Embracing Emotions: Healing from the Inside Out
Summary
Summary:
Today, we embark on a new series titled "From the Inside Out," focusing on the profound impact of emotions on our lives. Emotions are an integral part of our being, and historically, the church hasn't always addressed them effectively. Often, we resort to clichés and scriptures as quick fixes, but what people truly need is empathy, understanding, and support. We are called to mourn with those who mourn and rejoice with those who rejoice, embodying the hands and feet of Jesus.
God is a healer, not just of our bodies but also of our wounded souls and broken emotions. Jesus, the greatest physician, paid the price for our healing—spirit, soul, and body. We are three-part beings, and Jesus is the savior of all three. Our soul comprises our mind, will, and emotions, and God desires for our soul to prosper. This series is about experiencing healthy, healed, and whole emotions, a prosperity of the soul.
Emotions are not inherently negative; they are part of being created in God's image. God has emotions, and He created us with them. We must give ourselves permission to feel and engage with our emotions. Our emotions are ever-present, and they can be the lid to our spiritual growth if left unaddressed. Emotional health and spiritual maturity are inseparable; we cannot be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature.
Today, we focus on anger, a familiar emotion to all. Anger itself is not sinful; it's how we respond to it that matters. Anger can be a secondary emotion, often a response to something deeper. We must allow the Holy Spirit to shine a light on the root causes of our anger. The Bible provides an antidote to anger: admit it, deal with it swiftly, and disarm the devil by surrendering it to God. God is slow to anger, full of compassion, and abounding in mercy. We are called to emulate His character.
Key Takeaways:
1. Emotions as Divine Design: Emotions are not a flaw but a reflection of being made in God's image. They are integral to our spiritual journey, and God desires for our soul to prosper. Embracing our emotions allows us to connect deeply with God and others, fostering spiritual growth. [08:58]
2. The Healing Power of Jesus: Jesus is the healer of our spirit, soul, and body. His sacrifice purchased our healing, not just physically but emotionally. By acknowledging our emotional wounds, we invite Jesus to bring wholeness and transformation to our lives. [03:04]
3. Anger as a Secondary Emotion: Anger often masks deeper issues such as hurt, fear, or rejection. By identifying the root causes of our anger, we can invite the Holy Spirit to heal and restore those areas, leading to emotional freedom and spiritual maturity. [20:07]
4. The Antidote to Anger: The Bible instructs us to admit our anger, deal with it promptly, and disarm the devil by surrendering it to God. This process prevents anger from becoming toxic and allows us to experience God's peace and healing. [32:00]
5. Emulating God's Character: God is slow to anger, full of compassion, and abounding in mercy. By adopting these attributes, we can navigate our emotions in a way that honors God and fosters healthy relationships with others. [30:59]
Youtube Chapters:
- [0:00] - Welcome
- [01:42] - Introduction to the Series
- [03:04] - God as Healer
- [04:15] - Jesus' Sacrifice and Our Healing
- [07:09] - Upcoming Guest Speakers
- [08:58] - Emotions Reflect God's Image
- [09:55] - Prosperity of the Soul
- [11:16] - Success on the Journey of Faith
- [12:38] - Permission to Feel
- [13:52] - Emotions and Spiritual Growth
- [14:50] - Emotional Health and Spiritual Maturity
- [15:48] - Addressing Anger
- [17:16] - Understanding Anger
- [18:32] - Responding to Emotions
- [19:17] - Anger as a Secondary Emotion
- [20:07] - Identifying Root Causes of Anger
- [22:05] - The Role of the Holy Spirit
- [23:37] - Righteous Anger
- [25:19] - Levels of Anger
- [27:16] - Explosive Anger and Its Consequences
- [28:47] - Physical Impact of Anger
- [29:40] - Biblical Antidote to Anger
- [30:59] - God's Character: Slow to Anger
- [32:00] - Ephesians' Guidance on Anger
- [32:49] - Admitting and Dealing with Anger
- [35:09] - Dealing with Anger Swiftly
- [36:00] - Disarming the Devil
- [37:02] - Surrendering Anger to God
- [38:16] - Jesus' Empathy and Understanding
- [38:55] - Prayer for Healing and Freedom
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide: "From the Inside Out"
Bible Reading:
1. Romans 12:15 - "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."
2. Exodus 34:6 - "The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness."
3. Ephesians 4:26-27 - "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold."
Observation Questions:
1. According to the sermon, how does the church historically handle emotions, and what shift is being encouraged? [01:42]
2. What does the sermon say about the relationship between emotional health and spiritual maturity? [14:50]
3. How does the sermon describe the role of Jesus in healing our emotions? [03:04]
4. What are the four levels of anger mentioned in the sermon, and how do they escalate? [25:19]
Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the concept of God being "slow to anger" challenge or affirm your understanding of His character? [30:59]
2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that anger can be a secondary emotion, and what might be some underlying causes? [20:07]
3. How does the sermon propose we should deal with anger according to Ephesians 4:26-27? [32:00]
4. What does it mean for our soul to prosper, and how is this connected to our emotional and spiritual health? [09:55]
Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a recent situation where you felt anger. What underlying emotions might have been present, and how can you address them with the Holy Spirit's help? [20:07]
2. How can you practice being "slow to anger" in your daily interactions, especially in challenging situations? [30:59]
3. Identify a person in your life who is currently mourning or rejoicing. How can you be the hands and feet of Jesus to them this week? [01:42]
4. What steps can you take to ensure you deal with anger promptly and prevent it from becoming toxic? [32:00]
5. Consider your current emotional health. What is one area where you need Jesus' healing, and how can you invite Him into that process? [03:04]
6. How can you give yourself permission to feel and engage with your emotions in a healthy way? [12:38]
7. Think of a time when you used a cliché or scripture as a quick fix for someone else's emotional struggle. How can you offer empathy and support instead? [01:42]
Devotional
Day 1: Emotions Reflect God's Image
Emotions are not a flaw but a reflection of being made in God's image. They are integral to our spiritual journey, and God desires for our soul to prosper. Embracing our emotions allows us to connect deeply with God and others, fostering spiritual growth. Emotions are a divine design, meant to be experienced and understood, not suppressed or ignored. By acknowledging and engaging with our emotions, we open ourselves to a deeper relationship with God and a more authentic connection with those around us. [08:58]
"For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin." (Hebrews 4:15, ESV)
Reflection: How can you embrace your emotions today as a way to connect more deeply with God and others?
Day 2: Jesus Heals Our Emotional Wounds
Jesus is the healer of our spirit, soul, and body. His sacrifice purchased our healing, not just physically but emotionally. By acknowledging our emotional wounds, we invite Jesus to bring wholeness and transformation to our lives. Emotional healing is a journey that requires us to be honest about our pain and open to the healing power of Jesus. As we allow Him to work in our lives, we can experience a profound transformation that leads to emotional freedom and spiritual maturity. [03:04]
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." (Psalm 147:3, ESV)
Reflection: What emotional wounds do you need to bring to Jesus today for healing and transformation?
Day 3: Understanding Anger as a Secondary Emotion
Anger often masks deeper issues such as hurt, fear, or rejection. By identifying the root causes of our anger, we can invite the Holy Spirit to heal and restore those areas, leading to emotional freedom and spiritual maturity. Anger is not inherently sinful, but it can become destructive if left unchecked. By understanding the underlying emotions that fuel our anger, we can address them with the help of the Holy Spirit and find true healing and peace. [20:07]
"Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil." (Ephesians 4:26-27, ESV)
Reflection: What deeper emotions might be fueling your anger today, and how can you invite the Holy Spirit to bring healing to those areas?
Day 4: The Biblical Antidote to Anger
The Bible instructs us to admit our anger, deal with it promptly, and disarm the devil by surrendering it to God. This process prevents anger from becoming toxic and allows us to experience God's peace and healing. By following this biblical guidance, we can navigate our emotions in a way that honors God and fosters healthy relationships with others. Anger, when handled correctly, can lead to growth and understanding rather than division and strife. [32:00]
"Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil." (Psalm 37:8, ESV)
Reflection: How can you apply the biblical antidote to anger in your life today to experience God's peace and healing?
Day 5: Emulating God's Character in Our Emotions
God is slow to anger, full of compassion, and abounding in mercy. By adopting these attributes, we can navigate our emotions in a way that honors God and fosters healthy relationships with others. Emulating God's character means being patient, understanding, and merciful in our interactions with others. As we strive to reflect His character, we can create an environment of love and grace that encourages emotional and spiritual growth. [30:59]
"The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love." (Psalm 103:8, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways can you emulate God's character in your emotional responses today to foster healthier relationships?
Quotes
1) "So here's what I want you to see about God. God is a healer. He revealed himself in Exodus chapter 15 as the God who heals. We see Jesus's ministry and Jesus's life. Jesus was the one who healed. He is the greatest of all physicians. But not only is he the healer of the body, not only is, he the one who brings our spirit from death to life, but can I tell you, he is the healer of wounded souls and broken emotions. He is a complete savior. We are three part beings, spirit, soul, body. And can I tell you, Jesus is the savior of all three. He is a complete savior. He is the greatest of all physicians." [03:04] (52 seconds)
2) "So this morning, I want us to see that if we have emotions, it's because God, also has emotions. Remember in Genesis, it says that we were created in the image and the likeness of God. created to be like God. So if we have emotions, it's because he has emotions and he created us with emotions. And sometimes we can say emotions and we think negative. Oh, well, I don't want to be overly emotional. I don't want to be overly sensitive. Well, do you want to be the tin man? Do you want to have no heart and no ability to connect with God? Ezekiel prophesied of a day that was coming where God would take our heart of stone and he would turn it into a heart of flesh, right? So what I'm talking about is God doing a work in our heart, in our soul, in our emotions." [08:58] (65 seconds)
3) "Now, I've heard this passage preached to justify monetary prosperity. And I believe that God does bless his people. And I believe that God does bless his people in a lot of different ways. But I believe that the greatest blessings that God does is when he transforms us into the likeness of Christ. And that's what it's talking about here. There is a soul prosperity. There is a health and wholeness on the inside of you, a transformation on the inside of you that can't be shaken, that circumstances can't steal from you, that the devil himself can't take away from you, because you know who your anchor is. Because you are. You are rooted and grounded in God, because you know that Christ the rock is who you built your life upon. So you have a wholeness. And this series is about experiencing healthy, healed, and whole emotions. It's a prosperity of the soul." [11:16] (63 seconds)
4) "So let's have God redeem them and restore them and heal them and make them what He desired from the beginning to be. And I need you to see this. Here's why we're talking about this. Because your soul... is the lid to your spiritual growth. I'm just telling you right now, if you've got a soul that is broken, if you've got a soul that has wounds that you refuse to deal with, you can pray in tongues until you're blue in the face, but you will bump your head spiritually against the lid. You have to deal with the soul issues and allow Jesus, through Holy Spirit, to go in and do the surgery he needs to do." [13:52] (49 seconds)
5) "Emotional health and spiritual maturity are inseparable. It is not possible, get this, I'm gonna say it real slow. It is not possible to be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature. I'm gonna say it again. You need that one. You need a second dose of that because some of you are, mm -mm, oh, we're going there, church. Emotional health and spiritual maturity are inseparable. It is not possible. It is not possible. Well, the Bible says all things are possible to those who believe. Well, you need to get your spiritual maturity right, or your emotional maturity right before you can get your spiritual maturity right. It is not possible to be spiritually, spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature." [15:48] (62 seconds)
6) "So when we're dealing with anger, anger is referred to as a secondary emotion. And it's because often it's a response to something else that we're feeling. The anger is a byproduct of something else. So maybe you go out to a restaurant and you sit down and your waitress is kind of snarky with you. It's not because she doesn't like you or has beef with you. Maybe it's the hurt in her life, the shame in her life, the fear in her life, the frustration in her life, the rejection. It's something else that she could be experiencing that you can't see. And oftentimes the anger is a byproduct of what you cannot see. It's something else working, but it's manifesting. as anger." [20:07] (53 seconds)
7) "So God is trying to tell his people, I'm a God who is slow to anger. I'm a God who is full of compassion. I am a God of faithfulness and unfailing love. But this isn't a one -time verse. Psalm 103 and verse 8, the Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in mercy. Psalm 145 and 8, the Lord is gracious and full of compassion, slow to anger, there it is again, and great in mercy. Why am I saying this? You need to see the heartbeat of the heavenly father. You need to see his character." [32:00] (38 seconds)
8) "Here's the deal. He already knows your thoughts. He already knows the intentions of your heart. So you can fake it and act like, no, no, I'm fine. I'm fine. Everything's good. God knows better. You can fool people with that facade, but you can't fool God with that facade. If you've ever read the Psalms, you hear David's vulnerability and honesty. It says, be angry. It's as if the Bible is giving us permission to feel this emotion. So you have to feel it and admit it. And there's power in confession. If you read James chapter 5, healing comes. When confession happens. Why? Because you're getting it out of the symptoms of your soul, and you're bringing the darkness into the light, and you're exposing it for what it is." [33:30] (67 seconds)
9) "You take it to the one person who can handle it. God can handle your honesty. Trust me, you're not gonna break him. You're not gonna break him. His shoulders are strong enough to handle your anger. His shoulders are strong enough. This is why Peter says, cast your cares on him because he cares for you. Your cares are heavy. They're weighty. And he's saying, put them on Jesus because he's strong enough to handle them. God feels anger too. At what sin and what the devil has done to his kids." [37:02] (43 seconds)