Embracing Grace: Overcoming Favoritism in Faith
Summary
This morning, we celebrated the powerful work God is doing in our church and community, from the hands-on service of our youth in Servants on Site to the joy of child dedication and the life-changing step of baptism for several individuals. We witnessed how God moves through acts of service, as a grieving widow encountered Christ’s love and surrendered her life to Him because of the compassion shown by our young people. These moments remind us that our first mission field is right here at home, and that the church is called to be a family that supports, prays for, and raises up the next generation in faith.
Drawing from Deuteronomy 6, we reflected on the sacred responsibility parents and the church share in impressing God’s Word upon our children—not just through words, but by living as faithful examples. Our commitment is to keep the Lord before our children always, to pray for them, and to create an environment where they can encounter Christ through our love and actions.
Turning to James 2, we examined the challenge of favoritism and how it stands in direct opposition to the gospel of grace. James presents a scenario where two men—one rich, one poor—enter a church, and the way they are treated reveals the true state of our hearts. The way we treat others is a direct reflection of what we believe about God. Human relationships and divine fellowship are inseparable; if our relationships with others are not right, our relationship with God is hindered.
Favoritism, whether based on wealth, status, or appearance, misrepresents the heart of God, who shows no partiality. Jesus consistently saw potential in the overlooked and the outcast, and He calls us to do the same. The royal law—“love your neighbor as yourself”—is not optional, and even “respectable” sins like favoritism are rebellion against God’s law. We are reminded that mercy triumphs over judgment, and the measure of grace and mercy we extend to others is the measure we will receive.
As we celebrated baptisms, we were reminded that every person—regardless of background or status—is precious in God’s sight. Our beliefs must shape our behavior, and we are called to intentionally honor those who are often overlooked, extending the same grace that found us. May we leave this place determined to see and love every person through the eyes and hands of Jesus, with no more favoritism, but with hearts full of mercy and grace.
Key Takeaways
- The Church as Family and Mission Field
God calls us to see our local community as our first mission field, emphasizing that home missions are as vital as world missions. The church is not just a gathering place but a family, responsible for raising up the next generation in faith, supporting one another, and being present in times of need. Our acts of service and compassion can open hearts to Christ in ways that words alone cannot. [22:56]
- Faithfulness Begins at Home and Flows Outward
Deuteronomy 6 reminds us that the foundation of faith is laid in the home, with parents and families charged to love God wholeheartedly and impress His Word upon their children. This responsibility extends to the church, which must model faithfulness, prayer, and worship, creating an environment where children and adults alike can encounter God. Our example is often the most powerful sermon our children will ever hear. [25:55]
- Favoritism Contradicts the Gospel of Grace
James 2 confronts us with the reality that favoritism—judging or preferring others based on external factors—stands in direct opposition to the heart of God. God does not play favorites; every person is valuable and full of potential in His eyes. When we show partiality, we misrepresent the gospel, which is rooted in grace freely given to all, regardless of status or background. [01:10:02]
- Mercy Triumphs Over Judgment
The measure of mercy and grace we extend to others is the measure we will receive from God. We are called to be conduits of mercy, not judges, recognizing that we all stand in need of grace. True freedom in Christ is not the license to do as we please, but the empowerment to become all God intends us to be, and to help others do the same by extending mercy over judgment. [01:21:55]
- Intentional Love and Honor for the Overlooked
Our beliefs must shape our behavior, compelling us to intentionally honor and love those who are often overlooked or undervalued. Jesus never showed favoritism; He welcomed the poor, the outcast, and the sinner. This week, seek out opportunities to honor someone who is often ignored, knowing that in doing so, you are being the hands and feet of Jesus and investing in eternity. [01:30:24]
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Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[02:00] - Servants on Site Recap & Testimony
[07:30] - Child Dedication Introduction
[22:56] - The Charge to Parents and Church
[25:55] - Church’s Commitment to Families
[32:21] - Dedication Prayer
[35:54] - Special Prayer for the Purnell Family
[37:27] - Psalm 103: God’s Benefits
[39:48] - United Prayer for Healing
[41:01] - Praise and Thanksgiving
[49:00] - Blueprints Series Introduction
[01:06:34] - Human Relationships and Divine Fellowship
[01:10:02] - The Problem of Favoritism
[01:12:08] - God Sees Potential in Everyone
[01:14:50] - Jesus and the Outcast
[01:17:06] - The Early Church: Breaking Down Barriers
[01:21:55] - Mercy Over Judgment
[01:29:44] - Living Without Favoritism
[01:30:24] - Seeing Others Through Jesus’ Eyes
[01:31:06] - Prayer for Changed Hearts
[01:36:45] - Baptism Celebration
[01:42:10] - Testimonies and Baptisms Continue
[01:49:38] - Final Baptisms and Closing Challenge
[01:51:19] - No More Favoritism: Final Declaration
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
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### Bible Reading
- Deuteronomy 6:4-9
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.”
- James 2:1-13
(Favoritism Forbidden, The Royal Law, Mercy Triumphs Over Judgment)
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### Observation Questions
1. In Deuteronomy 6:4-9, what specific instructions are given to parents and families about passing on faith to the next generation?
2. According to James 2:1-4, what scenario does James use to illustrate the problem of favoritism in the church?
3. What does the sermon say is the connection between how we treat others and our relationship with God? [[01:06:34]]
4. What is the “royal law” mentioned in James 2, and how does James say we break it? [[01:17:06]]
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does God place such a strong emphasis on parents and the church impressing His Word on children, not just through words but by example? [[22:56]]
2. In the example James gives, why is showing favoritism considered a serious sin, even if it seems “respectable” or minor to us? [[01:17:06]]
3. The sermon says, “The way we behave towards people indicates what we really believe about God.” What does this mean for our daily interactions, especially with those who are different from us? [[01:06:34]]
4. How does the idea that “mercy triumphs over judgment” challenge the way we respond to people who have hurt us or who seem undeserving? [[01:21:55]]
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon shared a story about a grieving widow who came to Christ because of the compassion shown by young people serving her. Can you think of a time when someone’s act of service or kindness opened your heart to God, or when you saw it happen for someone else? How can you be more intentional about serving others this week? [[22:56]]
2. Deuteronomy 6 calls parents and the church to impress God’s Word on children by example. If you are a parent, grandparent, or spiritual mentor, what is one specific way you can model faith at home this week? If you’re not, how can you support or pray for the next generation in your church? [[25:55]]
3. The sermon challenged us to see our local community as our first mission field. Who in your neighborhood, workplace, or daily life might be overlooked or in need of encouragement? What is one step you can take to reach out to them? [[22:56]]
4. James 2 warns against favoritism based on wealth, status, or appearance. Are there situations where you find yourself treating people differently because of these things? What would it look like to see and treat everyone through the eyes of Jesus? [[01:10:02]]
5. The “royal law” is to love your neighbor as yourself. Who is someone in your life right now that you find difficult to love or honor? What is one practical way you can show them Christ’s love this week? [[01:17:06]]
6. The sermon said, “The measure of mercy and grace we extend to others is the measure we will receive from God.” Is there someone you need to forgive or show mercy to? What is holding you back, and how can you take a step toward mercy this week? [[01:21:55]]
7. As a church family, how can we do a better job of intentionally honoring and including those who are often overlooked or undervalued? What is one change we could make together? [[01:30:24]]
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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Ask God to help you see others through His eyes, to remove any favoritism from your heart, and to fill you with mercy and grace for everyone you meet this week.
Devotional
Day 1: Passing On Faith: The Responsibility of Parents and Church
Raising children in the faith is a sacred calling for both parents and the church community. God’s Word calls us to impress His commandments on our children, to talk about them at home, on the road, when we lie down, and when we rise. This means faith is not just taught but lived out daily, with parents and the church modeling love for God, faithfulness, and spiritual disciplines. Our example, our prayers, and our commitment to keep the Lord before our children always are the foundation for the next generation to know and love Him. [22:56]
Deuteronomy 6:4-9 (ESV)
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”
Reflection: What is one way you can intentionally talk about God or model faith to a child in your life today—whether your own, a grandchild, or a child in the church?
Day 2: Bless the Lord and Remember His Benefits
God is the source of every good thing in our lives—He forgives, heals, redeems, and crowns us with lovingkindness and mercy. In times of need, we are called to remember His faithfulness and to bring our burdens and the burdens of others before Him in prayer. As a church family, we bear one another’s burdens, trusting that God is able and willing to work miracles, renew our strength, and satisfy us with His goodness. [37:27]
Psalm 103:1-5 (ESV)
“Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name! Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy, who satisfies you with good so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.”
Reflection: Who in your life needs prayer or encouragement today? Take a moment to pray for them and, if possible, reach out to let them know you are lifting them up.
Day 3: Faith Without Favoritism
True faith in Jesus is revealed in how we treat others, especially those who are different from us or who may be overlooked by society. God shows no favoritism, and He calls us to love without partiality—welcoming the poor, the outcast, and the sinner just as Jesus did. Favoritism contradicts the gospel of grace and exposes a divided heart, but when we see others through the eyes of Christ, we become conduits of His love and grace to the world. [01:10:02]
James 2:1-4 (ESV)
“My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory. For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, ‘You sit here in a good place,’ while you say to the poor man, ‘You stand over there,’ or, ‘Sit down at my feet,’ have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?”
Reflection: Is there someone you tend to overlook or treat differently because of their status, appearance, or background? How can you intentionally honor or include them this week?
Day 4: The Royal Law: Love Your Neighbor as Yourself
The command to love your neighbor as yourself is called the “royal law” because it is the law of King Jesus. This love is not limited by race, status, or background—everyone is precious in God’s sight. Favoritism breaks this command and is called sin, even if it seems respectable or small. We are called to examine our hearts, refuse to minimize “small” sins, and let Christlike love guide all our actions and attitudes toward others. [01:21:55]
James 2:8-9 (ESV)
“If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing well. But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors.”
Reflection: Think of a neighbor or acquaintance who is different from you in some way. What is one practical act of love you can do for them this week to reflect the heart of Jesus?
Day 5: Mercy Triumphs Over Judgment
God’s mercy is abundant, and He calls us to extend that same mercy to others. The measure of mercy and grace we give is the measure we will receive. Instead of judging or holding grudges, we are to be people who freely give away mercy, grace, and forgiveness—knowing that we, too, will stand before a merciful God. Let your beliefs control your behavior, and let your life reflect the mercy and love of Christ to everyone you meet. [01:29:44]
James 2:12-13 (ESV)
“So speak and so act as those who are to be judged under the law of liberty. For judgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.”
Reflection: Who is someone you find it hard to show mercy to? Ask God to help you extend His mercy to them in a tangible way today.
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