Embracing Imperfection: The Heart of the Father

Devotional

Day 1: The Heart of the Father: Unchanging Love for Imperfect Children

God’s love for His children remains steadfast, regardless of their failures, rebellion, or shortcomings. Both the younger and older sons in the parable of Luke 15 were imperfect in different ways—one through open rebellion, the other through a heart of ingratitude and judgment—but the father’s love for each was unwavering. This love is not based on performance or perfection; it is rooted in the very nature of God, who loves us even when we stray or when our hearts are not where they should be. No matter how far we have wandered or how self-righteous we have become, the heart of the Father is always open, longing for us to return and experience His embrace. [16:30]

Luke 15:11-32 (NIV)
Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them. Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.
When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ So he got up and went to his father.
But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.
The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’
But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.
Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’
The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’
‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

Reflection: In what ways have you felt unworthy of God’s love, and how can you open your heart today to receive the Father’s unchanging love for you, no matter your past or present struggles?

Day 2: Freedom to Choose: God’s Gift of Free Will

God, in His love, gives each of us the freedom to choose how we will respond to Him and the blessings He provides. The father in the parable allowed his younger son to take his inheritance and leave, even though it led to pain and loss, because genuine love cannot be forced. God desires a relationship with us that is chosen freely, not out of obligation or compulsion. This freedom means we can choose gratitude and obedience, or we can choose rebellion and ingratitude—but the choice is ours, and God’s hope is that we will use our freedom to love Him in return. [40:25]

Galatians 5:13 (ESV)
For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.

Reflection: How are you using the freedom God has given you today—to draw closer to Him, or to pursue your own way? What is one choice you can make today that honors the Father’s love?

Day 3: The Power of Repentance: Turning Back to the Father

True repentance is the turning point that leads us back into the arms of the Father. The younger son’s journey from the pig pen to his father’s embrace began when he “came to his senses” and decided to return home, not just in words but in action. Repentance is more than feeling sorry; it is a heartfelt decision to turn away from sin and return to God, trusting in His mercy. The Father’s forgiveness and restoration are always available, but they are experienced when we genuinely turn from our old ways and come home to Him. [56:14]

Acts 3:19 (ESV)
Repent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out,

Reflection: Is there an area of your life where you need to “come to your senses” and turn back to God? What step of repentance can you take today to move toward the Father’s embrace?

Day 4: Gratefulness in the Father’s House: Recognizing Our Blessings

It is easy to take for granted the blessings of being in the Father’s house, just as the older son did. Surrounded by provision, family, and love, he failed to recognize how blessed he truly was and instead allowed ingratitude and comparison to rob him of joy. As children of God, we are privileged to be part of His family, to worship together, and to enjoy His daily provision. Cultivating a heart of gratitude transforms our perspective and helps us celebrate, rather than complain, about what God has given us. [48:20]

Psalm 103:2 (ESV)
Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits,

Reflection: What is one specific blessing of being part of God’s family that you have overlooked or taken for granted? How can you express gratitude for it today?

Day 5: Sharing the Father’s Heart: Longing for the Lost to Come Home

The heart of the Father is not only for those already in His house, but also for those who are lost or far away. God longs for every lost son and daughter to return, and He calls His children to share that longing—to break for those outside, to celebrate their return, and to do whatever it takes to help them find their way home. Rather than focusing on our own preferences or comfort, we are called to reflect the Father’s heart by reaching out, welcoming, and rejoicing when the lost are found. [01:13:32]

Matthew 9:36 (ESV)
When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.

Reflection: Who in your life is far from God or outside the family of faith? What is one practical way you can reach out to them this week with the Father’s love and compassion?

Sermon Summary

The story of the prodigal son in Luke 15 is a powerful window into the heart of our Heavenly Father. While we often focus on the lost son who squandered his inheritance, this story is just as much about the older brother who stayed home, yet harbored resentment and lacked gratitude. Both sons were imperfect, and both were deeply loved by their father. This is a reminder that God’s love is not reserved for the obviously wayward, but extends equally to those who may outwardly appear faithful yet inwardly struggle with pride, bitterness, or self-righteousness.

God’s heart is one of relentless love and longing for His children to come home, no matter how far they have strayed or how long they have been away. The father in the story gives his sons freedom—freedom to choose, to leave, to make mistakes, and even to stay with a poor attitude. This freedom is not a sign of indifference, but of genuine love. God desires a relationship with us that is chosen, not forced. He wants us to respond to His love with true gratitude and devotion, not mere obligation.

When the younger son “came to his senses” and returned home in repentance, the father ran to meet him, embraced him, and restored him fully as a son. There was no demand for repayment, no requirement to earn his place back. The father’s joy was in the return of his child, not in the perfection of his record. This is the heart of God toward every one of us: a readiness to forgive, to restore, and to celebrate our return.

Yet, the older brother’s reaction is a warning. It’s possible to be close to the father, to do all the right things, and still miss the joy and gratitude of being in the family. We can become critical, entitled, and lose sight of the grace that sustains us. The challenge is to cultivate a heart that not only appreciates our own place in God’s family but also longs for others to experience that same grace. Our calling is to reflect the heart of the Father—welcoming, forgiving, and celebrating every lost soul who finds their way home.

Key Takeaways

1. God’s Love Embraces Imperfection: The father loved both his rebellious and self-righteous sons equally. God’s love is not based on our performance or perfection, but on His unchanging character. Even when we are far from Him—whether in open rebellion or hidden pride—His heart remains steadfast, longing for our return. [19:40]
2. Freedom Is an Expression of Love: God gives us the freedom to choose our path, even when it leads to pain or loss. This freedom is essential for genuine love and relationship; forced obedience is not love. Our choices matter, but God’s desire is that we would use our freedom to choose Him, not out of compulsion, but from a heart of gratitude and love. [40:25]
3. Repentance Is the Doorway to Restoration: The turning point for the prodigal son was not just regret, but true repentance—a change of heart that led him back to the father. God’s forgiveness is always available, but it is accessed through repentance, not mere remorse. Restoration is not about earning our way back, but about humbly returning and receiving the grace that God freely offers. [56:14]
4. Gratitude Guards Against Bitterness: The older brother’s lack of gratitude blinded him to the blessings he already enjoyed. When we lose sight of God’s daily provision and grace, we become critical, entitled, and joyless—even while remaining “in the house.” Cultivating a spirit of thankfulness protects us from bitterness and opens our hearts to celebrate God’s work in others. [48:20]
5. Reflecting the Father’s Heart Means Welcoming Others: The true test of spiritual maturity is not just personal faithfulness, but sharing the Father’s longing for the lost to come home. Are we more concerned with our preferences and comfort, or with seeing others restored to God’s family? To grow in Christlikeness is to rejoice, not resent, when grace is extended to those who need it most. [01:03:00]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:10] - Introduction and Humor
[03:00] - Setting Up the Parable
[05:20] - Reading Luke 15: The Prodigal Son
[10:45] - The Heart of the Father
[14:30] - Loving Imperfect Children
[19:40] - The Rebellious and the Resentful
[25:50] - The Illusion of Friendship and Consequences
[31:10] - The Older Brother’s Attitude
[36:00] - God’s Gift of Freedom
[40:25] - Freedom and Genuine Love
[48:20] - Gratitude vs. Complaining
[56:14] - Repentance and Restoration
[63:00] - Celebrating the Lost Coming Home
[70:00] - Invitation and Closing Prayer

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

Luke 15:11–32 (ESV) —
> 11 And he said, “There was a man who had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. 13 Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. 14 And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. 16 And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.
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> 17 “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ 20 And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ 22 But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. 23 And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. 24 For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.
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> 25 “Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ 28 But he was angry and refused to go in. His father came out and entreated him, 29 but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’ 31 And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

Observation Questions

What are some specific ways the father shows love to both his sons, even though they are very different in their actions and attitudes? ([19:40])
How does the younger son’s attitude and situation change from the beginning of the story to when he decides to return home? ([56:14])
What is the older brother’s reaction to his brother’s return, and how does the father respond to him? ([48:20])
According to the sermon, what does the father’s running to meet the younger son tell us about his heart? ([56:14])

Interpretation Questions

The sermon says both sons are imperfect, but both are loved deeply by the father. What does this reveal about God’s love for us, even when we struggle with rebellion or pride? ([19:40])
The father gives both sons freedom—one to leave, one to stay with a bad attitude. Why is freedom important in our relationship with God, and how can it be both a blessing and a challenge? ([40:25])
The older brother stayed home and did the “right things,” but still missed out on joy and gratitude. What does this suggest about the dangers of serving God out of obligation instead of love? ([48:20])
The sermon points out that repentance, not just regret, is the doorway to restoration. How is true repentance different from simply feeling sorry, and why does it matter to God? ([56:14])

Application Questions

The father’s love was not based on the sons’ performance or perfection. Is there an area in your life where you feel you have to “earn” God’s love? How does this story challenge that thinking? ([19:40])
God gives us freedom to choose, even when our choices lead to pain. Can you think of a time when you used your freedom in a way that led you away from God? What helped you “come to your senses” and return? ([40:25])
The older brother’s lack of gratitude led to bitterness and resentment. Are there blessings in your life that you have taken for granted? What is one practical way you can cultivate gratitude this week? ([48:20])
The father ran to meet the returning son and restored him fully. Is there someone in your life who needs forgiveness or a second chance from you? What would it look like to reflect the father’s heart toward them? ([56:14])
The sermon warns that it’s possible to be “in the house” but miss the joy of being in God’s family. Are you serving God out of love and gratitude, or out of duty and habit? How can you shift your heart toward joy? ([48:20])
The father celebrated the return of his lost son. How can you join in celebrating when someone takes a step toward God, even if their story is messy or different from yours? ([01:03:00])
The sermon asks if we have a heart that longs for others to come home to God. Who is one person you can pray for or reach out to this week, inviting them to experience God’s grace? ([01:03:00])

Sermon Clips

In this story, to me, it's about the heart of the father. And God wants you to know how he feels about you, even when you've messed up, even when you've strayed away, even when you've come short of what you should be. And all of us have done that, every one of us. The heart of the father doesn't change based on what we've done or where we've gone. His heart stays the same. [00:31:35] (28 seconds) #UnchangingFatherLove

He loved his imperfect sons. And I made it plural because we often just think of the lost son in this story, but the other son was lost in his heart too, in a different way. But the father loved them both, even though their hearts were not where they needed to be. His love didn't change. [00:32:11] (22 seconds) #LoveForImperfectSons

If you're going to love your children, you have to love imperfect children, don't you? There's no other kind. And God is a father who loves his children as imperfect as we are. The Bible makes it clear, we've all sinned, we've all come short, and he still loves us. [00:33:28] (19 seconds) #LovingImperfectChildren

Even when we're doing good, even when we're following all the rules, even when we're doing all the right things, we're still totally dependent on the grace and the mercy of God for our relationship with our Father. We can't have that relationship apart from Jesus and the sacrifice that he made for us on the cross. We need it just as much as anybody else, even on our best days. [00:36:02] (25 seconds) #GraceNeededEvenAtBest

He not only loved two imperfect sons, he gave freedom to his sons, both of them. The younger son, with his freedom, left and suffered terrible consequences. When he left, the father was under no obligation to give him the inheritance early. He was under no obligation to let him leave and go do whatever he wanted to do with his life. But he allowed his son to have that freedom. [00:41:16] (29 seconds) #FreedomInFather'sLove

So many of us who are in Christ lose some of that gratitude that we should still be having for being in Christ, for what he's done for us, for the sacrifice and provision that he's made for our lives. And we turn into complainers and negative people even while we're in the church that God has called us into and allowed us to be part of. We're negative, complaining people while we're here, and God gives us the freedom to do that, but we rob ourselves of joy and we rob ourselves of peace and contentment when we allow Satan to create in us this lack of gratitude as Christ followers. [00:47:02] (45 seconds) #GraceToBeFamily

He forgave his rebellious son. My favorite part of this story is where after this son has lost everything, he's working in the pig pen, feeding the pigs, starving to death, and I love, I love, I love that verse that says in verse 17, when he came to his senses, it's like a light went on. You remember those old illustrations and commercials where a light would come on over somebody's head and you knew they got this idea? All of a sudden they realized something. When the light bulb came on over their head, it's like, me, me, me, me, oh man, what am I doing in the pig pen? Back at my father's house, I've got everything I need. Even his servants have everything they need. As a son, I didn't realize how blessed I was. I didn't realize how good it was for me back at my father's house. [00:52:14] (59 seconds) #TrueRepentanceIsKey

No payment was required. The son was ready to say, I'll just work as a servant and pay back, you know, I've lost all that money, I'll try to do what I can to pay. He's got all these ideas on what he needs to do and the father doesn't require any of that, and full restoration of relationship and reward was given when the son came home. He didn't have to come back as a servant, he came back as a son. [00:58:12] (31 seconds) #EqualLoveForAllSons

See the heart of the father, no matter where anybody is out there, his heart for them is, I want you to come home, son. I want you to come back home and have everything that you would have in my house as my child. That's what I want for you more than anything else. [01:03:02] (17 seconds) #BlessingsForAllSons

To me, this whole story is about the heart of the father, and it's about the father's desire for his younger and older son to both realize the blessings that we have if we are part of the family of God already, how privileged we are to have that in our lives, but how much so many other people out there God loves just as much as he loves us, and he wants them to have this just as much as he wants us to have this relationship with him. [01:06:02] (35 seconds)

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