Embracing Our Identity as Beloved Children of God
Summary
In this season, love seems to be everywhere, from the aisles of stores to the airwaves of commercials, urging us to express our affection through material gifts. Yet, this commercialization often leaves us feeling unlovable or inadequate, especially when our lives don't mirror the idealized versions of love we see around us. The English language, with its single word for love, fails to capture the depth and variety of love's true essence. In contrast, the Greek language offers multiple words for love, each with distinct meanings, such as "eros" for romantic love, "phileo" for brotherly love, and "agape" for unconditional love. It is this agape love that God extends to us, a love that is freely given, without conditions or expectations of repayment.
John, the beloved disciple, writes about this divine love in 1 John 3:1, emphasizing that God's love bestows upon us a new identity as His children. This identity is not earned by our actions but is a gift from God, who calls us His beloved sons and daughters. This transformation is akin to the new identity a couple receives in marriage, yet it is even more profound because it is rooted in God's grace and mercy.
Our identity as God's children is affirmed through the sacrament of baptism, where we are clothed in Christ and marked as His own. This identity is not contingent on our past or our abilities but is a testament to God's love and His desire to use us, with all our imperfections, for His purposes. As we navigate a world that often defines us by our achievements or failures, we are reminded that our true identity is found in Christ, who has redeemed us and called us by name.
In the face of trials and doubts, we hold onto the promise of our inheritance in God's eternal kingdom, a promise that is not based on our merit but on His grace. This assurance empowers us to live out our identity as beloved children of God, shining His light in a world desperate for love and hope.
Key Takeaways:
- The commercialization of love often leaves us feeling inadequate, but God's love, as described in 1 John 3:1, is an unconditional agape love that gives us a new identity as His children. This love is not earned but freely given, transforming us into beloved sons and daughters of God. [05:24]
- Our identity in Christ is affirmed through baptism, where we are clothed in His righteousness and marked as His own. This sacrament is a tangible reminder of God's promise and our place in His family, regardless of our past or present circumstances. [16:10]
- In a world that often defines us by our achievements or failures, our true identity is found in Christ, who has redeemed us and called us by name. This identity is not contingent on our abilities but is a testament to God's love and His desire to use us for His purposes. [18:10]
- Despite the trials and doubts we face, we hold onto the promise of our inheritance in God's eternal kingdom. This assurance is not based on our merit but on His grace, empowering us to live out our identity as beloved children of God. [12:35]
- God's love is transformative, turning sinners into saints and empowering us to shine His light in a world desperate for love and hope. Our identity as His beloved children is a gift of grace, not something we earn or deserve, but a testament to His overwhelming love. [20:14]
Youtube Chapters:
[00:00] - Welcome
[02:11] - The Versatility of Love
[05:24] - Different Kinds of Love
[08:42] - Our New Identity in Christ
[10:03] - Defining Our Identity
[12:35] - Assurance in Trials
[14:45] - The Promise of Eternal Life
[16:10] - The Significance of Baptism
[18:10] - God's Purpose for Us
[20:14] - Transformative Love
[21:30] - Living as Beloved Children
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
1. 1 John 3:1
2. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
3. John 3:16
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Observation Questions:
1. How does the sermon describe the different types of love in the Greek language, and how do they compare to the English word for love? [05:24]
2. According to 1 John 3:1, what new identity is given to us through God's love, and how is this identity described in the sermon? [08:42]
3. What role does baptism play in affirming our identity in Christ, as mentioned in the sermon? [16:10]
4. How does the sermon explain the assurance we have in our inheritance in God's eternal kingdom? [12:35]
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Interpretation Questions:
1. In what ways does the commercialization of love impact our understanding of true love, as discussed in the sermon? [02:11]
2. How does the concept of agape love challenge our typical understanding of love, and what implications does this have for our relationships with others? [05:24]
3. What does it mean to live as a beloved child of God in a world that often defines us by our achievements or failures? [10:03]
4. How can the sacrament of baptism serve as a reminder of God's promises and our place in His family, especially during times of doubt? [16:10]
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Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you felt pressured by the commercialization of love. How can you focus on expressing agape love instead? [02:11]
2. Consider the different types of love mentioned in the sermon. How can you intentionally practice agape love in your daily interactions this week? [05:24]
3. In what ways can you remind yourself of your identity as a beloved child of God when faced with challenges or feelings of inadequacy? [10:03]
4. How can you use your unique gifts and story to shine God's light in the lives of those around you, as encouraged in the sermon? [18:10]
5. Think about your baptism or a significant spiritual moment in your life. How can you use this memory to strengthen your faith and assurance in God's promises? [16:10]
6. Identify a specific area in your life where you struggle to see yourself as a beloved child of God. What steps can you take to embrace this identity more fully? [08:42]
7. How can you support others in your community to recognize and live out their identity as beloved children of God? [21:30]
Devotional
Day 1: God's Unconditional Love Redefines Our Identity
In a world where love is often commercialized and conditional, God's love stands apart as agape love—unconditional and freely given. This divine love, as described in 1 John 3:1, bestows upon us a new identity as God's children. Unlike the love that demands something in return, God's love is a gift that transforms us into His beloved sons and daughters. This transformation is not based on our actions or worthiness but is a testament to His grace and mercy. As we embrace this identity, we are reminded that we are loved beyond measure, not because of what we do, but because of who we are in Him. [05:24]
"See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him." (1 John 3:1, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways have you felt pressured to earn love or approval in your life? How can you rest in the assurance of God's unconditional love for you today?
Day 2: Baptism Affirms Our Identity in Christ
Baptism is a sacred sacrament that affirms our identity in Christ. Through baptism, we are clothed in His righteousness and marked as His own, signifying our place in God's family. This act is a tangible reminder of God's promise to us, a promise that is not dependent on our past or present circumstances. It is a declaration that we belong to Him, regardless of our achievements or failures. As we reflect on our baptism, we are encouraged to live out our identity as beloved children of God, secure in the knowledge that we are His. [16:10]
"For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." (Galatians 3:27-28, ESV)
Reflection: How does your baptism shape your understanding of your identity in Christ? What steps can you take to live more fully in this identity today?
Day 3: Our True Identity is Found in Christ
In a society that often defines us by our successes or failures, it is crucial to remember that our true identity is found in Christ. He has redeemed us and called us by name, not because of our abilities, but because of His love and purpose for us. This identity is a testament to God's desire to use us, with all our imperfections, for His glory. As we navigate life's challenges, we are reminded that our worth is not determined by worldly standards but by our relationship with Christ. [18:10]
"But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: 'Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.'" (Isaiah 43:1, ESV)
Reflection: What aspects of your life do you allow to define your identity? How can you shift your focus to embrace your identity in Christ more fully?
Day 4: Assurance in Trials Through God's Grace
Despite the trials and doubts we face, we hold onto the promise of our inheritance in God's eternal kingdom. This assurance is not based on our merit but on His grace, empowering us to live out our identity as beloved children of God. In moments of uncertainty, we are encouraged to trust in His promises and find strength in His unwavering love. This assurance allows us to shine His light in a world desperate for hope, knowing that our future is secure in Him. [12:35]
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you." (1 Peter 1:3-4, ESV)
Reflection: How do you respond to trials and doubts in your life? What promises of God can you hold onto to find assurance and hope today?
Day 5: Transformative Love Empowers Us to Shine
God's love is transformative, turning sinners into saints and empowering us to shine His light in a world desperate for love and hope. Our identity as His beloved children is a gift of grace, not something we earn or deserve, but a testament to His overwhelming love. As we embrace this transformative love, we are called to reflect it in our interactions with others, becoming beacons of hope and love in our communities. This love compels us to live out our faith authentically, impacting the world around us for His glory. [20:14]
"For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true)." (Ephesians 5:8-9, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways can you reflect God's transformative love in your daily interactions? How can you be a source of hope and light to those around you today?
Quotes
"See what kind of love the Father has given to us that we should be called children of God that we get a new identity because of this love that God has given to us that we get to be called God's own dear children not because of anything we've done or will do, but because of God's gift of His love towards us, a new identity is bestowed on us, a new name, a beloved son, a chosen daughter by God Himself." [00:05:57] (35 seconds)
"And John picks up that later in John chapter 3, verse 1, verse 2. He says it again. He says, Beloved, we are God's children now, the present reality, and what we will be has not yet appeared. But we know that when He appears, we shall be like Him because we shall see Him as He is." [00:12:35] (21 seconds)
"You are a beloved child of God. Not because the person next to you declared it to you, but because God Himself declared it to you. And you needed that reminder here this morning. Because in this world, we'll try to find our identity in what we do, or our identity in what we've done." [00:10:03] (15 seconds)
"Not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace, we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life." [00:11:26] (21 seconds)
"At times, we think God can't use us because we don't have the same skills as someone else, or the same abilities as somebody else, or I can't get up on that stage. And the altar, and talk like pastor in front of a group of people, that's fine." [00:18:10] (14 seconds)
"But God has perfectly positioned each and every one of us with the gifts and abilities that He's given to us. As we heard at the beginning of the service, Corinne sharing her story, and you have a story, and your story is unique." [00:18:24] (13 seconds)
"You have a new identity, beloved child of God, and it's living in that new identity that helps us live out that love in a world that is in desperate need of it." [00:22:29] (14 seconds)