Embracing Life's Valleys: Prepared for Your Purpose
Summary
In a powerful message, Evangelist Kayla Williams-Joissaint emphasizes the theme of being "Prepared for a Purpose," highlighting the idea that every individual is destined for a unique role in life, regardless of past mistakes or the opinions of others. The core message is that God has a plan for everyone, and this plan is not hindered by one's history or the challenges they have faced. The speaker stresses that understanding one's purpose is crucial, but many people struggle with this, often getting distracted by their talents or the expectations of others.
The speaker delves into the concept that life's storms and valleys are not meant to destroy but to prepare individuals for their purpose. These challenging times are part of a process that pushes people to the next level. However, the difficulty often lies in the transition period before reaching one's purpose. The speaker encourages embracing this transition, even when it is uncomfortable or difficult to understand.
Using the metaphor of a valley, the speaker redefines it as a place of potential rather than fear and hopelessness. A valley, formed by water eroding mountains over time, represents a transformation from the impossible to the possible. The message is that even in the darkest valleys, God provides sustenance and support, symbolized by the water that flows through and nourishes the valley. This provision is a testament to God's faithfulness, even in the most challenging circumstances.
The narrative continues with a personal anecdote about the speaker's Jamaican grandparents, who used compost in their garden. The speaker's grandfather explained that what seemed like waste was actually valuable for nurturing new growth. This story serves as an analogy for how God can use past experiences, even those that seem negative, to foster growth and prepare individuals for their future.
The message also touches on the biblical story of Joshua, who was called to lead the Israelites after Moses' death. This transition illustrates that sometimes, loss is necessary for new leadership and purpose to emerge. The speaker reassures listeners that God is a master gardener who uses all experiences, good and bad, to prepare them for what is to come.
In conclusion, the speaker offers a prayer for those struggling to understand their purpose, affirming that God will reveal it in due time. The message is one of hope and encouragement, assuring listeners that they are not alone, that God is with them even in the darkest moments, and that they are being prepared for a greater purpose.
Key Takeaways:
- The journey to discovering one's purpose is often fraught with distractions and challenges, but it is essential to focus on the divine plan rather than personal abilities or societal expectations. Understanding that talents and skills are part of one's purpose, but not the entirety of it, can lead to a more fulfilling pursuit of one's true calling. [53:02]
- Valleys in life are not to be feared but embraced as places of growth and preparation. Just as valleys are formed by the persistent flow of water, shaping the landscape, life's difficulties shape individuals, preparing them for their purpose. This perspective transforms valleys from places of despair to landscapes of potential. [57:53]
- The transition periods before reaching one's purpose are crucial for growth. These times may be uncomfortable and challenging, but they are necessary for development. Accepting and learning from these transitions can lead to a deeper understanding of one's purpose and a stronger character. [54:25]
- Past experiences, even those that seem negative, can be the compost that enriches the soil for future growth. Just as a gardener uses compost to nourish plants, God can use all aspects of one's life to prepare them for their purpose. This understanding can bring peace and purpose to painful experiences. [01:07:49]
- The story of Joshua succeeding Moses after his death serves as a reminder that loss can lead to new beginnings and opportunities. It is important to remain open to the ways in which God can use changes, even difficult ones, to usher in a new chapter and reveal one's purpose. [01:01:01]
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide: "Prepared for a Purpose"
#### Bible Reading
- Joshua 1:1-3 (NLT): "After the death of Moses the Lord's servant, the Lord spoke to Joshua son of Nun, Moses's assistant. He said, 'Moses my servant is dead. Therefore, the time has come for you to lead these people, the Israelites, across the Jordan River into the land I am giving them. I promise you what I promised to Moses: Wherever you set foot, you will be on land I have given you.'"
#### Observation Questions
1. What did God tell Joshua after the death of Moses? ([50:10])
2. How does the speaker describe the process of a valley being formed? ([55:09])
3. What personal anecdote does the speaker share about her grandparents and compost? ([01:05:52])
4. According to the speaker, what is the significance of the valley in a believer's life? ([55:51])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is it significant that God reassured Joshua with the same promise He gave to Moses? ([50:10])
2. How does the metaphor of the valley challenge common perceptions of difficult times in life? ([55:51])
3. What does the speaker mean when she says that past experiences, even negative ones, can be used by God to foster growth? ([01:07:06])
4. How does the story of Joshua succeeding Moses illustrate the idea that loss can lead to new beginnings and opportunities? ([01:01:01])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt lost or unsure of your purpose. How did you navigate that period, and what did you learn from it? ([52:17])
2. The speaker mentions that valleys are places of potential rather than fear. How can you reframe a current challenge in your life to see it as an opportunity for growth? ([55:51])
3. Think about a past experience that seemed negative at the time. How can you see God's hand in using that experience to prepare you for your current or future purpose? ([01:07:06])
4. The transition periods before reaching one's purpose are often uncomfortable. What steps can you take to embrace and learn from these transitions rather than resist them? ([54:25])
5. The speaker talks about the importance of not getting distracted by talents or societal expectations. How can you focus more on God's plan for you rather than what others expect of you? ([53:02])
6. How can you support someone else who is currently in a "valley" or transition period, helping them to see the potential and growth opportunities in their situation? ([55:51])
7. The speaker emphasizes that God is with us even in the darkest moments. How can you remind yourself of God's presence and provision during difficult times? ([57:53])
Devotional
Day 1: Purpose Beyond Abilities
Our divine calling transcends our talents and the expectations placed upon us by society. It's essential to recognize that while skills are a part of our purpose, they do not define it entirely. Embracing this can lead to a more profound pursuit of our true calling. [53:02]
Jeremiah 1:5 - "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."
Reflection: What talents do you possess that you might be overemphasizing in your search for purpose? How can you look beyond them to understand God's plan for you?
Day 2: Embracing Life's Valleys
Valleys should not be feared but seen as opportunities for growth and preparation. Like valleys carved by persistent waters, our challenges shape us, equipping us for our divine purpose. This shift in perspective can turn despair into hope. [57:53]
Psalm 84:5-6 - "Blessed are those whose strength is in you, whose hearts are set on pilgrimage. As they pass through the Valley of Baka, they make it a place of springs; the autumn rains also cover it with pools."
Reflection: Can you recall a difficult period in your life that ultimately led to personal growth? How did that experience prepare you for your current or future roles?
Day 3: Growth Through Transition
The uncomfortable periods before realizing our purpose are essential for our development. These times, though challenging, are necessary for shaping our character and deepening our understanding of our calling. [54:25]
Isaiah 43:2 - "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."
Reflection: What transition are you currently experiencing, and how can you embrace this period as a time of growth rather than resistance?
Day 4: Compost for Growth
Our past, including the negative experiences, can be the compost that enriches our future growth. Understanding that God can use all aspects of our lives prepares us for our purpose and brings peace to painful experiences. [01:07:49]
Romans 8:28 - "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
Reflection: Think of an experience you once considered negative. How can you reframe it as a source of growth and preparation for your purpose?
Day 5: New Beginnings from Loss
Loss can be a precursor to new leadership and opportunities. Being open to how God uses changes, even painful ones, can usher in a new chapter in our lives and reveal our purpose. [01:01:01]
Isaiah 43:18-19 - "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland."
Reflection: Have you experienced a loss that led to a new beginning? How can you remain open to God's leading through changes in your life?
Quotes
1) "If we don't know our purpose then how will we know what our assignment is? The problem with us is that we get caught up in what we're good at doing, we get caught up in our gifts and our talents, but what is your purpose?" [53:02] (Download)
2) "Our problem is not knowing our purpose; our problem is also being okay with the transition that comes before purpose." [54:25] (Download)
3) "A valley is only formed because water had to go through it first... something that looked impossible is now possible. So why should I be afraid?" [56:31] (Download)
4) "God is not gonna allow you to be in a place with no provision... wherever there's water, there's life." [57:53] (Download)
5) "My God is a Master Gardener where he doesn't mind taking what used to be trash... and he uses it to grow you, to make you stronger." [01:07:49] (Download)
6) "You recognize your purpose when you stop looking at your Valley as a place of death... in the darkest places sometimes the most beautiful things can prosper." [01:09:45] (Download)
7) "God is going to use all of that to push you... everything that your feet walk on is going to be yours." [01:10:58] (Download)
8) "God is gonna allow somebody to tap you on the shoulder... he wants you to see your purpose, he wants you to see yourself bigger than this." [01:12:07] (Download)
9) "You are not just the servant of somebody else, you are not just the second in command... but God sees you as the leader, God sees you as a CEO." [01:12:07] (Download)
10) "Sometimes it takes the ending of a season for us to move on to the next one... sometimes it takes a period in order for us to start a new sentence." [01:05:12] (Download)