In this heartfelt message, I shared the journey my wife Lisa and I have been on over the past year, moving from a familiar community to a new life in San Francisco. This transition has been both challenging and rewarding, as we've had to rely on God and each other more than ever. Lisa shared her experiences of adapting to a new environment and the joy of seeing our children grow in their faith, even amidst the unknown. This journey has reinforced the importance of stepping out in faith and embracing the discomfort that comes with following God's call.
I emphasized the need for discipleship within the church, highlighting a common issue where many Christians rely heavily on church staff for spiritual growth rather than taking personal responsibility to make disciples. This is contrary to the biblical model where every believer is called to disciple others, including their own families. I challenged the congregation to consider whether they could stand firm in their faith and lead others to Christ if they were the only Christian in their community.
Furthermore, I addressed the topic of marriage, urging couples to focus on the mission of serving God together rather than solely on their relationship. This mission-centric approach, I believe, strengthens family bonds and aligns with Jesus' teaching to seek first the kingdom of God. Lisa shared insights from Philippians, encouraging women to press on toward the goal of living out the gospel in their marriages, making Christ attractive through their actions.
I also spoke to the men, urging them to be strong and act like men of God, representing His strength and glory in their lives. I shared the story of David from 1 Samuel 30, illustrating the power of strengthening oneself in the Lord during times of distress. This strength is essential for leading families and glorifying God.
Ultimately, I encouraged everyone to follow the Holy Spirit's leading, even when it feels risky, trusting that God will provide and guide us in His mission. This is the path to experiencing true unity and joy in our families and marriages.
Key Takeaways
- 1. Embrace Discomfort for Growth: Stepping out of our comfort zones and following God's call, even when it leads to unfamiliar places, can deepen our reliance on Him and strengthen our family bonds. This journey of faith is not just for us but for our children, teaching them to trust God in the unknown. [04:58]
- 2. Personal Responsibility in Discipleship: The biblical model calls for every believer to make disciples, not just rely on church staff. This involves teaching our own children and neighbors about God, ensuring that we are equipped to lead others to Christ. [07:48]
- 3. Mission-Centric Marriage: Focusing on serving God together as a couple strengthens the marriage bond. By seeking first the kingdom of God, we align our priorities with His, allowing everything else to fall into place. [13:48]
- 4. Strength in the Lord: In times of distress, like David, we must strengthen ourselves in the Lord. This strength is crucial for leading our families and representing God's glory, showing that we serve a powerful and fearless God. [41:53]
- 5. Follow the Holy Spirit's Leading: Trusting the Holy Spirit's guidance, even when it feels risky, leads to a life of adventure and fulfillment. This surrender to God's will is essential for experiencing true unity and joy in our families and marriages. [46:02]
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:13] - Introduction and Journey
- [01:57] - Lisa's Reflections
- [03:00] - Adapting to a New Community
- [04:58] - Family Bonding Through Faith
- [06:49] - The Call to Discipleship
- [08:10] - Self-Sufficiency in Faith
- [11:08] - Emphasizing Marriage
- [13:48] - Mission-Centric Family Life
- [17:39] - Serving Together as a Family
- [20:43] - Focusing Beyond Ourselves
- [23:21] - Lisa's Message to Women
- [29:18] - Shining as Lights in the World
- [35:20] - Message to Men: Be Strong
- [41:53] - Strengthening in the Lord
- [46:02] - Following the Holy Spirit's Lead