Embracing Humility: Overcoming Arrogance in Faith
Summary
In today's message, we explored the profound impact of arrogance on our spiritual lives and the liberating power of humility before God. Reflecting on my personal journey, I shared how arrogance had once choked my spiritual life, preventing me from receiving and sharing God's grace and love. This arrogance, often masked by seemingly innocent sins, is a pervasive issue that can only be overcome by humbling ourselves before the Lord, as James 4:10 instructs. Humility is not about self-deprecation but about recognizing God's holiness and our need for His transformative power.
We delved into three specific areas where arrogance manifests: a critical spirit, presumptuous pride, and selfish indulgence. A critical spirit, as James warns, assumes the position of God, judging others and speaking evil against them. This arrogance is countered by a gracious spirit that extends the grace we've received from God to others. Presumptuous pride, on the other hand, is the arrogance of living without regard for God's sovereignty, planning our lives as if we are in control. The antidote is humble faith, acknowledging that our lives are but a mist and that only God holds tomorrow. Lastly, selfish indulgence, particularly in the use of our resources, reflects an arrogant heart that prioritizes personal luxury over generosity. God-fueled generosity, recognizing that all we have is from God, is the alternative that leads to a life of blessing others.
As a church, we are called to humble ourselves before God, not just for generic sins but for specific areas where arrogance has taken root. By doing so, God promises to exalt us, freeing us from the bondage of arrogance and allowing us to experience His grace and goodness fully. This transformation leads to a church characterized by humble faith, gracious spirits, and generous hearts, reflecting the nature of our generous God.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Deceptive Nature of Arrogance: Arrogance often disguises itself in seemingly innocent sins, making it difficult to recognize and address. It suffocates our spiritual life, preventing us from receiving and sharing God's grace. The path to overcoming arrogance is through humility, acknowledging God's holiness and our need for His transformative power. [35:45]
2. The Danger of a Critical Spirit: A critical spirit assumes the position of God, judging others and speaking evil against them. This arrogance is rooted in a heart that believes it knows best. The alternative is a gracious spirit that extends the grace we've received from God to others, recognizing our own imperfections. [42:12]
3. Presumptuous Pride and Control: Presumptuous pride is the arrogance of living without regard for God's sovereignty, planning our lives as if we are in control. Humble faith acknowledges that our lives are but a mist and that only God holds tomorrow. This posture of humility allows us to live in submission to God's will. [51:03]
4. Selfish Indulgence vs. Generosity: Selfish indulgence reflects an arrogant heart that prioritizes personal luxury over generosity. God-fueled generosity recognizes that all we have is from God and seeks to bless others with our resources. This shift from self-centeredness to generosity is rooted in humility before God. [57:28]
5. The Transformative Power of Humility: Humbling ourselves before God releases us from the bondage of arrogance, allowing us to experience His grace and goodness fully. This transformation leads to a church characterized by humble faith, gracious spirits, and generous hearts, reflecting the nature of our generous God. [01:05:51]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [35:45] - The Iceberg of Arrogance
- [36:58] - Humility Before God
- [38:17] - Call to Humility
- [39:18] - Personal Reflection
- [39:57] - Message for the Individual
- [40:47] - Addressing Worldliness
- [42:12] - The Critical Spirit
- [44:41] - Judging Others
- [46:20] - Law of Liberty
- [47:40] - Personal Confession
- [48:46] - Heart of the Problem
- [50:01] - Gracious Spirit
- [51:03] - Presumptuous Pride
- [53:59] - Planning with Humility
- [55:12] - The Lie of Control
- [56:09] - Humble Faith
- [57:28] - Selfish Indulgence
- [01:00:27] - Consequences of Indulgence
- [01:02:08] - God-Fueled Generosity
- [01:05:11] - Invitation to Humility
- [01:06:50] - Closing Prayer
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
- James 4:10-12
- James 4:13-17
- James 5:1-6
Observation Questions:
1. What does James 4:10 say about the relationship between humility and being exalted by God? How does this relate to the sermon’s message on overcoming arrogance? [36:58]
2. In James 4:11-12, what behaviors are associated with a critical spirit, and how does this reflect arrogance? [42:12]
3. According to James 4:13-17, what is the issue with making plans without considering God's will? How does this demonstrate presumptuous pride? [51:03]
4. How does James 5:1-6 describe the consequences of selfish indulgence, and what warning does it provide to those who are wealthy? [57:28]
Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the sermon describe the deceptive nature of arrogance, and why is it important to recognize it in our lives? [35:45]
2. What does the sermon suggest is the alternative to having a critical spirit, and how can this change our interactions with others? [50:01]
3. How does the concept of humble faith differ from presumptuous pride, and what practical steps can be taken to live with humble faith? [56:09]
4. In what ways does the sermon suggest that God-fueled generosity can counteract selfish indulgence, and how does this reflect God's character? [01:03:28]
Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when arrogance may have suffocated your spiritual life. What steps can you take to humble yourself before God and seek His transformative power? [35:45]
2. Consider a relationship in your life where a critical spirit has caused harm. How can you begin to cultivate a gracious spirit in that relationship? [47:40]
3. When planning your future, how often do you consider God's will and sovereignty? What changes can you make to ensure your plans align with humble faith? [51:03]
4. Evaluate your use of resources. Are there areas where selfish indulgence has taken priority over generosity? How can you shift towards God-fueled generosity? [57:28]
5. Identify specific areas of arrogance in your life. How can you actively work to humble yourself before God in these areas, and what support do you need from your small group? [01:05:51]
6. How can the church collectively work towards being characterized by humble faith, gracious spirits, and generous hearts? What role can you play in this transformation? [01:05:11]
7. Think of a person or group in need. How can you use your resources to bless them this week, reflecting the generosity of God? [01:03:28]
Devotional
Day 1: The Subtle Chains of Arrogance
Arrogance often disguises itself in seemingly innocent behaviors, making it difficult to recognize and address. It suffocates our spiritual life, preventing us from receiving and sharing God's grace. This arrogance can manifest in various forms, such as a critical spirit, presumptuous pride, and selfish indulgence. Each of these forms of arrogance creates a barrier between us and the transformative power of God's grace. The path to overcoming arrogance is through humility, acknowledging God's holiness and our need for His transformative power. By humbling ourselves before God, we open ourselves to His grace and allow His love to flow through us to others. [35:45]
"Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him." (Proverbs 26:12, ESV)
Reflection: Identify a seemingly innocent behavior in your life that might be rooted in arrogance. How can you begin to address this with humility today?
Day 2: The Poison of a Critical Spirit
A critical spirit assumes the position of God, judging others and speaking evil against them. This form of arrogance is rooted in a heart that believes it knows best, often leading to division and strife. Instead of building others up, a critical spirit tears them down, creating an environment of negativity and judgment. The alternative is a gracious spirit that extends the grace we've received from God to others, recognizing our own imperfections and the need for God's mercy. By cultivating a gracious spirit, we reflect God's love and create a community of support and encouragement. [42:12]
"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3, ESV)
Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you judged someone harshly. How can you extend grace to them today, acknowledging your own imperfections?
Day 3: The Illusion of Control
Presumptuous pride is the arrogance of living without regard for God's sovereignty, planning our lives as if we are in control. This pride leads us to believe that we can dictate our future, ignoring the reality of God's ultimate authority over our lives. Humble faith acknowledges that our lives are but a mist and that only God holds tomorrow. By submitting to God's will, we embrace a posture of humility that allows us to live in alignment with His plans and purposes. This submission frees us from the anxiety of control and opens us to the peace of trusting in God's sovereignty. [51:03]
"Come now, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit'—yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes." (James 4:13-14, ESV)
Reflection: Consider an area of your life where you are trying to maintain control. How can you practice surrendering this area to God's sovereignty today?
Day 4: The Trap of Selfish Indulgence
Selfish indulgence reflects an arrogant heart that prioritizes personal luxury over generosity. This form of arrogance leads us to hoard our resources, focusing on our own desires rather than the needs of others. God-fueled generosity, on the other hand, recognizes that all we have is from God and seeks to bless others with our resources. By shifting from self-centeredness to generosity, we reflect the heart of God and experience the joy of giving. This transformation is rooted in humility before God, acknowledging that our blessings are meant to be shared. [57:28]
"One gives freely, yet grows all the richer; another withholds what he should give, and only suffers want. Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered." (Proverbs 11:24-25, ESV)
Reflection: Identify a resource or talent you have been holding onto. How can you use it to bless someone else today?
Day 5: The Freedom of Humility
Humbling ourselves before God releases us from the bondage of arrogance, allowing us to experience His grace and goodness fully. This transformation leads to a church characterized by humble faith, gracious spirits, and generous hearts, reflecting the nature of our generous God. By embracing humility, we open ourselves to God's transformative power, allowing His love to flow through us and impact those around us. This journey of humility is not about self-deprecation but about recognizing our need for God's grace and the freedom that comes from living in alignment with His will. [01:05:51]
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." (1 Peter 5:6-7, ESV)
Reflection: Reflect on an area of your life where you struggle with arrogance. How can you invite God's transformative power into this area through humility today?
Quotes
To humble yourself before the Lord means to get face to face with God and say, God, this is who you are. You are God. You are right. You are holy. And then to be honest with yourself and say, this is who I am. This is the sin in my life that I need you to change. And unless you work in my life, I can't change. [00:37:34] (23 seconds)
This morning, I believe that God is asking us as a church and individually to humble ourselves before him. And not for just generic sin, not just for generic arrogance, but for specific sins. Sins that have to be exalted. Sins that have robbed God of the worship that he is due. Sins that have tainted, in many ways, relationships in this church. [00:38:39] (30 seconds)
James says in chapter 4, verse 11, he says, Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. One who speaks against a brother or judges his brother speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge. [00:42:16] (164 seconds)
A critical spirit assumes the position of God, and that's arrogance. A critical spirit assumes the position of God. In verses 11 through 12, James says, the one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge. [00:44:33] (27 seconds)
James, in his letter, refers to the law in chapter one and chapter two as the law of liberty. In other words, this law was meant to bring life. This law was meant to bring freedom. This law was for our good. You say, well, Nate, what is this law that he's referring to? Jesus sums it up best in Matthew 22. [00:45:25] (21 seconds)
I will be the first to acknowledge this morning that I struggle with a critical spirit. And unfortunately, the relationship that has suffered the most harm in my life because of my critical spirit is my marriage. And I have come to acknowledge and accept and be honest that when I am critical towards my wife, it says way more about my heart than hers. [00:47:45] (38 seconds)
The second reason why we need to humble ourselves before God is because of our presumptuous pride. Presumptuous pride. So presumptuous pride simply means that you choose or fail to live within your God-given limits. And it's not because of ignorance. It's because of arrogance. [00:50:23] (23 seconds)
James continues in verse 13. He says, Come now, you who say, Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit. Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. [00:51:28] (23 seconds)