Embracing Extravagant Generosity: A Call to Selflessness
Summary
Today’s focus is on the call to extravagant generosity and the transformation that happens when we move from a self-centered life to a selfless one. Our culture constantly tells us to put ourselves first, to look out for number one, and to hold tightly to what we have. But Jesus calls us to something radically different: to deny ourselves, to live selflessly, and to give generously. This is not something that comes naturally; selfishness is ingrained in us from childhood. Yet, the journey of faith is about learning to let go of “mine” and “no,” and to embrace a life that reflects the heart of God.
We explored three mindsets that shape how we view what we have: the bag mindset, the basket mindset, and the barn mindset. The bag mindset is rooted in scarcity and fear—there’s never enough, so we cling tightly to what we have. This is the mindset of Judas, who saw the world through the lens of lack and missed the opportunity for worship and generosity. The basket mindset trusts that there is enough, that obedience brings blessing. It’s the mindset of the widow who gave her last meal to Elijah and found her jar never ran dry, and the boy who gave his lunch to Jesus and saw it multiplied to feed thousands. The barn mindset goes even further—it’s the mindset of abundance, believing that when we put God first, He provides more than enough. This is about giving God the first and best, not just what’s left over.
God modeled this for us by giving first—He gave His Son for us while we were still sinners. When we put God first, not just in our finances but in every area of our lives, we experience His peace and provision in ways we could never imagine. This isn’t about money; it’s about the heart. Tithing and generosity are less about what God wants from us and more about what He wants for us: freedom from fear, a life of purpose, and the joy of being part of His work in the world. The invitation is to take a step of faith—move from a bag to a basket, or from a basket to a barn. Put God first, surrender all, and trust Him to do what only He can do.
Key Takeaways
- Selfishness is our default, but selflessness is the way of Jesus. We never have to teach a child to be selfish; it comes naturally. Yet, Jesus calls us to deny ourselves and live for others, which requires intentionality and the work of the Spirit in our hearts. True transformation begins when we recognize our natural bent and invite God to reshape us into people who reflect His generosity. [04:10]
- The bag mindset is a life of scarcity and fear, always worried there won’t be enough. This mindset leads us to hoard, to hold tightly, and ultimately to miss out on the joy of giving. Judas exemplified this, seeing resources as something to be grasped rather than given, and it led him to betray Jesus for a handful of silver. The bag mindset is natural, but it keeps us from experiencing God’s abundance. [10:15]
- The basket mindset trusts that obedience brings blessing. When we give, God multiplies what we offer, just as He did with the widow’s flour and oil and the boy’s lunch. This mindset is a step of faith, believing that there is enough and that God will provide as we are generous. What we keep runs out, but what we give, God multiplies for His purposes and our good. [18:21]
- The barn mindset is about abundance and putting God first in all things. It’s not just about tithing or giving a portion, but about surrendering the first and best to God, trusting Him with everything. God gave first—He gave His Son for us—and He calls us to respond in kind, making Him the priority in every area of our lives. This is where we experience the fullness of His provision and peace. [20:11]
- Generosity is ultimately about the heart, not the wallet. God doesn’t need our money; He wants our hearts. When we give to God first, we are surrendering all and declaring our trust in Him. Extravagant generosity is a reflection of the Gospel—God’s selfless love for us—and it’s an invitation to participate in His redemptive work in the world. [31:31]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[01:42] - New Devotional Tool and Series Overview
[04:10] - The Natural Bent Toward Selfishness
[05:18] - Jesus’ Radical Call to Selflessness
[07:53] - Three Mindsets of Generosity
[08:55] - The Bag Mindset: Scarcity and Fear
[10:15] - Judas and the Cost of Scarcity
[11:38] - The Basket Mindset: Trusting God’s Provision
[12:12] - Biblical Examples of the Basket Mindset
[14:47] - The Widow, Elijah, and the Boy’s Lunch
[17:30] - God Multiplies What We Give
[18:21] - The Barn Mindset: Abundance and First Fruits
[20:11] - God Gave First: The Heart of Generosity
[22:15] - Tithing, Testing, and God’s Blessing
[23:34] - The Principle of First: Exodus 13
[24:38] - Personal Testimony of Giving
[27:10] - Living Out Generosity in Everyday Life
[29:15] - Application: Taking a Step of Faith
[30:33] - The Heart Behind Tithing
[31:31] - Surrendering All to God
[32:27] - The Gospel: God’s Extravagant Gift
[33:16] - Discovering Your Calling
[34:31] - The True Meaning of Extravagant Generosity
[36:05] - Closing Prayer and Invitation
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide: Extravagant Generosity
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### Bible Reading
- Proverbs 21:25-26
"The craving of a sluggard will be the death of him, because his hands refuse to work. All day long he craves for more, but the righteous give without sparing."
- Haggai 1:6
"You earn wages, only to put them in a bag with holes in it."
- Luke 6:38
"Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
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### Observation Questions
1. In Proverbs 21:25-26, what is the difference between the person who craves more and the righteous person?
2. According to Haggai 1:6, what happens when people try to hold tightly to what they have?
3. In Luke 6:38, what does Jesus say will happen when we give? What kind of picture does He use to describe it?
4. The sermon described three mindsets: bag, basket, and barn. What are the main characteristics of each mindset? ([07:53])
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think selfishness comes so naturally to us, even from childhood? ([04:10])
2. How does the “bag mindset” keep us from experiencing God’s abundance, according to the sermon? ([10:15])
3. What does it mean to have a “basket mindset” that trusts obedience brings blessing? How is this different from just giving out of obligation? ([12:12])
4. The “barn mindset” is about putting God first in all things. What does it look like to put God first, not just in finances but in every area of life? ([20:11])
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon said that selfishness is our default, but selflessness is the way of Jesus. Can you think of a recent situation where you acted out of selfishness? What would it have looked like to respond selflessly instead? ([04:10])
2. Which mindset do you most relate to right now: bag, basket, or barn? Why? What would it take for you to move to the next step? ([29:15])
3. The “bag mindset” is rooted in fear and scarcity. Are there areas in your life where you are afraid to let go or give? What is one small step you could take to trust God more in that area? ([10:15])
4. The “basket mindset” believes that what we give, God multiplies. Have you ever experienced God providing for you in unexpected ways when you were generous? Share your story. ([17:30])
5. The “barn mindset” is about giving God the first and best, not just what’s left over. What would it look like for you to give God your “first fruits” in your time, talents, or resources this week? ([23:34])
6. The sermon said that generosity is about the heart, not the wallet. Is there something you are holding back from God—not just money, but maybe your time, energy, or attention? What would it look like to surrender that to Him? ([31:31])
7. God modeled generosity by giving His Son for us. How does remembering the Gospel motivate you to live more generously and selflessly? ([32:27])
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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Ask God to help you move from a mindset of scarcity to one of abundance, to trust Him with everything, and to reflect His generosity in your daily life.
Devotional
Day 1: The Bag Mindset: Scarcity and Selfishness
The bag mindset is rooted in the belief that there is never enough, leading people to hold tightly to what they have out of fear of lack. This perspective breeds anxiety, stinginess, and a reluctance to give, as if everything placed in your hands will slip away through unseen holes. When you live with a bag mindset, you may find yourself constantly craving more, yet never feeling satisfied, much like Judas who clung to the money bag and missed the joy of generosity. God invites you to recognize this natural tendency and to trust Him for provision, rather than living in fear of running out. [10:15]
Proverbs 21:25-26 (ESV)
The desire of the sluggard kills him, for his hands refuse to labor. All day long he craves and craves, but the righteous gives and does not hold back.
Reflection: In what area of your life do you find yourself clinging tightly out of fear there won’t be enough, and how might you begin to trust God to provide in that area today?
Day 2: The Basket Mindset: Trusting God’s Provision
The basket mindset is a step of faith that believes there is enough, and that obedience to God brings blessing. This perspective is marked by open-handedness and a willingness to give, trusting that what is given will be multiplied. Just as the widow in 1 Kings 17 and the boy with the loaves and fish in Mark 6 experienced, when you offer what you have to God, He is able to do more than you could imagine—filling your basket to overflowing. This mindset moves you from scarcity to sufficiency, and from anxiety to gratitude, as you see God’s faithfulness in meeting your needs and the needs of others. [18:21]
Luke 6:38 (ESV)
Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.
Reflection: What is one thing you can give today—time, encouragement, resources—that you’ve been holding back, and how can you trust God to multiply it?
Day 3: The Barn Mindset: Abundance and Putting God First
The barn mindset is a life-changing perspective that sees God as the source of abundance and puts Him first in all things. This mindset goes beyond obedience to radical trust, believing that when you seek God’s kingdom first, everything else will be provided. God modeled this by giving first—He gave His Son for us before we ever responded. When you put God first, not just in your finances but in every area of your life, you move from striving uphill to experiencing the peace and provision of His kingdom. [20:11]
Matthew 6:33 (ESV)
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Reflection: What is one practical way you can put God first in your life this week, especially in an area where you’ve been tempted to put yourself first?
Day 4: Extravagant Generosity: Selflessness Over Selfishness
Extravagant generosity is not about the amount you give, but about the selfless heart behind it. True generosity flows from recognizing that everything you have belongs to God, and that giving is an act of worship and trust. It’s about surrendering all, not just a portion, and allowing God to use your resources, time, and talents for His purposes. When you live selflessly, you reflect the heart of Jesus, who gave everything for us, and you experience the joy and freedom that comes from open-handed living. [34:31]
2 Corinthians 9:7-8 (ESV)
Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that having all sufficiency in all things at all times, you may abound in every good work.
Reflection: Who is someone you can bless with an act of extravagant generosity this week, and how can you do it in a way that points them to God’s love?
Day 5: God Gave First: Responding to His Love
At the heart of selfless living and generosity is the truth that God gave first—He gave His one and only Son so that we could be forgiven, redeemed, and restored. Our response to God’s extravagant love is to put Him first in every area of our lives, surrendering our plans, resources, and hearts to Him. No matter your past or your brokenness, God’s grace is available, and He invites you to step into the calling and purpose He has for you. Today, you can choose to trust Jesus, receive His forgiveness, and live a life marked by selfless love and generosity. [36:05]
Romans 5:8 (ESV)
But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need to respond to God’s love by surrendering control and trusting Him fully today?
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