Embracing Imperfection: Scars as Stories of Grace

Moses stands as a powerful example of leadership, not because of his perfection, but because of his willingness to be used by God despite his flaws. Born into a world that sought his destruction, Moses’ life was marked by both failure and redemption. He made grave mistakes—like killing an Egyptian and later disobeying God’s command at Meribah—which ultimately kept him from entering the Promised Land. Yet, God continued to use Moses to guide the Israelites, reminding them of the covenant and calling them to faithfulness as they prepared to enter a new chapter in their history.

The call to obedience and distinctiveness is central. God’s commands are not to be altered or selectively followed; they are to be kept diligently, shaping a people who are set apart from the world around them. The Israelites were to resist the temptation to conform to the idolatrous practices of the nations they would encounter, just as followers of Christ today are called to resist being shaped by the patterns of this world. Paul’s exhortation to the Romans—to be transformed by the renewing of the mind—echoes this call to be formed by Christ rather than by culture.

Yet, the journey of faith is not without stumbling. Like the Israelites, we often falter, and our failures can leave scars—visible or hidden. But these scars are not to be sources of shame; rather, they become the very places where God’s grace and redemption shine most brightly. The Japanese art of kintsugi, which repairs broken pottery with gold, beautifully illustrates how God takes our brokenness and makes it a testimony to His glory. Our scars become our stories, and through them, others can see the beauty of God’s restorative work.

Even Jesus bore scars after His resurrection, inviting Thomas to touch them as proof of His love and victory. Our own scars, then, are enfolded in Christ’s, reminding us that we are forgiven, made new, and called to live as His distinct people. Each day is a new opportunity to walk in this identity, to pursue Christlikeness, and to let our stories of redemption point others to the hope we have in Him.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Imperfect Leaders, Faithful God: Moses’ story reminds us that God does not require perfection to accomplish His purposes. Our failures and flaws do not disqualify us from being used by God; rather, they become opportunities for His grace to be displayed through us. The journey of faith is marked by both stumbling and redemption, and God remains faithful throughout. [28:19]
• 2. Obedience as Distinctiveness: God’s commands are not arbitrary rules but are meant to shape a people who are distinct from the world. True obedience involves not adding to or subtracting from God’s word, but faithfully living it out, even when it sets us apart or makes us uncomfortable. Our distinctiveness is a witness to the world of God’s holiness and love. [38:52]
• 3. Transformation Over Conformity: We are always being formed—either by the world or by Christ. Paul’s call to be transformed by the renewing of our minds is a daily invitation to let Christ shape our thoughts, desires, and actions, so that our lives reflect His image more and more. This is a lifelong process, requiring intentionality and surrender. [40:13]
• 4. Scars as Stories of Grace: The broken places in our lives—our wounds and scars—are not to be hidden in shame but embraced as testimonies of God’s healing and restoration. Like kintsugi pottery, our scars become beautiful when filled with God’s grace, offering hope and encouragement to others who are broken. [44:48]
• 5. Christ’s Scars, Our Redemption: Jesus’ resurrected body still bore scars, a powerful reminder that our redemption is rooted in His sacrifice. Our own scars are now part of His story, and through them, we are reminded of our forgiveness, our new identity, and our calling to share the story of His love and grace with the world. [51:32]
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Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [28:19] - Moses: An Imperfect Leader
• [28:55] - Moses’ Early Life and Failures
• [30:17] - The Call and Reluctance of Moses
• [30:57] - Preparing to Enter the Promised Land
• [31:39] - The Call to Obedience
• [33:39] - Moses’ Disobedience at Meribah
• [36:12] - Remembering the Covenant
• [37:27] - The Temptation of Idolatry
• [38:52] - Distinctiveness of God’s People
• [40:13] - Transformation and Formation
• [41:30] - New Creation in Christ
• [43:27] - Scars and the Art of Kintsugi
• [45:41] - Beauty in Brokenness
• [49:01] - Wounds, Scars, and Stories
• [51:32] - Christ’s Scars and Our Redemption
• [52:49] - Closing Prayer and Invitation
• [54:04] - Final Song and Benediction

Bible Reading

Deuteronomy 4:1-2 (ESV) — > “And now, O Israel, listen to the statutes and the rules that I am teaching you, and do them, that you may live, and go in and take possession of the land that the LORD, the God of your fathers, is giving you. You shall not add to the word that I command you, nor take from it, that you may keep the commandments of the LORD your God that I command you.”

Romans 12:1-2 (ESV) — > “I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

John 20:24-29 (ESV) — > (Jesus shows his scars to Thomas after the resurrection.)

Observation Questions

1. What specific instructions does Moses give the Israelites in Deuteronomy 4:1-2 about God’s commands?
2. According to Romans 12:1-2, what does Paul say is the true and proper worship for believers?
3. In the sermon, what was the consequence for Moses when he struck the rock instead of speaking to it as God commanded? ([34:57])
4. How does the sermon describe the Japanese art of kintsugi, and what does it represent about our own lives? ([44:48])

Interpretation Questions

1. Why do you think Moses, despite his failures, was still chosen by God to lead the Israelites? What does this say about God’s view of leadership and imperfection? ([28:19])
2. What does it mean to be “distinct” as God’s people, both for the Israelites and for followers of Jesus today? ([38:52])
3. The sermon compares our scars to the gold-filled cracks in kintsugi pottery. How might embracing our scars change the way we see ourselves and others in the church? ([44:48])
4. Jesus kept his scars after the resurrection. What might this tell us about the place of wounds and healing in the Christian life? ([51:32])

Application Questions

1. Moses’ story shows that God uses imperfect people. Is there a failure or flaw in your life that you feel disqualifies you from serving God? How might God want to use you anyway? ([28:19])
2. Are there areas where you tend to “add to” or “subtract from” God’s commands—maybe by making excuses or picking and choosing what to obey? What would it look like to obey God more fully this week? ([32:58])
3. Paul says not to be conformed to the world but to be transformed by renewing your mind. What is one way you notice the world shaping your thoughts or actions? What is one step you can take to let Christ shape you instead? ([40:13])
4. The Israelites were called to be different from the nations around them. In what ways do you feel pressure to fit in with the culture around you? How can you live out your faith in a way that is loving but also distinct? ([38:52])
5. Think of a “scar” in your life—a place of brokenness, failure, or pain. How could you let God use that scar as part of your story to encourage someone else? ([44:48])
6. Jesus invited Thomas to touch his scars. Is there a part of your story you’ve been hiding out of shame? What would it look like to let God use that part of your life for his glory? ([51:32])
7. Each day is a new opportunity to walk in your identity as a new creation. What is one practical way you can remind yourself of this truth each morning this week? ([52:12])