Embracing Humility: Trusting God in Life's Challenges

 

Summary

### Summary

In today's sermon, we explored the profound theme of humility through the lens of biblical narratives and personal anecdotes. We began with a story about a boastful young man on a sailing trip, illustrating how pride can make us blind to our own limitations. This set the stage for a deeper discussion on the importance of humility in our lives, especially in an age where everyone seems to be an expert on everything, thanks to social media.

We then turned to the story of King David in 2 Samuel 15, examining how he dealt with the betrayal of his son Absalom. Despite being the legitimate king, David displayed remarkable humility by not clinging to the Ark of the Covenant for legitimacy and accepting God's will, even if it meant fleeing Jerusalem. This act of submission highlighted the first principle of humility: recognizing the fickleness of people's attitudes and loyalties.

David's humility was further demonstrated when he allowed Shimei to curse and throw stones at him without retaliating. This showed his trust in God's justice and timing, teaching us that a humble heart allows for ridicule, trusting that God will make things right. We also looked at Psalm 3, where David, despite his dire circumstances, found peace and assurance in God's protection and sovereignty. This led to the principle that a humble heart turns to God first for help in times of need.

Personal stories, such as the encounter with retired NBA star Joakim Noah and the travel disruptions due to natural calamities, were used to illustrate how life's unpredictability can teach us humility. These stories emphasized that we serve at the pleasure of the one true King and that our plans are always subject to God's will.

In conclusion, cultivating a heart of humility involves recognizing our own inadequacies, trusting in God's sovereign will, allowing for ridicule, and turning to God first for help. By doing so, we can navigate the storms of life with the assurance that God helps the humble.

### Key Takeaways

1. Recognize the Fickleness of People's Attitudes and Loyalties: People's opinions and loyalties can change rapidly, often based on superficial factors. Understanding this helps us remain humble, as our worth should not be tied to the fluctuating opinions of others. Instead, we should anchor our identity in God's unchanging love and truth. [07:35]

2. Serve at the Pleasure of the One True King: True humility comes from recognizing that we serve a sovereign God whose plans and purposes are higher than our own. David's willingness to leave Jerusalem without the Ark of the Covenant exemplifies this submission to God's will. We must remember that our lives are not our own; we are stewards of the life God has given us. [15:55]

3. Allow for Ridicule, Trusting God to Make It Right: A humble heart can endure mockery and criticism without feeling the need to retaliate. David's response to Shimei's curses shows his trust in God's justice. When we are ridiculed, we should remember that God sees everything and will vindicate us in His own time and way. [25:42]

4. Turn to God First for Help in Times of Need: Humility is demonstrated by our willingness to seek God's help before relying on our own strength. David's prayers in Psalm 3 show his dependence on God for protection and deliverance. In our own lives, we should cultivate the habit of turning to God in prayer, acknowledging our need for His guidance and support. [33:58]

5. Humility as a Way of Life: Humility is not just an attitude but a lifestyle that recognizes our limitations and God's omnipotence. Whether in daily routines or unexpected challenges, we should consistently seek God's help and guidance. This ongoing dependence on God keeps us grounded and aligned with His will. [38:58]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:05] - The Boastful Young Man
[02:19] - Humility vs. Pride
[03:57] - Absalom's Deception
[05:33] - The Fickleness of People's Hearts
[07:35] - Principle 1: Recognize Fickleness
[09:14] - Personal Anecdote: Business to Pastorate
[10:46] - Jesus' Entry into Jerusalem
[12:21] - Encounter with Joakim Noah
[14:07] - David's Submission to God's Will
[15:55] - Principle 2: Serve the True King
[17:40] - David's Humble Acceptance
[19:13] - Travel Disruptions and God's Will
[22:14] - Shimei's Ridicule
[24:01] - Principle 3: Allow for Ridicule
[27:17] - Humility and Self-Confidence
[28:42] - Psalm 3: David's Trust in God
[30:28] - Principle 4: Turn to God First
[33:58] - Humility in Daily Life
[35:38] - The Chauffeur's Speech
[37:20] - Travel and Trust in God
[38:58] - Conclusion: Cultivating Humility

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
1. 2 Samuel 15:1-30 - The story of Absalom's betrayal and David's humility.
2. Psalm 3 - David's prayer during his flight from Absalom.

### Observation Questions
1. What actions did Absalom take to win the hearts of the people and turn them against King David? ([03:57])
2. How did David respond when the priests wanted to bring the Ark of the Covenant with him as he fled Jerusalem? ([14:07])
3. What was David's reaction to Shimei's curses and ridicule as he fled from Absalom? ([24:01])
4. In Psalm 3, how does David describe his trust in God despite his dire circumstances? ([30:28])

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is recognizing the fickleness of people's attitudes and loyalties important for cultivating humility? ([07:35])
2. How does David's decision to leave the Ark of the Covenant in Jerusalem demonstrate his submission to God's will? ([15:55])
3. What does David's response to Shimei's ridicule teach us about trusting God's justice and timing? ([25:42])
4. How does David's prayer in Psalm 3 reflect a humble heart that turns to God first for help? ([33:58])

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you experienced a change in people's attitudes or loyalties towards you. How did you handle it, and what could you have done differently to remain humble? ([07:35])
2. In what areas of your life do you struggle to submit to God's will, like David did with the Ark of the Covenant? How can you practice greater submission to God's plans? ([15:55])
3. Think of a recent situation where you faced ridicule or criticism. How did you respond, and how can you better trust God to handle such situations in the future? ([25:42])
4. When you face challenges or uncertainties, do you turn to God first for help? What steps can you take to make prayer your first response in times of need? ([33:58])
5. How can you cultivate a lifestyle of humility in your daily routines and interactions with others? Identify one specific area where you can practice humility this week. ([38:58])
6. Consider a time when you were overconfident in your abilities. How did that situation turn out, and what did you learn about the importance of humility? ([35:38])
7. How can you remind yourself daily that you serve at the pleasure of the one true King? What practical steps can you take to keep this perspective in mind? ([15:55])

Devotional

Day 1: The Fickleness of Human Loyalties

Description:
Human loyalties and opinions are often unstable and can change rapidly based on superficial factors. This reality can be disheartening, especially when we place our worth and identity in the hands of others. However, understanding the fickleness of human nature can help us remain humble and grounded. Instead of seeking validation from people whose opinions may shift with the wind, we should anchor our identity in God's unchanging love and truth. This perspective allows us to navigate life's ups and downs with a steady heart, knowing that our true worth is found in God's unwavering love for us. [07:35]

Bible Passage:
"Put not your trust in princes, in a son of man, in whom there is no salvation. When his breath departs, he returns to the earth; on that very day his plans perish." (Psalm 146:3-4, ESV)

Reflection:
Think of a time when you felt let down by someone's changing opinion or loyalty. How can you shift your focus from seeking human approval to finding your worth in God's steadfast love today?


Day 2: Serving the Sovereign King

Description:
True humility comes from recognizing that we serve a sovereign God whose plans and purposes are higher than our own. King David's willingness to leave Jerusalem without the Ark of the Covenant exemplifies this submission to God's will. Despite being the legitimate king, David did not cling to symbols of power for legitimacy but trusted in God's sovereign plan. This act of humility teaches us that our lives are not our own; we are stewards of the life God has given us. By serving at the pleasure of the one true King, we align our lives with His divine purposes and find true fulfillment. [15:55]

Bible Passage:
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8-9, ESV)

Reflection:
Reflect on an area of your life where you struggle to submit to God's will. What steps can you take today to surrender this area to God's sovereign plan and trust in His higher purposes?


Day 3: Enduring Ridicule with Trust in God

Description:
A humble heart can endure mockery and criticism without feeling the need to retaliate. King David's response to Shimei's curses is a powerful example of this principle. Instead of seeking revenge, David trusted in God's justice and timing, allowing Shimei to curse and throw stones at him. This act of humility teaches us to trust that God sees everything and will vindicate us in His own time and way. When we face ridicule or criticism, we can find peace in knowing that God is our ultimate judge and defender. [25:42]

Bible Passage:
"Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you." (Matthew 5:11-12, ESV)

Reflection:
Think of a recent situation where you felt ridiculed or criticized. How can you respond with humility and trust in God's justice instead of seeking revenge or validation from others?


Day 4: Turning to God First in Times of Need

Description:
Humility is demonstrated by our willingness to seek God's help before relying on our own strength. King David's prayers in Psalm 3 show his dependence on God for protection and deliverance, even in dire circumstances. This principle teaches us to cultivate the habit of turning to God in prayer, acknowledging our need for His guidance and support. By prioritizing our relationship with God and seeking His help first, we demonstrate true humility and trust in His sovereign power. [33:58]

Bible Passage:
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6, ESV)

Reflection:
Identify a current challenge or need in your life. How can you intentionally turn to God in prayer and seek His guidance and support before relying on your own strength or solutions?


Day 5: Humility as a Way of Life

Description:
Humility is not just an attitude but a lifestyle that recognizes our limitations and God's omnipotence. Whether in daily routines or unexpected challenges, we should consistently seek God's help and guidance. This ongoing dependence on God keeps us grounded and aligned with His will. By cultivating a heart of humility, we can navigate the storms of life with the assurance that God helps the humble. This lifestyle of humility involves recognizing our own inadequacies, trusting in God's sovereign will, allowing for ridicule, and turning to God first for help. [38:58]

Bible Passage:
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." (1 Peter 5:6-7, ESV)

Reflection:
Consider your daily routines and interactions. What practical steps can you take to cultivate a lifestyle of humility, consistently seeking God's help and guidance in all areas of your life?

Quotes

1. "Whatever happened to showing a bit of humility? Admitting that we don't know everything, that we can make mistakes, that there are two sides to the same story, and that we are not always right? When proven wrong, when was the last time you said, dead sorry with the same passion and conviction that you had when you were arguing that your position was right." [01:05] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "This shows that in a biblical definition of humility, it is a recognition of our own inadequacies and realization that we need to fully trust God in everything. What does a heart of humility look like? If you have your Bibles, please turn with me to the book of 2 Samuel chapter 15, as we look into the heart of King David, who was said to be a man after God's own heart. This great leader of Israel had a humble heart." [02:19] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "My friends, so it is in life. One day you are the star. You are the hero. You are the greatest. The next day, you are yesterday's news. Out of vogue, irrelevant, and canceled." [05:33] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "A heart of humility, number one, recognizes the fickleness of people's attitude and thinking. A heart of humility recognizes the fickleness of people's attitude and thinking. Fickleness means changeability. People change all the time, and therefore, loyalties and attitudes will also change." [07:35] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "Keep humble. People are fickle. You may just be the flavor of the day. My friends, if you don't already know this to be true, understand that people's hearts can and will change. When you are no longer in a position of prominence or influence, they will treat you very differently. This is the harsh reality of life. The truth is the world will move on when you are gone and people will forget about you. That should humble us." [09:14] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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6. "David says, whatever God wills, I will accept. Here we have our second biblical principle for cultivating a heart of humility. A heart of humility, number two, realizes that we serve at the pleasure of the one true king. A heart of humility realizes, that we serve at the pleasure of the one true king. This is a great reminder and lesson for each one of us. We serve the sovereign God of grace. What right do we have to demand our will? What right do we have to be proud?" [14:07] (38 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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7. "A heart of humility allows for ridicule, trusting that God will make it right. My friends, can you take it when you are mocked, when you're chewed out, when you're made fun of, when you're belittled? Do you feel that you need to respond and fight back when it happens? An indication of a humble heart is understanding that you don't always need to respond, and instead allow God to respond for you. That allows you to take it, and to move on. God can fight His own fights." [25:42] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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8. "Humble people have nothing to lose when they cede control of their lives to God, and God takes their problems. And their injustices, and their issues, and he says, let me take care of it. You go to sleep." [32:16] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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9. "A heart of humility, number four, is a heart that turns to God first for help in times of need. A heart of humility is a heart that turns to God first for help. In times of need. My friends, we all have needs. The question is, are we humble enough to ask for help? Are we humble enough to ask for help? And specifically, to ask help from the one who alone is able to really help us?" [33:58] (38 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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10. "Humility is not simply an attitude. It is a way of life. It is recognizing our inadequate selves and trusting in an all-powerful God who we need to journey with us. So let's begin today to cultivate a heart of humility which recognizes the fickleness of people's attitude and thinking. A heart of humility realizes that we serve at the pleasure of the one true King. A heart of humility allows for ridicule, trusting that God will make it right in His time and in His way. A heart of humility turns to God first for help in times of need. So my friends, let's cultivate a humility-shaped heart so that we can weather the storms of life knowing that God helps the humble." [38:58] (52 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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