept of imposter syndrome and overcoming feelings of inadequacy? [23:10]
3. In what ways did the servants' participation in the miracle at Cana transform their experience compared to the other guests? [35:50]
4. How does 1 Peter 4:10 relate to the idea of using our gifts to serve others in the church community? [41:49]

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt unqualified for a task. How did you overcome those feelings, and what role did faith play in that process? [23:10]
2. The servants at the wedding followed Jesus' instructions without fully understanding the outcome. How can you apply this kind of faith and obedience in your own life? [32:53]
3. Serving in the church allows us to witness small miracles. What specific area of ministry are you currently involved in, or where do you feel called to serve? [39:39]
4. What barriers or fears have prevented you from serving in the past, and how can you take small steps to overcome them? [41:49]
5. Think of a small act of service you can commit to this week. How can this act contribute to the larger mission of the church? [44:14]
6. How can you invite others to serve alongside you, creating a more inclusive and supportive community? [47:37]
7. Reflect on the statement, "Seeing what God did is good, but sharing in what God does is better." How can you move from being an observer to an active participant in God's work? [36:28]

Devotional

Day 1: Embracing God's Invitation Despite Our Insecurities
Feeling unqualified is a common experience, but Jesus invites us to step out of our comfort zones and participate in His work. Just as the servants at the wedding in Cana were invited to be part of a miracle, we too are called to contribute, regardless of our perceived inadequacies. Imposter syndrome can make us feel like we don't belong or aren't capable, but God's call transcends our self-doubt. He sees our potential and invites us to join Him in His work, transforming our insecurities into opportunities for growth and service. [23:10]

1 Corinthians 1:26-27 (ESV): "For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong."

Reflection: Think of a situation where you felt unqualified or out of place. How can you step out in faith and accept God's invitation to participate in His work despite your insecurities?


Day 2: The Joy of Active Participation
The servants at the wedding experienced a deeper joy and fulfillment because they were active participants in Jesus' miracle. This teaches us that being involved in God's work brings a richer, more meaningful experience than merely observing from the sidelines. When we engage in service, we move from being spectators to being part of the story God is writing. This active participation allows us to witness God's power and grace in ways that passive observation never can. [35:50]

James 1:22 (ESV): "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you were actively involved in serving others. How did this experience deepen your understanding and joy in God's work?


Day 3: Witnessing Everyday Miracles Through Service
Serving in the church allows us to witness and be part of the small miracles that happen every day. Whether it's in children's ministry, student ministry, or other areas, our involvement helps create an environment where Jesus can work through us to transform lives. These small acts of service accumulate to create significant impacts, and through them, we see God's hand at work in the lives of those around us. [39:39]

1 Peter 4:10 (ESV): "As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace."

Reflection: Identify a specific area in your church or community where you can serve. How can you commit to being a part of the everyday miracles that God is performing?


Day 4: Overcoming Fear and Uncertainty in Service
Many of us hesitate to serve because of fear, uncertainty, or feeling unqualified. However, like the servants who simply followed Jesus' instructions, we are called to take small steps of faith. Even if we don't know where to start, showing up and being willing to serve can lead to discovering our unique gifts and calling. Trusting in God's guidance and stepping out in faith can help us overcome these barriers and find our place in His work. [43:11]

Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

Reflection: What fears or uncertainties are holding you back from serving? How can you take a small step of faith today to overcome these barriers?


Day 5: The Power of Small Acts of Service
Small acts of service, when combined, can have a significant impact. Just as a small flame can contribute to a bonfire, our individual contributions, no matter how small, can collectively create a powerful force for good in our community and beyond. Each act of service, no matter how insignificant it may seem, plays a crucial role in the larger mission of the church and God's kingdom. [44:14]

Galatians 6:9 (ESV): "And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up."

Reflection: Think of a small act of service you can perform today. How can this small contribution be a part of a larger impact in your community or church?

Quotes

1. "One of the things that I absolutely love about Jesus is it didn't matter where he was or where he was. It didn't matter where he found himself, but he was constantly inviting people into what he was doing and it started at the very beginning of his ministry and today we're going to look at a story that we don't talk too much about in church." [24:35] (17 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "I think we often remember those times when somebody has invited us in and sometimes that invitation is exactly what we need to take a step out of our comfort zone, what's familiar, but that something that step is absolutely what helps us to begin to grow and to begin to level up in our lives." [24:00] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Seeing what God did is good, but sharing in what God does is better. You know, I love our church and I love seeing everything that God does here every week. But you need to know, just like this wedding in Cana, there are two experiences that happen here every Sunday. Now, neither of them involves wine. I'm sure attendance would go up if that was a part of it. But one of those experiences is good and the other is better." [37:11] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "You see, we can share in what God is doing. And I know every Sunday morning people show up a little bit earlier and they bring their gifts and abilities. And they help create an environment where Jesus shows up. And Jesus uses their gifts and abilities to work little miracles every Sunday. And one of the great things about being involved is you get to be a part of that. And you get to see that firsthand. And then you've got an even better story to tell." [38:43] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "No matter how small or ordinary we think the thing that we have capacity to do is, Jesus can take that thing and he can multiply it. And he can use us to be a part of the miracle. That he's not just doing here at Grace Fishers, but he's doing all across Fishers and that he wants to do around the world. And the truth is, when we take that step, we will have a better story to share." [48:37] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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6. "If your gifts aren't in play, the body of Christ is missing something. And I was thinking about how an airplane can fly without all of its engines working. And I texted one of our attenders here, Eddie, that's a pilot. And I said, hey, is this a real thing? And he said, yeah, I fly an Airbus A321 and it's got two engines. And it cruises at 35,000 feet when both engines are running. But it can fly with one engine. And when it does, it can only go about 15,000 feet." [49:59] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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7. "I think it's easy for us, like I was when I was in college, to think, man, I don't, you know, I'm afraid to take this step. And it's easy for us to let fear or anxiety allow us to take the step that we need to take. And there was another man that experienced Jesus' miracle that day who was a man named Peter. And this is something he wrote to a group of believers because he knew that Jesus invited him in." [41:49] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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8. "Sometimes we just need to simply show up to the party and take a step, a simple step that Jesus is asking us to take. And the truth is if you find yourself serving in some place and you say, hey, that's not me. That's not my thing. It's not a failure. It's really just a step closer to what God has invited and gifted you to do." [43:11] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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9. "I think we could pause right there and go, if we didn't take anything else away from this story, I think that's an excellent point. That we can remember that if we place something in Jesus' hands, he'll take care of it. And she demonstrates her trust in her son when she says this. But his mother told the servants, whatever he tells you." [31:22] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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10. "You see, Joseman gets to experience small little miracles as little kids are taking steps towards Jesus as they're slowly leveling up in their faith. And in the process, he gets to be a part of the miracle and he gets changed. You know, and I would say anybody that serves, whether you serve in worship and production, or you serve in student ministries, or you're welcoming people, or maybe you're involved in after service prayer, or whatever you do, maybe that's behind the scenes to help make this place happen, you understand that you get more out of it than you give." [40:40] (37 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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