Embracing Grace: The Heart of the Prodigal Father

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But today, we're going to find out something that's not so funny. But we're going to see a dad who was not joking. But he was running towards his prodigal son. That's why I think the story could be labeled in multiple different ways. It could be the prodigal son. It could be the prodigal son's brother. Or it could be the prodigal dad. Because they're all prodigals in one form or another as we unfold this. [00:27:57]

The dad didn't wait on the porch. He didn't have a list of expectations going, okay, here's the contract if you want to come back to the house. Read it and sign it. Didn't do that. Didn't do any of those things. He didn't peel carrots on them and say, hey, I told you so. He didn't demand proof of repentance. No, what we're going to find out is this dad, he sees, he is full of compassion, he runs towards his son, he hugs him, he kisses him, and he restores him. That's the beauty of grace. It runs towards us. It chases us. [00:28:31]

This is the heart of today's message. Because this is the heart of our heavenly father towards us. [00:29:20]

The parable is not just about two sons. It's about this father whose grace surprises us as he restores and embraces this rebellious son and even reaches out to his religious resistant son in the following passage. [00:29:51]

And the first thing we're going to learn about grace is grace lets you leave. That's the beauty of grace. It doesn't keep you in this narrow box and say, well, you better not get outside this box because if you do, you're going to hell in a hand basket. Grace says, okay, if that's what you want. [00:31:37]

Sometimes God gives us exactly what we ask for in order to show us what we really need. Sometimes God gives exactly what we ask for in order to really show us what is our true need and that's a hard lesson but he had to learn this. [00:34:49]

See, by letting go of someone, it's not giving up. It's giving them over to the greatest father in the universe, in all creation, a perfect heavenly father who knows better how to deal with that prodigal than any of us collectively. [00:36:31]

So God's grace lets us leave the farm. Number one, that's the first application. The second one, grace runs to reconcile. [00:36:53]

But when he came to his senses, do you love that? You know, when you dive into the pit of the pig schlock, sooner or later, you go, you know what? I don't like this. This is not fun anymore. And all that cash I had, I wish I had five bucks to my name so I could get out of Dodge. He came to his senses. [00:37:06]

This is true repentance right here. This is what we mean when someone repents. It means, it comes from the Greek word metano, means to change your mind. Notice how his mind changes. He says, first of all, my servants eat better than I do. My dad's servants eat better than I do. Then he goes, I'll go to my father. I have sinned against heaven. That means that's a, that's a, that is a, uh, a word that is referencing God. I've sinned against heaven and in your sight. I violated my spiritual relationship with my heavenly father. And I have breached my relationship with you, dad. [00:37:47]

The first step in an apology is taking ownership for your responsibility. And that's what he does. He says, Dad, I've blown it. I'm no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired laborers. [00:38:45]

But when he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion for him. And ran. Fathers in the first century never ran. It would be undignified for this older gentleman to tuck his robe into his belt and run. And he's embarrassing himself. He embraces him. And he kisses him. [00:40:01]

You're back in the family. You're still my son. You'll always be my son. You're my son. Here's the robe. Then he brings a ring. What was the ring for? Had the family's signet on it. What's he telling the son? You can do business transactions for my family's namesake now. He gave him the American Express black card. And he gave him sandals. What sandals mean? Slaves never had sandals. If you were a slave, you never had sandals. Only if you were free. Free. [00:41:21]

He meets our brokenness with an embrace. God doesn't wait for us. God doesn't wait for us to clean up our app. And get all our stuff together. He runs the moment we turn to him. [00:43:02]

This text tells us to stop rehearsing your shame and start receiving the father's embrace. Let me say that again. Stop rehearsing the shame and start rehearsing or embracing his love. Receiving his embrace, sorry. Let me say that again. Stop rehearsing your shame. Start receiving his embrace. [00:44:04]

See the difference between mercy and grace? Mercy restored the younger brother as a son. Grace drew him apart. Mercy gives us what we don't deserve. Being welcomed back as a son. Grace goes, I'm going to top that. Grace ????. Grace. going to throw a huge party. [00:44:36]

Grace invites the bitter inside. Look at verses 25 through 32. Now his older son was in the field. Now remember, there's two sons, the younger, the prodigal, now this guy. If you look at chapter 15, verse 1, you'll see that they are a picture or a parallel to the Pharisees, the scribes, and the Sadducees, because when people were coming to know Christ and following him as the Messiah, they become embittered. They're jealous, because they're losing their flock, so to speak. They're losing their power, and of course, they're losing their financial well -being. Of course, they're upset. [00:45:18]

Son. He still calls him son. Notice the tenderness in the father's tone. Son, you've always been with me. Don't miss this. And all that is mine is yours. Did you hear that? All that is mine is yours. Yes. And all that heavenly father has in Christ is ours. We have the inheritance of Christ. And the father today is saying, come back. Don't walk away. Come in. Come inside. Be a part of the party. All that I have is yours. Come inside. [00:48:55]

Grace never plays favorites. Grace provides an open door for everyone to come home. Everyone. Anyone and everyone. The father invites us. Yes. Even the prideful and self -righteous to come into the joys of grace. [00:50:29]

Are you searching for forgiveness? Come home. Come home to the father. All is forgiven. The father is already running to you. [00:52:27]

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