Embracing Flaws: Trusting God's Plan Through Jacob

Devotional

Day 1: The Divine Calling of Fathers

Fathers play a crucial role in providing emotional, social, and psychological support to their families. They model healthy relationships and offer security and guidance. This role, while challenging, is a divine calling that shapes the lives of their children and contributes to their development. Fathers are not just providers but also nurturers, mentors, and spiritual leaders. Their influence can have a lasting impact on the character and faith of their children.

As we celebrate Father's Day, it's important to recognize the immense responsibility and honor that comes with fatherhood. Fathers are called to reflect God's love and guidance in their families. This calling requires patience, wisdom, and a deep reliance on God's strength. Fathers, despite their imperfections, are chosen by God to fulfill this significant role. Let us honor and support them in their journey, encouraging them to seek God's guidance in all they do. [39:00]

Ephesians 6:4 (ESV): "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."

Reflection: How can you support and encourage the fathers in your life to fulfill their divine calling? What specific actions can you take to show appreciation and provide support?

Day 2: God Works Through Our Imperfections

Jacob's early life was marked by deceit, as he manipulated his brother Esau and deceived his father Isaac. These actions, while flawed, were part of God's larger plan. This teaches us that God can work through our imperfections to fulfill His purposes. Jacob's story is a powerful reminder that our flaws do not disqualify us from being used by God. Instead, God can use our weaknesses to demonstrate His strength and grace.

Despite Jacob's deceitful actions, God chose him to be a key figure in the lineage of His people. This choice was not based on Jacob's merit but on God's sovereign plan. Jacob's life encourages us to trust that God can use even our mistakes and failures for His glory. It challenges us to surrender our imperfections to God, trusting that He can redeem and transform them for His purposes. [47:21]

2 Corinthians 12:9 (ESV): "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me."

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you feel inadequate or flawed? How can you surrender these areas to God and trust Him to work through your imperfections?

Day 3: Holding on to God's Promises

Despite Jacob's flaws, God reaffirmed His promises to him through a dream. This dream was a continuation of the promises made to Abraham and Isaac, showing that God's plans are steadfast and not hindered by human shortcomings. God's promises to Jacob included numerous descendants and blessings, which were part of His larger plan for His people. This teaches us that God's promises are reliable and unchanging, regardless of our circumstances.

Jacob's dream was a turning point in his life, reminding him of God's faithfulness and the importance of holding on to His promises. It encourages us to trust in God's promises, even when we face challenges and uncertainties. God's plans for us are good, and His promises are sure. As we navigate life's difficulties, we can find hope and strength in the assurance of God's unwavering promises. [57:23]

Isaiah 55:11 (ESV): "So shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and shall succeed in the thing for which I sent it."

Reflection: What specific promises of God do you need to hold on to in your current season of life? How can you remind yourself of these promises daily?

Day 4: Transformation Through Struggle

Jacob's wrestling with God symbolizes his struggle to overcome his deceptive nature. This encounter led to a transformation, where Jacob was given a new name, Israel, signifying his victory and new identity. This reminds us that our struggles can lead to profound personal growth and transformation. Jacob's wrestling with God was both a physical and spiritual battle, reflecting his inner turmoil and desire for change.

This transformation was a pivotal moment in Jacob's life, marking a shift from his old ways to a new identity in God. It teaches us that our struggles, though difficult, can be opportunities for growth and renewal. When we wrestle with our own weaknesses and seek God's help, we can experience transformation and emerge stronger in our faith. Jacob's story encourages us to persevere in our struggles, trusting that God is working in us to bring about His purposes. [59:28]

James 1:2-4 (ESV): "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

Reflection: What current struggle are you facing that you need to bring before God? How can you seek His help and trust Him to transform you through this struggle?

Day 5: Trusting in God's Plans

Jacob's story encourages us to trust in God's plans, even when we don't fully understand them. We are called to examine our motives, seek forgiveness, and hold on to God's promises. By doing so, we can move forward in faith, knowing that God is working through us, despite our imperfections. Trusting in God's plans requires humility and a willingness to surrender our own desires and control.

Jacob's life was filled with moments of uncertainty and challenge, yet he learned to trust in God's sovereignty. This trust was not always easy, but it was essential for his growth and fulfillment of God's purposes. We, too, are called to trust in God's plans for our lives, even when they don't align with our expectations. By seeking God's guidance and relying on His promises, we can navigate life's uncertainties with confidence and hope. [01:10:01]

Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."

Reflection: What area of your life are you struggling to trust God with? How can you take a step of faith today to surrender this area to Him and trust in His plans?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Today, we gathered to celebrate Father's Day and reflect on the significant role fathers play in our lives. We also delved into the story of Jacob, a patriarch in the Bible, whose life is a testament to God's ability to work through flawed individuals. Jacob, despite his many character flaws, was chosen by God to fulfill a significant role in the lineage of God's people. His story, found in Genesis chapters 25 through 35, is filled with deception, manipulation, and struggle, yet it ultimately showcases God's redemptive power.

Jacob's early life was marked by deceit. He manipulated his brother Esau into trading his birthright for a bowl of stew and later deceived his dying father, Isaac, to receive the blessing meant for Esau. These actions, while morally questionable, were part of God's larger plan, as revealed in a dream where God promised Jacob that his descendants would be numerous and blessed. This dream was a reaffirmation of the promises made to his father Isaac and grandfather Abraham.

Despite his flaws, Jacob's story is one of transformation. He wrestled with God, both literally and figuratively, and emerged with a new name, Israel, symbolizing his struggle and ultimate victory. This transformation is a powerful reminder that God can use our flaws and failures to bring about His purposes. Jacob's life encourages us to trust in God's plans, even when we don't fully understand them, and to seek His guidance in overcoming our own character flaws.

As we reflect on Jacob's story, we are reminded to examine our own lives for areas where we might be manipulating situations to our advantage. We are called to trust in God's big plans for us, seek forgiveness for our shortcomings, and hold on to His promises. By doing so, we can move forward in faith, knowing that God is working through us, despite our imperfections.

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Key Takeaways

1. The Role of Fathers: Fathers are essential in providing emotional, social, and psychological support to their families. They model healthy relationships and offer security and guidance. This role, while challenging, is a divine calling that shapes the lives of their children and contributes to their development. [39:00]
2. Jacob's Deception: Jacob's early life was marked by deceit, as he manipulated his brother Esau and deceived his father Isaac. These actions, while flawed, were part of God's larger plan. This teaches us that God can work through our imperfections to fulfill His purposes. [47:21]
3. God's Promises: Despite Jacob's flaws, God reaffirmed His promises to him through a dream. This dream was a continuation of the promises made to Abraham and Isaac, showing that God's plans are steadfast and not hindered by human shortcomings. [57:23]
4. Transformation Through Struggle: Jacob's wrestling with God symbolizes his struggle to overcome his deceptive nature. This encounter led to a transformation, where Jacob was given a new name, Israel, signifying his victory and new identity. This reminds us that our struggles can lead to profound personal growth and transformation. [59:28]
5. Trusting God's Plans: Jacob's story encourages us to trust in God's plans, even when we don't fully understand them. We are called to examine our motives, seek forgiveness, and hold on to God's promises. By doing so, we can move forward in faith, knowing that God is working through us, despite our imperfections. [01:10:01]
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[00:00] - Welcome
[11:53] - Returning from Vacation
[12:17] - Welcoming Newcomers
[12:38] - Guest Cards and Connection
[13:04] - Upcoming Baptism Service
[13:29] - Baptism Class for Children
[13:59] - Monthly Scripture: Isaiah 65:17-18
[14:41] - God Creates Something New
[15:14] - Opening Prayer
[37:31] - Celebrating Special Days
[38:30] - Importance of Recognizing Fathers
[39:00] - Roles and Responsibilities of Fathers
[41:11] - Feeling Flawed as Fathers
[42:14] - Flawed Heroes of Faith: Jacob
[43:07] - Jacob's Story in Genesis
[44:09] - God's Instruction to Rebecca
[45:06] - Birth Order and Cultural Significance
[46:13] - Jacob's Character Flaws
[47:21] - Jacob's Deception of Esau
[48:29] - Jacob and Esau's Rivalry
[49:13] - Esau's Hunger and Jacob's Opportunity
[50:02] - The Trade: Birthright for Stew
[51:49] - Evaluating the Trade
[52:40] - Fault in the Trade
[53:37] - Jacob's Deceptive Nature
[54:35] - Deceiving Isaac for the Blessing
[55:29] - Significance of the Father's Blessing
[56:22] - God's Foreknowledge and Redemption
[57:23] - Jacob's Dream and God's Promise
[58:22] - God's Promise to Jacob
[59:28] - Jacob Wrestles with God
[60:16] - Examining Our Motives
[61:00] - Manipulating Situations
[62:22] - Lying and Deception
[63:26] - Trusting God's Control
[64:16] - Trusting God's Big Plans
[65:34] - Next Steps: Reading Genesis 25-35
[67:35] - Reflecting on Manipulation
[68:36] - Asking for Trust in God's Plans
[70:01] - Seeking Forgiveness
[71:36] - Overcoming Through God's Power
[72:59] - Closing Prayer

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

What were the circumstances surrounding Jacob's birth and the prophecy given to Rebekah about her sons? (Genesis 25:21-23)
How did Jacob manipulate Esau into trading his birthright for a bowl of stew? (Genesis 25:29-34) [50:02]
Describe the deception Jacob and Rebekah used to trick Isaac into giving Jacob the blessing meant for Esau. (Genesis 27:1-29) [55:29]
What was the significance of Jacob wrestling with God, and what was the outcome of this encounter? (Genesis 32:22-32) [59:28]

Interpretation Questions

How does Jacob's early life of deceit and manipulation reflect on his character, and what does it reveal about human nature? [47:21]
In what ways did God's promises to Jacob reaffirm the promises made to Abraham and Isaac, despite Jacob's flaws? (Genesis 28:12-15) [57:23]
What does Jacob's transformation after wrestling with God teach us about personal growth and overcoming our flaws? [59:28]
How can we understand the role of fathers in light of Jacob's story and the sermon’s emphasis on the responsibilities and challenges fathers face? [39:00]

Application Questions

Reflecting on Jacob's story, are there areas in your life where you might be manipulating situations to your advantage? How can you begin to trust God's plans instead? [01:00:16]
Jacob's life was marked by significant transformation through struggle. Can you identify a struggle in your life that led to personal growth? How did you see God's hand in that process? [59:28]
The sermon highlighted the importance of fathers as providers and role models. How can you, as a father or a father figure, better fulfill these roles in your family? [39:00]
Jacob sought forgiveness and reconciliation with Esau after years of deceit. Is there someone in your life you need to seek forgiveness from or reconcile with? What steps can you take this week to begin that process? [01:10:01]
The sermon encourages us to examine our motives and seek God's guidance. What practical steps can you take to ensure your actions and decisions align with God's will? [01:00:16]
How can you apply the lesson of trusting in God's big plans to a current situation in your life where you feel uncertain or anxious? [01:04:16]
Jacob's story shows that God can use our imperfections for His purposes. How can you embrace your own flaws and trust that God can work through them for His glory? [56:22]

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We serve a God who is always about creating something new, right? He did it in the beginning, but he wasn't once and done. He continually creates something new. He's creating a new heaven and a new earth, so much so that the old ones, we don't even think about anymore. And the truth is, he's creating a new you. And if you let him, he's got more in store for you if you just make yourself available to that new work that he wants to do in your life, and he wants to do that today if you open yourself and make yourself available to him." (28 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Dads, for Father's Day is a day where we celebrate, right? These individuals who are our homegrown heroes. The very nature of a father sets them up to be some of the greatest heroes that life has to offer. I mean, think about the roles and responsibilities of a dad. The roles and responsibilities, the reputation, the definition of a father is that they are providers. That they contribute to their family's emotional, social, and psychological development. They provide emotional security. They model healthy relationships. And they are generally responsive to their children's needs." (37 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Trusting in God's promise to be our hero father. The one who will provide, protect and powerfully work his big plans out in our life. That is what is required of us. If we really desire to live a significant life change. That God will lead us to overcoming our flaws and our sins. And experiencing God's big plans. That he has for us. It's the only way that we really move forward." (25 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "Ask God to help you trust in His big plans. That's really what the dream is really all about that we look at here in chapter 28. It's God reaffirming to Jacob this promise that has already been made, that no doubt had been passed along. This wasn't like it was unfamiliar news to Jacob. He had heard the stories of his Father and Grandfather before him. but now the dream was being made known to him and really god is just saying will you trust that this promise is going to happen through you will you trust my plan my big plans that i have or will you continue to move in a motion that says that you have to make your own future that you have to come up with your own way of making things work out best for you." (53 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "We overcome it by the blood of the lamb what god has already done for us and the world of our testimony right it's not either or it's not do one then the other it's both in combination working together how god has already gone before us to give us what we need to accomplish and to work through the sin and the flaws and the struggles that keep us from achieving the best of what god has in store in combination with our witness our testimony our commitment to put our trust in the word of our testimony trust in the big plans that god has for us when we do that when we walk together with what the lord has in store for us then we truly become the heroes of faith that we've been celebrating that our flaws are not defining they're just information that lead us to the final destination." (59 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "Yet, for many of us dads, we find ourselves with this exhaustive list of roles and responsibilities, feeling like we are falling short. And if we are honest with ourselves, feeling like we are flawed in our execution, and far from deserving the title of hero, ...at least in our own eyes. When we think about all that goes into being a great or even a good dad, it is easy to get discouraged about our execution. But as we have seen in recent weeks, some of the best heroes are also quite flawed. And so we have a choice. We can be defined by our flaws and retreat further away from actually being the hero that we are designed to be, ...or... ...we can use these flaws to help us become something better." (52 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Jacob, early on, more than seeing a hero, we see him as a liar. We see him as a deceiver. We see him as a cheat. All of these things go certainly against the descriptions that we would give to a hero. He tries to manipulate his brother and trick his father into giving him what he ultimately wants, which is his father's firstborn blessing. Again, culturally significant in that firstborn sons are generally given a double portion of inheritance. Right, we're not just talking about everybody gets even shares, but because, simply because you're the firstborn, you get a double portion. And then they also are given the responsibility of becoming the patriarch, the leader of the family system as a result." (51 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "But through the wrestling God blesses him and changes his name to Israel. A name meaning one who struggles with God. God wrestles with Jacob and changes his name to reassure him that he has indeed overcome. That he will return home. That he will be blessed. And that his brother Esau will not kill him. In other words. This moment. This wrestling moment for Jacob is significant. Because no longer is he defined as a liar. As a deceiver and a cheat. But now he has overcome those flaws. And one who has taken hold of the promise. By which God has made available to bless him through." (39 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "As we consider Jacob's life. Might we examine our own motives in our own actions. Examine the motives by asking ourselves some simple questions. How do I go ahead and get ahead in life? Is there an angle that I'm working? Do I manipulate situations in my favor? I told the first service because I almost could sense it. Whether they were thinking it or not. I don't know about you or not. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you think deeper than the first service. Right? Our first thought when we hear questions like this is to think to ourselves. Well that's not really me. I don't really have a manipulative bone in my body. I'm not really working to get what's for me. I'd rather see other people succeed. I want to help others. And we're righteous in that way. But I want to challenge you to go a little bit deeper this morning." (55 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "Although it was God's plan for Jacob to succeed Isaac. Rebecca and Jacob's use of deception and theft to obtain it. Put their family in serious jeopardy. Their unethical treatment of husband and brother to secure their future. At the expense of trusting God. Resulted in deep long-lived alienation. And a family that divided. Were divided in nations. Right, go back to the promise. The instruction in chapter 25. Inside her room were two nations. Warring for each other. God set the story up for success in the beginning. Where trust is all that is required. But flawed, we like Jacob want to control and do things my own way. Sometimes we can't see beyond our immediate crisis. We make rash and hasty decisions. And as a result we have long-term effects on us and those around us." (57 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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