Embracing Our Identity as Beloved Children of God

Today, we gathered as one church family to celebrate God’s faithfulness and to reflect on the deep truth of our identity as sons and daughters of the Father. We rejoiced in the tangible ways God is moving among us, like the miraculous provision for our Mobile Campus, but even more, we turned our attention to the spiritual reality that shapes every part of our lives: we are not orphans, but beloved children of God.

We explored the parable of the two lost sons—often called the prodigal son—through a fresh lens, seeing not just a story of one wayward child, but of two sons who both lived as orphans in different ways. The younger son’s orphanhood was marked by rebellion and self-indulgence, believing fulfillment could be found outside the Father’s house. The older son’s orphanhood was marked by religious striving, resentment, and a transactional view of God, seeing Him more as a boss than a loving Father. Both missed the heart of the Father, and both needed a revelation of His love.

We saw that the younger son’s journey began with “I want” and quickly became “I deserve,” leading him away from the Father’s presence and into waste and emptiness. Yet, when he finally came to his senses, he discovered that everything he truly needed was always in the Father’s house. The Father’s response was not condemnation, but radical grace—restoring his sonship with a robe, a ring, and sandals, symbols of belonging, righteousness, and authority.

The older son, though outwardly obedient, harbored resentment and kept score, settling for less than what the Father had already given him. He missed the intimacy and inheritance that were his all along, choosing to sulk outside the celebration rather than enter into the joy of his Father. The story ends without resolution, inviting each of us to examine our own hearts: will we continue to live as orphans, or will we receive the embrace of the Father and rest in our true identity?

Ultimately, Jesus is the true older brother who reveals the Father’s heart and makes a way for us to be reconciled. Whether we find ourselves running away or working to earn love, the invitation is the same: come home, rest in the love of the Father, and live from the fullness of your inheritance as His child.

Key Takeaways

• 1. True identity is received, not achieved. Our worth is not found in striving, performing, or pretending, but in the unearned love of the Father who calls us sons and daughters. The world, our flesh, and the enemy all wage war against this truth, but God’s declaration over us is final and freeing. [03:47]
• 2. The orphan heart manifests in both rebellion and religion. The younger son’s rebellion and the older son’s religious striving are two sides of the same orphan spirit—both miss the Father’s heart and both seek fulfillment apart from His love. Recognizing these patterns in ourselves is the first step toward healing and transformation. [09:20]
• 3. Distance from the Father leads to waste, but revelation brings restoration. When we pursue fulfillment outside of God’s presence, we squander the gifts and calling He’s given us. Yet, when we “come to our senses,” we find that everything we truly need is found in intimacy with Him, and He welcomes us back with open arms and full restoration. [16:14]
• 4. Resentment and scorekeeping rob us of joy and inheritance. The older brother’s refusal to celebrate and his fixation on fairness reveal how resentment and comparison can blind us to the abundance already available to us. Settling for less, keeping score, and harboring bitterness are signs we’re living as orphans, not as heirs. [27:40]
• 5. Jesus is the true older brother who reveals the Father’s love. Both sons needed someone to show them the true nature of the Father, and Jesus fulfills this role perfectly. He not only reveals the Father’s heart but also makes a way for us to be reconciled, so we no longer have to strive or run, but can rest in the embrace and inheritance of God. [39:06]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [02:03] - Celebrating God’s Provision for Mobile Campus
• [03:47] - Identity: Not Achieved, But Received
• [05:57] - Reading the Parable of the Two Lost Sons
• [09:20] - Two Orphaned Hearts: Rebellion and Religion
• [10:54] - The Parable as Picture, Mirror, and Window
• [12:00] - The Orphan Who Wanted: “I Want” to “I Deserve”
• [14:52] - Wasting the Inheritance Outside the Father’s Presence
• [16:14] - Revelation: Coming to Our Senses
• [17:53] - The Father’s Radical Grace and Restoration
• [19:06] - The Orphan’s Unworthiness and the Father’s Response
• [21:23] - Robe, Ring, and Sandals: Restoring Sonship
• [22:37] - The Orphan Who Worked: Resentment and Scorekeeping
• [27:40] - Settling for Less: The Danger of Religion
• [33:53] - Inheritance and Intimacy: The Father’s Invitation
• [36:59] - The Open-Ended Story: Our Response
• [39:06] - Jesus, Our True Older Brother
• [41:52] - Prayer and Invitation to Rest in the Father’s Love

Bible Reading

Luke 15:11-32 (ESV) – The Parable of the Two Lost Sons —
> And he said, “There was a man who had two sons. And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.

> “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.

> “Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ But he was angry and refused to go in. His father came out and entreated him, but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’ And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

Observation Questions

1. What are the different ways the two sons in the parable distance themselves from their father? (see Luke 15:11-32)
2. According to the sermon, what does the father’s response to the younger son’s return reveal about his character? [[17:53]]
3. What are the three items the father gives the younger son upon his return, and what do they symbolize? [[21:23]]
4. How does the older son react to the celebration for his brother, and what does this show about his heart? [[27:40]]

Interpretation Questions

1. The sermon describes both sons as “living like orphans” in different ways. What does it mean to have an “orphan heart,” and how does it show up in both rebellion and religious striving? [[09:20]]
2. Why do you think Jesus leaves the story open-ended, without telling us how the older brother responds? What might this invite us to consider about our own hearts? [[36:59]]
3. The father tells the older son, “All that I have is yours.” What does this say about the difference between living as a servant versus living as a son or daughter? [[33:53]]
4. The sermon says that Jesus is our “true older brother.” How does Jesus fulfill what both sons needed in the story? [[39:06]]

Application Questions

1. The younger son’s journey started with “I want” and became “I deserve.” Are there areas in your life where you feel entitled or impatient with God’s timing? How does this affect your relationship with God? [[12:00]]
2. The older son kept score and harbored resentment. Can you think of a time when you compared yourself to others in the church or felt overlooked by God? How did that impact your joy or sense of belonging? [[27:40]]
3. The father’s response to both sons was radical grace and open arms. Is there a part of your life where you struggle to believe you are fully accepted by God? What would it look like to “come home” in that area? [[20:28]]
4. The sermon says, “True identity is received, not achieved.” In what ways do you find yourself striving, performing, or pretending to earn God’s love or approval? What would it look like to rest in your identity as God’s child this week? [[03:47]]
5. The “orphan heart” can show up in both obvious rebellion and in religious activity. Which tendency do you relate to more—running away or working to earn love? How can you invite God to heal that part of your heart? [[09:20]]
6. The father tells the older son, “Everything I have is yours.” Are there blessings or opportunities God has given you that you’ve overlooked because you were focused on what you didn’t have? How can you practice gratitude for your inheritance? [[33:53]]
7. The story ends with an invitation. What is one practical step you can take this week to move from living like an orphan to living as a beloved son or daughter of God? [[36:59]]