Embracing Honest Prayer: A Personal Connection with God

Today is not just another Sunday—God has something specific for each of us, right where we are. Life can be overwhelming, and sometimes we come in carrying burdens, doubts, or even intimidation about how we approach God, especially when it comes to prayer. But the truth is, prayer isn’t about having the right words, the perfect setting, or a certain amount of time. It’s about an ongoing, honest relationship with God—a conversation that continues throughout our day, just like texting a loved one. Each of us connects with God in our own unique way, and that’s not only okay, it’s exactly how God designed it.

Prayer is simply talking to God. Whether you’re a seasoned prayer warrior or someone who struggles to focus, God isn’t measuring your performance—He just wants you to be real and present with Him. The Bible encourages us to “never stop praying,” not as a burden, but as an invitation to stay connected to the source of life, just as a branch stays connected to the vine. When we remain in Him, we find nourishment, growth, and the ability to bear fruit in our lives.

There are practical ways to approach prayer that can help us grow. One helpful framework is ACTS: Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication. Start by simply adoring God for who He is, expecting nothing in return. Move into confession, honestly bringing your failures and struggles to Him, knowing He is faithful to forgive. Take time to be thankful, even in the midst of challenges, recognizing the blessings and answered prayers in your life. Then, bring your needs and the needs of others before Him, trusting that He hears and cares.

Intentional time with God doesn’t have to look the same for everyone. Maybe it’s a walk, a drive, or a quiet moment in your day. The key is to be intentional and to realize what a privilege it is to have direct access to the Father through Jesus. For some, the first step is simply starting a relationship with Jesus, opening the door to all that God wants to do in your life. No matter where you are, take a step this week—be intentional, be real, and watch how God meets you and brings joy, growth, and blessing as you stay connected to Him.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Prayer is an ongoing, honest relationship with God, not a performance. God isn’t looking for perfect words or long hours—He desires real, raw, and intentional connection with us, just as we are. Each person’s relationship with God is unique, and comparison only distracts from the personal invitation God extends to each of us. [32:02]
• 2. Staying connected to God through prayer is essential for spiritual growth and fruitfulness. Just as a branch cannot bear fruit apart from the vine, we cannot thrive spiritually if we are disconnected from God. Prayer is the lifeline that nourishes, sustains, and empowers us to live out God’s purpose. [35:52]
• 3. The ACTS framework—Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication—offers a practical way to approach prayer. Adoration shifts our focus from our problems to God’s greatness; confession frees us from guilt and shame; thanksgiving cultivates joy even in difficulty; and supplication invites God’s intervention in our lives and the lives of others. [44:23]
• 4. Intentionality in prayer matters more than routine or ritual. Life is unpredictable, and our schedules may change, but God values our willingness to slow down and make space for Him, whether it’s a minute or an hour. The privilege of direct access to God is not a burden but a blessing we should embrace with gratitude. [58:59]
• 5. Interceding for others is a vital part of a healthy prayer life. It’s easy to focus only on our own needs, but Jesus modeled a life of praying for others, including those who have wronged us. True spiritual maturity is seen in our willingness to lift up others, trusting God to work in their lives as He works in ours. [57:29]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [01:30] - Opening Prayer and Worship
• [03:45] - Introduction and Church Family Updates
• [07:10] - Confessions About Prayer Struggles
• [12:00] - The Intimidation of “Prayer Warriors”
• [15:30] - Rethinking What Prayer Really Is
• [19:00] - Prayer as Ongoing Conversation
• [22:45] - Staying Connected: The Vine and Branches
• [27:00] - Practical Examples: Texting and Prayer
• [32:00] - The Importance of Intentional Time
• [35:52] - The ACTS Model: Adoration
• [44:23] - Confession and Freedom
• [50:29] - Thanksgiving in All Circumstances
• [52:52] - Supplication and Asking God
• [55:50] - Intercession: Praying for Others
• [58:59] - Taking the Next Step in Prayer
• [61:52] - Invitation to Begin a Relationship with Jesus
• [64:12] - Prayer Resources and Final Encouragement

Bible Reading

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 — “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

- John 15:4-5
“Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

- 1 John 1:9
“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

Observation Questions

1. In John 15:4-5, what does Jesus say is necessary for a branch to bear fruit? What does He compare this to in our spiritual lives?
2. According to 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, what three things are we commanded to do “always” or “without ceasing”?
3. The sermon described prayer as an “ongoing, honest relationship with God, not a performance.” What are some ways the pastor said people sometimes overcomplicate prayer? [[32:02]]
4. What is the ACTS framework for prayer, and what does each letter stand for? [[44:23]]

Interpretation Questions

1. Why do you think Jesus uses the image of the vine and branches to describe our relationship with Him? What does this say about the importance of staying connected to God? [[35:52]]
2. The pastor mentioned that “prayer isn’t about having the right words, the perfect setting, or a certain amount of time.” Why do you think people often feel intimidated or inadequate about their prayer life? [[32:02]]
3. How does the ACTS model help shift our focus in prayer from ourselves to God and others? [[44:23]]
4. The sermon said, “Intentionality in prayer matters more than routine or ritual.” What does it look like to be intentional in your prayer life, even when your schedule is unpredictable? [[58:59]]

Application Questions

1. The pastor shared that he sometimes gets distracted or even falls asleep while praying. Have you ever felt like you weren’t “good” at prayer? What specific distractions or challenges do you face, and how could you address them this week? [[32:02]]
2. Jesus says we must “remain” in Him to bear fruit. What is one practical way you can stay connected to God throughout your day, not just during a set prayer time? [[35:52]]
3. The ACTS model starts with adoration—worshiping God for who He is. When was the last time you prayed without asking for anything, just focusing on God’s character? How could you make this a regular part of your prayers? [[44:23]]
4. Confession is part of a healthy prayer life. Is there something you need to bring honestly before God this week? What holds you back from confessing, and how can you remember God’s promise to forgive? [[47:36]]
5. The sermon encouraged us to be thankful “even in the midst of challenges.” Think of a current difficulty in your life. What is one thing you can thank God for in that situation? [[50:29]]
6. Supplication and intercession mean bringing our needs and the needs of others to God. Who is one person you can pray for this week, and how will you remember to actually pray for them (not just say you will)? [[57:29]]
7. The pastor said, “Being able to have intentional time with the Father is one of the greatest privileges that you and I have.” How can you remind yourself this week that prayer is a privilege, not a burden? [[58:59]]