Embracing Growth: Stages of Spiritual Development

 

Summary

Today, I explored the concept of growth, a subject relevant to all of us, regardless of age or stage in life. Growth is a continuous process, often imperceptible in the moment but significant over time. I began by discussing the seed stage, a period where growth seems dormant and stagnant. This stage can be frustrating as it appears that nothing is happening, yet it is a crucial time of potential and preparation for what is to come. It's essential during this stage to maintain faith and patience, avoiding the temptation to doubt God's plan or compare our progress with others.

Moving on, I addressed the sapling stage, where initial growth becomes visible. This stage is exciting as we begin to see the fruits of our labor, whether in personal achievements, relationships, or spiritual maturity. However, it's also a vulnerable time, requiring humility and the support of more mature individuals. Just as young plants need the protection of older trees, we too benefit from the wisdom and guidance of those who have navigated similar paths before us.

The mature plant stage represents a period of robust growth, where individuals are not only surviving but thriving. Those in this stage have weathered various challenges and are now in a position to mentor and support others. It's a time of giving back and nurturing the next generation, ensuring the cycle of growth continues within our community.

Throughout the sermon, I emphasized the importance of staying planted and connected within the community. Whether through connect groups, mentorship, or simply sharing life experiences, these connections are vital for growth at every stage. I also highlighted the dangers of isolation and the negative impact of surrounding oneself with the wrong influences, which can stunt spiritual and personal growth.

In conclusion, growth is a lifelong journey that cycles through periods of dormancy, vulnerability, and flourishing. Each stage is essential and prepares us for the next phase of our development. By staying rooted in faith and connected to our community, we can navigate each stage successfully and fulfill the potential God has planted within each of us.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Seed Stage: Patience and Faith - In the seed stage, it's crucial to maintain patience and keep faith in God's timing. Despite appearances, significant development is happening beneath the surface. This stage is about laying the groundwork for future growth, and premature actions can disrupt this process. Trusting in God's plan during this seemingly static phase prepares us for the growth that is to come. [09:52]

2. The Sapling Stage: Humility and Community - As we enter the sapling stage and begin to see growth, humility becomes our greatest asset. This stage requires the protective support of those who are more mature in their faith and life experiences. By staying humble and connected, we ensure our growth is healthy and sustainable, capable of withstanding the challenges that come our way. [14:41]

3. The Mature Plant Stage: Mentorship and Giving Back - Reaching the mature plant stage is a significant achievement, characterized by the ability to reproduce and nurture others. This stage is about leveraging our experiences to guide and support those who are in earlier stages of their growth journey. It's a time to give back and contribute to the community's overall health and vitality. [23:55]

4. The Importance of Right Influences - Throughout all stages of growth, the influences we choose can significantly impact our development. Surrounding ourselves with positive, godly influences helps us grow in the right direction, while negative influences can lead us astray. Choosing the right friends and mentors is crucial for maintaining a healthy growth trajectory. [19:37]

5. Staying Planted in Community - The metaphor of being planted emphasizes the importance of stability and connection within a community. Just as a plant thrives in nutrient-rich soil, we flourish when rooted in a supportive, faith-based community. Engaging in church activities, connect groups, and community service are practical ways to stay planted and flourish. [17:09]

Youtube Chapters:

- [0:00] - Welcome
- [01:31] - Introduction to Growth Stages
- [02:21] - Exploring the Seed Stage
- [05:13] - Challenges of the Seed Stage
- [09:52] - Patience in the Seed Stage
- [12:44] - Transition to Sapling Stage
- [14:41] - Navigating the Sapling Stage
- [17:09] - Community and Connection
- [19:02] - Choosing the Right Influences
- [21:18] - Entering the Mature Plant Stage
- [23:55] - Giving Back in the Mature Stage
- [25:59] - Closing Thoughts and Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. 1 Corinthians 15:36-37 - "When you sow a seed in the ground, it does not sprout to life unless it dies. And what you sow is a bare seed, not the full-bodied plant that will later grow up."
2. Galatians 6:9 - "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
3. Psalm 92:13-14 - "Those who are planted in the house of the Lord shall flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green."

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Paul mean when he says a seed must die to sprout to life in 1 Corinthians 15:36-37?
2. According to Galatians 6:9, what is promised to those who do not give up in doing good?
3. In Psalm 92:13-14, what are the benefits mentioned for those who are planted in the house of the Lord?
4. How does the sermon describe the seed stage of growth? ([02:21])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How can the analogy of a seed dying before it sprouts be applied to personal growth and transformation? ([04:30])
2. What might be some reasons people become weary in doing good, and how can Galatians 6:9 encourage them? ([09:52])
3. What does it mean to be "planted in the house of the Lord," and how does this contribute to flourishing in life? ([09:10])
4. How does the sermon suggest we should handle feelings of stagnation or frustration during the seed stage? ([03:26])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt like you were in the seed stage of growth. How did you maintain faith and patience during that period? ([05:13])
2. In what ways can you stay humble and seek the support of more mature individuals during your sapling stage? ([14:41])
3. Identify a person in your life who is in the mature plant stage. How can you seek their mentorship or guidance to aid your growth? ([23:55])
4. What are some practical steps you can take to ensure you are surrounded by positive, godly influences? ([19:02])
5. How can you stay connected and engaged within your community to support your growth? Consider joining a connect group or participating in church activities. ([17:09])
6. Think of a specific area in your life where you feel stagnant. What steps can you take to trust in God's plan and avoid comparing your progress with others? ([03:26])
7. How can you contribute to the growth of others in your community, especially if you are in the mature plant stage? ([23:55])

Devotional

Day 1: Embracing Patience in Hidden Seasons
In the seed stage of growth, it's easy to feel as though nothing is happening. This period, however, is not about visible changes but about deep, underground development. It's a time for laying a strong foundation, much like a seed that germinates beneath the soil, unseen yet active. Patience and faith are crucial during this phase, as they allow one to trust in the process without rushing or forcing premature outcomes. This stage is about trusting that every moment of waiting is filled with purpose, preparing us for the growth that is yet to be seen. [09:52]

James 5:7-8, "Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives the early and the late rains. You also, be patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand."

Reflection: What area of your life currently feels like a 'seed stage' where nothing seems to be happening? How can you practice patience and faith in this season?

Day 2: Cultivating Humility Through Community
As growth becomes visible in the sapling stage, the excitement of progress can sometimes overshadow the need for humility and community support. This stage is marked by the first signs of growth above the surface, where vulnerability is high and the need for guidance is critical. It's a time to lean on the wisdom of those who have walked the path before, drawing strength from their experiences and support. Humility allows us to remain teachable and receptive to the lessons that accelerate our growth and strengthen our roots. [14:41]

1 Peter 5:5b, "Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.'"

Reflection: Who are the mentors in your life that help guide your growth? How can you better engage with them to benefit from their wisdom?

Day 3: Nurturing Others in Full Bloom
Reaching the mature plant stage is a significant milestone where one is called to mentor and nurture others. This stage is characterized by robust growth and the ability to contribute positively to the growth of others. It's a time to give back, using one's experiences and lessons learned to guide those who are in the earlier stages of their journey. This act of giving back not only helps others but also reinforces one's own growth and understanding. [23:55]

Hebrews 6:10, "For God is not unjust so as to overlook your work and the love that you have shown for his name in serving the saints, as you still do."

Reflection: How can you use your experiences to mentor someone else this week? Is there someone who could benefit from your guidance and support?

Day 4: Choosing the Right Influences
Throughout all stages of growth, the influences around us can significantly shape our trajectory. Surrounding ourselves with positive, godly influences is crucial for maintaining a healthy growth path. These influences can come from various sources—friends, books, media, and mentors. They help us stay focused on the right path and avoid distractions that can lead to stagnation or regression. Choosing wisely who and what we allow into our lives can make all the difference in our growth journey. [19:37]

Proverbs 13:20, "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm."

Reflection: Evaluate your current influences. Are there changes you need to make to ensure you are surrounded by those who will help you grow in the right direction?

Day 5: Staying Rooted in Community
The metaphor of being planted emphasizes the importance of stability and connection within a community. Just as a plant thrives in nutrient-rich soil, we flourish when rooted in a supportive, faith-based community. Engaging in church activities, connect groups, and community service are practical ways to stay connected and grounded. These connections not only support our personal growth but also enhance our ability to contribute to the growth of others within the community. [17:09]

Colossians 2:6-7, "Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving."

Reflection: What are some ways you can deepen your involvement in your community this month? How can you make these connections more meaningful?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Other people's success does not hinder, or it is not a threat to your success. I believe in God's plan. It can be a part of it." [06:32]( | | )

2. "God will use us to help others if we let him. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord because you know that your work in the Lord is never wasted. It's never wasted. Doing something for others in the name of the Lord is never wasted. It will bear fruit. It will have a hard harvest." [25:59]( | | )

3. "We need to recognize that sometimes other people's success, our success, is linked to other people's. So what do we do during this season? Maybe you say, I think I'm in that seed season. I'm in a dormant season where it feels like there's no motion. What do we do during this season? Don't uproot. Stay planted." [09:10]( | | )

4. "So when we see that, we need to put ourselves in that scenario. So in Matthew 13, five through seven, he says, some seeds fell on shallow soil. Some seeds sprouted quickly because the soil was shallow, but the plants soon wilted under the hot sun. And since they didn't have deep roots, they died." [19:02]( | | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "This stage is a test of our patience. And this is an opportunity past the test. Past the test of patience. So Paul says in Galatians, I don't think it's up on the screen, but chapter 6, verse 9, he says, don't become weary in doing good. For at the proper time, we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." [09:52]( | | )

2. "Maybe you've weathered the ups and downs of a career. Maybe you've come through the pain of losing a loved one and you know what grief feels like. But you're still planted. Yeah. You're still in faith. If you think that you are in this stage, please, please, please know that you are so needed. We need you more than ever." [23:01]( | | )

3. "This mature plant stage is a stage when the plant is producing seeds and fruit. It has survived seasons of drought, storm, growing pains, and it's still thriving. So what does this stage look like for us? This is a stage where these are usually older and more mature men and women, and they've been through some stuff." [21:18]( | | )

4. "So today I want to talk about a subject that I believe it's not just for moms, it pertains to all of us, mothers, fathers, older adults, younger adults, students, and children, and that is on the subject of growth. You know, a couple years ago, maybe four or five years ago, I had taken Jude into the doctor for his annual, you know, checkup." [01:31]( | | )

5. "The first stage of growth that we all go through is the seed stage. And this is a stage where it's a time when the plant is small, it's undeveloped, it's dormant, and there seems to be no change and no growth. But this is actually a stage of growth. You might look at this and say, well, that's just a seed. That's nothing. You're not growing. But this seed is potential." [02:21]( | | )

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