Embracing Newness: Transforming Faith Beyond Rituals

 

Summary

We often find ourselves slipping into routines—whether it’s in our daily lives, our relationships, or even our worship. It’s easy to let our faith become a checklist, a set of rituals we perform without heart or expectation. But God is always inviting us into something new, something alive, something that breaks us out of our old patterns and calls us into deeper relationship with Him. The question is not just, “Can you teach an old man new tricks?” but rather, “Are we willing to let go of the old so that God can do something new in us?”

This challenge is as relevant today as it was in Jesus’ time. The Pharisees and even John’s disciples were so focused on their religious practices—like fasting—that they missed the very presence of the Messiah among them. Their devotion, meant to point them to God, became an end in itself. We, too, can become resistant to change, clinging to what’s familiar, even when it no longer brings life. When our faith becomes stale, when nothing feels new, we risk falling into spiritual boredom or even depression, just as Solomon lamented in Ecclesiastes. This emptiness can lead us to seek fulfillment elsewhere, or worse, to live a double life—outwardly religious but inwardly dry.

Yet, the good news is that Jesus brings a new kingdom, a new way of living that is cause for celebration. He invites us to see our relationship with Him not as a patch on our old life, but as a completely new garment, a new wineskin filled with the living wine of the Spirit. This newness isn’t just a one-time event; it’s an ongoing journey of discipleship, of unlearning old habits and learning new ways in community. It’s not about academic knowledge or religious duty, but about radical dependence on God’s Spirit, who is always pouring out new life.

God is still at work, giving dreams and visions, calling us to be faith fathers and mothers for this generation, to leave a legacy that is more than just religious activity. The mission is bigger than ourselves—it’s about multiplying communities of faith, reaching those who don’t yet know Christ, and living out the adventure of following Jesus wherever He leads. The choice is ours: will we cling to the old, or will we step into the new that God is offering today?

Key Takeaways

- Ritual Without Renewal Leads to Spiritual Stagnation
When our faith becomes a series of habits or rituals, we risk losing the heart behind them. The Pharisees’ devotion to fasting became a barrier to recognizing Jesus, showing how easily we can miss God’s presence when we focus on outward acts rather than inward transformation. True spiritual vitality requires us to continually seek God’s renewing work in our hearts, not just maintain religious routines. [30:15]

- Spiritual Boredom Breeds Vulnerability to Sin
When nothing feels new in our relationship with God, we can become bored or even depressed, as Solomon described. This emptiness often leads us to seek satisfaction in unhealthy places, just as David did when he was idle and vulnerable. Staying engaged with God’s ongoing work in our lives is essential to guard against the subtle drift into sin and duplicity. [42:46]

- God’s New Work Requires Letting Go of the Old
Jesus’ teaching about new wine in old wineskins reminds us that we cannot simply add God’s new work to our old ways of thinking and living. Real transformation means unlearning old patterns, surrendering our comfort and security, and allowing God to reshape us from the inside out. This process is often uncomfortable, but it is the only way to experience the fullness of what God wants to do. [48:38]

- Discipleship Is a Lifelong, Communal Journey
Becoming new in Christ is not a solitary or instant event. It’s a journey of discipline, practice, and encouragement within a community of believers. Sometimes God changes our hearts in a moment, but often the transformation of our behaviors and habits takes time and the support of others. Discipleship is about radical dependence on God and a willingness to be continually shaped by His Spirit. [53:20]

- The Holy Spirit Is Always Pouring Out New Life—Will You Perceive It?
God is constantly at work, pouring out His Spirit and inviting us into new dreams, visions, and adventures. The question is whether we are open to perceive and receive what He is doing, or if we are too attached to our routines and old ways. Living in the new means letting go of guilt, regret, and self-reliance, and stepping into the grace and mission that God has for us today. [57:30]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[27:32] - Opening Prayer and Setting the Stage
[29:05] - Father’s Day Reflections and Resistance to Change
[30:15] - The Trap of Old Religion
[36:44] - When Was Your Heart Last Awakened?
[39:31] - The Emptiness of “Nothing New”
[42:46] - Boredom, Sin, and the Story of David
[44:49] - Jesus Brings a New Kingdom
[46:20] - God’s Promise of Newness in Isaiah
[48:38] - New Wine, Old Wineskins: The Call to Change
[50:21] - The Challenge of Change in the Church
[53:20] - Discipleship: Unlearning and Learning in Community
[55:40] - The Outpouring of the Holy Spirit
[57:30] - Living in the New: Letting Go of the Old
[01:00:06] - Faith Fathers, Legacy, and Mission
[01:01:57] - Multiplying Communities and the Call to Mission
[01:06:09] - Hope Is Here: Invitation to the New
[01:13:03] - Confession and Running to the Father
[01:14:23] - Communion: Receiving the New Life

Study Guide

Small Group Bible Study Guide: Living in the New

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### Bible Reading

1. Mark 2:18-22
_Now John’s disciples and the Pharisees were fasting. And people came and said to him, “Why do John’s disciples and the disciples of the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not fast?” And Jesus said to them, “Can the wedding guests fast while the bridegroom is with them? As long as they have the bridegroom with them, they cannot fast. The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast in that day. No one sews a piece of unshrunk cloth on an old garment. If he does, the patch tears away from it, the new from the old, and a worse tear is made. And no one puts new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the wine will burst the skins—and the wine is destroyed, and so are the skins. But new wine is for fresh wineskins.”_

2. Ecclesiastes 1:7-9
_All streams run to the sea, but the sea is not full; to the place where the streams flow, there they flow again. All things are full of weariness; a man cannot utter it; the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing. What has been is what will be, and what has been done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun._

3. 2 Corinthians 5:17
_Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come._

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### Observation Questions

1. In Mark 2:18-22, what is the main reason Jesus gives for why his disciples are not fasting like the Pharisees and John’s disciples?
([44:49])

2. According to Ecclesiastes 1:7-9, how does Solomon describe the feeling of “nothing new” in life?
([39:31])

3. What does Paul say happens to someone who is “in Christ” in 2 Corinthians 5:17?
([55:40])

4. In the sermon, what are some examples given of how religious routines can become empty or even a barrier to experiencing God?
([30:15])

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why do you think Jesus uses the images of new wine and old wineskins to describe the difference between his message and the religious routines of the Pharisees? What does this say about how God works in our lives?
([48:38])

2. The sermon mentions that when “nothing is new” in our relationship with God, we can become bored or even depressed. Why do you think spiritual boredom can make us more vulnerable to sin or unhealthy choices?
([42:46])

3. According to the sermon, what is the danger of focusing on outward religious acts without seeking inward renewal?
([30:15])

4. The pastor said that discipleship is not just about learning new information, but about unlearning old habits and being changed in community. Why is community important for real spiritual transformation?
([53:20])

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### Application Questions

1. The sermon challenged us to consider if our faith has become a checklist or a living relationship. Are there any spiritual routines in your life that have become empty rituals? What is one step you could take this week to invite God to make them new again?
([30:15])

2. Have you ever experienced a season where your faith felt stale or boring, like Solomon described in Ecclesiastes? What did you do during that time, and what could you do differently now to seek renewal?
([39:31])

3. The story of David’s boredom leading to sin was shared as a warning. Are there areas in your life where spiritual boredom or idleness could be making you vulnerable? What practical change could help you stay engaged with God’s work?
([42:46])

4. Jesus said you can’t put new wine into old wineskins. Is there something old—an attitude, habit, or comfort—you sense God is asking you to let go of so He can do something new in you? What would it look like to surrender that to God?
([48:38])

5. The sermon talked about God pouring out new dreams and visions through the Holy Spirit. Have you sensed God stirring something new in your heart recently? How can you make space to listen and respond to the Spirit’s leading?
([55:40])

6. Discipleship is described as a journey that happens in community. Who in your life encourages you to grow spiritually? Is there someone you could invite to walk with you in this journey, or someone you could encourage?
([53:20])

7. The pastor challenged us to think about the legacy we are leaving. What kind of spiritual legacy do you want to leave for your family, friends, or community? What is one step you can take this month to move toward that legacy?
([01:00:06])

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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite the group to pray for open hearts to receive the new work God wants to do, courage to let go of old patterns, and a fresh filling of the Holy Spirit for the journey ahead.

Devotional

Day 1: Beware of Old Religion: The Danger of Spiritual Rut
It is easy to fall into routines and rituals in our faith, going through the motions without allowing God to truly move in our hearts. When we become resistant to change and cling to our old ways, we risk missing the new work Jesus wants to do in us. The outward acts of devotion, like fasting or attending church, can become empty if they are not connected to a living, growing relationship with Christ. Instead of being judgmental or critical, God calls us to let our hearts be awakened by His grace, to be broken for what breaks His heart, and to remain open to His transforming presence. [36:44]

Mark 2:18-20 (ESV)
Now John's disciples and the Pharisees were fasting. And people came and said to him, “Why do John's disciples and the disciples of the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not fast?” And Jesus said to them, “Can the wedding guests fast while the bridegroom is with them? As long as they have the bridegroom with them, they cannot fast. The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast in that day.”

Reflection: When was the last time your heart was truly awakened by God, rather than just going through the motions? What is one old habit or ritual you need to surrender to Him today so you can experience something new?


Day 2: God Is Always Doing a New Thing
Even in seasons of dryness, disappointment, or discipline, God is at work bringing about something new in our lives. He calls us to let go of the former things—our old thinking, our old self, our old religion—and to perceive the new thing He is doing. This newness is not just for our comfort, but for our transformation and for the sake of His mission in the world. God’s promise is that, even in the rubble, He is making a way and calling us to trust Him for renewal and restoration. [46:20]

Isaiah 43:18-19 (ESV)
“Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.”

Reflection: What “old thing” in your life is God asking you to release so you can perceive the new thing He is doing? How can you intentionally look for God’s new work in your circumstances today?


Day 3: You Can’t Patch the New onto the Old
Jesus teaches that the new life He brings cannot simply be added onto our old ways or religious routines. Trying to fit the new work of God into old patterns only leads to frustration, duplicity, and a lack of peace. Instead, we are called to become new wineskins—open, flexible, and ready to be filled with the ever-growing, expanding movement of God’s Spirit. This means unlearning old habits, letting go of self-reliance, and embracing a dynamic, loving relationship with Jesus that transforms us from the inside out. [48:38]

Mark 2:21-22 (ESV)
“No one sews a piece of unshrunk cloth on an old garment. If he does, the patch tears away from it, the new from the old, and a worse tear is made. And no one puts new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the wine will burst the skins—and the wine is destroyed, and so are the skins. But new wine is for fresh wineskins.”

Reflection: In what area of your life are you trying to “patch” Jesus onto old habits or mindsets? What would it look like to become a new wineskin, fully open to His transforming work?


Day 4: The Holy Spirit Makes Us New
God pours out His Spirit to make us new creations in Christ, not just once, but continually. Through the Holy Spirit, we are given dreams, visions, and a new heart to live out God’s mission. This newness is not achieved by our own strength or religious effort, but by radical dependence on God’s grace and the ongoing work of His Spirit. We are invited to live in the freedom of forgiveness, to let go of guilt and regret, and to step into the adventure of following Jesus wherever He leads. [55:40]

2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

Reflection: Where do you sense the Holy Spirit inviting you to step into something new? What is one practical way you can depend on God’s Spirit rather than your own strength today?


Day 5: Join God’s Mission: Living in the New
God’s new work is not just for us individually, but for the sake of His mission in the world. We are called to be part of a multiplying, expanding movement—sharing the treasure of Christ with others, building community, and leaving a legacy of faith. The choice is ours: we can cling to the old, or we can join God in the adventure of living in the new, letting Him shape our priorities, decisions, and relationships for His kingdom. Hope is here to help you live in the new—will you step in? [01:06:09]

Matthew 6:19-21 (ESV)
“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

Reflection: What is one step you can take this week to join God’s mission—whether by serving, sharing your faith, or building community—so that you are living for the treasure that lasts?

Quotes

When's the last time you felt your heart was awakened by God? I mean like you said God had given you a fresh word, like you're reading in your devotion time and you're in your devotional time and maybe it's even a word you read before but it's fresh to new and it's speaking into your heart to a place where you really need it? [00:35:54] (00:00:19 seconds) Edit Clip

If you can't remember the last time, I want to softly say this is a warning. You're getting in a dangerous place, especially for men. [00:39:02] (00:00:16 seconds) Edit Clip

It's basically saying he's in this Malachi depressed moment. He's saying, this is all it is. This is as good as it gets. Nothing lasts. Nothing can satisfy. There's no experience that can really touch the soul and liberate. There's nothing really new. [00:40:34] (00:00:18 seconds) Edit Clip

You ever wonder why successful Christian people often have this dark secret that explodes in their life? It's because they reach this place where God is no longer new. God is no longer alive. God is no longer active. I don't need God anymore. I can do this on all I can do it out of my own strength, out of my own skills. [00:43:49] (00:00:26 seconds) Edit Clip

Even when you go through a crisis, even when life is a mess, even when the world is crushing down, you think everything is lost. It's not lost because God is still doing a new thing. God is a father who disciplines his children and brings them to new life. And often that means something has to die. Something has to go away. [00:46:57] (00:00:23 seconds) Edit Clip

You can't just say, I do Sunday and the rest of the week I do me. It's not going to work. It's going to create a greater terror, a greater hurt, a greater hypocrisy in your own self where you'll have this duplicity to be peeking at your conscience and have no peace. It won't work. It will rip at you and tear at you. [00:49:28] (00:00:19 seconds) Edit Clip

Worship is not just our praise and our work to him. Worship is coming in the presence of God for him to work in us. That's why we praise him, we lift him up. Why? Because we want to like focus on him and his perceive the work he's calling us, he's been trying to get our attention but we've been so busy so doing things that we're not listening. [00:53:10] (00:00:24 seconds) Edit Clip

Sometimes God delivers you and it's like this and the sin is gone. The desires are gone. The heart is completely changed. Other times the heart is changed, but the behavior still lingers. It still battles. And we need a community that brings us to the next as new life. [00:54:53] (00:00:21 seconds) Edit Clip

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, which we are by the power of the Holy Spirit, who washes us away, our old self, brings in the Spirit in us, what do we are? We are, He's a new creation. The old has passed away. Behold, the new has come. [00:57:05] (00:00:23 seconds) Edit Clip

The new of Jesus Christ means, if you're living with guilt and regret, you're living with the old. Let it go. Jesus forgave it. You live in His grace. You live in His forgiveness. You live in the new. [00:57:58] (00:00:18 seconds) Edit Clip

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