Embracing God's Love Through Contemplative Prayer

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"We delved into the stages of prayer, emphasizing that these are not linear steps but layers of a deepening relationship with God. We discussed the importance of contemplative prayer, which involves looking at, yielding to, and resting in God's love. This form of prayer is about being with God, not just speaking to Him or asking for things. It is about gazing upon His glory, surrendering to His will, and finding rest in His presence. This practice transforms us, rewiring our brains to become more compassionate and loving, as science has shown." [00:59:14]

"Like, sometimes I think we have a skewed, not sometimes, often I think we have a skewed version of love because of the love we experience with one another, with earthly, maybe, relationships. But the love, the love that Jesus has for you. Let me give you an example. This morning, my family comes in. I always come in a little bit early, and they come in. And my little two-and-a-half-year-old girl, if you know her, little Abby, she's got her sweater on, curly hair, blue eyes." [00:35:48]

"And she runs to me. And I know that, some saw it and they were just overcome with joy, but like, in my own heart it was just like, I melted. And that, that love, I'm not trying to bring my love to the Father, but that's the Father's love for you. Like, that's, that's Jesus' love for you. He willingly goes to the cross. He willingly dies. because He loves you." [00:36:54]

"Jesus is inviting you to be a part. Not physically. But God is doing a work in this church that is leading us into a new season. And He's calling people to be a part of what He's doing. He's taking us somewhere. The question is, will you accept the invitation a great destination with great purpose. And many in the room will be completely oblivious." [00:37:52]

"The question is, do you want to be a part of what God's doing? And I think God, over the last maybe six months or so, has been revealing to me that the people who brought us to where we are today are not necessarily going to be the ones that take us to where we're going. So are you a part of the ship? And I'm saying this as like a visionary statement for us right now." [00:39:21]

"To be with God in prayer like this, we have to eliminate hurry. Dallas Willard, when asked how to grow spiritually, spiritually said you must ruthlessly eliminate hurry. You got to kick it from your life. But that means we have to confront our impatience, and how quickly we get bored. We have to learn to sit with God, and learn that sitting with God wordless is not wasteful time." [01:14:58]

"The goal of prayer is not to get from God. Right? The goal of prayer is not to get from Jesus. The goal is to be with Jesus. It's to get Jesus. He is the end. He's the result. He's the trophy at the finish line. When you get to heaven one day, it's not about the mansion and the gold streets. That's the pavement, people. Nobody's liking pavement outside. It's about Jesus. It's about Him." [01:15:45]

"And so if I just get to sit with Him, that's not wasted time, although we are wired to think that because we have a hard time sitting still, right? Part of my fast over this 21 days was social media. I don't know how many times I picked up my phone. Like literally, the dopamine effect, I'm like, oh, there's nothing to look at. It's all not there. And so I'm just like swiping to the next page, but there's nothing on the next page of my phone screen because I'm learning that I got to be bored in order to rewire my brain so that I can sit with the Lord. And just be." [01:16:40]

"Now, the opposite is true, too. If your view of God is of an angry, authoritative tyrant, that changes your brain. And Dr. Newberg argues it has a similar effect to PTSD. It changes your brain to become more aggressive and more fearful. So we become what we look at. Going back to our... In our first week discussion, as Jesus talked about who we are praying to, if you have the wrong view of God, you become a worse person." [01:11:41]

"So we need to challenge our view of the Lord. Who is it that we serve? We serve a God of love. Who makes a way. Who sends His Son. Who comes in the form of a man to die your death. So that you could be with Him for all eternity. That's love. No greater love than that. That one would lay down their life for a friend. So sitting with God in His presence proves to be mind-altering. Now, there's a few enemies to all this." [01:12:20]

"Being with God, praying contemplatively, distraction, hurry, and fear. Distraction. The moment you sit down to be with God in prayer in a wordless way, your mind starts doing gymnastics. Right? All the thoughts start coming to you. And I need to pick up this, and I need to do that, and what do I got to do next? And oh, I stopped praying. I'm not here anymore. Where am I? Our thoughts are everywhere." [01:13:12]

"And all this means is that you are like everybody else. You're human. You're human. This is normal. And while you can calm your brain, the distractions never really go away. You just actually have to decide not to give them a second thought. So as it comes across your mind, you just let it drift. You say hello, and then you say goodbye. I love what Thomas Keating said. He was another Trappist monk. He said, if your mind gets distracted a thousand times in ten minutes of prayer, that's a thousand chances to come back to God. How good is that? Oh, there's a distraction. Oh, now I get to come back to Him." [01:13:52]

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