Embracing Kingdom Values: Love Without Favoritism
Summary
### Summary
Welcome, everyone. Today, we continue our series in the book of James, focusing on James 2:1-12. This passage addresses the issue of making distinctions and judgments about others, a topic that is both challenging and essential for our spiritual growth. James begins by admonishing the church for showing favoritism to the wealthy while neglecting the poor. He describes a scenario where a rich man is given the best seat in the house, while a poor man is told to sit on the floor or stand aside. This behavior is not in line with the teachings of Jesus Christ, who welcomed everyone without partiality.
James challenges us to reflect on our own lives and consider whether we show favoritism based on superficial criteria like wealth, looks, or social status. He reminds us that such judgments are rooted in worldly values, not the values of the Kingdom of God. In the Kingdom, there are no distinctions; we are all equally guilty of sin and equally saved by grace. Therefore, we should not judge others but instead show mercy, as mercy triumphs over judgment.
James goes on to explain that the Kingdom of God operates on a different value system than the world. While the world values wealth, power, and attractiveness, the Kingdom values humility, love, and service. Jesus taught that the first will be last and the last will be first, and that true greatness comes from serving others. This counter-cultural teaching challenges us to rethink our priorities and align them with the values of the Kingdom.
One practical way to live out these Kingdom values is by loving our neighbors as ourselves. This means showing hospitality, kindness, and honor to everyone, not just those who are easy to love. James emphasizes that we should not make distinctions or judgments based on worldly criteria but should instead strive to love all people equally. He gives examples of how we can do this in our daily lives, such as opening our homes, sharing meals, and engaging in meaningful conversations with those around us.
James concludes by reminding us that we are citizens of the Kingdom of God, and our actions should reflect that reality. We are called to live out the royal law of love, which means loving our neighbors as ourselves and showing mercy instead of judgment. This is not just a lofty ideal but a practical way of living that brings joy and fulfillment.
In closing, I encourage you to reflect on three questions: Are there ways you are still living by the world's value system? In what situations are you tempted to make distinctions and judgments? And how can you practice loving all people in the details of your life? Let's pray for God's help in living out these Kingdom values and shining brightly for His glory.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Danger of Favoritism: James warns against showing favoritism based on wealth or social status. This behavior is not in line with the teachings of Jesus, who welcomed everyone without partiality. We must examine our own lives to see if we are guilty of making distinctions based on superficial criteria. This is a call to align our actions with the values of the Kingdom of God, where there are no distinctions, and all are equally loved and valued. [01:40]
2. Kingdom Values vs. Worldly Values: The Kingdom of God operates on a different value system than the world. While the world values wealth, power, and attractiveness, the Kingdom values humility, love, and service. Jesus taught that true greatness comes from serving others, and this counter-cultural teaching challenges us to rethink our priorities and align them with the values of the Kingdom. [14:53]
3. Living Out the Royal Law of Love: To live out the royal law of love means to love our neighbors as ourselves. This involves showing hospitality, kindness, and honor to everyone, not just those who are easy to love. We should not make distinctions or judgments based on worldly criteria but should strive to love all people equally. This practical way of living brings joy and fulfillment. [24:27]
4. Practical Ways to Show Love: James gives practical examples of how we can show love in our daily lives. This includes opening our homes, sharing meals, and engaging in meaningful conversations with those around us. These small acts of kindness can have a significant impact and reflect the values of the Kingdom of God. [37:19]
5. Reflecting on Our Actions: We are encouraged to reflect on our actions and consider whether we are living by the world's value system or the values of the Kingdom of God. We should ask ourselves in what situations we are tempted to make distinctions and judgments and how we can practice loving all people in the details of our lives. This reflection helps us align our actions with the teachings of Jesus and live as true citizens of the Kingdom. [38:49]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:40] - Introduction to James 2:1-12
[14:53] - Kingdom Values vs. Worldly Values
[24:27] - Living Out the Royal Law of Love
[37:19] - Practical Ways to Show Love
[38:49] - Reflecting on Our Actions
[39:28] - Closing Prayer
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
- James 2:1-12
- Matthew 5:3-12
- Matthew 20:16
#### Observation Questions
1. What specific behavior does James criticize in James 2:1-4, and what example does he use to illustrate this behavior? [01:40]
2. According to James 2:5-7, how does God view the poor, and what criticism does James have for the church's treatment of them? [08:50]
3. In Matthew 5:3-12, what are some of the values that Jesus highlights in the Beatitudes, and how do they contrast with worldly values?
4. What does Jesus mean when He says, "The first will be last and the last will be first" in Matthew 20:16, and how does this relate to the values of the Kingdom of God?
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does James consider showing favoritism to be incompatible with faith in Jesus Christ? [03:04]
2. How do the values of the Kingdom of God, as described by Jesus in the Beatitudes, challenge our everyday priorities and actions? [13:24]
3. What does it mean to live out the "royal law" of loving your neighbor as yourself, according to James 2:8-12? [17:52]
4. How can the principle that "mercy triumphs over judgment" (James 2:13) be applied in our interactions with others? [24:27]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your daily life: Are there specific situations where you find yourself making distinctions or judgments based on superficial criteria like wealth, looks, or social status? How can you change this behavior? [03:04]
2. Think about your social circles: Are there people you tend to favor or exclude based on worldly values? How can you start showing equal love and hospitality to everyone? [05:52]
3. Identify one area in your life where you are still operating by the world's value system. What steps can you take to align this area with the values of the Kingdom of God? [25:56]
4. Consider the practical ways James suggests for showing love, such as opening your home or sharing meals. How can you implement one of these actions in the coming week? [36:32]
5. Reflect on the concept of "mercy triumphing over judgment." Is there someone in your life to whom you need to show more mercy? How can you practically extend mercy to this person? [24:27]
6. How can you cultivate a mindset that values humility, love, and service over wealth, power, and attractiveness? What specific actions can you take to practice these Kingdom values daily? [14:53]
7. Think about a recent interaction where you may have judged someone unfairly. How can you approach similar situations differently in the future to reflect the teachings of Jesus and James? [07:24]
This guide is designed to help your small group delve deeper into the teachings of James 2:1-12 and reflect on how to live out the values of the Kingdom of God in practical, everyday ways.
Devotional
Day 1: The Danger of Favoritism
James warns against showing favoritism based on wealth or social status. This behavior is not in line with the teachings of Jesus, who welcomed everyone without partiality. We must examine our own lives to see if we are guilty of making distinctions based on superficial criteria. This is a call to align our actions with the values of the Kingdom of God, where there are no distinctions, and all are equally loved and valued. [01:40]
"My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory. For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, 'You sit here in a good place,' while you say to the poor man, 'You stand over there,' or, 'Sit down at my feet,' have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?" (James 2:1-4, ESV)
Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you may have shown favoritism based on someone's appearance or status. How can you change your behavior to reflect the impartial love of Jesus?
Day 2: Kingdom Values vs. Worldly Values
The Kingdom of God operates on a different value system than the world. While the world values wealth, power, and attractiveness, the Kingdom values humility, love, and service. Jesus taught that true greatness comes from serving others, and this counter-cultural teaching challenges us to rethink our priorities and align them with the values of the Kingdom. [14:53]
"But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (Mark 10:43-45, ESV)
Reflection: In what areas of your life are you still valuing worldly success over Kingdom values? How can you begin to prioritize humility, love, and service in your daily actions?
Day 3: Living Out the Royal Law of Love
To live out the royal law of love means to love our neighbors as ourselves. This involves showing hospitality, kindness, and honor to everyone, not just those who are easy to love. We should not make distinctions or judgments based on worldly criteria but should strive to love all people equally. This practical way of living brings joy and fulfillment. [24:27]
"If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself,' you are doing well. But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors." (James 2:8-9, ESV)
Reflection: Identify someone in your life who is difficult to love. What is one specific way you can show them kindness and honor this week?
Day 4: Practical Ways to Show Love
James gives practical examples of how we can show love in our daily lives. This includes opening our homes, sharing meals, and engaging in meaningful conversations with those around us. These small acts of kindness can have a significant impact and reflect the values of the Kingdom of God. [37:19]
"Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight." (Romans 12:13-16, ESV)
Reflection: What is one practical act of hospitality or kindness you can extend to someone this week? How can you make this a regular part of your life?
Day 5: Reflecting on Our Actions
We are encouraged to reflect on our actions and consider whether we are living by the world's value system or the values of the Kingdom of God. We should ask ourselves in what situations we are tempted to make distinctions and judgments and how we can practice loving all people in the details of our lives. This reflection helps us align our actions with the teachings of Jesus and live as true citizens of the Kingdom. [38:49]
"Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test!" (2 Corinthians 13:5, ESV)
Reflection: Take a moment to reflect on your daily interactions. Are there specific situations where you find yourself making judgments or distinctions? How can you consciously practice love and mercy in those moments?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "Show them a little love. Ask them a genuine question and listen. All those micro interactions as you're going throughout the day can have such a big impact. Because it's so important. It doesn't have to be like, I'm not going to be a teacher that works with hard kids. I wouldn't make it. It just ain't my calling. I'm going to work with difficult adults. Just kidding. I'm a difficult adult. And so, but everybody can do, can open your home. Everybody can share a meal. Everybody can lean in to the quick interactions in life and show love. Be warm. Be hospitable. Be kind. Be humble. Honor others by simple words." [37:19]
2. "You can have the greatest faith in the world, enough faith to move mountains. You can speak so good that everybody listens to you. But if you don't have love, you sound like a clanging cymbal. It's like when kids come up here and play these drums. Just stick around after church. You know what I'm talking about. And so it's like, you can have all the words. You could have all the faith. But if you don't love, if you don't love, you sound like a clanging cymbal. And the reason he says that, it's because it's the highest value in kingdom of God." [22:41]
3. "If you want to be great, you must serve everyone. It's like, no, no, no. I want to be great so I can get all the privileges that come with being great. I want to like get good at something. I want to make some money. I want to have good positions so people can do good things. I want to have good people treat me nice. And I just want to be well-respected and have all the fun things that come with that. He said, no, no, no, no. If you want to be great, the value of the kingdom is start serving those around you." [13:24]
4. "The kingdom of God has a much different value system than what you learn growing up on this planet. It's a much different value system than the world. The worldly values are you got to look as good as possible. That's a good thing, right? But to value like attractiveness over character. The world values are like, making the most money or having the most power. But here's the deal. Those values have no weight in the kingdom of God. They get you a lot of things in the world, but they carry no weight in the kingdom of God. They carry no privilege in the kingdom of God." [14:53]
5. "Mercy triumphs over judgment. Mercy is better than judgment. You have received mercy freely, so show mercy to others. You have not been judged by what you've done. You've been forgiven because of Christ. So show grace to others. Show honor to others is what he's saying. And so what is the royal law of the kingdom of God? It's loving your neighbor as yourself." [19:27]
### Quotes for Members
1. "In the kingdom of God, there are no distinctions. Stop judging people. There's no distinctions, because we're all in the same boat. We are all equally guilty of sin. We've all messed up, and we continue to mess up. We're all equally guilty of sin. We're equally saved by grace. We've all been saved by grace. And we've equally loved, or we are equally loved children of God, if we have faith in Christ. We're all in the same boat. We're on equal ground, and that's why James says, who are you to judge? Who are you to make distinctions of others? Because you're in the literal same boat." [22:41]
2. "Remember, the life in the kingdom of God has a different value system than that of the world. We are called higher. We're called to live better than this. Let's stop being so superficial. Let's stop competing with one another. And let's strive in unity to try to live out the way God has called us to live. And so at the end of this, in verse 12, the last verse of this section, he gives us vision for what it could look like. To live in the kingdom of God in a way that's not judgmental. He says, so speak and act as those who are to be judged under the law of liberty. For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment." [24:27]
3. "To live out the royal law of love in the kingdom of God, I think the message of James in this passage is stop favoring, stop making distinctions, stop making judgments, stop being too cool for people. We've got to get rid of that kind of mindset because mercy triumphs over judgment. Give the same mercy that you have received. That's the mindset. And then the positive practice we have to put on is practice loving all your neighbors as yourself." [25:56]
4. "If you really fulfill the royal law according to scripture, you shall love your neighbor as yourself. You are doing well. It's kind of a loving your neighbor as yourself, you're doing well. And by the way, this is the royal law of scripture. So then he goes on, he says, but if you show partiality, you're committing sin and you're convicted by the law of transgressors. For whoever keeps the whole law, but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it." [17:52]
5. "So speak and so act as those who are judged under the law of liberty. For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. But mercy triumphs over judgment. Mercy is better than judgment. You have received mercy freely, so show mercy to others. You have not been judged by what you've done. You've been forgiven because of Christ. So show grace to others. Show honor to others is what he's saying." [19:27]
6. "What are some ways that you're still living by the world's value system of looks, money, power, accomplishments? Those aren't bad things. But how are you making judgments on those values? Operating by those standards rather than the kingdom of God standards. Second question. What situations... Are you tempted to make distinctions and judgments in the world? Because we all have our weak spots. Is it at work? Is it in your neighborhood? Is it in your friend groups? Where is it? Where are you tempted to do this?" [37:55]