Embracing God's Unconditional Love: A Divine Romance
Summary
In reflecting on the profound love story between God and humanity, we are reminded of the depth and beauty of God's commitment to us. This narrative is vividly illustrated through the story of Jean and her daughter April, whose wedding ceremony became a powerful metaphor for God's love. Just as Rick embraced Jean and her daughter, God embraces us with unconditional love, seeing beauty where we see flaws and offering us a place in His family. This is not about religion or a set of rules; it's about a relationship, a divine romance where God desires us as His bride and His children.
The Bible consistently portrays this love story, from the Old Testament to the New Testament. In Jeremiah, God reminisces about the devotion of Israel, likening it to a bride's love. Yet, He laments their turning away to worthless idols, a reflection of our own tendencies to stray from God. This is not just about choosing sin; it's about choosing sin over God, which breaks His heart. The angels in heaven are appalled when we trade the living water of God's love for empty cisterns that cannot hold water.
James warns us about the nature of temptation, emphasizing that it is not from God but from our own desires. Temptation is like a lure, enticing us away from the safety of God's love. Yet, the key to resisting temptation is not merely about saying no to sin but about saying yes to God. It's about fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, and being so captivated by His love that the allure of sin fades away.
In this world, where temptations are abundant and relentless, the solution is not to run from them but to run toward God. By focusing on our relationship with Him, we find the strength to resist. The ultimate reason to turn away from temptation is simple: God is better. His love, His promises, and His presence are infinitely more fulfilling than anything the world can offer. As we partake in communion, we remember the sacrifice of Christ, which makes this relationship possible. It's an invitation to renew our commitment to God, to say "I do" to His proposal of love, and to live in the joy and security of being His beloved.
Key Takeaways:
1. God's love for us is unconditional and profound, akin to a divine romance where He desires us as His bride and children. This relationship is not about rules but about love, as illustrated by the story of Jean and April's wedding. We are called to respond with awe and gratitude, recognizing our worth in His eyes. [04:27]
2. The Bible consistently portrays God's love story with humanity, from the Old Testament to the New Testament. In Jeremiah, God laments Israel's turning away to idols, reflecting our own tendencies to stray. The real tragedy is not just choosing sin but choosing it over God, who offers us living water. [11:03]
3. Temptation is not from God but from our own desires. It entices us away from God's love, like a lure drawing a fish from safety. The key to resisting temptation is not just saying no to sin but saying yes to God, fixing our eyes on Jesus, and being captivated by His love. [23:36]
4. In a world filled with temptations, the solution is not to run from them but to run toward God. By focusing on our relationship with Him, we find the strength to resist. The ultimate reason to turn away from temptation is that God is better, offering fulfillment beyond anything the world can provide. [35:13]
5. Communion is a reminder of Christ's sacrifice, which makes our relationship with God possible. It's an invitation to renew our commitment, to say "I do" to His proposal of love, and to live in the joy and security of being His beloved. This relationship is the foundation for resisting temptation and living a life of love. [43:06]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:17] - Joy in Trials
- [01:02] - Jean's Wedding Story
- [02:13] - A Picture of God's Love
- [03:42] - God's Bride and Children
- [05:33] - Misunderstanding the Bible
- [07:06] - Love in the Old Testament
- [09:30] - Turning Away from God
- [11:03] - Forsaking Living Water
- [13:28] - God's Offer of Inheritance
- [16:22] - Understanding Temptation
- [20:02] - The Deception of Sin
- [23:36] - Resisting Temptation
- [35:13] - Fixing Our Eyes on Jesus
- [43:06] - Communion and Commitment
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
- Jeremiah 2:1-13
- James 1:13-16
---
Observation Questions:
1. In the story of Jean and her daughter April, how does Rick's gesture towards April serve as a metaphor for God's love for us? [02:13]
2. According to Jeremiah 2:1-13, how does God describe His relationship with Israel, and what does He lament about their actions? [08:03]
3. What does James 1:13-16 say about the source of temptation, and how does it relate to our personal desires? [16:22]
4. How does the sermon illustrate the concept of temptation using the analogy of a lure and a fish? [30:20]
---
Interpretation Questions:
1. What does the metaphor of God as a bridegroom and us as His bride reveal about the nature of our relationship with Him? [03:42]
2. In Jeremiah 2, God expresses disappointment in Israel's choice to follow worthless idols. How does this reflect our own tendencies to prioritize other things over God? [09:30]
3. How does the sermon suggest we can resist temptation by focusing on our relationship with God rather than merely avoiding sin? [35:13]
4. What does the passage in James teach us about the consequences of giving in to temptation, and how does it relate to the idea of spiritual death? [39:14]
---
Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you felt unworthy of God's love, similar to Jean's feelings about Rick's love. How can you remind yourself of your worth in God's eyes? [04:12]
2. What are some "worthless idols" in your life that you might be prioritizing over your relationship with God? How can you begin to shift your focus back to Him? [09:49]
3. Identify a specific temptation you face regularly. What practical steps can you take to say "yes" to God and "no" to this temptation? [23:36]
4. How can you cultivate a deeper love for God that makes the allure of sin less appealing? What daily practices might help you fix your eyes on Jesus? [35:13]
5. During communion, we remember Christ's sacrifice. How can this act of remembrance strengthen your commitment to live as God's beloved? [43:06]
6. Think of a time when you chose something over God, and it left you feeling empty. How can you use that experience to make better choices in the future? [38:44]
7. How can you support others in your small group or community who are struggling with temptation, helping them to see that "God is better"? [41:20]
Devotional
Day 1: Divine Romance: God's Unconditional Love
God's love for humanity is depicted as a divine romance, where He desires us as His bride and children. This relationship transcends religious rules and is rooted in love, as illustrated by the story of Jean and April's wedding. In this narrative, we are reminded of our worth in God's eyes, as He embraces us with unconditional love, seeing beauty where we see flaws. This profound love calls us to respond with awe and gratitude, recognizing that we are cherished and valued by God. [04:27]
Hosea 2:19-20 (ESV): "And I will betroth you to me forever. I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And you shall know the Lord."
Reflection: Think of a moment when you felt unworthy of love. How can you embrace God's unconditional love for you today, acknowledging your worth in His eyes?
Day 2: Forsaking Idols for Living Water
The Bible consistently portrays God's love story with humanity, highlighting the tragedy of turning away from Him to pursue worthless idols. In Jeremiah, God laments Israel's choice to forsake Him, the source of living water, for empty cisterns. This reflects our own tendencies to stray, choosing sin over God, which breaks His heart. The real tragedy is not just in choosing sin but in choosing it over the abundant life God offers. We are called to recognize the futility of idols and return to the living water that truly satisfies. [11:03]
Jeremiah 2:13 (ESV): "For my people have committed two evils: they have forsaken me, the fountain of living waters, and hewed out cisterns for themselves, broken cisterns that can hold no water."
Reflection: Identify an "idol" in your life that you have been prioritizing over God. What steps can you take today to turn back to the living water He offers?
Day 3: Resisting Temptation by Embracing God's Love
Temptation is not from God but arises from our own desires, luring us away from the safety of His love. The key to resisting temptation is not merely about saying no to sin but about saying yes to God. By fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, we become captivated by His love, and the allure of sin fades away. This shift in focus empowers us to resist temptation, as we are drawn to the greater fulfillment found in God's presence. [23:36]
James 1:14-15 (ESV): "But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death."
Reflection: What is one temptation you struggle with regularly? How can you actively choose to focus on God's love and presence today to help you resist it?
Day 4: Running Toward God in a World of Temptations
In a world filled with temptations, the solution is not to run from them but to run toward God. By focusing on our relationship with Him, we find the strength to resist. The ultimate reason to turn away from temptation is that God is better, offering fulfillment beyond anything the world can provide. This perspective shift encourages us to seek God first, trusting that His love and promises are infinitely more satisfying than any temporary pleasure. [35:13]
Psalm 16:11 (ESV): "You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore."
Reflection: Consider a situation where you are tempted to seek fulfillment outside of God. How can you intentionally run toward God and find joy in His presence today?
Day 5: Communion: Renewing Our Commitment to God's Love
Communion is a reminder of Christ's sacrifice, which makes our relationship with God possible. It's an invitation to renew our commitment, to say "I do" to His proposal of love, and to live in the joy and security of being His beloved. This relationship is the foundation for resisting temptation and living a life of love. As we partake in communion, we are called to remember the depth of God's love and to respond by deepening our commitment to Him. [43:06]
1 Corinthians 10:16-17 (ESV): "The cup of blessing that we bless, is it not a participation in the blood of Christ? The bread that we break, is it not a participation in the body of Christ? Because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread."
Reflection: As you prepare for communion, reflect on your current relationship with God. What is one way you can renew your commitment to Him today, embracing His love more fully?
Quotes
The Bible says that God looks at us as his bride, his bride. So you understand, like Rick is taking Jean and Jean's going, man, are you sure you want me? And he's going, are you kidding? You're beautiful. I mean, that's a picture of us, right, where we're looking at ourselves, go God, do you understand what a mess I've made in my life? [00:03:49]
The Bible uses those terms as my bride. That's what the Bible teaches. He wants us as his bride, but not only that, the Bible also uses another analogy and it says that he's a father to the fatherless and how he adopts us as his children. And you and I should be like April this morning going, are you kidding me? [00:04:16]
It's always been about love in the Old Testament. In Jeremiah, it talks about God's love for Israel, the nation of Israel, the Jewish people, the people he chose to be his bride. See, these analogies were in the Old Testament as well as in the new. It's always been God. It's always been about love. [00:07:36]
God goes, so why'd you leave me? Why'd you leave me? I thought we had a thing going here. You know, I remember you used to follow me, used to love me, and I would protect you and it was this great love relationship. And he goes, tell me, what did you find in me that was so bad that you would walk away from me? [00:09:49]
Be appalled at this, oh heavens, and shudder with great horror, says the Lord. My people have committed two sins. They've forsaken me, the spring of Living Water, and they've dug their own cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water. He goes, why would you trade me? He goes, you're trading me. [00:11:00]
The thrust of James and all of scripture is not just that you do the things that God forbids. The saddest part about it is that you chose those things over God. That's what temptation is, things that draw us away from him, things that we choose over a love relationship with a perfect husband, perfect father. [00:17:11]
It's not just about resisting. It's about choosing him over your temptation. James chap 1: 13-16. Before I do that, okay, and do an illustration, I've got to wallet here, my wallet. Um, and Doug, he's going, oh, do you have a wallet on you? You don't. Heidi, do you? Okay, Heidi, um, in here something very valuable. [00:17:48]
The Bible says fix your eyes, fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith. He says set your mind on things above, not Earthly things. It's the idea of a person being so focused on this love relationship where he con going, I love you, I love you, that you're not even noticing anything else. [00:35:59]
We can't run from temptation. We can't just keep running our whole lives. We have to run toward Jesus, the author and perfector. We have to fix our eyes on him so that all these things are dangling in front of our face, but we don't even notice it because we're so focused. Understand that is the key to resisting temptation. [00:36:40]
There's one reason I want to leave you with and hopefully you got from this morning. There's one reason why you should walk away from whatever temptation you're facing right now. There's just one reason. God is better. He is. He's so, so much better. It's not even a comparison. [00:41:10]
The cross makes this relationship possible. You see, you screwed up. No, no, no, and it was your fault. You messed up. You've done things that are offensive to God and it was all your fault. Okay, you have to accept that at some point, but God loved you so much and goes even though you're guilty, I'll have my own son die on a cross. [00:43:59]
Maybe this morning you go, you know what, I want that relationship with God. I've been putting him off. I've been enticed by all these other things, but now I want God. And if that's you, you can have him this morning despite anything you've done. He's saying you can have me today. I'm proposing to you right now. [00:44:57]